Extended, intense Edging

[jaycolt]

Enjoying

I am enjoying reading these experiences from each of you. I have edged for a few hours at times. It is very exciting and yet frustrating at the same time. Actually frustrating may not be the right word. The pleasure and desire builds.

However, the thought and desire to turn that control over to someone else excites me a great deal. Allowing someone else the pleasure to control my pleasure for both of our mutual pleasuristic motivations is intensely erotic.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I am enjoying reading these experiences from each of you. I have edged for a few hours at times. It is very exciting and yet frustrating at the same time. Actually frustrating may not be the right word. The pleasure and desire builds.

However, the thought and desire to turn that control over to someone else excites me a great deal. Allowing someone else the pleasure to control my pleasure for both of our mutual pleasuristic motivations is intensely erotic.

That is how this kind of activity should begin, with an appreciation/desire for the erotic.

 

[jaycolt]

That is how this kind of activity should begin, with an appreciation/desire for the erotic.

I am glad you think so. And I long for the journey.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I am glad you think so. And I long for the journey.

I wonder what else you long for.

 

[supercollider00]

Extended edging can be absolutely delicious play, especially over several days. It can easily draw me to my knees, make me whimper and be reminded whom I belong to. That said, I find a lot of us men focus on wanting to only be edge. As I see it, it's really just another tool in the toolbox and can be much more effective while used together with other tools.

Also, I find the mental aspect of it to be even stronger than the physical one. I want to be allowed to cum and I want my own pleasure, but at the same time only want to please my Domme and hence really want to do good. This mental conflict is one of the most delicious aspects of D/s to me.

 

[jaycolt]

I wonder what else you long for.

I am willing to discuss.

 

[bone251]

I have been edged and lived the orgasm denial life. The best part is giving oral, pleasing her and making her cum. Feeling her orgasm vicariously when mine orgasm is on edge is a very passionate and romantic feeling.

Cuddling after play with her trembling happy while I am horny is unbelievable.

There are stories in my signature. Please read.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Let's keep the thoughts and questions...cumming

Sorry that was horrible, but it had to be done.

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Let's keep the thoughts and questions...cumming

Sorry that was horrible, but it had to be done.

mythoughts are always cumming... ahem...

thinking about edging, i once went an entire day masterbating on and off, wondering how intense the final release would be. i know the longer you go without coming the more increasingly intense it is. i do remember the final release at the end of the day as being knee trembling. i had to get to my knees and take a moment, that was certainly something else entirely...

 

[lady_jennaxx]

mythoughts are always cumming... ahem...

thinking about edging, i once went an entire day masterbating on and off, wondering how intense the final release would be. i know the longer you go without coming the more increasingly intense it is. i do remember the final release at the end of the day as being knee trembling. i had to get to my knees and take a moment, that was certainly something else entirely...

Chas, you are a delight

 

[ChasBozwell30]

Chas, you are a delight

well this is a delightful thing to talk about x

i've definately been edging more since lockdown, trying to push and eke out pleasure more. it's so hot at night here, i end up lying in bed drenched, trying not to cum, not to give in, not to let it go. it's not quite edging, its definately more urgent then that....

 

[lady_jennaxx]

well this is a delightful thing to talk about x

i've definately been edging more since lockdown, trying to push and eke out pleasure more. it's so hot at night here, i end up lying in bed drenched, trying not to cum, not to give in, not to let it go. it's not quite edging, its definately more urgent then that....

That almost sounds like it's close to a level of desperation that makes a woman's ❤ skip a beat...

Keep up the delightful work, Chas.

 

[whenagain]

Ditto that short term— a day or so— edging is great but it’s hard (heh) to keep it up (lol) over a few days.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Ditto that short term— a day or so— edging is great but it’s hard (heh) to keep it up (lol) over a few days.

Someone's got the jokes

 

[ChasBozwell30]

That almost sounds like it's close to a level of desperation that makes a woman's ❤ skip a beat...

Keep up the delightful work, Chas.

heat and desperation are no substitute for a woman's touch, all i have at hand are cravings and sweat...! There is an intensity of longing building up, and these little releases do not take the edge away, but they are certainly fun for a while... x

 

[Bamamama1990]

I’ve had my husband denied sex for close to a month and was active in ensuring he could not have masterbated. The night was amazing and humiliating for him at the same time. He master all of about a minute of that. I had not even fully removed his cage yet. He cried afterwards like a baby. We showered together and got all cleaned up and back in he went

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I’ve had my husband denied sex for close to a month and was active in ensuring he could not have masterbated. The night was amazing and humiliating for him at the same time. He master all of about a minute of that. I had not even fully removed his cage yet. He cried afterwards like a baby. We showered together and got all cleaned up and back in he went

Thank you for sharing

 

[Irwin34]

My story, Nudist Retreat Humiliation involves a scene of prolonged edging.

