Is it true that most men have had homosexual experiences?

[skitzoid]

The other night, the wife and I were talking sex and I confided in her my deepest fantasy, to try another man. She didn't act surprized, which surprized me. We are both straight but have talked about a same sex encounter a few times. She said if that what I really want, then she would set it up. She would hire a professional and let him know that if I didn't want to go thru with it to stop now. I told her that I would want to start slowly, a simple handjob. If all went well, then maybe, just maybe, oral. I have never had another man and the thought of a hard cock in my hand or mouth was exciting. I was stroking as she ws explaining the scenerio. She would set it up but didn't want to be present. I thought it would be hot if she would help and give me pointers. But, no. She then started to tell me about the feel and taste of different cocks. Imagining all this was too much for my mind to handle. All kinds of images were rushing thru my mind. A hard, wet cock stroking. A taste of pre-cum. The final feel of another cock getting hard and cumming in my mouth. The texture of his sperm and the taste, the aroma. I shot my load right there. We were outside and I just stood up and turned toward the grass and let it go. Was that ever hot. My wife came over and lent a hand to make sure I was completely drained.
I love this women.

 

[MsWet]

Extremely offensive post by smdicjerry

*ponders whether such a message should even be left up based on the ages described*

I'd like to say that I find his statement to be extremely sickening. It's completely inappropriate for him to include the ages in his reference to the topic. I have a 14 month old son & would definately consider any man who thinks this could, possibly be a pedophile. I would appreciate it if his comment were removed.

 

[Etoile]

I have removed ages from many posts in this thread.

 

[John Doe]

It depends on how you define "most" and "homosexual" but using the definitions from psychology and most other sciences, yes statistically they have.

 

[Hummingbyrd]

I was reading somewhere that most men have had homesexual experiences. It said that this includes heterosexual men and that these experiences were often their first sexual experiences. Do you think that is true? I found it really interesting; I asked some of my guy friends about it and they said that it isnt true...but i doubt they would confess to me!

It's true that all men should! This I know...

 

[Hitchiker69]

I doubt that most guys have had homo experiences, but I think they would if the situation were right.

Offer him a comfortable situation, with a pleasant guy he can trust, and assure him no one else will ever know. Then anything goes.

Thats what worked for me. I'd go hitchiking and get picked up by gay guys who tried to seduce me in a variety of ways. I knew I'd never see them again, and no one I knew would ever hear about it. As long as I was comfortable with them, I was game for almost anything.

I think most guys would react the same way, at least as far as receiving a blow job. After all, what young horny guy will turn down the offer of a gay blow job if no one else will ever know? Very few, IMHO.

 

[limplizzard]

I believe that the only men that haven't had some sort of homosexual contact are the ones that are afraid that if they admit it they might have to try again and they might like it.

 

[txboyalone]

Try it you'll like it.

It is hard to say for strickly str8 guys. I think most of us who have tried it always had that tendancy to know what it would be like. I mean I started checking guys out in gym classes in the 7th grade. It was so fuckin imbarassing because I would get a hard on. But I have known guys that have never looked at another guys dick. The gym I work out at has several men who get undressed and dressed looking at thier locker. They never seem to look at other guys nor do they want others looking at them.

 

[Tazia]

True

I believe that the only men that haven't had some sort of homosexual contact are the ones that are afraid that if they admit it they might have to try again and they might like it.

I have a 13 yr old (foster) son who hasn't quite come to terms with himself yet..meaning at that age thye're so "homophobic" they'd never admit an attraction to the same sex (hell, they're just discovering their own anatomy). But like most of us who have "been there, done that", we realize that "exploring" is usually part of the growing up process.

Now at 48, I'd love to relive those days of of my youth..the physical stamina and pure LUST of being a teen. But now the odds are quite different!

