Humiliation?

i am hoping to experience my tiny penis being seen, commented on, teased, played with, judged, worked hard, and to be made to jerk off for a mature woman or small group of women.
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

Humiliation is certainly within the genre of some submissive scenarios that can drive me nucking futs... couple that with a little mild domination and I'm putty in ones hands.
 
Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

Love this! There is just something about it that turns me on so much!
 
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Love this! There is just something about it that turns me on so much!

I took a look at your posts and I can see how much you must like to be humiliated and degraded. My word do you beg for it, so desperate. I saw one post where you were begging for a top from any gender, not in a bi or pan way but in a “I’ll take anything way”.

Such a worm!
 
I love to be humiliated sexually, have my wife tell me she fucks other guys because my dick is to small, and when she tells me about all the guys that have shagged her good and proper....l love it it's the best feeling ever .
 
It only works if I've truly gotten inside your head. Otherwise words are just words

Oh I absolutely agree with this. Humiliation is only really meaningful when it touches those secret buttons that maybe even I don't know about. Some little insecurity or a secret fantasy, something embarrassing. Being called a slut or a cunt gets old fast. The best experiences I've had involved someone who took the time to probe me and find those things that just set me off in unexpected ways. A red face is a fast track to a wet pussy.
 
A sub coming up with new humiliations gets me so incredibly aroused. I was not used to this, but knowing that they trust me like that gets me hot.
Then again, I have a huge number of kinks, so that could just be me.



It’s that, for me. The trust.

It’s not the basic act of humiliation or degradation that does it for me. It’s not the words on their own.

It’s that I can trust him enough to be that vulnerable to him. That he sees value in me as person, and knows that I’m not a worthless whore, I’m HIS whore. The longer I know him, and the more I trust him, the further I want it to go. I’m very strong willed, emotionally capable, and typically take absolutely zero bullshit from anyone, ever. So it’s a huge shift for me to give anyone that level of access to my psyche. It’s an intoxicating feeling, giving that to someone.

If some random person tried it, I’d tear them apart. If he’d come out of the gate with it, I’d have rejected it outright. But after allowing the relationship to develop naturally to this level of trust? Yeah…. I want him to slap my face with his dick and make me beg for it. I want him to make me admit what I am and how much I need him. I want him to smirk at me and chastise me for being such a filthy fucking whore, and then use me as an object. Fuck. Yes.
 
It’s that, for me. The trust.

It’s not the basic act of humiliation or degradation that does it for me. It’s not the words on their own.

It’s that I can trust him enough to be that vulnerable to him. That he sees value in me as person, and knows that I’m not a worthless whore, I’m HIS whore. The longer I know him, and the more I trust him, the further I want it to go. I’m very strong willed, emotionally capable, and typically take absolutely zero bullshit from anyone, ever. So it’s a huge shift for me to give anyone that level of access to my psyche. It’s an intoxicating feeling, giving that to someone.

If some random person tried it, I’d tear them apart. If he’d come out of the gate with it, I’d have rejected it outright. But after allowing the relationship to develop naturally to this level of trust? Yeah…. I want him to slap my face with his dick and make me beg for it. I want him to make me admit what I am and how much I need him. I want him to smirk at me and chastise me for being such a filthy fucking whore, and then use me as an object. Fuck. Yes.

I am very impressed. That is a great explanation. Before someone can get into your head, they need entry into your heart. Then paying attention to the things you like and teasing you about them in just the right way is the wonderful part of this kind of play.

ES
 
I'm a Cocksucker. I love giving other men blowjobs. I love the slutty way that being a Cocksucker makes me feel. Sucking cock was the first sex I'd ever had with another person and it remains my most favorite sex act to perform. But I'm also a married father of three. I don't look like a cocksucker from the outside and if it became common knowledge my life would be irreparably changed. and yet One of my biggest turn-on's is being outed. My best high school friend, whose cock I used to suck every day as soon as we returned home from school, would tease me by threatening to tell all our friends I was a cocksucker and I would have to blow all of them also. I would jerk off while visualizing myself down on my knees at the head of a line of our friends sucking cock after cock while they all stood around, watching me and laughing as they waited to take their turn fucking my throat and making me eat their cum. I don't want to be insulted. but I love feeling objectified and "used"!!
 
I'm a Cocksucker. I love giving other men blowjobs. I love the slutty way that being a Cocksucker makes me feel. Sucking cock was the first sex I'd ever had with another person and it remains my most favorite sex act to perform. But I'm also a married father of three. I don't look like a cocksucker from the outside and if it became common knowledge my life would be irreparably changed. and yet One of my biggest turn-on's is being outed. My best high school friend, whose cock I used to suck every day as soon as we returned home from school, would tease me by threatening to tell all our friends I was a cocksucker and I would have to blow all of them also. I would jerk off while visualizing myself down on my knees at the head of a line of our friends sucking cock after cock while they all stood around, watching me and laughing as they waited to take their turn fucking my throat and making me eat their cum. I don't want to be insulted. but I love feeling objectified and "used"!!
Are you describing me? WOW! I have the same cock sucking submissive humiliating thoughts. I too am closeted, and no one would EVER! think that I jack off thinking the same things, being a laughed at faggot on my knees. The guys and cute younger girls where I worked would NEVER! think of me as a faggot, and cuckold wannabe. It gets me so excited and hard thinking of these few guys I know, and would suck off.
 