Really enjoyed this story, thanks.

 

[MrRetro]

Extended edging can be absolutely delicious play, especially over several days. It can easily draw me to my knees, make me whimper and be reminded whom I belong to. That said, I find a lot of us men focus on wanting to only be edge. As I see it, it's really just another tool in the toolbox and can be much more effective while used together with other tools.

Also, I find the mental aspect of it to be even stronger than the physical one. I want to be allowed to cum and I want my own pleasure, but at the same time only want to please my Domme and hence really want to do good. This mental conflict is one of the most delicious aspects of D/s to me.

I totally agree with your point about wanting to please your Domme.. There is something blissful about giving in to your own urges and focusing on her pleasure.. My release is always more powerful if I have been immersed in her worship and have surrendered to her having control over when I will come..

 

[Eloquent_Hedonist]

On Extreme Edging

A very interesting topic Lady Jenna. I'm still very much a novice but I have a related story that you might find entertaining, it's one of the moments that sparked my submissive tendencies.

I was on holiday with a former girlfriend and we were playing games with fun/sexy stakes. During the last game my stakes were that if I lost I wasn't allowed to cum the next time we had sex. Sure enough she won (I maintain she cheated but hey, worked out in the end), and she collected on my debts immediately.

Her idea was to put about 5 condoms on me before we had sex, which deadened the sensation for me and most likely somewhat improved the sensation for her (they were ribbed and studded so collectively added quite a lot of mass). It was such a unique sensation, with the freedom to do whatever I liked (aside from remove the condoms) to eek out sensation, all the while she was loving it. By the end of the night she had come 4 times and I had only just barely reached the edge a couple of times.

The following day I was extremely horny and distracted, and the eventual release she afforded me that night was one of the hardest I've experienced.

Not sure if this classifies as extreme, but the experience of the second day seemed somewhat like the experiences others have talked about (albeit in a snapshot).

Hope you found the story entertaining if nothing else! Always keen to read your work

EH

 

[lady_jennaxx]

A very interesting topic Lady Jenna. I'm still very much a novice but I have a related story that you might find entertaining, it's one of the moments that sparked my submissive tendencies.

I was on holiday with a former girlfriend and we were playing games with fun/sexy stakes. During the last game my stakes were that if I lost I wasn't allowed to cum the next time we had sex. Sure enough she won (I maintain she cheated but hey, worked out in the end), and she collected on my debts immediately.

Her idea was to put about 5 condoms on me before we had sex, which deadened the sensation for me and most likely somewhat improved the sensation for her (they were ribbed and studded so collectively added quite a lot of mass). It was such a unique sensation, with the freedom to do whatever I liked (aside from remove the condoms) to eek out sensation, all the while she was loving it. By the end of the night she had come 4 times and I had only just barely reached the edge a couple of times.

The following day I was extremely horny and distracted, and the eventual release she afforded me that night was one of the hardest I've experienced.

Not sure if this classifies as extreme, but the experience of the second day seemed somewhat like the experiences others have talked about (albeit in a snapshot).

Hope you found the story entertaining if nothing else! Always keen to read your work

EH

Very creative and exciting share EH, nice to hear of experiences so unique

 

[Eloquent_Hedonist]

Very creative and exciting share EH, nice to hear of experiences so unique

Thank you kindly Lady Jenna! I guess when you're stabbing in the dark, occasionally you hit the spot.

I was wondering, what are your thoughts on chastity cages/belts? I've been curious about them but my assumption was that part of the appeal of chastity was the discipline/willpower.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Thank you kindly Lady Jenna! I guess when you're stabbing in the dark, occasionally you hit the spot.

I was wondering, what are your thoughts on chastity cages/belts? I've been curious about them but my assumption was that part of the appeal of chastity was the discipline/willpower.

I believe they're a great physical tool to hopefully enhance the "hold" She would have over him

 

[Eloquent_Hedonist]

I believe they're a great physical tool to hopefully enhance the "hold" She would have over him

And I'd guess it would serve as a nice little piece of bling for him to flaunt (when appropriate)

 

[lady_jennaxx]

And I'd guess it would serve as a nice little piece of bling for him to flaunt (when appropriate)

That too!