Hand Jobs

[Reba67]

If you don't like hand jobs, then don't let anyone give one to you. I know my guy loves them, but sometimes he wants something else, which is fine. It's not like there is a magic formula to having sex. What worked last week might not work tonight.

 

[AnnikaFuks]

Hand job

Actually sucked cocks for years before ever trying a hand job on a guy. Which I would of thought of it sooner. Duh

 

[Tmmldr]

You know what I really hate? It's hand jobs. I know, I live a pretty charmed life when that registers on my hatred scale, but I can't help it I really do.

If any ladies are reading this, if you're at the point in a relationship where a hand job the only level of sexual contact you have with your partner, just give up on it. Leave, break up, whatever. Every time I've received a hand job from a woman I though: "I've been doing this since I was 12 and you're doing it wrong."

In short, I would rather go without than have to endure even one hand job.

I LIKE your attitude.

Cuz that means more hand jobs for me!

 

[Felix_Jones]

Actually sucked cocks for years before ever trying a hand job on a guy. Which I would of thought of it sooner. Duh

Ah well, doing one doesn't necessirly mean having to do the other.

 

[Quoll]

Handjob, headjob, rimjob, any job, will only be as good as the communication given.

If you can't give good communication, that's your problem, (or that's, your problem).

If your partner won't listen or try, then you have bigger problems than a lousy handjob.

http://www.handjobadvice.com/hand-job-advice-intro.html

 

[Elaya]

Hand jobs are awesome. It's about the only time I get to watch his face as he cums.

Love it! It's so true. I'm jealous In a way that the guys always get to see all of the action, that unless I use a video cameara, I'll never see what he does. And obviously you can't see inside your own mouth. Handjobs are the one time you get to really admire his cock. Just stare if you so wish.

 

[RedguyTx]

Handjob, headjob, rimjob, any job, will only be as good as the communication given.

If you can't give good communication, that's your problem, (or that's, your problem).

If your partner won't listen or try, then you have bigger problems than a lousy handjob.

http://www.handjobadvice.com/hand-job-advice-intro.html

AWESOME web site!
Any idea if she/they did any others?

 

[Somehowyou]

I'm really surprised at the level of disagreement. I'm really going to continue making my body a handjob free zone. I mean using the hand while she goes down is pretty good, but just a lazy stroke job....no thanks.

Felix

You are usually a soothsayer on Lit but on this point I disagree. Escpecially when I am in Montreal and I have a 19 y.o. escort in my room and I have fucked her everyway from Sunday for an entire hour and we have performed every oral sex act on each other and as a last act she pulls off my condom to give me a release by hand job and I explode all over her face....now that's nice!

 

[timetotry]

Hj

A good handjob is a true work of art both on the giving and receiving. If a guy sits there with a - get on with it but I'd rather stuff your face in my shorts - look on his face it certainly cannot be a load of fun for either party....HOWEVER if you will take the pleasure of allowing that your partner is in control of your orgasm and not you, you may find a whole other realm of pleasure. There can be a hint of wickedness on a woman's face when she decides to slow it down and see how long she can make you squirm that can totally blow you away when the climax is allowed. Try it maybe with the idea that it is for her as much as for your own pleasure and see how it goes........or keep stuffing their face in your shorts and wonder where in the hell they all went. just my .02

 

[Felix_Jones]

Felix

You are usually a soothsayer on Lit but on this point I disagree. Escpecially when I am in Montreal and I have a 19 y.o. escort in my room and I have fucked her everyway from Sunday for an entire hour and we have performed every oral sex act on each other and as a last act she pulls off my condom to give me a release by hand job and I explode all over her face....now that's nice!

Isn't that precious? *laugh*

 

[EllaLaJefa]

I think they are incredibly sexy. I love sitting on the couch, making out, with her hand stroking up and down my hard shaft...what's not to like??

Exactly...i love doing it and my husband loves it as well.

 

[infinity706]

Love it! It's so true. I'm jealous In a way that the guys always get to see all of the action, that unless I use a video cameara, I'll never see what he does. And obviously you can't see inside your own mouth. Handjobs are the one time you get to really admire his cock. Just stare if you so wish.

Honestly, you don't have to be in the middle of a handjob to admire his cock. I've never had any complaints about taking a minute or two to just stare while I'm rubbing his thighs, ass, whatever.

 

[pollux71]

Exactly...i love doing it and my husband loves it as well.

