Is it true that most men have had homosexual experiences?

[MaiusImperium]

I'm a 22 year old straight/curious male and I've never had a homosexual experience, adolescent or not. Though it is something I fantasise about from time to time (hence the curious).

 

[dkak001]

Honestly, saying that most men have had a homosexual experience is rather like saying all cheerleaders are sluts.

I thought they all were? Darn! Ok, so I sort of had homo experiences, and was a cheerleader (chick chucker). And I voted for Bush twice. Am I f**ked or what!?!

 

[Shankara20]

I thought they all were? Darn! Ok, so I sort of had homo experiences, and was a cheerleader (chick chucker). And I voted for Bush twice. Am I f**ked or what!?!

Well, it is never too late to fine a nice cock to suck and settle down with in a little cottage in the country . You can wear your cheerleader outfit around the cottage if you want.

 

[Shankara20]

P.S., I love living in my city!

Best cocksucking City I ever lived in...

*sigh*

 

[Shankara20]

I'm a 22 year old straight/curious male and I've never had a homosexual experience, adolescent or not. Though it is something I fantasise about from time to time (hence the curious).

I had my first direct contact same-sexed experience after I turned 45 - you have plenty of time to get started

 

[leggiesoxx]

whether you start your homosexual experience young or older, it's the most natural thing anyways. as a bi guy, i think men on men sex is so hot and right.

 

[none2_none2]

whether you start your homosexual experience young or older, it's the most natural thing anyways. as a bi guy, i think men on men sex is so hot and right.

I think it really varies. I think the two biggest things is attraction and acts. If you find each other attractive and you both want to do the same acts, then it can be really hot. If there is an attraction issue or the acts you are hoping for aren't going to happen, then it can turn out to be a real bad experience. I've had so many of the unfullfilling situations, that I can't count them all. Thank goodness the hot times were so hot that it didn't turn me off to gay sex.

Some examples of bad sex situations:
A) Picture 3 guys for simplicity lets say A, B, C. (I'm B.)
"A" was hot for me, and "B" (me) was hot for "C", and "C" was hot for "A". However, "C" was not hot for "B" (me), and "B" (me) was not hot for "A", and "A" was not hot for "C".

All three of us ended up at the "A"'s house, but it wasn't a great experience. "C" did let "B" top him, but "C" wanted "B" to hurry up and be done so that "C" could have "A" fuck him. ("A" was really hung, and "C"was a bottom & a size queen.) "A" really wanted to be left alone with "B", so he was hoping "C" would get off and leave. I dreaded "C" leaving as i had no interest in "A". It was a wasted evening full of tension that I wish I had never experienced.

B) I remember a guy that tried to deny that he was heavily into gay sex. He said he was really str8, but liked tits and ass and was willing to forget his sex partner was a guy when he was in a dry spell. Well I managed to slip into him. He loved it -- or at least his cock was throbbing hard and dripping. But he was also in big time denial as he wanted me to hurry up. He tried to hurt me by putting his fingernails into my nips. Between his denials and the pain inflicted by fingernails, this was probably one of the worse experiences I ever had. (I'll never understand guys into pain as I got absolutely nothing out of almost having my skin cut.)

C) I remember a really hot guy who I would have loved to have fucked. However, he was only a cock sucker. After about 45 minutes of Mr Hoover, I finally had to call it quits as I don't look very good with a black and blue cock.

One example of great sex is called for:
Years ago I had a very compatable f-buddy. He was my type big time: hairy, muscular, manily, & capable of having a beautiful tan, but always kept his behind looking virginal white like I like. (There is something really hot about a little bit of modesty.) Anyway, he was someone you would never think would bottom. Back in those years of being in my late 20's through my 30's, I could get aroused fairly frequently. If I got hard during the night, he didn't mind if I slipped it in while he slept. He was a sound sleeper (probably lots of beer contributed to that). If he did wake up, he would tell me to go for it and never start something I wasn't willing to finish. If life was solely about sex, he would have been the perfect person to have for sex. He seemed to know all my buttons and visa versa. To put it blunty I never knew one could have a sex partner whose compatibility could be so complete that Mr. Right Hand became unemployed.

 

[dashd]

most - not

Though it is my fantasy for 4o years and has been since I was 13, Ive never been with another guy. Would love to especially with a woman present!!

 

[Shankara20]

Though it is my fantasy for 4o years and has been since I was 13, Ive never been with another guy. Would love to especially with a woman present!!

I also think it is hot to think about being watched by a woman while doing a guy....

 

[susurrus]

Okay, while we're confessing...

