Extended, intense Edging

The idea is hugely exciting to me, but I have no idea how I would react to the experience.

I've edged, and been edged, but never for more than half an hour or so. I find the idea of being edged over an extended period, with the guarantee of a proper, hopefully intense orgasm at the end of it, very, very appealing, and a little scary. It's pretty much on the list.
 
I really love edging. I've come to realize I enjoy being held right at the edge almost more than the orgasms. It takes me a while to get to a point of wanting release because being super close is just so good for me. I love the intensity, and staying close for a long time brings this fantastic head space that is its own kind of high.

Of course, it is much more fun if someone else is involved. It's even more intense and exciting if someone is telling me what to do and how long to go for, the unknown keeps me on my toes. I want to be right at the edge but a slow tease and build is also so tantalizing. I can get so sensitive, so playing with the fact that less can often be much more leads to lots of fun possibilities...
Almost word for word exactly my thoughts. Always better with someone else - I actually want to try being tied down so they're fully in control. Once they get me to that point where I'm right on the point of cumming, and hold me there, I just want to stay there for ever - but at the same time really want to cum. Weird contradiction. And of course the longer they hold me there for, the deeper, more powerful, satisfying and lengthy the orgasm is when it finally comes.
 
I have always enjoyed extended edging for my submissives. I like to pair cumulative orgasm denial with multiple edging sessions over 7 to 10 days. Recently, I had a sub use a hitachi on their clit for 2 hours a day for 8 days straight without any release. On the 9th day I took a riding crop and gently teased their clit almost to the point of orgasm and then induced their orgasm by striking their clit firmly. The resulting orgasm required lots of aftercare.
 
Anyone ever get so edged, they sort of lose it?

Tuesday night, my wife and I were having sexy pillow talk, talking about how we both wondered about other peoples sex lives, sexy experiences etc. then we fell asleep.

We both woke up in the middle of the night, resumed talking and she started rubbing me thru my underwear. Then her right arm went to hold me down. She kept this slow, rhythmic rubbing making me super hard and kept at it. It was so slow I never got anywhere close to the edge. Very hot.

She usually falls back asleep, but this time she kept at it, changing the speed, motion etc, never even getting me to the brink. It was maddening, went on for at least 1.5 hrs according to my Fitbit.

It felt amazing yet was soooo frustrating. I started begging her to either stop or let me cum. “Nope.” I really started begging her, telling her how desperate i was. “No cumming.” she’s not super mean, so didn’t smack me or yell at me, just kept on going with one word replies. “No”

At some point I was begging to be released, I wasn’t crying but it was some weird thing deep inside me desperate to be released. There were tears in the corners of my eyes. It’s happened to me before, but this time was more intense.

I was totally and wholly owned and I need that deep in my soul. It’s a great feeling of sexual need but horribly frustrating at the same time.

She’s been talking about mid-September in terms of a release date. 🍆🍆🍆
This is crazy, but I'm sure really hot too. I would love for that too happen but the release being so far away might be to much for me. I've done a week, but it was all self control and not someone else. I would stroke enough to almost then back off. I also made myself eat any cum that came out.
 
I have always enjoyed extended edging for my submissives. I like to pair cumulative orgasm denial with multiple edging sessions over 7 to 10 days. Recently, I had a sub use a hitachi on their clit for 2 hours a day for 8 days straight without any release. On the 9th day I took a riding crop and gently teased their clit almost to the point of orgasm and then induced their orgasm by striking their clit firmly. The resulting orgasm required lots of aftercare.
This is beautiful!!! I don’t know any other way to describe it.
 
This is beautiful!!! I don’t know any other way to describe it.
Hegre-Art has a video of a beautiful woman. It starts with a chair modified with a Hitachi wand in it. She comes to the chair and is strapped in. It is only about 30 minutes long. At first edging. Then cumming and keep on stimulating. After there is an interview with the pleasured. Really hot.

As for my preference I do not enjoy denial. I want the provider to be in the know and when it is the best time to allow release let her rip. Only do it slow and sensual almost tickling my head and holding my balls in a position such that I can feel the sensation of orgasm without release. When I do finally begin to even show signs of climax..... Don't Change Anything that got me to that point. Just keep going until I stop cumming. When I cum that hard it is really good. Either shots of cum the distance is amazing, I come in tripple time - really fast contractions and spurts of cum, or it sprays out with each ejaculation. I love it when I cum really hard for someone.
 
I've been somewhat inspired today. I played with myself earlier and held myself close to the edge for as long as I could. No cumming yet though.

I feel like I would like to be more inspired. And that I would enjoy it if someone were to get into my head and control my edging.

Yes, this is an invitation. ;) I could do with making things interesting.
Hi there 59-year-old male up for some chat with a sexy woman I would love to edge until you till can't control yourself get back with me and let's see how that we can get those panties hope to hear from you soon!
 
