Extended, intense Edging

[Dreamer110]

Tie me down and do your worst.

 

[subliminalmassage]

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

This is a deep fascination for me, and something I've been privileged to experience a few times with lovers. It is both wonderful and terrifying. Pain can make you lose your desire to resist, but only desire can make you lose yourself. My dalliances with edging, both real and imaginary, have often involved the use of chastity as a way of ensuring/enforcing extended denial and edge play.

I echo what others have said regarding how difficult/impossible it can be to stay on edge. This difficulty is at least partly the result of a number of internal biological processes, most of which fall under the umbrella of 'homeostasis'. Put simply, homeostasis is the body's way of keeping various things 'normal' - for example, your skin contributes to temperature homeostasis by producing sweat when you're hot and goose bumps when you're cold. The endocrine system (which governs hormone levels) has its own homeostatic processes, as does your brain (which governs many of the other important horny-chemicals, particularly the neurotransmitters dopamine, serotonin and oxytocin, which are related to feelings of pleasure, happiness, confidence and excitement).

If you're not used to being edged it can be a huge shock to the system. You made me feel like I was on the edge of bliss... so my body began preparing for bliss. It began preparing to replace a load of used up testosterone, to calm down my adrenal response, to make me remember, despite the intense orgasm, that i am small and naked and mortal. You might think that excess testosterone flushing around would make me more assertive, more aggressive. But in situations where testosterone increases in tandem with stimuli that make the individual feel weak or helpless, then the excess testosterone gets suppressed: it might simply be sequestered (which can cause a sort of shrinking feeling and, in me at least, a desire to serve) or it might get converted into estrogen, with a variety of generally calming effects.

Oh, I almost forgot endorphins - your body's own morphine! - and Oxytocin - that's the one that makes you feel like you're falling in love with whoever just made you see stars.
From the devoted way i feel when im edged im pretty confident some Oxy slips out the gate a little early, and I know endorphin levels begin rising in anticipation of orgasm.. Things that creep up gently dont provoke homeostatic effects in the same way huge spikes do, so its possible to make someone feel better than they would after a dozenorgasms... if they can just get let go of that pesky need to cum.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Thanks for that very elaborate contribution

 

[bone251]

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.

I can say the inspiration of spending days on end horny is giving her orgasms with incredible intensity.

But the feelings of being teased and as the the days go by is an emotional and intense feeling.

The first few days are easier. An hour or two tease with 2 or 3 dozen edges makes you want to cum. But a couple hours after, the sensation can be lived with. And the first edge does take a while. Good edge training does give you longer staying power.

A week or so later the time to the first edge is pretty quick and being taken close over and over is only a matter of a few strokes. The tip becomes very sensitive like post orgasm torture, But you are so desperate you want it even when it is too sensitive. At this point the balls have been blue and swollen and she is loving the power and control. The giggling really shows her excitement.

Close to 2 weeks on the last tease she just polished the tip. Only took a few twists to be on the edge. And she just kept edging for close to two hours. This was 30 or 40 edges. Then I ate her.

For a finish I was able to sink it just before she came from my lickings. Her cumming made my orgasm wonderful.

My stories have several fun games that really happened to me. The story is fiction but the sex events happened. Please enjoy a read.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I can say the inspiration of spending days on end horny is giving her orgasms with incredible intensity.

But the feelings of being teased and as the the days go by is an emotional and intense feeling.

The first few days are easier. An hour or two tease with 2 or 3 dozen edges makes you want to cum. But a couple hours after, the sensation can be lived with. And the first edge does take a while. Good edge training does give you longer staying power.

A week or so later the time to the first edge is pretty quick and being taken close over and over is only a matter of a few strokes. The tip becomes very sensitive like post orgasm torture, But you are so desperate you want it even when it is too sensitive. At this point the balls have been blue and swollen and she is loving the power and control. The giggling really shows her excitement.

Close to 2 weeks on the last tease she just polished the tip. Only took a few twists to be on the edge. And she just kept edging for close to two hours. This was 30 or 40 edges. Then I ate her.

For a finish I was able to sink it just before she came from my lickings. Her cumming made my orgasm wonderful.

