Humiliation?

[lilmissholliex]

Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

 

[MissMandy86]

Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

Most guys think calling you a cunt or slut is humliation but it has to be a lot deeper...

 

[base10]

Most guys think calling you a cunt or slut is humliation but it has to be a lot deeper...

It only works if I've truly gotten inside your head. Otherwise words are just words

 

[base10]

Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

It would absolutely be a ton of fun to play this out within a small group of trusted people

 

[MissMandy86]

It would absolutely be a ton of fun to play this out within a small group of trusted people

That could be very hot

 

[eroticspank]

Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

It certainly can be tricky especially since a lot of this is about what is in our heads like mentioned above.

For me, the being "outed" part is like your partner saying aloud your secret fetish and being okay with it. But not in the way most people would think. We are not talking about, "You like that? Wow, that is wonderful, I would love to try it." Your partner brings up your fetish and teases you about it. You can tell he or she is not disgusted by it and you can feel they are turned on by it or like it. That makes you feel good, but being teased makes you feel embarrassed, some shame, and add those together and you get turned on.

ES

 

[lilmissholliex]

It certainly can be tricky especially since a lot of this is about what is in our heads like mentioned above.

For me, the being "outed" part is like your partner saying aloud your secret fetish and being okay with it. But not in the way most people would think. We are not talking about, "You like that? Wow, that is wonderful, I would love to try it." Your partner brings up your fetish and teases you about it. You can tell he or she is not disgusted by it and you can feel they are turned on by it or like it. That makes you feel good, but being teased makes you feel embarrassed, some shame, and add those together and you get turned on.

ES

Yes sounds a bit like it!

Long story short I suppose, the idea of being known as a submissive little slut, that loves X and Y and is absolute filth, its very hot. Groups of people.... cameras... that sort of thing is an amazingly hot fantasy. But as we all know, that has consequences. Guess I should just do it in private

 

[wallstreetguy]

When I first was asked to do this, many moons ago, I was confused. I did not think women really enjoyed this.
But then I got request after request for it, so I went with it. And I got better at it. Much better.
But it always seemed that women come up with more extreme degradations than I can imagine. I follow their lead and then take it a step further. That seems to be their tipping point.
With the right partner, it can be extraordinary. I enjoy the woman's reactions more than anything else.

 

[sub2femdom]

I'm totally into mild to moderate humiliation. Not into the really insulting kind, but the teasing and loving kinds really get me off. Serving a mistress and cuckoldry are natural for me.

 

[switchitter13]

I luv SPH..having women talk dirty about my little 4 inch dick...always gets me hard

 

[lilmissholliex]

A group of men degrading me now in a naughty way wouldn't go amiss I'll be quite honest!

Maybe 3 or 4, some naughty names and some roughness

 

[lilmissholliex]

Perhaps 4 guys with massive cocks jerking in your face and over your tits calling you their ‘dirty little cumslut’ as they gently slap their dicks against you. They smear your face with their pre-cum before blowing their loads and covering your face with big ropes of creamy sperm. Just a suggestion!

Oh my gosh so much yes. That please

 

[ChiDom]

It's all about finding out what you are both into and then working within those boundaries. My wife really, really gets off on being humiliated in a bunch of different ways. Sometimes it's worked into everyday stuff. Like, we'll be out for dinner and I'll discreetly whisper in her ear that she looks slutty and the waiter is staring at her tits. Or I'll text her while she's at work with a picture of us fucking the night before and ask her if I should show her co-workers what she looks like with a cock up her ass. Stuff like that. It can also obviously be more physical, like an unexpected eye-closing cum shot, or making her beg for an appendage of my choice to be inserted into one of her holes. It took us a while to get comfortable with how I humiliate her. Everyone is different, I've had partners in the past who would kick my ass if I did some of this shit to them, lol.

 

[sterculius]

What really pushes my buttons is what I term "situational humiliation". I'm a cocksucker, which for a man is in itself pretty humiliating, and most of my fantasies revolve around being outed. I don't think I would enjoy being insulted and called names, but it excites me to imagine myself down on my knees at the head of a line of my friends, sucking cock after cock as they all stand around holding their cocks, waiting to take their turn fucking my throat as they take pictures of me using their cell phones and talk to each other about how they intend to fuck my throat and ejaculate deep inside me. Women complain of being treated as sex objects, but this is what turns me on!! I love feeling "used". I want my throat to be looked upon as merely a tight, warm and wet "hole" to be fucked and used to facilitate another man's orgasm and as a convenient receptacle to ejaculate into and then to be put aside until it's needed again. You wouldn't insult a hammer or a screwdriver, so why insult a Cocksucker who performs a valuable service.

