Humiliation?

[Mariepsylckr]

I would never want to be "outed" as there would be hugely negative consequences for my professional and personal life outside of the intimacy. But in private, or (especially) with one (or more) of Her lovers... in the right scenario it would be HOT! Taking photos, so long as they are not posted anywhere, would be hot, although the key is, as long as there is trust that they won't be shared or posted...

The problem with public humiliation is it exposes other people around you to your intimate private life, who may not particularly WANT to be exposed to your and your intimate private life.

Agree... still very arousing to fantasize.. in an alternate world where everyone is truly anonymous, no inhibitions and no consequences.. and all our sexual desires/kinks/fetishes are possible...
and no “society norms”
The possibilities are endless...

 

[Mariepsylckr]

Example

This may also be in the bondage category..
if I was in a place where I am truly anonymous. No cameras. Everyone is naked so no place to hide one. This would be a good example of humiliation for me in my fantasy world. And people are watching me getting tortured like this...


https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f906d292ad27

 

[9to5]

This may also be in the bondage category..
if I was in a place where I am truly anonymous. No cameras. Everyone is naked so no place to hide one. This would be a good example of humiliation for me in my fantasy world. And people are watching me getting tortured like this...


https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f906d292ad27

boy is that a hot one. and you have such a fun idea

 

[Bbwfucktoy]

This may also be in the bondage category..
if I was in a place where I am truly anonymous. No cameras. Everyone is naked so no place to hide one. This would be a good example of humiliation for me in my fantasy world. And people are watching me getting tortured like this...


https://www.pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5f906d292ad27

I would love this as well….

 

[lilmissholliex]

Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

 

[MissMandy86]

Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

Most guys think calling you a cunt or slut is humliation but it has to be a lot deeper...

 

[base10]

Most guys think calling you a cunt or slut is humliation but it has to be a lot deeper...

It only works if I've truly gotten inside your head. Otherwise words are just words

 

[base10]

Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

It would absolutely be a ton of fun to play this out within a small group of trusted people

 

[MissMandy86]

It would absolutely be a ton of fun to play this out within a small group of trusted people

That could be very hot

 

[eroticspank]

Totally agree with the above. The thrill of being 'outed' as a submissive slut (for want of a better term) is definitely what drives it, but then the minute it happens the fun would stop. Perhaps being 'outed' in a smaller group of sexual people, who get it, is a bit of a compromise. It's a bit of a tricky one.

It certainly can be tricky especially since a lot of this is about what is in our heads like mentioned above.

For me, the being "outed" part is like your partner saying aloud your secret fetish and being okay with it. But not in the way most people would think. We are not talking about, "You like that? Wow, that is wonderful, I would love to try it." Your partner brings up your fetish and teases you about it. You can tell he or she is not disgusted by it and you can feel they are turned on by it or like it. That makes you feel good, but being teased makes you feel embarrassed, some shame, and add those together and you get turned on.

ES

 

[lilmissholliex]

It certainly can be tricky especially since a lot of this is about what is in our heads like mentioned above.

For me, the being "outed" part is like your partner saying aloud your secret fetish and being okay with it. But not in the way most people would think. We are not talking about, "You like that? Wow, that is wonderful, I would love to try it." Your partner brings up your fetish and teases you about it. You can tell he or she is not disgusted by it and you can feel they are turned on by it or like it. That makes you feel good, but being teased makes you feel embarrassed, some shame, and add those together and you get turned on.

ES

Yes sounds a bit like it!

Long story short I suppose, the idea of being known as a submissive little slut, that loves X and Y and is absolute filth, its very hot. Groups of people.... cameras... that sort of thing is an amazingly hot fantasy. But as we all know, that has consequences. Guess I should just do it in private

 

[wallstreetguy]

When I first was asked to do this, many moons ago, I was confused. I did not think women really enjoyed this.
But then I got request after request for it, so I went with it. And I got better at it. Much better.
But it always seemed that women come up with more extreme degradations than I can imagine. I follow their lead and then take it a step further. That seems to be their tipping point.
With the right partner, it can be extraordinary. I enjoy the woman's reactions more than anything else.

 

[sub2femdom]

I'm totally into mild to moderate humiliation. Not into the really insulting kind, but the teasing and loving kinds really get me off. Serving a mistress and cuckoldry are natural for me.

 

[switchitter13]

I luv SPH..having women talk dirty about my little 4 inch dick...always gets me hard

 

[lilmissholliex]

A group of men degrading me now in a naughty way wouldn't go amiss I'll be quite honest!

Maybe 3 or 4, some naughty names and some roughness

 

[lilmissholliex]

Perhaps 4 guys with massive cocks jerking in your face and over your tits calling you their ‘dirty little cumslut’ as they gently slap their dicks against you. They smear your face with their pre-cum before blowing their loads and covering your face with big ropes of creamy sperm. Just a suggestion!

