How old were you when....?

[Beth87]

'Scuse me whilst i slot my answers in here

Also I was reading about people's ideas of virginity and when we lose it. Personally, I believed in PIV as the loss of 'virginity' for a long time. But now I see virginity as a spiritual thing rather than a breaking of a hymen etc.

So my answers

First masturbation age: 9 I don't know it wasn't very often when I was that age. When hit my teens then is when it took off.
First orgasm...14/15
Loss of 'virginity'..11
BDSM stuff. 15/16 years old.
Oral giving: too young to mention
Oral receiving: I cant remember..weird. I know it happened but i cant remember when.
Foursome: 16/17
Anal: 16 (younger with toys and stuff)

I think i covered most of them.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Yeah you and velvet darkness (wherever she went to). I don't know what's with submissive chicks here and kicking the shit out of trolls. I guess you both just take the idea that submission is a privelge reserved for a trusted PYL seriously.


Yes, but she might be able to get away with it, measured against me. I mean, a swinger once told me you don't get slut status until your number soars over 100 and we don't even know if she's hit double digits.

Nope. 3

 

[kinky_caligirl]

'Scuse me whilst i slot my answers in here

Also I was reading about people's ideas of virginity and when we lose it. Personally, I believed in PIV as the loss of 'virginity' for a long time. But now I see virginity as a spiritual thing rather than a breaking of a hymen etc.

So my answers

First masturbation age: 9 I don't know it wasn't very often when I was that age. When hit my teens then is when it took off.
First orgasm...14/15
Loss of 'virginity'..11
BDSM stuff. 15/16 years old.
Oral giving: too young to mention
Oral receiving: I cant remember..weird. I know it happened but i cant remember when.
Foursome: 16/17
Anal: 16 (younger with toys and stuff)

I think i covered most of them.

What is PIV?

 

[Stella_Omega]

Nope. 3

Your numbers don't matter to me-- the quality of the sex you had-- that's the important part.

I was in no way implying you might ever be a slut, either. You've had intimate sexual experience with someone-- not a virgin. That's my definition.

I mean-- how will your possible husband define sex?

PIV= Penis in Vagina

 

[kinky_caligirl]

Your numbers don't matter to me-- the quality of the sex you had-- that's the important part.

I was in no way implying you might ever be a slut, either. You've had intimate sexual experience with someone-- not a virgin. That's my definition.

I mean-- how will your possible husband define sex?

PIV= Penis in Vagina

Well thank you for giving me your opinion. I always like to hear what other people have to say.

I do not know what his definition will be.
Thank you.

 

[Beth87]

Your numbers don't matter to me-- the quality of the sex you had-- that's the important part.

I was in no way implying you might ever be a slut, either. You've had intimate sexual experience with someone-- not a virgin. That's my definition.

I mean-- how will your possible husband define sex?

PIV= Penis in Vagina

I couldn't be with a guy that thought virginity begins and ends with PIV and couldn't see past that.

Their beliefs don't have to be exactly like mine..but an openness to how I believe is essential. I realise I make it sound a little like religion or a political view here But in some ways it is. Try trying to explain to some how you can still be a 'virgin' despite PIV can be a little like trying to explain how Jesus saved the people of Egypt

 

[kinky_caligirl]

I couldn't be with a guy that thought virginity begins and ends with PIV and couldn't see past that.

Their beliefs don't have to be exactly like mine..but an openness to how I believe is essential. I realise I make it sound a little like religion or a political view here But in some ways it is. Try trying to explain to some how you can still be a 'virgin' despite PIV can be a little like trying to explain how Jesus saved the people of Egypt

THANK YOU!!! You have said it perfectly.

 

[satindesire]

I couldn't be with a guy that thought virginity begins and ends with PIV and couldn't see past that.

Their beliefs don't have to be exactly like mine..but an openness to how I believe is essential. I realise I make it sound a little like religion or a political view here But in some ways it is. Try trying to explain to some how you can still be a 'virgin' despite PIV can be a little like trying to explain how Jesus saved the people of Egypt

Yes, very true.