My stories have several fun games that really happened to me. The story is fiction but the sex events happened. Please enjoy a read.

Thanks for the share

 

[KyleR215]

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.

I have, on many occasions, edged myself for hours. On many occasion I start in the morning and go well into the evening. There is nothing better than spending a day doing everything and anything except cumming.

I've used nothing more than my hands, I have used toys, I have used Lit, Kik and more to keep on edge.

And the release, the explosion, the toe curling, crying out loudly, cum everywhere release is well worth the day long or days long edging.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I have, on many occasions, edged myself for hours. On many occasion I start in the morning and go well into the evening. There is nothing better than spending a day doing everything and anything except cumming.

I've used nothing more than my hands, I have used toys, I have used Lit, Kik and more to keep on edge.

And the release, the explosion, the toe curling, crying out loudly, cum everywhere release is well worth the day long or days long edging.

Well said

 

[bone251]

I have found that the most intense edging needs to be done to you, not by you. There is a point that takes you past the need to cum and to go past that point you need someone who can giggle and laugh while you beg to cum for the next hour, days or weeks while you make her cum.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

I have found that the most intense edging needs to be done to you, not by you. There is a point that takes you past the need to cum and to go past that point you need someone who can giggle and laugh while you beg to cum for the next hour, days or weeks while you make her cum.

I am in agreement.

 

[Orchidea73]

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

No, not for me. I love to come and multiply times. I love the build up and all that, the tease as you said. But to be on the edge for hours and days? No way.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

No, not for me. I love to come and multiply times. I love the build up and all that, the tease as you said. But to be on the edge for hours and days? No way.

Different strokes for different folks, as the saying goes...

 

[Orchidea73]

Different strokes for different folks, as the saying goes...

Absolutely. I was speaking for myself, indeed. I thought that's the point.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Absolutely. I was speaking for myself, indeed. I thought that's the point.

It absolutely is the point and thanks for sharing.

 

[Orchidea73]

It absolutely is the point and thanks for sharing.

Thank you for the thread.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Thank you for the thread.

My pleasure I enjoy reading other's experiences, thoughts and input

 

[Orchidea73]

My pleasure I enjoy reading other's experiences, thoughts and input

Same. I'm very curious by nature.

Tie me down and do your worst.

Tie me down and do your worst sounds great.
My version will just add: And make me cum as many times as possible.

 

[lady_jennaxx]

Same. I'm very curious by nature.



Tie me down and do your worst sounds great.
My version will just add: And make me cum as many times as possible.

As am I and the older I get, the more curious I seem to be, lol.

 

[bone251]

No, not for me. I love to come and multiply times. I love the build up and all that, the tease as you said. But to be on the edge for hours and days? No way.

For me, It makes sense that the girl gets the orgasms and the guy is kept horny so he can better give more orgasms.

 

[Orchidea73]

For me, It makes sense that the girl gets the orgasms and the guy is kept horny so he can better give more orgasms.

I actually love to see him cum as well. Especially at the same time with me. But I understand that would be more difficult for him.

 

[KyleR215]

I have decided to have a nice long edging session today

 

[Racontica]

The Seven Day Orgasm

Not to pimp my own story too hard, but I'm just happen to be writing a series right now on this site called "The Seven Day Orgasm" that deals with a hetero couple where the man edges the woman nightly for seven days. I heartily recommend it.

 

[ChuckWolf]

Really enjoyed this story, thanks.

Hey Irwin, glad you enjoyed it and thanks for reading!

 

[Irwin34]

Hey Irwin, glad you enjoyed it and thanks for reading!

I have just enjoyed your coach storie, will have to pop back later to read some more.

 

[Jasminelit]

Not to pimp my own story too hard, but I'm just happen to be writing a series right now on this site called "The Seven Day Orgasm" that deals with a hetero couple where the man edges the woman nightly for seven days. I heartily recommend it.

Very good read... Looking forward to #7.

 

[Qldpies35]

Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.

I’ve had a GF that used to love being edged, we started off slowly, going for minutes, hours and then days. It was such a rewarding experience and she said that when she was finally allowed to cum it was sensational.