When I was growing up, my brother and I experimented together. We were both developing sexually and it was the most convenient way to act on the curiosity about what was happening to our bodies. Most of what we did was touching of certain pertinent parts of our anatomies, some oral, but that was it. We were going to try anal once, but we were too young to understand about lubrication, so it never happened.

As far as in my adult experience? Never.

 

[bimori]

Is this just a yes or no question ? Yes

 

[neonflux]

Best cocksucking City I ever lived in...

*sigh*

the men will still be here when...

 

[tonethebone]

removing specific age of explicit descriptions

Married male age 49, bi for sure.

First experence was [when I was young]. Watched an older neighbor boy jack off and cum on the floor of my tree house I was too scared to do it also. But from that point on, I was hooked on cocks and cum shots. A few years later while having a sleep over at my buddy's house. We got in the same bed and took turns dry humping each other. Kinda like a game pretending the other was a hot girl from school.

That was pretty much it until I married my first wife. We talked alot about getting into a MMF situation. But it never happened. Around age 24, my best buddy started hinting around about maybe fooling around alittle. I was curious, but didn't get into it any further. I got divorced at age 25 and started dating my second and present wife. We married at age 28. My buddy was always droping hints about playing around. But it wasn't until I was 30 that I finally gave into my curiousty, and asked him over one day when the wife was gone.

Show me yours and I'll show you mine Now almost 20 years later we still get together 4 or 5 times a year for "guy time". Just a few hours of stroking and sucking. Nothing more. For me it's the perfect situation. Great sex at home with my wonderful wife. Nasty jacking and oral with my buddy.

 

[txboyalone]

Better Question!

Maybe the questions to ask would be has any guy never experimented with another guy. Either as a adolescent or an adult.

 

[Virgin Man]

Maybe the questions to ask would be has any guy never experimented with another guy. Either as a adolescent or an adult.

Never have, never will

 

[Shankara20]

Never have, never will

sorry - I don't intent to be confrontational, as this is a GLBT area, open to anyone of course, I am wondering why you would post here if there is not an interest or at least of a supportive nature.

If I have read something into your post that in not there, please excuse my judgment.

 

[Virgin Man]

sorry - I don't intent to be confrontational, as this is a GLBT area, open to anyone of course, I am wondering why you would post here if there is not an interest or at least of a supportive nature.

If I have read something into your post that in not there, please excuse my judgment.

No. the fault is mine, not yours. I forgot which forum this posting was on. Have been following the responses for a friend

 

[Shankara20]

No. the fault is mine, not yours. I forgot which forum this posting was on. Have been following the responses for a friend

cool - have fun...

 

[yukonnights]

I have a couple of thoughts on this.

If holding, stroking and enjoying a man's dick is a homosexual experience, then I think every man on earth has had that experience. He has it about every day when he enjoys his own. In fact, I think it could be said that most men love cock (if you count their own).

If sucking is a homosexual experience, then I think almost every man own earth would suck a dick if he could suck his own. (come on now guys, let's all be honest)

I don't know much more than that...

 

[Etoile]

I have a couple of thoughts on this.

If holding, stroking and enjoying a man's dick is a homosexual experience, then I think every man on earth has had that experience. He has it about every day when he enjoys his own. In fact, I think it could be said that most men love cock (if you count their own).

If sucking is a homosexual experience, then I think almost every man own earth would suck a dick if he could suck his own. (come on now guys, let's all be honest)

I don't know much more than that...

It's funny how autoeroticism is not usually considered homoeroticism.

 

[yukonnights]

It's funny how autoeroticism is not usually considered homoeroticism.

Maybe we should start using a new term; homoautoerotcism (man that sounds smart doesn't it) But it would be cruel to cause our "straight" friends to stop masturbating because of homophobia. So I guess we shouldn't. (still, it would be fun)

 

[MyFriend27]

No No No

No most guys have not had those experiences. I suspect women have had more bi experiences then men but i would still say neither sex has had a majority number. And yes alot of men will not admit it as opposed to women for one reason or another but mostly because it isnt as an accepted practice in society

 

[IndyBiKnight]

I kept my experiences under wraps for a long time. It has only been the past year or so where I have started to share the things I have done.

 

[mac_46_46]

I have had homosexual experience when I was young with a cousin of about the same age as me. We use to jack and suck each other all the time. I have had only one experience since that. It was about 2 years ago and I sucked his cock and loved every inch and every minute of it. I want so bad to do it again.

 

[txboyalone]

Good Thread

Don't you think most of us who are gay or bi were always curious about what a guys dick would taste like? When I was young and first started looking at Playboys, I always wanted to see the guys equipment too. I asked a friend who is as str8 as an arrow the other day if he ever thought about a guy sucking his dick and he said, "Honestly no I have never thought about it." While that is hard for me to believe I guess hetro guys just don't have much imaginations.