 

[Stella_Omega]

I couldn't be with a guy that thought virginity begins and ends with PIV and couldn't see past that.

Well, that would be not me.

If virginity were important to me, I would be looking at a girl's fun times with her three girlfriends with a mighty hairy eyeball.

But virginity is not important to me. If virginity were a song, I would never be able to remember the words.

Their beliefs don't have to be exactly like mine..but an openness to how I believe is essential. I realise I make it sound a little like religion or a political view here But in some ways it is. Try trying to explain to some how you can still be a 'virgin' despite PIV can be a little like trying to explain how Jesus saved the people of Egypt

And this would be me. I can easily understand how someone can be a virgin despite whatever they have been through in the past.

 

[Beth87]

Well, that would be not me.

If virginity were important to me, I would be looking at a girl's fun times with her three girlfriends with a mighty hairy eyeball.

But virginity is not important to me. If virginity were a song, I would never be able to remember the words.
And this would be me. I can easily understand how someone can be a virgin despite whatever they have been through in the past.

Annnd you live where?

Virginity isn't important to me really. I guess in some ways it is. I'd like to preserve mine for as long as possible (my spiritual virginity). But in general it isn't that important.

Quizzes like this one remind me of sleepovers and stuff as a child. Whenever this sort of thing came up it was always twinged with a kind of sadness...to some extent even now. Cheery note

 

[Stella_Omega]

Annnd you live where?

Virginity isn't important to me really. I guess in some ways it is. I'd like to preserve mine for as long as possible (my spiritual virginity). But in general it isn't that important.

Quizzes like this one remind me of sleepovers and stuff as a child. Whenever this sort of thing came up it was always twinged with a kind of sadness...to some extent even now. Cheery note

Yes, because we were up waaay to far past our bedtimes...

I was trying to figure out how to get up against Katy B without her laughing at me yet again.

 

[where]

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[Lizzie_Borden]

I couldn't be with a guy that thought virginity begins and ends with PIV and couldn't see past that.

Their beliefs don't have to be exactly like mine..but an openness to how I believe is essential. I realise I make it sound a little like religion or a political view here But in some ways it is. Try trying to explain to some how you can still be a 'virgin' despite PIV can be a little like trying to explain how Jesus saved the people of Egypt

THANK YOU!!! You have said it perfectly.

I'm confused here.

It sounds like you're agreeing with the concept that virginity isn't defined by PIV sex.

But from what I've gathered, despite the sexual experiences you've had, you still consider yourself a virign because you haven't had penetrative sex.

They seem different to me.

 

[Lizzie_Borden]

It's still kind of interesting that some of the subs here are more aggressive than I am, even though I usually end up dominating most of my partners. It's not a big deal, but it's still kind of a WTF moment. Of course, part of the problem is that I also have a harder time identifying trolls. Maybe I'm just too trusting.

I think it's less surprising when you take into account the nurturing nature of a submissive woman and what they'll do to protect those they care for.

I might be soft, pliable, submissive within my relationship. But you threaten Mr, or my immediate family (and I know I'll be the same with my future kids) and I'll reach down your throat, pull your liver out and bitchslap you with it.

 

[midwestyankee]

I couldn't be with a guy that thought virginity begins and ends with PIV and couldn't see past that.

Their beliefs don't have to be exactly like mine..but an openness to how I believe is essential. I realise I make it sound a little like religion or a political view here But in some ways it is. Try trying to explain to some how you can still be a 'virgin' despite PIV can be a little like trying to explain how Jesus saved the people of Egypt

Admittedly this is a tad off topic.

However, could someone who remembers their New Testament better than I please remind me of how Jesus saved the people of Egypt? In my dusty recollection, it was Moses who had the most direct effect on the people of Egypt.

 

[infinity706]

I think it's risky to assume that just because some identifies as sexually submissive then they are submissive in other areas and ways.

