Fuck It: Refux

[Saltfountain]

When it does happen it's a really really intense feeling. I just wish I knew the cheat code

Apparently it's called a clit sucker...

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

When it happens to me it's not a huge jet like you see in porn. It's more like a sudden flood. Sometimes it's so intense it can push a toy right out of me

I don't recall it ever happening with a partner #beenawhile #canievenrememberwhattodo and I don't really know what triggers as I've tried the same thing another time and just had a regular old orgasm

When it does happen it's a really really intense feeling. I just wish I knew the cheat code

now that is interesting to me. like I can't tell you why, especially since my 2 cheat codes are very different from each other, but I can tell you you the code is like x y x y toward toward back toward toward back. or power button twice, or power button once below button three times (code depends on the option in front of me)

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Apparently it's called a clit sucker...

Oh I have one. Always delivers but I don't always need a towel afterwards

 

[WriterLust94]

When it happens to me it's not a huge jet like you see in porn. It's more like a sudden flood. Sometimes it's so intense it can push a toy right out of me

I don't recall it ever happening with a partner #beenawhile #canievenrememberwhattodo and I don't really know what triggers as I've tried the same thing another time and just had a regular old orgasm

When it does happen it's a really really intense feeling. I just wish I knew the cheat code

So many mental pictures...

I hope that situation changes for you soon

Maybe it's like anything, you try different methods and see if it produces the same results

 

[AmberLGreen]

So moving on...

Squirting... I have never managed to have a partner squirt, but am so fucking turned on when I see someone that turned on.

I see a lot of people say they can't but wish they could

Is it something that people just discovered they could do by not stopping when they orgasm, or is it a different thing?

For me, this happened later in life. Definitely as I started to go through menopause.

It doesn’t happen all the time and only happens when I masturbate with fingers. I can’t tell you if it happens during penile penetration as I haven’t had that in many years.

It isn’t a huge jet of fluid that I could clean the patio with but more a soft spray that soaks the local area

I bought a clit sucking vibrator and I can’t even achieve normal orgasm with that. It just doesn’t work for me

 

[RosewoodTulip]

So many mental pictures...

I hope that situation changes for you soon

Maybe it's like anything, you try different methods and see if it produces the same results

Yes. For science!

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

So moving on...

Squirting... I have never managed to have a partner squirt, but am so fucking turned on when I see someone that turned on.

I see a lot of people say they can't but wish they could

Is it something that people just discovered they could do by not stopping when they orgasm, or is it a different thing?

Oh man, this is one of those things I'm sooo self conscious about! It happens more often when I'm alone than when I'm with a partner, because I tend to hold back. Which means I've spent a lot of my life not letting myself cum.

 

[willlph]

Oh man, this is one of those things I'm sooo self conscious about! It happens more often when I'm alone than when I'm with a partner, because I tend to hold back. Which means I've spent a lot of my life not letting myself cum.

may I ask why you feel so self conscious about it ?

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

may I ask why you feel so self conscious about it ?

Errr....ummm.... the chemical makeup is a bit disturbing.

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

Oh man, this is one of those things I'm sooo self conscious about! It happens more often when I'm alone than when I'm with a partner, because I tend to hold back. Which means I've spent a lot of my life not letting myself cum.

We absolutely love it when a woman loses all control. I want my partner to have a religious experience when we are together. Muscle cramps, pulled hamstrings, squirting, passing out. I live for that shit.

 

[Deleted member 6568729]

We absolutely love it when a woman loses all control. I want my partner to have a religious experience when we are together. Muscle cramps, pulled hamstrings, squirting, passing out. I live for that shit.

It helps when the partner is very enthusiastic about it! Making me feel comfortable and secure with whatever happens is the key. Just like Rapha said...

I think the secret is to get them comfortable enough to go with whatever feels good and not get hung up on consequences.

 

[Deleted member 1306910]

It helps when the partner is very enthusiastic about it! Making me feel comfortable and secure with whatever happens is the key. Just like Rapha said...

*shrugs* I just do my best. Unless I've been lied to, my partners have enjoyed themselves.

 

[WriterLust94]

So moving on...

Squirting... I have never managed to have a partner squirt, but am so fucking turned on when I see someone that turned on.

I see a lot of people say they can't but wish they could

Is it something that people just discovered they could do by not stopping when they orgasm, or is it a different thing?