 

[mansome]

I was reading somewhere that most men have had homesexual experiences. It said that this includes heterosexual men and that these experiences were often their first sexual experiences. Do you think that is true? I found it really interesting; I asked some of my guy friends about it and they said that it isnt true...but i doubt they would confess to me!

my first 100+ sexual experiences were with women... I have had a dozen encounters with men since either one on one or threesomes with females...

 

[DCTexBear]

Bisexual, not homosexual

I've had a number of sexual encounters with other males but I have never considered them to be "homosexual," only a departure from the usual M/F stuff. I know that a lot of men quake at the thought of sucking a cock, or being sucked -- or even cross-touching, for that matter -- but my first experience came when I was in my young teens and it was not all that big a deal. I liked it, so I do it. Given an either/or choice before cunt and cock, I would always go for the first. But having cocks around as a back-up is a good way to live.

 

[drew62]

My guess is yes

Im sure most men have had some type of encounter with another guy, even if it was a kid and you were experimenting. I remember playing a game as a kid with the other guys where we would lay on the ground and they would sit over us with the ass in our face. The idea was to keep your nose buried in his crack as long as you could. I know it sounds weird, but we were kids. Maybe that is why I am so obessesed with anal play.

 

[Speedy35]

false!!!!!


im still a virgin from behind

 

[drew62]

just wondering

false!!!!!


im still a virgin from behind

Does this mean youve done other things with a guy?

 

[sam77077]

I don't know about other men

but I am glad that forums like this are around. Thanks DCTexBear for your post, I like the straightforward attitude and look forward to talking these things over with you. I was told from the time I was 13 that I was probably homosexual and so resolved to prove those people wrong. I am not sure why people assumed they knew more of me than I knew of myself, because at that age I still did not have any sexual thoughts or impulses whatsoever. In hindsight, I think that was strange but did not worry about it. Anyway, I am definitely, now, bisexually curious and still have not had experience with a man...and almost 50 years old. But that will change, I am actively trolling these forums for curious men around the Baltimore/ Philadelphia I-95 corridor. Feel free to reply to me in this thread (or others I have posted to) or privately.

 

[gingermango]

I denied my bisexuality until my mid-30's when I was finally in an accepting and loving relationship (with my second wife). She finds the whole concept incredibly exciting and, as a bi-curious women herself, decided we should both explore. She has been actively bi for several years now and, with her encouragement, support and participation, I've had a few experiences myself now (and loved them). We're meeting another couple Friday night and the highlight for the women will be for them to watch us two go at it - he's not actively bi (meaning he won't touch or suck me) - but his wife has been pushing his limits lately. He let me suck him last time (though my wife wanted to have his cum for herself) but now with both ladies' encouragement, he is looking forward to having me dressed-up and at his disposal as a cum-slut for the night.

 

[notquite69]

I had my first experience when I was about young with the proverbial scoutmaster; that went on for a couple of months. I don't think it scarred me, but a few years later, my best friend and I were doing mutual masturbation in the attic. But I was also intererested in girls, so the male thing went into hibernation for a long while.
It was only in my 50's that the urge came strongly again and I've had a number of interesting pairings--excluding only anal. I can get just as erotically involved with a man as a woman, including kissing, nipple play, 69, etc.

 

[txboyalone]

I think we all think about it but most never try. Shame they don't know what they missed. Mark

 

[panamaboy101]

I cross dressed for a few years.Ok,I`ve cross dressed my whole life to some degree but I mean I was an out and about t girl for some years.Decent looking,I think.I`m pretty girl sized so could go out dressed during the daytime and not really get hassled.

I was a regular on the UK scene and could go to any bar or club on the trans scene and always would know someone there so like to think I know what I`m talking about.

I was always being hit on by guys.Not gay guys as they like their men to look like men lol.But guys who were married or whatever.Some would admit that they were bi but many said they were straight.The fact that I was a t girl and had a cock in my panties didn`t seem to matter to them.

I just think that all men want their cock sucking as often as possible and are not that fussy about who sucks it.And if they have to suck a cock in return they will df course,very few will admit it.I`m bi.I like cock.The bigger the better.But I never look at a man and think I really fancy him or find him attractive.But as a t girl I liked what he could do to me with his cock.

