Humiliation?

[lilmissholliex]

It's a beautiful thing when you can find those quick-access button's to a lover's deep pleasure centers.

The sharp, succinct phrase that can max-out her shame and her arousal, simultaneously, in 20 words or less . . . now, that's literotica.

Absolutely.

 

[jim28]

I feel that humiliation is a very personal thing. What humiliates one person may not humiliate another.

My ex used to say that I could not be humiliated. I disagree, it was just that I accepted and knew I deserved what was done to me. I asked for it and begged for more.

Enemas, diapers, CBT, whippings, golden showers...

Furthermore, She made sure that her family knew most of what went on here.

I was put on display for her youngest sister.

When her adult granddaughter lived with us I was feminized in front of gd and my ex made sure gd heard my nightly beatings. GD spread the word around the family. Her first ex even commented at a family diner about my getting kicked in the balls.

Her prude oldest sister asked me if it was true that I crawled naked to my ex and begged to be dominated. Her other sister brought me diapers.

One time when Her adult son came to visit, She made me sit on the floor. She told him that I was a sissy and did not deserve to sit on a chair. There was noting I could say in defense. If I had she probably would have made me strip down to the diaper and bra I was wearing and that she had allowed me to cover up when he arrived.

 

[nutoseen]

i am hoping to experience my tiny penis being seen, commented on, teased, played with, judged, worked hard, and to be made to jerk off for a mature woman or small group of women.

 

[Just2Kinky]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

Humiliation is certainly within the genre of some submissive scenarios that can drive me nucking futs... couple that with a little mild domination and I'm putty in ones hands.

 

[Subb_7]

Anyone into humiliation as their primary fetish? Don't get me wrong I love so many things, but nothing puts me over the edge like being degraded and humiliated in the most cruel and mean ways. Am I alone?

Love this! There is just something about it that turns me on so much!

 

[Goldenfinger]

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[lisaharlot]

We know

Love this! There is just something about it that turns me on so much!

I took a look at your posts and I can see how much you must like to be humiliated and degraded. My word do you beg for it, so desperate. I saw one post where you were begging for a top from any gender, not in a bi or pan way but in a “I’ll take anything way”.

Such a worm!

 

[mywife4othermen]

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[Kirksameritze02]

I love to be humiliated sexually, have my wife tell me she fucks other guys because my dick is to small, and when she tells me about all the guys that have shagged her good and proper....l love it it's the best feeling ever .

 

[Natalie_the_Catalie]

It only works if I've truly gotten inside your head. Otherwise words are just words

Oh I absolutely agree with this. Humiliation is only really meaningful when it touches those secret buttons that maybe even I don't know about. Some little insecurity or a secret fantasy, something embarrassing. Being called a slut or a cunt gets old fast. The best experiences I've had involved someone who took the time to probe me and find those things that just set me off in unexpected ways. A red face is a fast track to a wet pussy.

 

[cuckoldbill]

Signing up for this great thread

 

[KatieDoes]

A sub coming up with new humiliations gets me so incredibly aroused. I was not used to this, but knowing that they trust me like that gets me hot.
Then again, I have a huge number of kinks, so that could just be me.

It’s that, for me. The trust.

It’s not the basic act of humiliation or degradation that does it for me. It’s not the words on their own.

It’s that I can trust him enough to be that vulnerable to him. That he sees value in me as person, and knows that I’m not a worthless whore, I’m HIS whore. The longer I know him, and the more I trust him, the further I want it to go. I’m very strong willed, emotionally capable, and typically take absolutely zero bullshit from anyone, ever. So it’s a huge shift for me to give anyone that level of access to my psyche. It’s an intoxicating feeling, giving that to someone.

If some random person tried it, I’d tear them apart. If he’d come out of the gate with it, I’d have rejected it outright. But after allowing the relationship to develop naturally to this level of trust? Yeah…. I want him to slap my face with his dick and make me beg for it. I want him to make me admit what I am and how much I need him. I want him to smirk at me and chastise me for being such a filthy fucking whore, and then use me as an object. Fuck. Yes.

 

[eroticspank]

It’s that, for me. The trust.

It’s not the basic act of humiliation or degradation that does it for me. It’s not the words on their own.