Good morning

This is a very interesting subject as it’s part of our play almost every time

We both get a lot out of this, me by enjoying restraining her and having total control over her for an extended period of time, at least a couple of hours usually and her from not only the most amazing climax at the end but also having me there playing with her and her being the centre of my attentions

It’s something that we have enjoyed together as part of our kink side and I can say on her behalf that if you have never had to wait to be released you have no idea what you are missing !

For her the pleasure / pain thing is what makes it so intense, being in a position that makes it difficult to cum along with the discomfort of the long restraint makes the final release something that she tells me she has never experienced before

It also makes the whole experience last much longer than ‘just sex’ something that we also both enjoy

Of course she has to earn her release after such an experience and my patience so it’s a fantastic experience for us both

I recommend that if you haven’t tried it that you do !
 
definitely interested in a lady for mutual exploration of this topic, just how long could we go? How desperate would we become?
 
My wife put me on a 21 day regimen.
-1.5 hrs of edging (supervised by her) each day
- 21 days
- cage up when done

This challenge is in its final week now.

I did fail a few days in and had a ruined cum. I was so pissed at myself.

The punishment was that the challenge was delayed for as many days with no masturbation allowed and we had to start all over. I was successful for five days so five days of nothing. I also had to kneel at the position of attention for 1.5 hrs a day - the last 30 mins on couscous (we are out of rice). Couscous are fucking huge and they hurt!

So there’s incentive that the deeper you go in the challenge the more incentive you have to not cum.

Five more days of the challenge to go. It’s fucking maddening how horny I am. (Like I am up at 343am maddening)

I think this will be an explosive cum when I am through.
 
This is one fetish of mine that I constantly think about but have never experienced before. I've heard so many stories, but I know it requires lots of aftercare afterward due to how hard they have an orgasm. It excites me to no end, but also makes me nervous because I've never had an experience like that before.
I’m male so could talking out of school. Maybe start slow and just edge yourself for a little ammount of time if solo or talk to your partner about doing this but starting out slow. You know your body and you can just hold yourself below the threshold of orgasm and try it maybe for just one session and see how it feels. Doesn’t even have to be for that long. Then ramp up to longer times if it works for you. Sometimes edging can just be a single session where you bring yourself to the brink and back off several times and then allow yourself a big cum.

It’s the wanting and needing to cum (but not being allowed or able to) that is the mindfuck and controlling aspect.

I can only tell you from a man’s perspective that extended intense edging over a period of days or weeks will make you compliant as hell (every little good deed you do you hope you will be rewarded with a cum at some point sooner.) it makes me extraordinarily horny and loving and my wife really likes that. And the orgasm at the end is always worth it.
 
This is one fetish of mine that I constantly think about but have never experienced before. I've heard so many stories, but I know it requires lots of aftercare afterward due to how hard they have an orgasm. It excites me to no end, but also makes me nervous because I've never had an experience like that before.
You don't have to immediately go from 0 to 100 - in fact, I would personally advise against that. You can do a little bit at a time, starting with shorter, less intense sessions, and focusing on figuring out what you do or don't like. There's edging, but then there's edging just how you like it, how fast or slow you go, how close you like to get, whether to stay close to the edge or back off then go back, etc. Really intense edging can be a workout and requires some muscle control to hold back from cumming, so it will take time to build that up, but building it up will lead to more intense orgasms. It's a journey.
My wife put me on a 21 day regimen.
-1.5 hrs of edging (supervised by her) each day
- 21 days
- cage up when done

This challenge is in its final week now.

I did fail a few days in and had a ruined cum. I was so pissed at myself.

The punishment was that the challenge was delayed for as many days with no masturbation allowed and we had to start all over. I was successful for five days so five days of nothing. I also had to kneel at the position of attention for 1.5 hrs a day - the last 30 mins on couscous (we are out of rice). Couscous are fucking huge and they hurt!

So there’s incentive that the deeper you go in the challenge the more incentive you have to not cum.

Five more days of the challenge to go. It’s fucking maddening how horny I am. (Like I am up at 343am maddening)

I think this will be an explosive cum when I am through.
That sounds so hot. Don't you dare cum early! ;)
 
Here is my experiences

I am caged in 2 week intervals, she teases me while I am caged, I give her oral sex, she pegs me, I fuck her with a strap on, we have one of those dildos that gets strapped around my head, and she rides it. She talks dirty, she likes to fondle me while I am caged, at the end of those 2 week intervals, my balls ache, my dick aches from being hard against the cage, last couple days it is almost like hell, then the cage comes off, I get edge for hours sometimes. She will stroke me and stop, we will have sex but I will have strick orders to stop if i feel like i am going to come, she will pinch my dick when I am close, then she will give in and let me come, and there is like a 2 second sharp pain, and boom an absolute mess happens, whether it is in her on her, on the table , on the floor. It is mind blowing and I am absolutely exhausted and it takes a little while to recover.

It is absolutely amazing.
 