I like other pretty t girls and females but whilst not finding men attractive I liked what they would do to me.It made me feel very femme.Sexuality is complicated.Trying to compartmentalise it doesn`t work and we shouldn`t bother trying.

 

[namron711]

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Obviously it would be impossible to answer that question. Who could possibly speak for every guy.
However, it would seem to me that 'many'' men have probably had such an experience. I know that it happened to me as a teen with a friend that was much more influential and exploratory and inquisitive...you get the idea. I understand that he did this with many of his friends. I was not that into it at the time. But like many others I became interested during midlfe for various reasons. Now I wish that I could go back to those teen years and take advantage of what I missed out on.

 

[srlmort]

I'm a woman but...

I cross dressed for a few years.Ok,I`ve cross dressed my whole life to some degree but I mean I was an out and about t girl for some years.Decent looking,I think.I`m pretty girl sized so could go out dressed during the daytime and not really get hassled.

I was a regular on the UK scene and could go to any bar or club on the trans scene and always would know someone there so like to think I know what I`m talking about.

I was always being hit on by guys.Not gay guys as they like their men to look like men lol.But guys who were married or whatever.Some would admit that they were bi but many said they were straight.The fact that I was a t girl and had a cock in my panties didn`t seem to matter to them.

I just think that all men want their cock sucking as often as possible and are not that fussy about who sucks it.And if they have to suck a cock in return they will df course,very few will admit it.I`m bi.I like cock.The bigger the better.But I never look at a man and think I really fancy him or find him attractive.But as a t girl I liked what he could do to me with his cock.

I like other pretty t girls and females but whilst not finding men attractive I liked what they would do to me.It made me feel very femme.Sexuality is complicated.Trying to compartmentalise it doesn`t work and we shouldn`t bother trying.

I copied your whole quote panama because I agree with everything you said especially the last part.

However, I believe everyone has had some same gender experience in their lives. Whatever it may be, kissing, touching, Blowjobs, groping etc.

I'm tired of society trying to label people. We like what we like.

Does not matter if ur st8, gay, bi, tranny, you like what u like that should be good enough.

If you don't like it move on to the next experience...

 

[redpaint]

I don't know about most men, But it has happen with me now with two different men. I won't say it will never happen again, I Meet the right guy and I know I will end up sucking his cock.

 

[kingkhan1]

I hope every man has had a same sex experience. Another man really knows how to please another man.

 

[CuriousEd]

Wondering

I haven't had a gay experience in years... I played around with guys in high school, and to a very limited extent in college. I've been married since shortly after college, and have been genuinely happy, but I've had a few affairs with women. There's no real reason for these affairs, though, and I find myself thinking of them as a prelude to a bisexual relationship -- such as involvement with a married woman. Is is possible that's what I'm thinking of all along? Should I move from pure fantasy to meeting someone? I would like to tell my wife of my interest. Are there 'real' guys who I can talk to about this, and not just people who are looking for a BJ from people?

 

[redpaint]

I haven't had a gay experience in years... I played around with guys in high school, and to a very limited extent in college. I've been married since shortly after college, and have been genuinely happy, but I've had a few affairs with women. There's no real reason for these affairs, though, and I find myself thinking of them as a prelude to a bisexual relationship -- such as involvement with a married woman. Is is possible that's what I'm thinking of all along? Should I move from pure fantasy to meeting someone? I would like to tell my wife of my interest. Are there 'real' guys who I can talk to about this, and not just people who are looking for a BJ from people?

I could be wrong, But it sound to me like you maybe ready to try a guy again.It also sounds like you have been looking for something with having these affairs. I really don't know what to tell you about your wife. If mine knew I know she would leave me.

I am still new to coming back to having a bisexual encounter. Was many years from the first one till now. It did confirm to me that It was what I had been missing and wanting for sometime. I don't know how long it will be till the next time.