Extended, intense Edging

The edging can get very intense...then I start calling her name..then it just boils over...
 
so...

I have read a bit of the thread... but wanted to reply without the influence of others...

I have experienced and currently experienced weeks of edging... for me ... I love it. Why?

1. This took me a while to figure out... I probably get more focused attention. Which I love.

2. The dopamine kick... becomes amazing

3. My actions become very attentive... which as a pleaser I like.

Pretty basic answer but when you get past the emotional part that is it. Yes the release can be amazing... I could put out an eye when I am allowed to cum. I love the emotional state that it creates and crave long term situations which... become the norm and... well that is awesome.

Not sure if that helps.
 
This is something my wife and I have played with over many years, or should I say she has played with.

It started from cuddles in bed in a morning where I would become aroused and she would play a little, getting me hard before getting up. To now where handjobs, blowjobs and even sex are used without allowing me to orgasm.

Usually the denial will only last a day, with release being allowed in the evening, but not always, and sometime it will lapse into days, sometimes with more than one "event".

Whilst I don't subscribe to being caged, or anything that extreme, I very rarely release myself because it spoils the fun and breaks the trust.

Although we have tried it the other way around, she assures me it doesn't work the same.
 
There is extended edging in my new story, "Coach Laurie And The Gloryhole".

Link is in my sig.
 
There is extended edging in my new story, "Coach Laurie And The Gloryhole".

Link is in my sig.
hot story. i can imagine when i was in high school and my cock would get painfully hard. having a busty teacher jelp help me release would be something
 
I've been self edging, denying, and lurking around related message boards for a long time. The other day, I was comparing notes with someone recently who used the term "gooning". That was the first time I'd ever heard it, so I checked out the urban dictionary:

"Gooning" may be most simply defined as that state usually achieved after a prolonged edging session, when a man becomes completely hypnotized by the feeling radiating his penis. Since a gooning state can only be achieved after edging, the man's dick will have become mightily aroused at this point and every caress the male genitals are subjected to will trigger potent elation. As the man keeps edging and thus keeps experiencing intense pleasure, he enters a state of trance where his mind intimately merges with his cock : the gooning state, where he and his dick become one. To be even more accurate, when the gooning state is achieved, the man's body becomes for all intents and purposes an appendage to his erection. When this state is achieved, the male becomes freed of all social codes of conduct, and his arousal, alone, dictates his reactions. As a result, a gooned out man may become very expressive and demonstrative : he may become very vocal, while his body and face might take on undignified expressions and poses, all in response to the intensely exquisite caresses his penis is exposed to. Hence the term "goon", since at this point the man effectively looks like a silly, foolish, or eccentric person.

I can see how they got to that definition.
 
I've been self edging, denying, and lurking around related message boards for a long time. The other day, I was comparing notes with someone recently who used the term "gooning". That was the first time I'd ever heard it, so I checked out the urban dictionary:

"Gooning" may be most simply defined as that state usually achieved after a prolonged edging session, when a man becomes completely hypnotized by the feeling radiating his penis. Since a gooning state can only be achieved after edging, the man's dick will have become mightily aroused at this point and every caress the male genitals are subjected to will trigger potent elation. As the man keeps edging and thus keeps experiencing intense pleasure, he enters a state of trance where his mind intimately merges with his cock : the gooning state, where he and his dick become one. To be even more accurate, when the gooning state is achieved, the man's body becomes for all intents and purposes an appendage to his erection. When this state is achieved, the male becomes freed of all social codes of conduct, and his arousal, alone, dictates his reactions. As a result, a gooned out man may become very expressive and demonstrative : he may become very vocal, while his body and face might take on undignified expressions and poses, all in response to the intensely exquisite caresses his penis is exposed to. Hence the term "goon", since at this point the man effectively looks like a silly, foolish, or eccentric person.

I can see how they got to that definition.

I believe that's what those of us who like to perpetuate the extended edging, look for :rose:
 
Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.

I love it. Its perhaps my favorite thing. The teasing in itself is amazing. Wifey does this to me almost every Saturday night. It will last a few hours. She will stroke me, blow me, use various toys on me, etc to get me to the point of cumming and then stop. This build up eventually leads to the best and most intense orgasms I have ever had.

I've never had her do it over a course of a few days or so. It does interest me though.
 