Most people who don't know me outside of the bedroom, if they had to assign a label to me it would be Domme. Even in a Fetish club with my Beloved, people assumed we were both dominant and looking for a sub

I think it's less surprising when you take into account the nurturing nature of a submissive woman and what they'll do to protect those they care for.

I might be soft, pliable, submissive within my relationship. But you threaten Mr, or my immediate family (and I know I'll be the same with my future kids) and I'll reach down your throat, pull your liver out and bitchslap you with it.

I guess that's a significant part of the whole concept that submission is a gift given to select, trusted partners and doesn't mean being a doormat.

 

[ownedsubgal]

I guess that's a significant part of the whole concept that submission is a gift given to select, trusted partners and doesn't mean being a doormat.

uh, not everyone shares that philosophy on submission.

 

[infinity706]

So, what is your philosophy?

 

[Beth87]

Admittedly this is a tad off topic.

However, could someone who remembers their New Testament better than I please remind me of how Jesus saved the people of Egypt? In my dusty recollection, it was Moses who had the most direct effect on the people of Egypt.

Haha..exactly my point

I'm confused here.

It sounds like you're agreeing with the concept that virginity isn't defined by PIV sex.

But from what I've gathered, despite the sexual experiences you've had, you still consider yourself a virign because you haven't had penetrative sex.

They seem different to me.

Yes, i was confused too..

 

[midwestyankee]

Haha..exactly my point

Fair enough. I got lost in the virginity shell game.

 

[TypicalDeviant]

I'll make it simple. Everyone everywhere is a virgin until he or she get it on with me, whereas "get it on" is defined by me, when it happens.

So, ask yourself this question: Have I slept with TypicalDeviant?

Yes: Not a virgin, you cock-gargling whore.
No: More virginy than olive oil.

 

[ownedsubgal]

So, what is your philosophy?

well that has been discussed here ad nauseum, but i'll give a brief synopsis.
i believe that there are different types of submissive people, ranging from those who are naturally submissive but ONLY in a sexual sense, to those who are naturally submissive in an overall personality sense, and many things in between. there are those whose submission is inspired by someone special, and there are those whose submission is purely reflexive, like laughing when tickled. i am of the latter type...i do not choose to submit to anyone, submission is my default response to those who make some request or demand of me. being submissive does not turn me on or give me some deep sense of fulfillment...it's just the way i am, and can't really help it. hence, my submission is no more a gift than my brown eyes. it just comes with the package.

hope that clears things up.

 

[Stella_Omega]

Damn! It's a good thing then, that you are owned, and that you live in a society that does not countenance random orders from strangers to random women.

But I assume you have a self-preservation instinct, right? You can set a limit on what demands you would accede to and what ones you would not.

 

[ownedsubgal]

Damn! It's a good thing then, that you are owned, and that you live in a society that does not countenance random orders from strangers to random women.

But I assume you have a self-preservation instinct, right? You can set a limit on what demands you would accede to and what ones you would not.

first, i believe my submissiveness is the embodiment of my self-preservation instinct. second, no i have no control over such things. but luckily, my Master does, as he controls my entire life. the primary reason i do not work outside the home and live such an isolated life is to protect me from all the big bad wolves out in the world whom i would not be able to refuse or defend myself against. and of course, when he chooses, he can leave me vulnerable quite easily.

 

[kinky_caligirl]

I couldn't be with a guy that thought virginity begins and ends with PIV and couldn't see past that.

Their beliefs don't have to be exactly like mine..but an openness to how I believe is essential. I realise I make it sound a little like religion or a political view here But in some ways it is. Try trying to explain to some how you can still be a 'virgin' despite PIV can be a little like trying to explain how Jesus saved the people of Egypt

I'm confused here.

It sounds like you're agreeing with the concept that virginity isn't defined by PIV sex.

But from what I've gathered, despite the sexual experiences you've had, you still consider yourself a virign because you haven't had penetrative sex.

They seem different to me.

At the time I read this I was agreeing. I was reading it wrong.