It’s that I can trust him enough to be that vulnerable to him. That he sees value in me as person, and knows that I’m not a worthless whore, I’m HIS whore. The longer I know him, and the more I trust him, the further I want it to go. I’m very strong willed, emotionally capable, and typically take absolutely zero bullshit from anyone, ever. So it’s a huge shift for me to give anyone that level of access to my psyche. It’s an intoxicating feeling, giving that to someone.

If some random person tried it, I’d tear them apart. If he’d come out of the gate with it, I’d have rejected it outright. But after allowing the relationship to develop naturally to this level of trust? Yeah…. I want him to slap my face with his dick and make me beg for it. I want him to make me admit what I am and how much I need him. I want him to smirk at me and chastise me for being such a filthy fucking whore, and then use me as an object. Fuck. Yes.

I am very impressed. That is a great explanation. Before someone can get into your head, they need entry into your heart. Then paying attention to the things you like and teasing you about them in just the right way is the wonderful part of this kind of play.

ES

 

[sterculius]

I'm a Cocksucker. I love giving other men blowjobs. I love the slutty way that being a Cocksucker makes me feel. Sucking cock was the first sex I'd ever had with another person and it remains my most favorite sex act to perform. But I'm also a married father of three. I don't look like a cocksucker from the outside and if it became common knowledge my life would be irreparably changed. and yet One of my biggest turn-on's is being outed. My best high school friend, whose cock I used to suck every day as soon as we returned home from school, would tease me by threatening to tell all our friends I was a cocksucker and I would have to blow all of them also. I would jerk off while visualizing myself down on my knees at the head of a line of our friends sucking cock after cock while they all stood around, watching me and laughing as they waited to take their turn fucking my throat and making me eat their cum. I don't want to be insulted. but I love feeling objectified and "used"!!

 

[cuck72]

I'm a Cocksucker. I love giving other men blowjobs. I love the slutty way that being a Cocksucker makes me feel. Sucking cock was the first sex I'd ever had with another person and it remains my most favorite sex act to perform. But I'm also a married father of three. I don't look like a cocksucker from the outside and if it became common knowledge my life would be irreparably changed. and yet One of my biggest turn-on's is being outed. My best high school friend, whose cock I used to suck every day as soon as we returned home from school, would tease me by threatening to tell all our friends I was a cocksucker and I would have to blow all of them also. I would jerk off while visualizing myself down on my knees at the head of a line of our friends sucking cock after cock while they all stood around, watching me and laughing as they waited to take their turn fucking my throat and making me eat their cum. I don't want to be insulted. but I love feeling objectified and "used"!!

Are you describing me? WOW! I have the same cock sucking submissive humiliating thoughts. I too am closeted, and no one would EVER! think that I jack off thinking the same things, being a laughed at faggot on my knees. The guys and cute younger girls where I worked would NEVER! think of me as a faggot, and cuckold wannabe. It gets me so excited and hard thinking of these few guys I know, and would suck off.

 

[journeyofself]

What amuses me about it is how generous a giver humiliation is in that even the act of asking for it or admitting you want it seems to instantly flush the cheeks. Everything that comes after? Whew.

Beautiful description. Thank you!

 

[journeyofself]

I'm a Cocksucker. I love giving other men blowjobs. I love the slutty way that being a Cocksucker makes me feel. Sucking cock was the first sex I'd ever had with another person and it remains my most favorite sex act to perform. But I'm also a married father of three. I don't look like a cocksucker from the outside and if it became common knowledge my life would be irreparably changed. and yet One of my biggest turn-on's is being outed. My best high school friend, whose cock I used to suck every day as soon as we returned home from school, would tease me by threatening to tell all our friends I was a cocksucker and I would have to blow all of them also. I would jerk off while visualizing myself down on my knees at the head of a line of our friends sucking cock after cock while they all stood around, watching me and laughing as they waited to take their turn fucking my throat and making me eat their cum. I don't want to be insulted. but I love feeling objectified and "used"!!