Not something I've experience with a woman as yet, but definitely on my list

 

[Saltfountain]

Not something I've experience with a woman as yet, but definitely on my list

You've made a man squirt?

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

Well I will share my specific cheat codes. Obviously everyone is different. Of course, they have been replaced with newer models, but the Original rose style works best for me so far. yeah it got a lot of air time everywhere in the toy discussion world for a reason. Damn it is strong. Didn't think it would be my thing as I am not the type who gets off best by clitoral stimulation alone, but surprise surprise I can be that type. This one is my second best. I did decide I wanted something more angled and wearable but so far this one didn’t work. not a design issue though, a weaker motor. (of course it was $4 so lol but hey some of my cheapest are some of my favorites, and my most expensive is my least favorite) Back to amazon to improve on this.

As for partner technique, Well, it is the same one that men claim work in videos and articles everywhere. I agree with them. And now I am watching porn for educational videos haha. Ok I think this is probably the most direct explanation……after warm up not captured here though. For me, I think this mostly just depends on if/when they want to invest the time and effort. I’ve met the occasional man who undresses with the specific goal of how many times can they make you cum, can they make your squirt, can they get you hyperventilating, passing out. In my experience, they are total man whores, not the romantic types unless they fake it to get them laid, highly egotistical if they feel no need to hide it, and mostly just competing with themselves in their head. I think they are a very fun type, assuming one can accept what they are. Not relationship material, but make great friends. (Shout out Dave, Dean, Mark, and Sam, I miss banging you). Most men rarely approach sexual activity as a personal challenge though so it is just a rare treat if/when they do. Interestingly, I find as honestly sweet and romantic traits increase, the drive to screw you like that decreases. Cruel twist of fate? An example of the dichotomy of the Madonna/Whore perception across men? Though I guess in some ways it could be about me, as I am prone to following a man's lead, adapting to them, but I still think it is mostly them

 

[WriterLust94]

You've made a man squirt?

Other than myself no

 

[MrsPassion]

Well I will share my specific cheat codes. Obviously everyone is different. Of course, they have been replaced with newer models, but the Original rose style works best for me so far. yeah it got a lot of air time everywhere in the toy discussion world for a reason. Damn it is strong. Didn't think it would be my thing as I am not the type who gets off best by clitoral stimulation alone, but surprise surprise I can be that type. This one is my second best. I did decide I wanted something more angled and wearable but so far this one didn’t work. not a design issue though, a weaker motor. (of course it was $4 so lol but hey some of my cheapest are some of my favorites, and my most expensive is my least favorite) Back to amazon to improve on this.

As for partner technique, Well, it is the same one that men claim work in videos and articles everywhere. I agree with them. And now I am watching porn for educational videos haha. Ok I think this is probably the most direct explanation……after warm up not captured here though. For me, I think this mostly just depends on if/when they want to invest the time and effort. I’ve met the occasional man who undresses with the specific goal of how many times can they make you cum, can they make your squirt, can they get you hyperventilating, passing out. In my experience, they are total man whores, not the romantic types unless they fake it to get them laid, highly egotistical if they feel no need to hide it, and mostly just competing with themselves in their head. I think they are a very fun type, assuming one can accept what they are. Not relationship material, but make great friends. (Shout out Dave, Dean, Mark, and Sam, I miss banging you). Most men rarely approach sexual activity as a personal challenge though so it is just a rare treat if/when they do. Interestingly, I find as honestly sweet and romantic traits increase, the drive to screw you like that decreases. Cruel twist of fate? An example of the dichotomy of the Madonna/Whore perception across men? Though I guess in some ways it could be about me, as I am prone to following a man's lead, adapting to them, but I still think it is mostly them

I swear, one of your posts and a sip of coffee is all I need to start my day off right

 

[RosewoodTulip]

Well I will share my specific cheat codes. Obviously everyone is different. Of course, they have been replaced with newer models, but the Original rose style works best for me so far. yeah it got a lot of air time everywhere in the toy discussion world for a reason. Damn it is strong. Didn't think it would be my thing as I am not the type who gets off best by clitoral stimulation alone, but surprise surprise I can be that type. This one is my second best. I did decide I wanted something more angled and wearable but so far this one didn’t work. not a design issue though, a weaker motor. (of course it was $4 so lol but hey some of my cheapest are some of my favorites, and my most expensive is my least favorite) Back to amazon to improve on this.

