Let's talk about sex baby...

[NorthRockJohnson]

Not sure if most people fall into the category or not, but I've never been a huge fan of food play. I like the way a woman tastes naturally and whip cream, chocolate, etc. have never been anything that gets me excited seeing it coated on a woman. I have never needed a reason to want to get my mouth on her other than her being delicious.

Perfectly said!

Food play is my "I don't get it" thing too. It's messy and doesn't add anything to the experience for me. A partner covered in chocolate just looks gross.

Also the movie 9 1/2 Weeks isn't even remotely sexy to me.

 

[Susurration]

But I don't get that horrible throat fucking gagging/gurgle thing that you see in a lot of porn clips these days. I don't know when that became a thing, but yuck. It's not sexy to me at all.

I agree. That is a massive turn off for me as well.

 

[sweetsophie512]

Not sure if most people fall into the category or not, but I've never been a huge fan of food play. I like the way a woman tastes naturally and whip cream, chocolate, etc. have never been anything that gets me excited seeing it coated on a woman. I have never needed a reason to want to get my mouth on her other than her being delicious.

Perfectly said!

Food play is my "I don't get it" thing too. It's messy and doesn't add anything to the experience for me. A partner covered in chocolate just looks gross.

Also the movie 9 1/2 Weeks isn't even remotely sexy to me.

I always think about how much laundry will need to be done after food play. It turns me off right away since I can't stand doing laundry. Would that be considered a fetish?

 

[Trekka]

Also the movie 9 1/2 Weeks isn't even remotely sexy to me.

Blasphemy!!

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Purposeful gagging during a blowie says to some men:

1. 'Baby, your cock is SO BIG!'
2. 'Mmmm, I can't get enough of you.' *nomnomnom*

If it is something I know they like, I am happy to give them that gift. Turning them on turns me on.

 

[Wild_Honey_66]

Regarding facials:

I understand the appeal for some men; it's a visual thing. I understand the appeal for some women who like to please their men in that way; more power to them.

But it never appealed to me until I was saying as much to a friend, who tweaked the details of the mental image I had so as to make the facial a means to a very sexy end, rather than an end in itself. I confess I may have imagined the scenario he described once or twice since that conversation.

I still think it would be one of those special occasion/special guy occurrences, but i am thankful that my friend was able to remind me why it's a good idea to keep an open mind about trying new things.

 

[Timihendrix]

19. What is something that most people enjoy sexually, but for you it is quite the opposite?

The dom/sub thing. Why can't I just fuck somebody without bringing power politics into it? I've got better things to do with my time. I don't want to be a master or a slave, both are equally repulsive. Why do some women want to make the man do all the work and take all the initiative? Predictable is BORING after all. What fun is someone so pliant and spineless?

 

[DarkSimian]

The dom/sub thing. Why can't I just fuck somebody without bringing power politics into it? I've got better things to do with my time. I don't want to be a master or a slave, both are equally repulsive. Why do some women want to make the man do all the work and take all the initiative? Predictable is BORING after all. What fun is someone so pliant and spineless?

I agree. I'm just starting to wrap my head around the whole DD/LG thing, and then someone throws a monkey wrench into my understanding by adding D/S, S/M, and all the shades in between.....can't we just fuck like normal people?

 

[Trekka]

I'm wracking my brain-- something *most* people enjoy, but I don't dig it.... vanilla sex, kinky sex, oral, anal, what else is there? All those things are good. Playing with my boobs? Check. Masturbating? Check. Lingerie? Check. Toys? Check. Food? *slurp* ... I think this is the hardest question yet to answer.

Alright-- I hate it when someone touches my stomach. *shudder* ...does that work?

Chain me up and cum on my face? Sure! But don't touch my belly.

 

[cowslinger64]

The dom/sub thing. Why can't I just fuck somebody without bringing power politics into it? I've got better things to do with my time. I don't want to be a master or a slave, both are equally repulsive. Why do some women want to make the man do all the work and take all the initiative? Predictable is BORING after all. What fun is someone so pliant and spineless?

You really should know something, even ANYTHING about a subject before talking out your ass about it.

 

[DayMaker]

Okay, I'm on the "Please don't ever cum on my face" side of the schoolyard. Even the thought of it happening gives me the creeps. But, to be fair, I dry my face half-way through a shower, so it's more the feeling of having anything on my face. *shivers*

Anywhere else? Yup, good to go....from the neck down.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

I'm wracking my brain-- something *most* people enjoy, but I don't dig it.... vanilla sex, kinky sex, oral, anal, what else is there? All those things are good. Playing with my boobs? Check. Masturbating? Check. Lingerie? Check. Toys? Check. Food? *slurp* ... I think this is the hardest question yet to answer.

Alright-- I hate it when someone touches my stomach. *shudder* ...does that work?

Chain me up and cum on my face? Sure! But don't touch my belly.

*ties you up and begins to make out with your belly button*

I find belly buttons quite sexy.

Honestly, I'm kind of in the same boat as you.

It's not "objectionable" but I don't see the draw for a threesome. Of any kind. And FMF or FFM are just..well...I think I'm too ADD...I'd be like. Oh! A boob! and another and another and another.....

 

[Timihendrix]

You really should know something, even ANYTHING about a subject before talking out your ass about it.

I'm going to add pretentiousness and arrogance of adherents to that list of dislikes. And I love the unnecessary ad hominem because God forbid I expressed a personal and subjective opinion in response to a question that called for exactly that.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

I'm going to add pretentiousness and arrogance of adherents to that list of dislikes. And I love the unnecessary ad hominem because God forbid I expressed a personal and subjective opinion in response to a question that called for exactly that.

