Humiliation?

[nutoseen]

agree

I love to be humiliated sexually, have my wife tell me she fucks other guys because my dick is to small, and when she tells me about all the guys that have shagged her good and proper....l love it it's the best feeling ever .

it makes me shoot so hard and intensely when my woman shares those thoughts as well. it is the best when they are so naughty.

 

[cuckoldbill]

I love to be humiliated sexually, have my wife tell me she fucks other guys because my dick is to small, and when she tells me about all the guys that have shagged her good and proper....l love it it's the best feeling ever .

Is this your fantasy or does your wife actually play around

 

[nutoseen]

loved it

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

i had a woman today see my penis and say its smaller than i thought it would be with a smile. i said do you like it. she said yeah even though its tiny i do. she never touched it, but i had a ton of precum start pouring out and i rubbed the head and made it glossy for her. that may be the start of some light humiliation if she shares with her friends even better...

 

[NickCarraway12]

Have at it.

https://i.imgur.com/dBfkntD.jpg

I don't mean to be disrespectful, but you are on the small side of the spectrum.

I'm going to show my wife this picture to see what she thinks. She'll be completely honest.

 

[sweetnpetite]

In my current mood I'd love my wife to be knocked up in front of me, while they laugh at me stroking myself

Can I be your wife?

 

[sweetnpetite]

I know what you mean. I love humiliation, whether on the giving or recieving end... I'm really into the mental aspects of bdsm... subjugation, mind fuckery, humiliation, etc...

I'm kind of a control and humiliation switch. I have fantasies about controlling and humiliating a woman, but also about being used and hosted by a group of women or couples. I guess it takes one to know one. It's so not about pain or punishment. I haven't had very good luck finding play partners. Just one woman who used me for her enjoyment a couple times. Only problem is she'd guide me with questions rather than commands. I'm much more into being told.

 

[sweetnpetite]

That's really hot... I have. Another of cuckold fantasies where the hubby is humiliated in public... ordered around, screamed at, hit... stepped on, forced to cary the purse (but pay out of his wallet), but a lady in waiting or handmaid basically... God that makes me hot to think about...

I find being humiliated extremely hot, especially when it's public. I really love to be told in no uncertain terms that I must perform humiliating acts in front of various and random strangers. It just turns me on in a very unique, remarkable way. When I think about how degraded I've become in days that follow, I get hot all over again. Maybe I've got a psychological problem, probably do. But it's what turns me on. That's just the way it is for me.

 

[sweetnpetite]

Yeah that's hot. Love the mansion part..

I fantasize about being paraded nude in front of a group of clothed women (and even their husbands) during a slave auction where I am to be sold to the highest bidder. The humiliation and level of vulnerability that this would induce REALLY gets me going.

Potential bidders are allowed to touch, prod, and inspect any and every part of my body before the live auction. They are allowed to insert a gloved, lubricated finger into my anus and measure how tightly I can squeeze the digit as part of the inspection process. I am also made to simulate fellatio on a penis-shaped dildo even though I am listed as a heterosexual slave, but could be forced into homosexual acts as an owned sex slave.

During the process of being auctioned, a butt-plug is inserted into me and I am made to masturbate in front of them. The auctioneer then measures the length and girth of my full erection for them to consider. Finally, I am made to make myself ejaculate where the distance and number of my cum shots are recorded and announced.

This would be made even more exciting if this were in someone's private home or mansion, where the participants are rich, powerful, and members of some secret society, and I am becoming a low-level member via being owned as a secret sex slave by one of them.

 

[sweetnpetite]

I'd just love to role play sisters with you...

I'm an odd duck. I love to be told how I'm a slut, whore, and perverted, but as soon as you tell me I'm not very good at what I'm doing, that snaps me out of the space.

Otherwise, I love being choked, spanked, pissed on, gagged, slapped HARD on the face repeatedly, made to drool on cock, and even...dare I say it? ... gag on cock so long that I vomit.

 

[sweetnpetite]

Oh my!! I love your avatar....

Your not alone. I enjoyed what little experience Ive had with it

 

[sweetnpetite]

I had a gf who would insult and tease and humiliate me during sex. It was a huge turn on.

