Is it true that most men have had homosexual experiences?

[Cycle Tom]

I'm 58 years old and never had a homosexual experience, but I've always been curious to try it.

 

[redpaint]

I'm 58 years old and never had a homosexual experience, but I've always been curious to try it.

So what stopping you from trying it at lest once?

 

[SilkyDave]

does allowing yourself to be stripped naked and tied up with a raging hard on count even if nothing else happened ?

 

[sterculius]

When you consider that at puberty a young man/boy suddenly has feelings and urges that he never had before and doesn't understand and the only ones he can turn to are his contemporaries, it's not surprising that close friends might be tempted to experiment with each other. That's what happened in my case. My initial motivation for agreeing to provide at first, manual and then, oral stimulation to my best friend's very large cock was in order to receive the same from him in return. However,I was very much surprised to discover that I really loved sucking his cock. I enjoyed blowing him even more than being blown by him and as a result, our increasingly frequent mutual masturbatory sessions evolved until at some point, I offered to become his own personal cocksucker.

 

[idahoguy26]

My first sexual experience was a blowjob from a male friend in high school. Gotta say...it has stuck in my mind for a loooong time!

 

[marcap]

, I offered to become his own personal cocksucker.

Talk about an offer you can't refuse (said in a Brando-esque voice of course)

 

[cal66]

Not yet but open to experiment.

 

[Deanwich]

From 13-20 approximately.... The majority of my sexual experiences were with guys who were "experimenting." Was always interesting to run into them months/years later with their gf/wives LOL!

I always wanted to say to them: I had him first

 

[ilike2try]

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[robbie_boy1]

internet has opened more eyes

I believe the Internet may have increased many a man's outlook on homosexual experiences, be it fantasy or moving it into reality. I never watched bi, gay, fretish and ladyboy porn until I could get it free.

I also have had sex with an array of men thru the years (many I met from the net)

I haven't had sex with a Trans girl. I saw one at a club in Haverhill Ma one night and oogled her for a while... some day we'll get there

 

[bi golly]

I haven't had a gay experience in years... I played around with guys in high school, and to a very limited extent in college. I've been married since shortly after college, and have been genuinely happy, but I've had a few affairs with women. There's no real reason for these affairs, though, and I find myself thinking of them as a prelude to a bisexual relationship -- such as involvement with a married woman. Is is possible that's what I'm thinking of all along? Should I move from pure fantasy to meeting someone? I would like to tell my wife of my interest. Are there 'real' guys who I can talk to about this, and not just people who are looking for a BJ from people?

When I was married, I wasn't getting sex from my wife and I started to masturbate a lot. It was hard to fantasize about women, because that felt like cheating (yeah, that's weird) so I would fantasize about men. I had done that before, but I started fantasizing exclusively about men.

I think I just wanted sex, and sex with women gets into the relationship territory, while sex with men does not. I would never be in a relationship with a man. But I would like to have sex with them.

 

[Bill3250]

50% of all men admit to having had homosexual experiences.

The other 50% lie.

 

[newmikeman]

I am not sure that it's "most" men.

I just wish that whatever percentage it is, be it 10%, 20% or 33% did not have to feel like a pariah. That we could all just accept it, that it might just be a 'normal' developmental issue.

 

[newmikeman]

When I was married, I wasn't getting sex from my wife and I started to masturbate a lot. It was hard to fantasize about women, because that felt like cheating (yeah, that's weird) so I would fantasize about men. I had done that before, but I started fantasizing exclusively about men.

I think I just wanted sex, and sex with women gets into the relationship territory, while sex with men does not. I would never be in a relationship with a man. But I would like to have sex with them.

My gosh bi golly!!!
I have always felt this way and I am married. Damn... Thanks! For saying what I always have thought...

 

[Somehowyou]

Do trannys count?

 

[luckyseven]

Younger boys tend to try most things to do with sex just to find out what it feels like. As a part of this developmental process, it would be only natural for guys to compare notes and body parts - look at this, do you have hair, etc. I can remember doing some fondling. It seemed to me more exploratory than truly sexual, although there were definitely erections and really pleasurable sensations from having someone besides yourself holding and stroking your penis to ejaculation and vice versa. Later I ventured on to oral (both receiving and giving) and sucking a cock seemed the right thing to do as it was sexually satisfying.

 

[Jander1]

My gosh bi golly!!!
I have always felt this way and I am married. Damn... Thanks! For saying what I always have thought...

I can relate to this as well. My wife and I do have good sex but it does not seem like cheating as much when thinking of men. I think this has brought my bi even more, though it has been there since before marriage.

 

[sterculius]

What is masturbation if not a form of homosexuality? Most men would give themselves a blowjob if they were flexible enough. A large part of the erotic thrill I would feel while sucking my high school friend's cock was because I could relate to and vicariously enjoy what I knew he was experiencing.

 

[BiInMyMind]

What is masturbation if not a form of homosexuality? Most men would give themselves a blowjob if they were flexible enough. A large part of the erotic thrill I would feel while sucking my high school friend's cock was because I could relate to and vicariously enjoy what I knew he was experiencing.

That's interesting, I've thought of it the other way: homosexuality is a form of masturbation.

 

[Etoile]

Masturbation is autosexuality, not homosexuality.

 

[svr5280]

as a young man I had a few encouters with a good friend. Mostly dry humping one another and trading hand jobs. i would think that most of us experiment. And as an adult experimenting is fun!

 

[stu_349]

Mine started when I was young...and I mean "young"!
A group of us lads would meet at one house and we'd look at pin up mags(pretty tame by todays standards!...I'm talking in the 1960's here!)..and we'd wank ourselves.....this ended up with just me and my best friend alone...and we'd do eachother...this led to cock kissing and eventually cock sucking....ahh...them were the days!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

[amigayorbi]

i had it

i got sucked by a distant relative...when i was very small....it was a part of some game of his...to be honest i liked the feeling...

 

[krissive69]

i think that's one reason i like to cam... brings back memories of those early days with the boys....

 

[Gowindown]

I'm 58 years old and never had a homosexual experience, but I've always been curious to try it.

You lead a too hectic lifestyle. If you'd just relx abit. Try reading Good HouseKeeping or other quality mags. Personally, I prefer Doris Day reruns. They help me get in the mood.