Extended, intense Edging

[Starglazed]

I actually lasted 18 days once, edging a couple times each days. I was playing alone but it did lead me to a state of sex obsession. The entire body becomes over sensitive... Just touching your own neck ends up giving pussy shivers. Very powerful. I actually overdid though... I was a bit sore. And for concentration at work, it was not a good idea. For long term, I think a bit of edging, not every day, might be interesting. Enough to make you crave sex all the time but not so much that you can't concentrate on work and life in general.

That is a good thing if you want the release from that one person that is doing it to you.

 

[Kitschshaman]

Always a favorite activity to inflict upon a very willing participant

That is the dream, to feel the eye to eye, soul to soul connection, the fire between you as she gifts you her knowing smile at your trembling ...

 

[surferjake]

I just got a couple Lovense toys.. hush and diamo.. now that makes for some entense edging sessions!

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I just got a couple Lovense toys.. hush and diamo.. now that makes for some entense edging sessions!

Sounds like someone will have an enjoyable weekend

 

[surferjake]

Sounds like someone will have an enjoyable weekend

Just wish the batteries lasted longer than 2-3 hours!

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Just wish the batteries lasted longer than 2-3 hours!

Mmmm you're a savage

 

[surferjake]

Now I just need to figure out how to find someone to control them remotely!

Mmmm you're a savage

 

[OKCSOFTSWING]

I used to have an older lady friend that would put me in sheer pantyhose and edge me for a long time barely touching me or using her nails all over me. Concentrating between my balls and anus. Met weekly. Was such a good stress reliever. She retired and her and husband moved away, would love to find right situation again. It’s literally hypnotizing. Took a few pictures occasionally wish I had taken more.
Any older women wanna try please let me know.

 

[Wonderer67]

I would like some guidance on edging.

One time, or actually several times I would get denied orgasm, and that always lead to blue balls. And the thing is the blue balls stay blue until I cum, even if it takes several days that's days of blue balls, which hurts quite a bit.. It's difficult to do anything than lie down in bed to ease the suffering. And when we go somewhere I struggle to walk properly and look for any opportunity to sit down. It's nonstop like that until I cum. It doesn't sound like most other people here have that problem? How come?

When it's remote play (long distance) I don't get blue balls as easily. Then it is more similar to what I've read here.

I tried to go edge without cumming for as long as I can but it's incredibly difficult. I think I need a domme who is going to make me do some extreme punishment if I cum, otherwise it's too difficult to prevent accidentally cumming during the edging.

I start fapping and when i reach that moment of no return I stop right before, that moment where extreme sensation and extreme muscle tension, that's when I stop. Then I wait a little bit, then I continue fapping and each cycle it takes less time to reach that point. Until at one point it's enough to just poke my cock, causing it to swing and the friction from the air is enough to make me cum.....

... Which most of the time results in a ruined orgasm unfortunately. So in a way it's kind of a punishment in it self, but still it's not enough punishment, I would need much more extreme punishment for those kind of failures.

It's just so difficult to avoid cumming from edging sessions.

If I don't edge or fap, then it actually gets easier the more days that passes, at one point you almost forget you have a cock after it has been a week or two without any stimulation.

Oh i forgot to also mention that I've had another kind of weird experience (failure) when edging. So I might have had a successful edging session earlier in the day, then next time I have a session, I start cumming before I'm even hard, it's so weird. It's almost as if the balls are at max capacity and have no choice but to start emptying themselves if I'm going to have another session of edging.

I thought I knew myself super well and was also struggling with that zone between the edge and cumming. I’m 55 and it was a bit frustrating… I couldn’t seem to edge well and went over the top too often.

I started slowing down more when masturbating. When I get to near the edge, I’ve been just slowing down with longer and slower strokes. It works and helps keep me on the cusp for longer. I’ve been edging for about four weeks now under my wife’s supervision and I haven’t cum yet.

It’s changed my whole edging dynamic.

Everyone’s different, but this has worked well for me.

 

[Wonderer67]

Just trying to get some love for this thread going again.

I’m on week 3 of an eight week denial. I came a few times in mid July and my wife thought I’d be much more attentive if she denied me for two months. 6 weeks is my record…

So filled with lust and love…. My wife teased me sooooo lightly this morning. Sleeping naked, we woke up and she just started touching my cock so gently. Not putting her while hand around my cock, but just rubbing it and barely touching it. Kept me there for a good 20
Minutes. I never got anywhere near the edge, but it felt amazing.