I love your signature-- if only more women would sign on to that. I am not saying women should be slaves or not achieve all life has for them; only that in my experience women are more satisfied when they realize they don't have to compete with men and they can be purely and fully woman. Bravo.

 

[acem05]

Hand jobs are awesome. It's about the only time I get to watch his face as he cums.

I never even thought of this. I love to see when a woman is being pleasured (especially by me).

Well played.

 

[EllaLaJefa]

I love your signature-- if only more women would sign on to that. I am not saying women should be slaves or not achieve all life has for them; only that in my experience women are more satisfied when they realize they don't have to compete with men and they can be purely and fully woman. Bravo.

Thank you! The quote sums up very well how I feel. I love being female, which comes with its own powers ....Giving an awesome, fulfilling handjob to my man while watching his pleasure Being one of them.

 

[subwannabe]

I'm going to give Felix the benefit of the doubt that he was talking about a relationship where intimacy had grown to the sexual level and yet the girl was offering up nothing more than regular handjobs or he was already in an established relationship where it had deteriorated to the point where all she was offering up were handjobs. In those cases, I would say he was right and that it was time to move on, regardless of whether it was her fault, his fault, or just the way it was. Other than those circumstances, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a handjob and there is nothing wrong with it being part of a couples repatoire. Did I spell that right? Any guy that would categorically remove handjobs from part of the sexual experience probably gets what he deserves - having it done correctly - by himself.

 

[Ngata]

Superb handjob

http://www.empflix.com/view.php?id=64968

 

[DarthDahak]

I personally have never cummed from a girl giving me a handjob....but that doesn't mean i don't like em. There's something out telling a girl how to do it, where to place the hand and such that gets me going. Esp since i'm not circumcised, so I've always had to "inform" girls on how to handle it.
On the other side, I love it when a girl tells me what to do also. Feels like we're connecting more

 

[wahoo33]

Love a hand job. A warm lubed hand clenched tightly around my shaft... oh dear, it's awesome!

 

[Tmmldr]

I'm going to give Felix the benefit of the doubt that he was talking about a relationship where intimacy had grown to the sexual level and yet the girl was offering up nothing more than regular handjobs or he was already in an established relationship where it had deteriorated to the point where all she was offering up were handjobs. In those cases, I would say he was right and that it was time to move on, regardless of whether it was her fault, his fault, or just the way it was. Other than those circumstances, there is absolutely nothing wrong with a handjob and there is nothing wrong with it being part of a couples repatoire. Did I spell that right? Any guy that would categorically remove handjobs from part of the sexual experience probably gets what he deserves - having it done correctly - by himself.

So what if the guy just mirrored the behavior back and did nothing but try to get her off rubbing her clit?

No intercourse, no doggie style, no half hour tongue job on those lovely tits, no stimulating her ass while going down on her. Nothing more than...

Just one hand.

That'd make the relationship......fair.

And fair's fair.

Does this sound mean? Well, should she get more than she gives?

 

[Slightlybentrod]

So what if the guy just mirrored the behavior back and did nothing but try to get her off rubbing her clit?

No intercourse, no doggie style, no half hour tongue job on those lovely tits, no stimulating her ass while going down on her. Nothing more than...

Just one hand.

That'd make the relationship......fair.

And fair's fair.

Does this sound mean? Well, should she get more than she gives?

Wrong idea...
If you’re looking for fair in a relationship it's never gonna work! If both look to give at least 60/40 then both are looking to give more than they receive and neither should ever be disappointed!
When given by the one you love under the right circumstances that one hand only hand job could be magical!

 

[billrichards41]

As long as it's part of a bj... feel free to use your hands!!!

 

[old_scratch]

If all a man is going to get in a relationship is a hand-job, why would he waste his time with any kind of commitment. It would be better to just play-the-field; the sex is better. After all, “variety is the spice of life”.

A man can jerk himself; he doesn’t need a woman to do it for him. What a man doesn’t have is a vagina.

 

[infinity706]

If all a man is going to get in a relationship is a hand-job, why would he waste his time with any kind of commitment. It would be better to just play-the-field; the sex is better. After all, “variety is the spice of life”.

A man can jerk himself; he doesn’t need a woman to do it for him. What a man doesn’t have is a vagina.

Yeah, but it's not hard to get a vagina. It really isn't any more trouble than a woman getting fake tits. It's penises that are the problem due to the shortage of erectile tissue.

 

[sarahbaby420]

haha your funny. i always think the same thing when im giving someone a handjob. in my opinion, its a blowjob or fucking for me. btw, what exactly is the right way to rub a cock?