I absolutely love being kept on edge for days/weeks/months.
I currently am edging with a long distance master. I am day 164 without an orgasm and multiple edges a day.
My master does encourage me to play with others, I'm just not allowed an orgasm without his permission.
I enjoy the fidgety , anxious, constantly horny sensation. So horny all the time.
 
Is this an appealing concept to many? I'm not speaking of the kind of tease that goes on for a few minutes before the subject is allowed grateful release.

I'm referring to the kind of tease that escalates over hours, perhaps even days, before what can only be described as "life-changing" release is granted, and the subject is alternately exhausted, exhilarated, vulnerable and ravenous, as the experience has introduced them to a side of themselves they had no idea was so starved for that kind of unique attention.

I believe for those with slightly sub tendencies, the notion of offering the right person that kind of power is frightening yet very simple and freeing. It can lead to a lovely friendship if the chemistry is favorable.

If this topic has sparked curiosity, feel free to reach out. Well written, thoughtful PMs are encouraged.

YES YES YES!!!!! I edge all the time and the longer it goes, the more chances I get to sample my cum without losing my load or my interest in continuing. There have been times when I just couldn't control myself and lost my load in spite of my best attempts not to (and those moments are bit akward especially if the wife is around) but when I can hold off all day or for several days, the climax is body shattering and delicious!
 
I absolutely love being kept on edge for days/weeks/months.
I currently am edging with a long distance master. I am day 164 without an orgasm and multiple edges a day.
My master does encourage me to play with others, I'm just not allowed an orgasm without his permission.
I enjoy the fidgety , anxious, constantly horny sensation. So horny all the time.

How many times have you had blue balls?
 
I absolutely love being kept on edge for days/weeks/months.
I currently am edging with a long distance master. I am day 164 without an orgasm and multiple edges a day.
My master does encourage me to play with others, I'm just not allowed an orgasm without his permission.
I enjoy the fidgety , anxious, constantly horny sensation. So horny all the time.

While I think the length of time is beyond what I'd like to see, I definitely commend the enthusiasm :rose:
 
I actually lasted 18 days once, edging a couple times each days. I was playing alone but it did lead me to a state of sex obsession. The entire body becomes over sensitive... Just touching your own neck ends up giving pussy shivers. Very powerful. I actually overdid though... I was a bit sore. And for concentration at work, it was not a good idea. For long term, I think a bit of edging, not every day, might be interesting. Enough to make you crave sex all the time but not so much that you can't concentrate on work and life in general.

Damn.
 
I have read a bit of the thread... but wanted to reply without the influence of others...

I have experienced and currently experienced weeks of edging... for me ... I love it. Why?

1. This took me a while to figure out... I probably get more focused attention. Which I love.

2. The dopamine kick... becomes amazing

3. My actions become very attentive... which as a pleaser I like.

Pretty basic answer but when you get past the emotional part that is it. Yes the release can be amazing... I could put out an eye when I am allowed to cum. I love the emotional state that it creates and crave long term situations which... become the norm and... well that is awesome.

Not sure if that helps.


Awesome. I thought I was the only one who got better at concentrating while going crazy.
 
Need help

I have read a bit of the thread... but wanted to reply without the influence of others...

I have experienced and currently experienced weeks of edging... for me ... I love it. Why?

1. This took me a while to figure out... I probably get more focused attention. Which I love.

2. The dopamine kick... becomes amazing

3. My actions become very attentive... which as a pleaser I like.

Pretty basic answer but when you get past the emotional part that is it. Yes the release can be amazing... I could put out an eye when I am allowed to cum. I love the emotional state that it creates and crave long term situations which... become the norm and... well that is awesome.

Not sure if that helps.


Now I need to be going constantly crazy to work. And I like working. But I can't edge all the while. Don't know what to do. Any suggestions?
 
A small greatly deserved bump for Lady Jennaxx and this stupifyingly erotic subject...
:rose:
 
For about 6 weeks we had some illness and then house guests. No sex.
Got one fuck in with one orgasm that did not really drain the pipes.
Now we are on vacation and she has been edging me 10-20 times a night for the last week. No plans but to continue.
She is really enjoying how much I tell her she is beautiful. She likes when she dangles her breasts in my face how hard I get for her.
This is turning out to be a great vacation.

:heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart::heart:
 
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