Oh my gosh so much yes. That please

 

[ChiDom]

It's all about finding out what you are both into and then working within those boundaries. My wife really, really gets off on being humiliated in a bunch of different ways. Sometimes it's worked into everyday stuff. Like, we'll be out for dinner and I'll discreetly whisper in her ear that she looks slutty and the waiter is staring at her tits. Or I'll text her while she's at work with a picture of us fucking the night before and ask her if I should show her co-workers what she looks like with a cock up her ass. Stuff like that. It can also obviously be more physical, like an unexpected eye-closing cum shot, or making her beg for an appendage of my choice to be inserted into one of her holes. It took us a while to get comfortable with how I humiliate her. Everyone is different, I've had partners in the past who would kick my ass if I did some of this shit to them, lol.

 

[sterculius]

What really pushes my buttons is what I term "situational humiliation". I'm a cocksucker, which for a man is in itself pretty humiliating, and most of my fantasies revolve around being outed. I don't think I would enjoy being insulted and called names, but it excites me to imagine myself down on my knees at the head of a line of my friends, sucking cock after cock as they all stand around holding their cocks, waiting to take their turn fucking my throat as they take pictures of me using their cell phones and talk to each other about how they intend to fuck my throat and ejaculate deep inside me. Women complain of being treated as sex objects, but this is what turns me on!! I love feeling "used". I want my throat to be looked upon as merely a tight, warm and wet "hole" to be fucked and used to facilitate another man's orgasm and as a convenient receptacle to ejaculate into and then to be put aside until it's needed again. You wouldn't insult a hammer or a screwdriver, so why insult a Cocksucker who performs a valuable service.

 

[cuck72]

What really pushes my buttons is what I term "situational humiliation". I'm a cocksucker, which for a man is in itself pretty humiliating, and most of my fantasies revolve around being outed. I don't think I would enjoy being insulted and called names, but it excites me to imagine myself down on my knees at the head of a line of my friends, sucking cock after cock as they all stand around holding their cocks, waiting to take their turn fucking my throat as they take pictures of me using their cell phones and talk to each other about how they intend to fuck my throat and ejaculate deep inside me. Women complain of being treated as sex objects, but this is what turns me on!! I love feeling "used". I want my throat to be looked upon as merely a tight, warm and wet "hole" to be fucked and used to facilitate another man's orgasm and as a convenient receptacle to ejaculate into and then to be put aside until it's needed again. You wouldn't insult a hammer or a screwdriver, so why insult a Cocksucker who performs a valuable service.

WOW! you got me hard imagining doing this. But I do think of being verbally degraded, called a faggot cock sucker, and hearing them laughing.

 

[sterculius]

WOW! you got me hard imagining doing this. But I do think of being verbally degraded, called a faggot cock sucker, and hearing them laughing.

But that would deny the basic premise. For them to insult me assumes their intention is to make me feel bad. In my scenario, it doesn't matter to them HOW I feel, one way or the other. To them, how I feel, or whether I feel anything at all, is irrelevant. For their purposes, I'm just an object to be used, then discarded.

 

[wallstreetguy]

A sub coming up with new humiliations gets me so incredibly aroused. I was not used to this, but knowing that they trust me like that gets me hot.
Then again, I have a huge number of kinks, so that could just be me.

 

[twister947]

But that would deny the basic premise. For them to insult me assumes their intention is to make me feel bad. In my scenario, it doesn't matter to them HOW I feel, one way or the other. To them, how I feel, or whether I feel anything at all, is irrelevant. For their purposes, I'm just an object to be used, then discarded.

Yeah. Totally get that. What I want isn't a factor.

 

[artgorden]

Have at it.

https://i.imgur.com/dBfkntD.jpg

 

[lilmissholliex]

It's all about finding out what you are both into and then working within those boundaries. My wife really, really gets off on being humiliated in a bunch of different ways. Sometimes it's worked into everyday stuff. Like, we'll be out for dinner and I'll discreetly whisper in her ear that she looks slutty and the waiter is staring at her tits. Or I'll text her while she's at work with a picture of us fucking the night before and ask her if I should show her co-workers what she looks like with a cock up her ass. Stuff like that. It can also obviously be more physical, like an unexpected eye-closing cum shot, or making her beg for an appendage of my choice to be inserted into one of her holes. It took us a while to get comfortable with how I humiliate her. Everyone is different, I've had partners in the past who would kick my ass if I did some of this shit to them, lol.

This is my thing for sure... as mentioned before, mainly in fantasy as I'm single but that sort of thing really gets me going personally.

 

[ContinentalPsyOp]

It's a beautiful thing when you can find those quick-access button's to a lover's deep pleasure centers.

The sharp, succinct phrase that can max-out her shame and her arousal, simultaneously, in 20 words or less . . . now, that's literotica.