I asked if I could jerk off for her and to my surprise, she said yes, “But NO CUMMING.” I jerked off for her for another 10-15 minutes, reaching the edge several times. I was begging for release. But Miss Conduct just shook her head “no.”

Plus it was time to go to work…. :-(

Love extended edging…

 

[Titsandclits]

Just trying to get some love for this thread going again.

I’m on week 3 of an eight week denial. I came a few times in mid July and my wife thought I’d be much more attentive if she denied me for two months. 6 weeks is my record…

So filled with lust and love…. My wife teased me sooooo lightly this morning. Sleeping naked, we woke up and she just started touching my cock so gently. Not putting her while hand around my cock, but just rubbing it and barely touching it. Kept me there for a good 20
Minutes. I never got anywhere near the edge, but it felt amazing.

I asked if I could jerk off for her and to my surprise, she said yes, “But NO CUMMING.” I jerked off for her for another 10-15 minutes, reaching the edge several times. I was begging for release. But Miss Conduct just shook her head “no.”

Plus it was time to go to work…. :-(

Love extended edging…

I’ve got to say this is too extreme for me, I enjoy edging for several hours and then bursting with the subsequent release, good fun but no way would I do 2 months.
It’s super fantastic that your wife will just touch you mine rarely touches me even during sex and that she enjoys you stroking for her. Is she also in denial? If not how is she being satisfied?

 

[Wonderer67]

I’ve got to say this is too extreme for me, I enjoy edging for several hours and then bursting with the subsequent release, good fun but no way would I do 2 months.
It’s super fantastic that your wife will just touch you mine rarely touches me even during sex and that she enjoys you stroking for her. Is she also in denial? If not how is she being satisfied?

I like the long durations, and the feeling of being controlled. She likes to control me and she likes the extra attention she gets.

We have sex a few times a week, I edge inside her pussy and I just don’t cum. She is satisfied by lots of attention, kissing and as many orgasms as I can give her. Works for us.

 

[TempSpawn]

Works for us.

This right here is what it's about, all of it.

It's just a case of finding what is right for you. Some of us do, some of us don't. That's life.

 

[PersonalFavors]

I used to have an older lady friend that would put me in sheer pantyhose and edge me for a long time barely touching me or using her nails all over me. Concentrating between my balls and anus. Met weekly. Was such a good stress reliever. She retired and her and husband moved away, would love to find right situation again. It’s literally hypnotizing. Took a few pictures occasionally wish I had taken more.
Any older women wanna try please let me know.

I think I have written in here of a girlfriend I had. Petite. She would put her hose on me if she had a run in them or something. She would play and tease. We loved seeing me ejaculate as my cum strained against the sheer fabric. I liked when she was ready for me to cum and would slide her hand up the leg and capture my balls just so....

 

[Wonderer67]

Anyone ever get so edged, they sort of lose it?

Tuesday night, my wife and I were having sexy pillow talk, talking about how we both wondered about other peoples sex lives, sexy experiences etc. then we fell asleep.

We both woke up in the middle of the night, resumed talking and she started rubbing me thru my underwear. Then her right arm went to hold me down. She kept this slow, rhythmic rubbing making me super hard and kept at it. It was so slow I never got anywhere close to the edge. Very hot.

She usually falls back asleep, but this time she kept at it, changing the speed, motion etc, never even getting me to the brink. It was maddening, went on for at least 1.5 hrs according to my Fitbit.

It felt amazing yet was soooo frustrating. I started begging her to either stop or let me cum. “Nope.” I really started begging her, telling her how desperate i was. “No cumming.” she’s not super mean, so didn’t smack me or yell at me, just kept on going with one word replies. “No”

At some point I was begging to be released, I wasn’t crying but it was some weird thing deep inside me desperate to be released. There were tears in the corners of my eyes. It’s happened to me before, but this time was more intense.

I was totally and wholly owned and I need that deep in my soul. It’s a great feeling of sexual need but horribly frustrating at the same time.

She’s been talking about mid-September in terms of a release date.

 

[xdresssissytoes]

My favorite time to edge long term is when I spend a few hours browsing and posting on Lit.....responding to posts and replying to hot pics sent by members. My level of excitement really soars when I'm edging in the heat of a hot and heavy PM exchange with someone who wants me dressed slutty in heels and kneeling before them submissive to their every desire. Edging, the, becomes full blown jerking as he/she takes advantage of my exposed and wide-open sissy holes.....my balls are bouncing right now from my hard jerking right now!