Here is my experiences

I am caged in 2 week intervals, she teases me while I am caged, I give her oral sex, she pegs me, I fuck her with a strap on, we have one of those dildos that gets strapped around my head, and she rides it. She talks dirty, she likes to fondle me while I am caged, at the end of those 2 week intervals, my balls ache, my dick aches from being hard against the cage, last couple days it is almost like hell, then the cage comes off, I get edge for hours sometimes. She will stroke me and stop, we will have sex but I will have strick orders to stop if i feel like i am going to come, she will pinch my dick when I am close, then she will give in and let me come, and there is like a 2 second sharp pain, and boom an absolute mess happens, whether it is in her on her, on the table , on the floor. It is mind blowing and I am absolutely exhausted and it takes a little while to recover.

It is absolutely amazing.
That does sound amazing! And the post the person above quoted as well.

I'm really enjoying hearing about people having their orgasms controlled and days to weeks of edging... you're all making me want to try it even more! I have the self control to behave and follow through with some online instructions I would say. Would love to actually put getting to know someone for that into action. But I mean, I do also find I enjoy being the one in charge of someone else's intense pleasure....

Sigh. I think I just really love edging in general. It's just so fucking hot.
 
Wow, this is incredibly hot. The pantyhose add such a fun aspect to the teasing! I hope you can find another partner to help you with this. And I pray I meet a guy who is open to me edging him once in a while. I have watched my share of edging and ruined orgasm porn and it drives me crazy and makes me want to get my hands on a willing partner - with or without the pantyhose. Yum!
I would happily volunteer, I think we could bring each other some much needed pleasure, just my 2 cents. :):)
 
Wow, this is incredibly hot. The pantyhose add such a fun aspect to the teasing! I hope you can find another partner to help you with this. And I pray I meet a guy who is open to me edging him once in a while. I have watched my share of edging and ruined orgasm porn and it drives me crazy and makes me want to get my hands on a willing partner - with or without the pantyhose. Yum!
My favourite porn to watch... it's just so thrilling. And I love it when a chat partner instructs me to ruin.
 
This was a topic I wrote about often in fantasies when I felt maybe more than a little frisky (I'm 25 years without a decent partner)... but I had never really experienced extreme edging like I'd written. So one day, I decided I would edge on and off throughout the day. Nine hours later, I was exhausted, but I hadn't allowed myself that orgasm. Literally almost in tears, and if I'd have had a partner, I'd have been begging him with everything I had to let me cum. I went to bed that night and dreamed the most insane, sexy dreams I'd ever had. That's when I discovered and fell in love with that delicious tension. I think I went three more days before I allowed my orgasm, and I'll agree, it was almost spiritual. That was the most extreme I'd ever done, and without a Dom to guide me on that path, I'm not sure I have the self-control to do that again. I mean, I'm sure my LD boyfriend would love to do this with me if I'd ask him.

Maybe I'll text him now... 😈😈😈
 
My wife released me after 29 days of edging. I was edging almost every day for 1.5 hrs per day, observed by her, even when I was on a business’s trip.

She did it in style, she let me know after a hard days work at the farm. She had me put in a prostate massager when we got home and took showers. She set up the bedroom while I made dinner.

She tied me to the bedposts at the foot of the bed, put me on the bench at the end of the bed and shackled my ankles with a spreader bar. Then gave me a long, sexy, maddeningly slow handjob for two hours. I had tons of body convulsions and dry prostate orgasms. She knows how I love sexual over-stimulation.

She released me with a prostate massage, and when I still maintained my Hard on, she then jerked me off to a hands free orgasm. I shot 9-10 strong ropes.

It was a helluva release.

Back to square one.
 
Just sharing my experiences here. I have been subbing online for quite a few years now (to females only, so males please do not PM me) and my most memorable experiences was a 6 month period of denial with daily edging. I would complete on average around 20 edges a day of different varieties and would constantly be denied release. It's much easier by yourself because you can judge how close you really are to orgasm, but to be taken to the edge over and over again and not be allowed to cum...most definitely my favourite kink. When my personal circumstances allow, I would love to try it in real life.
 
I think the art of edging is a great idea. I never even knew it was a thing i just naturally started to practice it. Id have the house to myself, put on porn and enjoy my body for hours. Watching, masturbating, getting so close then holding back. I loved staying at the heightened state of wanting and being so close to orgasm. When i finally did cum it was intense and very gratifying. Usually i love practicing this art on other guys. One guy i introduced it to thought it was so hot how i prolonged the orgasm. Knowing just when to stop stimulation, and when to start back.
Ive never thought much about extended edging until recently. I have a buddy who i play with time to time. We text alot (or should i say sext). Ill start stroking myself, hard as a rock ready to burst. I wont orgasm and stop stimulating myself before i do. Ill do this several nights before we plan to meet. When we do finally meet. (OMG!). I have such a mind blowing orgasm! One time i almost passed out. He loves when i say or should i say yell that im cumming. I still manage to take my time. Its as if im edging myself but when im physically with him i get to finally orgasm. One time he had to cancel on me. I couldnt take it and finally just ended up masturbating. I came so hard i ended up hitting my own face and mouth. I wasnt trying to aim there. It just did. I told him about it and he was so turned on. I told him thats how powerful my orgasm is when i cum inside him. So i advise trying it out, you may just like the results and your partner will too
 
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