 

[cuck72]

What really pushes my buttons is what I term "situational humiliation". I'm a cocksucker, which for a man is in itself pretty humiliating, and most of my fantasies revolve around being outed. I don't think I would enjoy being insulted and called names, but it excites me to imagine myself down on my knees at the head of a line of my friends, sucking cock after cock as they all stand around holding their cocks, waiting to take their turn fucking my throat as they take pictures of me using their cell phones and talk to each other about how they intend to fuck my throat and ejaculate deep inside me. Women complain of being treated as sex objects, but this is what turns me on!! I love feeling "used". I want my throat to be looked upon as merely a tight, warm and wet "hole" to be fucked and used to facilitate another man's orgasm and as a convenient receptacle to ejaculate into and then to be put aside until it's needed again. You wouldn't insult a hammer or a screwdriver, so why insult a Cocksucker who performs a valuable service.

WOW! you got me hard imagining doing this. But I do think of being verbally degraded, called a faggot cock sucker, and hearing them laughing.

 

[sterculius]

WOW! you got me hard imagining doing this. But I do think of being verbally degraded, called a faggot cock sucker, and hearing them laughing.

But that would deny the basic premise. For them to insult me assumes their intention is to make me feel bad. In my scenario, it doesn't matter to them HOW I feel, one way or the other. To them, how I feel, or whether I feel anything at all, is irrelevant. For their purposes, I'm just an object to be used, then discarded.

 

[wallstreetguy]

A sub coming up with new humiliations gets me so incredibly aroused. I was not used to this, but knowing that they trust me like that gets me hot.
Then again, I have a huge number of kinks, so that could just be me.

 

[twister947]

But that would deny the basic premise. For them to insult me assumes their intention is to make me feel bad. In my scenario, it doesn't matter to them HOW I feel, one way or the other. To them, how I feel, or whether I feel anything at all, is irrelevant. For their purposes, I'm just an object to be used, then discarded.

Yeah. Totally get that. What I want isn't a factor.

 

[artgorden]

Have at it.

https://i.imgur.com/dBfkntD.jpg

 

[lilmissholliex]

It's all about finding out what you are both into and then working within those boundaries. My wife really, really gets off on being humiliated in a bunch of different ways. Sometimes it's worked into everyday stuff. Like, we'll be out for dinner and I'll discreetly whisper in her ear that she looks slutty and the waiter is staring at her tits. Or I'll text her while she's at work with a picture of us fucking the night before and ask her if I should show her co-workers what she looks like with a cock up her ass. Stuff like that. It can also obviously be more physical, like an unexpected eye-closing cum shot, or making her beg for an appendage of my choice to be inserted into one of her holes. It took us a while to get comfortable with how I humiliate her. Everyone is different, I've had partners in the past who would kick my ass if I did some of this shit to them, lol.

This is my thing for sure... as mentioned before, mainly in fantasy as I'm single but that sort of thing really gets me going personally.

 

[ContinentalPsyOp]

It's a beautiful thing when you can find those quick-access button's to a lover's deep pleasure centers.

The sharp, succinct phrase that can max-out her shame and her arousal, simultaneously, in 20 words or less . . . now, that's literotica.

 

[lilmissholliex]

It's a beautiful thing when you can find those quick-access button's to a lover's deep pleasure centers.

The sharp, succinct phrase that can max-out her shame and her arousal, simultaneously, in 20 words or less . . . now, that's literotica.

Absolutely.

 

[jim28]

I feel that humiliation is a very personal thing. What humiliates one person may not humiliate another.

My ex used to say that I could not be humiliated. I disagree, it was just that I accepted and knew I deserved what was done to me. I asked for it and begged for more.

Enemas, diapers, CBT, whippings, golden showers...

Furthermore, She made sure that her family knew most of what went on here.

I was put on display for her youngest sister.

When her adult granddaughter lived with us I was feminized in front of gd and my ex made sure gd heard my nightly beatings. GD spread the word around the family. Her first ex even commented at a family diner about my getting kicked in the balls.

Her prude oldest sister asked me if it was true that I crawled naked to my ex and begged to be dominated. Her other sister brought me diapers.

One time when Her adult son came to visit, She made me sit on the floor. She told him that I was a sissy and did not deserve to sit on a chair. There was noting I could say in defense. If I had she probably would have made me strip down to the diaper and bra I was wearing and that she had allowed me to cover up when he arrived.

 

[nutoseen]

i am hoping to experience my tiny penis being seen, commented on, teased, played with, judged, worked hard, and to be made to jerk off for a mature woman or small group of women.

 

[Just2Kinky]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

Humiliation is certainly within the genre of some submissive scenarios that can drive me nucking futs... couple that with a little mild domination and I'm putty in ones hands.