What wouid she say? Can you give some examples? (For science)

 

[sweetnpetite]

Damn this whole thread is making me so horny...

I love finding a sub who is a table

 

[sweetnpetite]

It us surprisingly difficult to get a man to humiliate me. Dont know why.

Yes... or they are willing but not skilled...

 

[sweetnpetite]

A lot of people being really TERRIBLE at something does not equal to having high standards.. I read the same thing as you... you heard... "She has high standards" I read, "yeah just because we are into humiliation doesn't mean you shouid be unimaginative and have zero game...

She doesn't have HIGH standards. She just has *standards.* Domt get those things confused....

High standards would be if she gave an example of someone really bringing it and her turning up her nose... not what she showed.

Just in this thread alone, the posts quoted above all suggest that you have somewhat high standards for the caliber of humiliation that appeals to you. I'm also pretty sure I've seen similar comments in other threads where the same subject comes up. This is not a bad thing, mind you, just an observation of what seems to be a pattern.

 

[sweetnpetite]

I feel like a big whimpering mess of a sex toy reading this...

Maybe what I really crave isn't so much humiliation as it is self abasement. Purposely placing myself in a vulnerable situation to be "used" by someone else solely for their sexual gratification and release without having the slightest concern for my enjoyment or even comfort. To them, how I feel is irrelevant. I find this extremely arousing!

 

[sweetnpetite]

I like tbe cruel and mean...

I neither desire "cruel and mean" humiliation when submissive, nor do I desire to humiliate my subs "in the most cruel and mean ways" when Dominant.

I do enjoy, however, placing my subs in socio-sexually uncomfortable situations, such as having them wear short skirts and thin tops with no bras or panties in public. This also turns me on when this is imposed upon me. Does that count?

 

[2small4Mrs]

Raises hand......I actually crave it.

 

[dirtylittlecucker]

Hi.
So I love humiliation, within proper context. With the right partner who, despite his consensual abusive behavior, still values me and will care for me after the experience.
That being said, I am willing to explore just how horrible I could feel. I cannot say if what happens to me, would bring me to tears, but I wouldn't mind finding that out.
Reading the posts through this thread, I see many aspects that are appealing for me. From public exposure to using me like a pig whore.
The smaller, less important I am made to feel, the wetter I get.
I think that words would do more (wanted) damage than just physical interactions.
Just my thoughts.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

No , you’re not alone , maybe the herd is really really thinned out with it being their primary desire as a fetish.

But you ain’t alone as far as the desire for it. I’ve tapped a few slits here that can’t get enough of it here , there , everywhere.

 

[dirtylittlecucker]

No , you’re not alone , maybe the herd is really really thinned out with it being their primary desire as a fetish.

But you ain’t alone as far as the desire for it. I’ve tapped a few slits here that can’t get enough of it here , there , everywhere.

my highlight.
Some might take offense to that statement.

Some.

 

[whenagain]

I like tbe cruel and mean...

How cruel? How mean? Examples?

 

[Goldenfinger]

I would not want to be in a relationship where there is constant humiliation. I’m not into humiliation in the general public. Under erotic circumstances it can be a powerful turn on.

 

[dirtylittlecucker]

I would not want to be in a relationship where there is constant humiliation. I’m not into humiliation in the general public. Under erotic circumstances it can be a powerful turn on.

Hi Goldfinger.
I agree that constant humiliation, for me personally, isn't balanced. I like the yin/yang of this dynamic. Be cruel, but lift me up when it's over.
Hurt me phychologically, but put my mind at ease by letting me know you enjoy being that way, but still love me and admire me.
It's so very specific to each couple's dynamic. And it is a delicate place to be.
But with the right person, circumstances, and situation, it can be wonderful.

 

[flapear]

Hi Goldfinger.
I agree that constant humiliation, for me personally, isn't balanced. I like the yin/yang of this dynamic. Be cruel, but lift me up when it's over.
Hurt me phychologically, but put my mind at ease by letting me know you enjoy being that way, but still love me and admire me.
It's so very specific to each couple's dynamic. And it is a delicate place to be.
But with the right person, circumstances, and situation, it can be wonderful.

It's even more exciting and arousing when it has nothing to do with actual sex. It offers the chance to sexualize a completely unsexual situation like sticking out ears.

