Fuck It: Refux

I'd ask why she wanted to post pics?

I tend to post pics publicly now that I have worked on, and I think are arty as opposed to just a dick in your face (although I know that's one of your very favourite things 😜) and because of that I want them to be seen.

I don't own sexy underwear, but I do own a dadbod, so I try to make my pics more than just 'look at meeeeeee!' if that makes any sense?
 
This actually brings up a question I had for people who regularly post photos

Let’s say a lovable sweetheart wanted to post pictures but was horrifically nervous and shy but also an extreme perfectionist how would you encourage me her to get started?
You could always ask a certain someone to preview them
 
This actually brings up a question I had for people who regularly post photos

Let’s say a lovable sweetheart wanted to post pictures but was horrifically nervous and shy but also an extreme perfectionist how would you encourage me her to get started?
This is the safest place I have ever seen to post pics. No one here tears down, only likes & compliments. Go for it
 
Maybe because she can sometimes be a little bit of a fucking attention whore alright?! 😂😂 and she gets a kick out of causing boners wherever she goes.

I mean, I’m just assuming lol

And yes that makes sense, but I want them to be tasteful and kinda beautifully erotic?
Then I'd download some photo editing apps and play around with filters and overlays, and learn what you think looks good and what doesn't

And if you want tasteful and erotica, go for suggestion and tease above sights your gynaecologist would blanche at...
 
Then I'd download some photo editing apps and play around with filters and overlays, and learn what you think looks good and what doesn't

And if you want tasteful and erotica, go for suggestion and tease above sights your gynaecologist would blanche at...
That’s all good advice, how would you suggest tapping into the part of me that enjoys being seen. It’s hard to isolate that feeling when I’ve got a million other things wandering through my head about being…exposed. Like in your photo you shared 🥰🥵 it looks amazing and like fun but I would be terrified of being caught.
 
See, I don't know how to answer that without asking more questions...

Why do you want to take pics outdoors? Being the main one 😂

Why not start off indoors and see how you like the pic results, and how you feel posting them to an audience
 
See, I don't know how to answer that without asking more questions...

Why do you want to take pics outdoors? Being the main one 😂

Why not start off indoors and see how you like the pic results, and how you feel posting them to an audience
Lol oops, my grammar was off. I meant like I think it’s amazing what you did, but even the thought of doing them indoors is a bit much hahaha I’m gonna try some practice shots inside and see how I feel though
 
This actually brings up a question I had for people who regularly post photos

Let’s say a lovable sweetheart wanted to post pictures but was horrifically nervous and shy but also an extreme perfectionist how would you encourage me her to get started?
Totally get the nerves. I love posting pics but I rarely can work up the courage to because whenever I do it takes me a few days to calm down from feeling so overwhelmed.
Just feeling comfortable enough to be naked outside? Would love to but I know I have a long way to go before that could actually happen.
 
Lol oops, my grammar was off. I meant like I think it’s amazing what you did, but even the thought of doing them indoors is a bit much hahaha I’m gonna try some practice shots inside and see how I feel though
Totally get the nerves. I love posting pics but I rarely can work up the courage to because whenever I do it takes me a few days to calm down from feeling so overwhelmed.
Just feeling comfortable enough to be naked outside? Would love to but I know I have a long way to go before that could actually happen.

Just to add my little perspective, when I have posted pics it's been when my mind has been in the more body positive/encouraging state.

I won't pretend that I'm always in that state of mind, and it's taken a lot of work to get into those places.

I think it's a combination of facing the fears and anxieties that push you down, embracing and loving your body in whatever shape or form it is at that time*, and also just allowing yourself to have fun.

My photos are more for and about me than anybody else, that's how I can enjoy them : ]

*also just to add, my body is gonna go back and forth between slimmer and chunkier, I'm okay with that.

Sorry for the longwinded response 😅
 
Just to add my little perspective, when I have posted pics it's been when my mind has been in the more body positive/encouraging state.

I won't pretend that I'm always in that state of mind, and it's taken a lot of work to get into those places.

I think it's a combination of facing the fears and anxieties that push you down, embracing and loving your body in whatever shape or form it is at that time*, and also just allowing yourself to have fun.

My photos are more for and about me than anybody else, that's how I can enjoy them : ]

*also just to add, my body is gonna go back and forth between slimmer and chunkier, I'm okay with that.

Sorry for the longwinded response 😅
No I think that's all totally fair and not long winded at all.

I share my pics mainly for me. I know I don't have the best relationship with the mirror so by sharing something here, and having people be so supportive and kind, I'm gradually relearning how I see myself.
Of course getting positive attention does feel really good too, I'm not going to pretend it doesn't.

My weight fluctuates all the time but I am always gonna be big. Sometimes I just like myself a little more than other days and I try to take pictures then to show myself that I can look good.
 