Thank you for mentioning this. I have a submissive role with my Dominant wife, but it's always been between us, only. Recently I found out that she outed me to our neighbor, a widow that we've been good friends with for a long time. I just found this out, almost by accident from the widow due to something she said to me after I spent almost the whole day fixing her lawn tractor. I was dirty, sweaty and my hands were black with grease and oil. She tried to hand me her laptop she wanted to show me as she had just bought it. I held up my hands and said "no, i'm all dirty". She responded back with a grin and said, "oh, i'd heard, you're a dirty little boy". I'm 70! "But we'll keep it a secret, won't we?"

I left her house, so confused, what did she know, how much did she know? One side of me was aroused from humiliation, the other was very concerned as to how many other friends, male and female may find out soon. I confronted my wife and she went right into Domme mode, telling me i'd be made available to service my neighbor on an as needed basis..

It hasn't happened yet, i don't know what will happen, i'm aroused, humiliated and concerned, all at the same time.

 

[cuckoldbill]

Thank you for mentioning this. I have a submissive role with my Dominant wife, but it's always been between us, only. Recently I found out that she outed me to our neighbor, a widow that we've been good friends with for a long time. I just found this out, almost by accident from the widow due to something she said to me after I spent almost the whole day fixing her lawn tractor. I was dirty, sweaty and my hands were black with grease and oil. She tried to hand me her laptop she wanted to show me as she had just bought it. I held up my hands and said "no, i'm all dirty". She responded back with a grin and said, "oh, i'd heard, you're a dirty little boy". I'm 70! "But we'll keep it a secret, won't we?"

I left her house, so confused, what did she know, how much did she know? One side of me was aroused from humiliation, the other was very concerned as to how many other friends, male and female may find out soon. I confronted my wife and she went right into Domme mode, telling me i'd be made available to service my neighbor on an as needed basis..

It hasn't happened yet, i don't know what will happen, i'm aroused, humiliated and concerned, all at the same time.

Interesting situation your Domme has placed you in. On one hand she’s told your widow neighbour and has threatened to loan you to her for her pleasure. On the other hand you have no idea how many other people she has told about your dirty little secret. Exquisite
Please keep us updated on how things go.

 

[twister947]

Breach of trust.

 

[journeyofself]

Breach of trust.

Yes, I've had that thought as well. I know these two share personal stuff, but it's usually the neighbor telling her things that are very personal. There is also the possibility that my bedroom talk with my Domme/wife if taken seriously might have, probably did, suggest i was looking to be outed as more humiliation. i know that is me making excuses for her. She should have told me and asked me, before any outing happened.

Today i had sex with my wife, i was in aqua turquoise silk panties and after giving her a full body massage it ended with a foot massage/worship and i was allowed to lick and suck her toes while being told i'd cum on her feet and lick them clean. i did get a spanking and did lick my cum off her feet. i want to be angry but i'm so needy for the sex and humiliation.

 

[sterculius]

Thank you for mentioning this. I have a submissive role with my Dominant wife, but it's always been between us, only. Recently I found out that she outed me to our neighbor, a widow that we've been good friends with for a long time. I just found this out, almost by accident from the widow due to something she said to me after I spent almost the whole day fixing her lawn tractor. I was dirty, sweaty and my hands were black with grease and oil. She tried to hand me her laptop she wanted to show me as she had just bought it. I held up my hands and said "no, i'm all dirty". She responded back with a grin and said, "oh, i'd heard, you're a dirty little boy". I'm 70! "But we'll keep it a secret, won't we?"

I left her house, so confused, what did she know, how much did she know? One side of me was aroused from humiliation, the other was very concerned as to how many other friends, male and female may find out soon. I confronted my wife and she went right into Domme mode, telling me i'd be made available to service my neighbor on an as needed basis..

It hasn't happened yet, i don't know what will happen, i'm aroused, humiliated and concerned, all at the same time.

We share other similarities! My wife also has always been the assertive one in our relationship, but even more so after I confessed to her about having been my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker all through high school. I told her that immediately after I had given him his daily blowjob, he would order me to jerk off and eat my cum the same as I had just eaten his. Upon hearing this, my wife decided to incorporate this into our sexual repertoire, and now after I eat her to orgasm, I'm expected to masturbate and slurp up my semen from my hand for her amusement just like I used to do for Larry. She has even taken pics of me doing it with her cell phone. I've asked her not to show these pics to anyone, and even though she promised not to, I suspect she may have shown them to her friends. This at once, both frightens and excites me.