This story really happened.

A long time ago when I was 19 years old, I visited Jeff, a school friend. He lived with his parents in a big villa with a large garden and a tennis court.

We sat on a bench in the garden when his older sister came out of the villa and walked towards us.

“Hi, I’m Eva,” she said. She had long thick blond hair falling on her shoulders, a nice figure, well, she was very beautiful.

She sat down next to her brother.

Suddenly she pushed against the back of Jeff’s right ear with her finger. It folded over. “Look at his big flapping ears!” she laughed. "like the sails of a boat flapping in the wind! And his left ear sticks out even more!” She tenderly pulled his ears, stretching them.

Jeff’s face became red, flushed, but the way he smiled made me think that he rather liked what was happening. But my heart started beating fast, too. I was instantly aroused, knowing she would tease me, too

“I use his sticking out ears as reins when I ride on his shoulders,” Eva said. “Look!” She quickly stood on the bench behind Jeff who was still sitting and climbed on this shoulders. She pushed Jeff’s ears forward with her thumbs. She pushed hard, the ears touched his face. “Up!” she ordered and Jeff obeyed.

“Walk with us,” she said, “you’ll see how I steer him.”

She pulled his left or right ear to make turns, and when she pulled the ears even farther from his head he had to stand still. Pushing against the back of both ears meant: go in a straight line.

Five minutes later she steered Jeff back to the bench and dismounted. I saw that Jeff was aroused.

She now turned to me. “Hey, you also have protruding ears!” She laughed this sweet girl’s laugh. “Oh no, I’m wrong! Only your right ear sticks out! How funny! I’m going to ride you, too, I just must try you out!”

She tenderly pulled my sticking out ear. Then she climbed on my shoulders. It was very arousing, this beautiful girl on my shoulders, tenderly pulling my ears till they were red and hot.

She dismounted. “That was great!” she sighed. “And now, I’ll enjoy both my slave-elephants at the same time. Your elephant ears at my disposal! We do the camel position!”

She grabbed Jeff’s left ear. “I always use the ear that sticks out most to pull him where I want him to go,” she grinned. “It’s more humiliating and he likes that!”

I had to stand up with my back turned to Jeff. Eva pulled his ear to make him bow his back. He grabbed my hips. Eva sat on Jeff’s back. She pulled my protruding ear and I obediently made a right turn. From time to time she used Jeff’s ears, and with his hands on my hips, he made me go right or left.

Five minutes later, we were all sitting on the bench again. Suddenly Eva grabbed Jeff's ear. "Do you want to ride him?" she asked me. She didn't ask Jeff's permission. She was the dominant.

A bit shaky with excitement, I climbed on Jeff's strong shoulders and the moment I used his flapping ears as reins, my cock was rock hard against his neck. I had never been so aroused!

Afterwards, I said: “Eva, now it’s your turn! Camel position! But first, put your hair in a strict ponytail so that your ears are easy to pull!”

Eva’s face turned red. She squirmed a bit: “OK, I’ll show you my secret!”
She revealed her sticking out ears. “It’s in the family, I got them from my mother! That’s our gene pool.”

Eva took her position with her back turned to Jeff, who put his hands on her hips and I sat on Jeff’s back. I tenderly manipulated Eva’s ears to steer her, and she liked it a lot she said.

I stayed overnight. I couldn’t resist, I went into Jeff’s room, and before long I was riding him piggyback, both of us naked. Then suddenly Eva came in. “”Oh, no,” she said, “I have my urges, too.” She grabbed my sticky out ear and took me to her room. She rode on my shoulders, her wet pussy in my neck until she couldn’t hold out any longer. She wanted me to take her doggy style while I had to hold on to her ears. Wonderful orgasm! The best of my life!

Later that month the entire family moved to another country, her father being nominated ambassador, and I never saw them again. I wish I could find out how they are doing now, so many years later.

I’ve always enjoyed ear humiliation !

 

[flapear]

I'd love to get private messages about ear humiliation from all of you! Have you enjoyed humiliation when during a play he/she made fun of your ears? You should try it, even with a sub who doesn't have sticking out ears. Pulling the ears but without causing pain, or with tape, attach a string to the ear, and at the other end of the string attach a teaspoon so that the ears stick out !