Just remember, some people prefer their girls bigger, some smaller, and for some they have no preference.
For some size doesn't come into it at all... I've seen big girls oozing confidence in how they look and small girls who are incredibly unhappy with their bodies.
You be you Rosie, and fuck anyone who makes you feel shit. You're a gorgeous girl, and the more you believe it, the more others will see it 😘
 
Good morning gorgeous pervs. So last night I had a lovely chat with my Dom and he suggested that I plug myself for bed. I did and it felt great! Somehow, during the day, I usually end up sore and with a lot of discomfort but in bed was fine!
Anywho, have a great day 😘
Maybe placement is key? I was recently asked to have something inside of me while I slept (yes I had another challenge 🫣) and I'm still working up to plugs. I found I'd had some irritation the next morning so I won't be doing that for as long again.
I'm so glad you enjoyed it. I'm sure your Dom is very happy with you too 😊
 
Maybe placement is key? I was recently asked to have something inside of me while I slept (yes I had another challenge 🫣) and I'm still working up to plugs. I found I'd had some irritation the next morning so I won't be doing that for as long again.
I'm so glad you enjoyed it. I'm sure your Dom is very happy with you too 😊
Oh he is. He’s a very happy guy 😈😍
Gosh you’re such fun! And sexy as hell
 
Good morning gorgeous pervs. So last night I had a lovely chat with my Dom and he suggested that I plug myself for bed. I did and it felt great! Somehow, during the day, I usually end up sore and with a lot of discomfort but in bed was fine!
Anywho, have a great day 😘
Why do you think it irritated less?

Was it the same plug? Do you think because your body was more relaxed as you slept it accommodated it better? Less movement caused less chafing?
 
Why do you think it irritated less?

Was it the same plug? Do you think because your body was more relaxed as you slept it accommodated it better? Less movement caused less chafing?
Mhmm
I think it was many things. It is definitely a way to get around wearing it comfortably
 
And I'm back (for a while at least 😝), and I'm still feeling a bit uninspired, so I'll get back into it with one of my kinks...

Being naked outdoors...

Is it just me who enjoys feeling the sun on my back and beyond? Does anyone else get a thrill from the risk of being caught (whilst not actually wanting to be caught)?

What is it about being naked in the open air you like? What do you like to do? Alone, with others?
As much as anything, I like how the sun feels on parts of me that don't often feel it
I've only been naked outdoors a couple of times and only in places where I was quite confident I wouldn't be caught. The only regret I have about my trip to Australia last November was that I didn't make it to a nude beach. The husband wasn't keen on the idea but agreed to go with me if that was what I wanted to do. I had looked up a couple beaches in Sydney that were supposed to be smaller and less touristy. Unfortunately, the descriptions did not discuss how easy or difficult it was to get to each beach. When we made it out to this little beach on the last day of our vacation, we found out that we would have to pick our way down a rocky and somewhat makeshift path along the outcropping in order to reach the small strip of sand that made up the beach. We debated, but, in the end, decided that we didn't trust ourselves to navigate the pathway.
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This actually brings up a question I had for people who regularly post photos

Let’s say a lovable sweetheart wanted to post pictures but was horrifically nervous and shy but also an extreme perfectionist how would you encourage me her to get started?
I would tell her that I have found Lit to be a welcoming environment in which to post pics. The vast majority of people are encouraging and give positive feedback. I've found that taking and sharing photos has made me more comfortable with and confident in my body. I can be a perfectionist as well, but am learning that I can be happy with perfectly imperfect.
 
Mhmm
I think it was many things. It is definitely a way to get around wearing it comfortably
This is all really good info because, as of this morning, I'm officially a member of the Plug Club 🫣❤️

I'm waiting on my membership badge. I have a fair idea where it will go 😂😂

But seriously, any advice on keeping it comfortable so I can wear it a while will be great.
 
I've only been naked outdoors a couple of times and only in places where I was quite confident I wouldn't be caught. The only regret I have about my trip to Australia last November was that I didn't make it to a nude beach. The husband wasn't keen on the idea but agreed to go with me if that was what I wanted to do. I had looked up a couple beaches in Sydney that were supposed to be smaller and less touristy. Unfortunately, the descriptions did not discuss how easy or difficult it was to get to each beach. When we made it out to this little beach on the last day of our vacation, we found out that we would have to pick our way down a rocky and somewhat makeshift path along the outcropping in order to reach the small strip of sand that made up the beach. We debated, but, in the end, decided that we didn't trust ourselves to navigate the pathway.
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I would tell her that I have found Lit to be a welcoming environment in which to post pics. The vast majority of people are encouraging and give positive feedback. I've found that taking and sharing photos has made me more comfortable with and confident in my body. I can be a perfectionist as well, but am learning that I can be happy with perfectly imperfect.
That looks like a beautiful place but my ankles trembled at the thought of navigating such a rocky path.

Nudist beaches, parks etc intrigue me. Maybe it's because if everyone is naked then no one stands out
 
This is all really good info because, as of this morning, I'm officially a member of the Plug Club 🫣❤️

I'm waiting on my membership badge. I have a fair idea where it will go 😂😂

But seriously, any advice on keeping it comfortable so I can wear it a while will be great.
I think @hopeful_wife had some great advice for @Lindi37 earlier in the thread...

Keep a small tube of lube with you when you wear it, and reapply it often to stop it rubbing.

From talking to people who've worn them for a long time, the shape of the stopper at the end seems to be key. A round one often looks prettier, but can dig into your cheeks somewhat. I'd suggest a plug with a thin bar type end as it doesn't press into you so much
 
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