 

[journeyofself]

We share other similarities! My wife also has always been the assertive one in our relationship, but even more so after I confessed to her about having been my best friend Larry's personal cocksucker all through high school. I told her that immediately after I had given him his daily blowjob, he would order me to jerk off and eat my cum the same as I had just eaten his. Upon hearing this, my wife decided to incorporate this into our sexual repertoire, and now after I eat her to orgasm, I'm expected to masturbate and slurp up my semen from my hand for her amusement just like I used to do for Larry. She has even taken pics of me doing it with her cell phone. I've asked her not to show these pics to anyone, and even though she promised not to, I suspect she may have shown them to her friends. This at once, both frightens and excites me.

I have had a discussion with my Domme/wife about this. i told her what happened at Carol's house, (the neighbor), what she said, the look and wink she gave me, which made me feel this way, aroused and yet upset and worried at the same time.

We talked about all the times i've brought up my wife fucking her gym trainer and making me watch, making me suck his Cock, humiliating me, and degrading me as a "little dick sissy that i am". i have also blurted out wanting to be naked and humiliated in front of Carol and others. How i've told her to "pimp me out for foot massages and domestic service". All of my fantasies. She responded with the very personal things that Carol has told her and that there is a women's understanding of "personal". Still there is the risk. I was told it's none of my business what others think of me. At that point, i was not allowed to say more. She told me i would do what she said and that my whineing would get me less of what i wanted (and i know i do) not more.

So that's where it is, she hasn't made any plans with Carol, but she told me that if i wanted to i could talk to Carol about me sexuality. Carol actually is an MSW therapist.Now it's on my mind a lot.

 

[cuck72]

The humiliation of being "outed" and everyone becoming aware that I'm a Cocksucker is one of my biggest turn-ons.

I get so hard just imagining some of the guys, and the cute younger women at my last job. They would never think of me being a submissive faggot wannabe. If they ever knew I jack off thinking of our boss, and a couple other guys there making me their cock sucker. Or some of my family members finding out, like my sister-n-law or niece's. My one niece has been with a few black guys, MAN! if she ever knew her old uncle here jacks off to video's of white guys being fucked and sucking those BBC's. That I get off imagining her watching her uncle sucking her black friends.

 

[Jcam1980s]

In my current mood I'd love my wife to be knocked up in front of me, while they laugh at me stroking myself

 

[journeyofself]

I have had a discussion with my Domme/wife about this. i told her what happened at Carol's house, (the neighbor), what she said, the look and wink she gave me, which made me feel this way, aroused and yet upset and worried at the same time.

We talked about all the times i've brought up my wife fucking her gym trainer and making me watch, making me suck his Cock, humiliating me, and degrading me as a "little dick sissy that i am". i have also blurted out wanting to be naked and humiliated in front of Carol and others. How i've told her to "pimp me out for foot massages and domestic service". All of my fantasies. She responded with the very personal things that Carol has told her and that there is a women's understanding of "personal". Still, there is the risk. I was told it's none of my business what others think of me. At that point, i was not allowed to say more. She told me i would do what she said and that my whining would get me less of what i wanted (and i know i do) not more.

So that's where it is, she hasn't made any plans with Carol, but she told me that if i wanted to i could talk to Carol about my sexuality. Carol actually is an MSW therapist. Now it's on my mind a lot.

i got a call from the neighbor, Carol, yesterday. She asked me to come over when i could, as she has some work she would like me to help with. i asked the Domme/wife if she knew anything about this call. She says she didn't, but then grinned and said "but I love it"!

This happened yesterday, it's Sunday morning here now, i asked her if today would work, and she said today would work well. She told me mid-morning would work nicely for her. i'm nervously excited and aroused. On the other hand, she might just have a dripping faucet and it's all my wild, hopeful, perverted imagination. She is somewhat of a BBW, on the BBW side of "curvy", but she's solid. Very Domme in the way she carries herself and speaks. I'm just worried that this is one of those things, where everyone promises discrete but everyone knows.