Tim, don't sweat it. I think your comments just lacked inflection of tone and seemed a bit generalising. From an outsider looking in it can seem a bit odd, but learning more about anything always widens perspective, even if the mind is not changed.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Blasphemy!!

Lol I know, I'm weird. I think the food scene and the alleyway scene mostly just made me laugh.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

Okay, I'm on the "Please don't ever cum on my face" side of the schoolyard. Even the thought of it happening gives me the creeps. But, to be fair, I dry my face half-way through a shower, so it's more the feeling of having anything on my face. *shivers*

Anywhere else? Yup, good to go....from the neck down.

Cumming in my partner's mouth is definitely erotic and fun. And shooting my load on her tits and belly is just plain delicious. Letting her see it and feel it. Facials I guess I understand the appeal I just prefer a different location. Or inside her.

The part they never show in pornos is where they towel off after.

 

[Mebtaz2000]

The dom/sub thing. Why can't I just fuck somebody without bringing power politics into it? I've got better things to do with my time. I don't want to be a master or a slave, both are equally repulsive. Why do some women want to make the man do all the work and take all the initiative? Predictable is BORING after all. What fun is someone so pliant and spineless?

I'm going to add pretentiousness and arrogance of adherents to that list of dislikes. And I love the unnecessary ad hominem because God forbid I expressed a personal and subjective opinion in response to a question that called for exactly that.

Opinions are fine. If you don't like something that is fine. No one says we should all be alike that is boring. But you are making judgments on people that have embraced a lifestyle you admit to not understand. That's going to get you some attention. You don't like it, fine. it's not for you or a partner you would choose, more power to you. Don't tell those that do live in that life they are repulsive and not think you are going to get away with it.

I don't like food play. But I'm not going to call someone that does gross or repugnant.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

I don't like food play. But I'm not going to call someone that does gross or repugnant.

Well, ya know, depends on the food

 

[Mebtaz2000]

Well, ya know, depends on the food

You've already discussed depositing your own special protein shake my friend.

 

[NorthRockJohnson]

You've already discussed depositing your own special protein shake my friend.

Yeah, exactly...the GOOD stuff

Bwahahaa

 

[Little_Sister]

The dom/sub thing. Why can't I just fuck somebody without bringing power politics into it? I've got better things to do with my time. I don't want to be a master or a slave, both are equally repulsive. Why do some women want to make the man do all the work and take all the initiative? Predictable is BORING after all. What fun is someone so pliant and spineless?

Dude. You are fine.

I dont see why people are taking issue with this. I mean if someone said incest RP creeped them out, I wouldn't jump down their throat. To each their own. His feelings have NOTHING to do with your feelings.

They dont need to know ANYTHING about it to know its not for them.

I like people who own their kinks, both what they like and what they dont. Dont tell me what you think I want to hear. Tell me what you really think and feel. Its why I have a major girl crush on RA.

 

[Timihendrix]

Opinions are fine. If you don't like something that is fine. No one says we should all be alike that is boring. But you are making judgments on people that have embraced a lifestyle you admit to not understand. That's going to get you some attention. You don't like it, fine. it's not for you or a partner you would choose, more power to you. Don't tell those that do live in that life they are repulsive and not think you are going to get away with it.

I don't like food play. But I'm not going to call someone that does gross or repugnant.

I said I found the idea or concept of being a master or a slave repulsive, I wasn't calling out any specific individual. As for calling someone pliant and submissive, those are personality traits I don't find attractive, they aren't insults.

 

[barefootgirl69]

I said I found the idea or concept of being a master or a slave repulsive, I wasn't calling out any specific individual. As for calling someone pliant and submissive, those are personality traits I don't find attractive, they aren't insults.

Actually you said 'pliant and spineless'. That was a bit insulting. It's not for everyone, and I'm glad you know yourself well enough to know it isn't something you're interested in. But, I'm not 'spineless' because I submit. There's so much more to it than you care to know, and I'm okay with that, but don't change your words to make yourself look more tolerant than you were in your first post.

 

[suckonsimon]

I can't imagine ever wanting to finish by wanking over or in front of someone's face. Who ever decided that was sexy?

Since I posted this, several have commented about facials in general and fair enough. Allow me to be a pedant and make my point though: What I find so un-sexy is the guy working his own tool, close up to her, while the woman just waits. Funny, isn't it, how the detail of what's goin' on really counts in our 'take' with arousal and satisfaction. If the woman is working him, or they're both working him, and the bj / hj ends up with external spattering, I'm good with that! Especially if the guy then does the gentlemanly thing and gets kissing her!

 

[janeyl]

Since I posted this, several have commented about facials in general and fair enough. Allow me to be a pedant and make my point though: What I find so un-sexy is the guy working his own tool, close up to her, while the woman just waits. Funny, isn't it, how the detail of what's goin' on really counts in our 'take' with arousal and satisfaction. If the woman is working him, or they're both working him, and the bj / hj ends up with external spattering, I'm good with that! Especially if the guy then does the gentlemanly thing and gets kissing her!

See I find a guy "working his own tool" especially arousing...I love it...it's kink of mine. To watch close up how he handles himself, it gives me such insight into how I should handle it for the most pleasure...does he avoid the head? Is it too sensitive? does he slide his whole hand over his whole shaft? Or jut work the top with the ends of his fingers? Is the frenum worth teasing? Can I still touch him when he cums or is that just too intense?

Sometimes it ends up in my face, sometimes not...I don't see it as degrading in the slightest and isn't a submissive act for me at all...however, I don't allow it with anyone else than my partner because, in my experience, other men generally do see it in that submissive, debasing light...