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

I really love edging. I've come to realize I enjoy being held right at the edge almost more than the orgasms. It takes me a while to get to a point of wanting release because being super close is just so good for me. I love the intensity, and staying close for a long time brings this fantastic head space that is its own kind of high.

Of course, it is much more fun if someone else is involved. It's even more intense and exciting if someone is telling me what to do and how long to go for, the unknown keeps me on my toes. I want to be right at the edge but a slow tease and build is also so tantalizing. I can get so sensitive, so playing with the fact that less can often be much more leads to lots of fun possibilities...

 

[Crownvic]

I really love edging. I've come to realize I enjoy being held right at the edge almost more than the orgasms. It takes me a while to get to a point of wanting release because being super close is just so good for me. I love the intensity, and staying close for a long time brings this fantastic head space that is its own kind of high.

Of course, it is much more fun if someone else is involved. It's even more intense and exciting if someone is telling me what to do and how long to go for, the unknown keeps me on my toes. I want to be right at the edge but a slow tease and build is also so tantalizing. I can get so sensitive, so playing with the fact that less can often be much more leads to lots of fun possibilities...

Love that slow tantalizing tease.the feel of Her silky hands...take me to the max...mmmmmmmm

 

[PersonalFavors]

I really love edging. I've come to realize I enjoy being held right at the edge almost more than the orgasms. It takes me a while to get to a point of wanting release because being super close is just so good for me. I love the intensity, and staying close for a long time brings this fantastic head space that is its own kind of high.

Of course, it is much more fun if someone else is involved. It's even more intense and exciting if someone is telling me what to do and how long to go for, the unknown keeps me on my toes. I want to be right at the edge but a slow tease and build is also so tantalizing. I can get so sensitive, so playing with the fact that less can often be much more leads to lots of fun possibilities...

Tantra. If you can find someone that knows the art and is willing to take the time.....

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

Tantra. If you can find someone that knows the art and is willing to take the time.....

I've certainly heard about it but haven't done much if any research to educate myself, but I'll have to change that. I'm sure there's plenty of rabbit holes to go down on that topic.

 

[TempSpawn]

I really love edging. I've come to realize I enjoy being held right at the edge almost more than the orgasms. It takes me a while to get to a point of wanting release because being super close is just so good for me. I love the intensity, and staying close for a long time brings this fantastic head space that is its own kind of high.

Of course, it is much more fun if someone else is involved. It's even more intense and exciting if someone is telling me what to do and how long to go for, the unknown keeps me on my toes. I want to be right at the edge but a slow tease and build is also so tantalizing. I can get so sensitive, so playing with the fact that less can often be much more leads to lots of fun possibilities...

Sounds like exactly the kind of fun I enjoy too. Both giving and receiving.

 

[mutualpleasure_]

I really love edging. I've come to realize I enjoy being held right at the edge almost more than the orgasms. It takes me a while to get to a point of wanting release because being super close is just so good for me. I love the intensity, and staying close for a long time brings this fantastic head space that is its own kind of high.

Of course, it is much more fun if someone else is involved. It's even more intense and exciting if someone is telling me what to do and how long to go for, the unknown keeps me on my toes. I want to be right at the edge but a slow tease and build is also so tantalizing. I can get so sensitive, so playing with the fact that less can often be much more leads to lots of fun possibilities...

This. Riding that wave with someone... feeling their heartbeat, breath, emotion... and keeping someone on that edge... not letting them cross... making them wait at moments... or pushing further.

 

[Thom_the_gleeman]

I have just had a wonderfull expirience that borders on this topic. I have a WiFi controlled glans massager, and gave controll of it to my Mistress.... who made me count grains of rice and every time I faltered or miscounted had me ad a cloth pin to my body.... It was a very, very strong edging expirience, that lead me right into a wonderful warm and safe bubble of subspace. To everyone who enjoys this topic, I can strongly recommend these kind of toys.

Love,

Thom

 

[MaggieTheUnicorn]

I've been somewhat inspired today. I played with myself earlier and held myself close to the edge for as long as I could. No cumming yet though.

I feel like I would like to be more inspired. And that I would enjoy it if someone were to get into my head and control my edging.

Yes, this is an invitation. I could do with making things interesting.

 

[roxanne1971]

I am interested in learning more about edging. I don’t cum well with other people. I think this could help me learn.