Gay fantasy versus reality

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I think it depends on your partner(s) and your expectations. Most of my gay experiences
That first time with someone new can be a little awkward, if it somehow turns into a second time, it starts getting better. It helps to have a scenario in mind .
I have had some real hot sessions with some top guys, always try to go back for seconds when they use me good.
 
At the beginning of my journey when I was curious it was all fantasy. The first time I had an mm experience I knew I was NOT straight but I was not willing to admit my sexuality so I suppressed my urges. Of course many years later I could no longer resist my urges.
As I explored and had casual hookups I too found that the fantasy was often better than reality but in my case I believe it was denial more than anything that caused this feeling. I would say that I am not tremendously experienced in same sex affairs but after many years of fantasies and limited exploration I have accepted that i am bi but leaning more gay and the reality is way better than the fantasy! The reality of gay sex actually seems more natural.
 
I have found that you achieve your fantasies only if you're willing to work at them. Just being a passive cock sucker is not going to get you what you've been fantasizing about - you have to seize the moment, and make it equal your fantasy. Tentative licks and tepid sucking are not going to make you feel like the cock-sucker whore you want to be. And depending on the other guy to fulfill your fantasy is not going to get you there either. Take the bull by the balls and make the experience what you want of it.
 
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