Thank you for mentioning this. I have a submissive role with my Dominant wife, but it's always been between us, only. Recently I found out that she outed me to our neighbor, a widow that we've been good friends with for a long time. I just found this out, almost by accident from the widow due to something she said to me after I spent almost the whole day fixing her lawn tractor. I was dirty, sweaty and my hands were black with grease and oil. She tried to hand me her laptop she wanted to show me as she had just bought it. I held up my hands and said "no, i'm all dirty". She responded back with a grin and said, "oh, i'd heard, you're a dirty little boy". I'm 70! "But we'll keep it a secret, won't we?"

I left her house, so confused, what did she know, how much did she know? One side of me was aroused from humiliation, the other was very concerned as to how many other friends, male and female may find out soon. I confronted my wife and she went right into Domme mode, telling me i'd be made available to service my neighbor on an as needed basis..

It hasn't happened yet, i don't know what will happen, i'm aroused, humiliated and concerned, all at the same time.

Interesting situation your Domme has placed you in. On one hand she’s told your widow neighbour and has threatened to loan you to her for her pleasure. On the other hand you have no idea how many other people she has told about your dirty little secret. Exquisite
Please keep us updated on how things go.
 
Thank you for mentioning this. I have a submissive role with my Dominant wife, but it's always been between us, only. Recently I found out that she outed me to our neighbor, a widow that we've been good friends with for a long time. I just found this out, almost by accident from the widow due to something she said to me after I spent almost the whole day fixing her lawn tractor. I was dirty, sweaty and my hands were black with grease and oil. She tried to hand me her laptop she wanted to show me as she had just bought it. I held up my hands and said "no, i'm all dirty". She responded back with a grin and said, "oh, i'd heard, you're a dirty little boy". I'm 70! "But we'll keep it a secret, won't we?"

I left her house, so confused, what did she know, how much did she know? One side of me was aroused from humiliation, the other was very concerned as to how many other friends, male and female may find out soon. I confronted my wife and she went right into Domme mode, telling me i'd be made available to service my neighbor on an as needed basis..

It hasn't happened yet, i don't know what will happen, i'm aroused, humiliated and concerned, all at the same time.
We share other similarities! My wife also has always been the assertive one in our relationship, but even more so after I confessed to her about having been my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker all through high school. I told her that immediately after I had given him his daily blowjob, he would order me to jerk off and eat my cum the same as I had just eaten his. Upon hearing this, my wife decided to incorporate this into our sexual repertoire, and now after I eat her to orgasm, I'm expected to masturbate and slurp up my semen from my hand for her amusement just like I used to do for Larry. She has even taken pics of me doing it with her cell phone. I've asked her not to show these pics to anyone, and even though she promised not to, I suspect she may have shown them to her friends. This at once, both frightens and excites me.
 
The humiliation of being "outed" and everyone becoming aware that I'm a Cocksucker is one of my biggest turn-ons.
I get so hard just imagining some of the guys, and the cute younger women at my last job. They would never think of me being a submissive faggot wannabe. If they ever knew I jack off thinking of our boss, and a couple other guys there making me their cock sucker. Or some of my family members finding out, like my sister-n-law or niece's. My one niece has been with a few black guys, MAN! if she ever knew her old uncle here jacks off to video's of white guys being fucked and sucking those BBC's. That I get off imagining her watching her uncle sucking her black friends.
 
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In my current mood I'd love my wife to be knocked up in front of me, while they laugh at me stroking myself
 
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I love to be humiliated sexually, have my wife tell me she fucks other guys because my dick is to small, and when she tells me about all the guys that have shagged her good and proper....l love it it's the best feeling ever .



it makes me shoot so hard and intensely when my woman shares those thoughts as well. it is the best when they are so naughty.
 
I love to be humiliated sexually, have my wife tell me she fucks other guys because my dick is to small, and when she tells me about all the guys that have shagged her good and proper....l love it it's the best feeling ever .

Is this your fantasy or does your wife actually play around
 
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Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

i had a woman today see my penis and say its smaller than i thought it would be with a smile. i said do you like it. she said yeah even though its tiny i do. she never touched it, but i had a ton of precum start pouring out and i rubbed the head and made it glossy for her. that may be the start of some light humiliation if she shares with her friends even better...
 
I know what you mean. I love humiliation, whether on the giving or recieving end... I'm really into the mental aspects of bdsm... subjugation, mind fuckery, humiliation, etc...

I'm kind of a control and humiliation switch. I have fantasies about controlling and humiliating a woman, but also about being used and hosted by a group of women or couples. I guess it takes one to know one. It's so not about pain or punishment. I haven't had very good luck finding play partners. Just one woman who used me for her enjoyment a couple times. Only problem is she'd guide me with questions rather than commands. I'm much more into being told.
 
That's really hot... I have. Another of cuckold fantasies where the hubby is humiliated in public... ordered around, screamed at, hit... stepped on, forced to cary the purse (but pay out of his wallet), but a lady in waiting or handmaid basically... God that makes me hot to think about...


I find being humiliated extremely hot, especially when it's public. I really love to be told in no uncertain terms that I must perform humiliating acts in front of various and random strangers. It just turns me on in a very unique, remarkable way. When I think about how degraded I've become in days that follow, I get hot all over again. Maybe I've got a psychological problem, probably do. But it's what turns me on. That's just the way it is for me.
 
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