As for partner technique, Well, it is the same one that men claim work in videos and articles everywhere. I agree with them. And now I am watching porn for educational videos haha. Ok I think this is probably the most direct explanation……after warm up not captured here though. For me, I think this mostly just depends on if/when they want to invest the time and effort. I’ve met the occasional man who undresses with the specific goal of how many times can they make you cum, can they make your squirt, can they get you hyperventilating, passing out. In my experience, they are total man whores, not the romantic types unless they fake it to get them laid, highly egotistical if they feel no need to hide it, and mostly just competing with themselves in their head. I think they are a very fun type, assuming one can accept what they are. Not relationship material, but make great friends. (Shout out Dave, Dean, Mark, and Sam, I miss banging you). Most men rarely approach sexual activity as a personal challenge though so it is just a rare treat if/when they do. Interestingly, I find as honestly sweet and romantic traits increase, the drive to screw you like that decreases. Cruel twist of fate? An example of the dichotomy of the Madonna/Whore perception across men? Though I guess in some ways it could be about me, as I am prone to following a man's lead, adapting to them, but I still think it is mostly them

Well he just got stuck straight in there didn't he?!

The link for the rose didn't work for me but I have seen them before. I may have to invest.

I have a sucker toy but it's only external. It's still feels amazing though.

I do feel Justa that you should start your own blog or podcast or write a book or something. Share these fabulous pearls of wisdom with the masses

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I swear, one of your posts and a sip of coffee is all I need to start my day off right

hahaha. Well as long as you manage to swallow the coffee and not spit it out.

Well he just got stuck straight in there didn't he?!

The link for the rose didn't work for me but I have seen them before. I may have to invest.

I have a sucker toy but it's only external. It's still feels amazing though.

I do feel Justa that you should start your own blog or podcast or write a book or something. Share these fabulous pearls of wisdom with the masses

haha. I thought I'd look for the specific thing, lead up is more variable. And this one was short and to the point

and oooh, see how many things I can sell while seeing how many people I can sort of offend or stop just shy of offending all in one go. could be fun.

 

[WriterLust94]

I do feel Justa that you should start your own blog or podcast or write a book or something. Share these fabulous pearls of wisdom with the masses

Amen!

 

[hopeful_wife]

Apparently it's called a clit sucker...

I've had mine for four days. I've not yet discovered an ability to squirt... But honestly, it's an amazing little toy and I don't need it to be the utility tool of my toy bag. It does what it does really fucking well.

 

[Justadesperatewifeandmom]

I've had mine for four days. I've not yet discovered an ability to squirt... But honestly, it's an amazing little toy and I don't need it to be the utility tool of my toy bag. It does what it does really fucking well.

more power? turning it higher so it seems a bit too much and keeping in place a bit long so it seems a bit too much is when it happens for me. basically the line between enjoyment and overload/wanting to push it away, if that makes sense.

 

[hopeful_wife]

Interestingly, I find as honestly sweet and romantic traits increase, the drive to screw you like that decreases. Cruel twist of fate?

In my real life, I've been with one man. He's not good at being romantic or sweet (tries sometimes, but sort of ham-handed about it)... AND he doesn't want to fuck me at all (asexual).

Now, I know this place is not a good measure for anything scientific... we can all choose what to show/ share and when... and that has an effect on how we're perceived... but I'll say I have met some Lit men who do this balance pretty well. Sweet and thoughtful and truly beautiful friends. And oh my, can they talk dirty, too.

If they are IRL who they seem to be here, I think they might be the unicorns of our species.

 

[hopeful_wife]

basically the line between enjoyment and overload/wanting to push it away, if that makes sense.

It absolutely does. I have, so far, needed to pull it off at a certain point every time. Just too much stimulation after I've cum. Not that I think I'm going to pee... But like my whole body needs to shake and twitch and pulse for ten minutes before I can move or say anything comprehensible.

(ETA: I guess I'll fight through that feeling next time?)

 

[Saltfountain]

So, ladies who can/do squirt - is it better / more intense than a normal orgasm? Do you wish you could squirt more regularly?

Ladies who haven't squirted - is it something you wish you could do?