Let's talk about sex baby...

[troubledone]

See I find a guy "working his own tool" especially arousing...I love it...it's kink of mine. To watch close up how he handles himself, it gives me such insight into how I should handle it for the most pleasure...does he avoid the head? Is it too sensitive? does he slide his whole hand over his whole shaft? Or jut work the top with the ends of his fingers? Is the frenum worth teasing? Can I still touch him when he cums or is that just too intense?

Sometimes it ends up in my face, sometimes not...I don't see it as degrading in the slightest and isn't a submissive act for me at all...however, I don't allow it with anyone else than my partner because, in my experience, other men generally do see it in that submissive, debasing light...

That is fair
yet
there could be exchanges between man and women which are outside the D/S dynamic
purely for mutual
pleasure

 

[suckonsimon]

See I find a guy "working his own tool" especially arousing...I love it...it's kink of mine. To watch close up how he handles himself, it gives me such insight into how I should handle it for the most pleasure...does he avoid the head? Is it too sensitive? does he slide his whole hand over his whole shaft? Or jut work the top with the ends of his fingers? Is the frenum worth teasing? Can I still touch him when he cums or is that just too intense?

Sometimes it ends up in my face, sometimes not...I don't see it as degrading in the slightest and isn't a submissive act for me at all...however, I don't allow it with anyone else than my partner because, in my experience, other men generally do see it in that submissive, debasing light...

I love this thread!
Thanks, Janeyl! I just had not imagined it as like that for the woman. But I totally get how the intimacy and exposure of it for the man - whoever's working his tool - would be about shared arousal and connection and the heat of sexual delight. Which is why I said my bit about the cum kiss.

I also love how here's me turned 60 and I'm still putting all this stuff together in my little mind. A 'new' thing for me is not cumming at all even after satisfying my woman to the point of her being totally sated and wanting to stop. One of the several things I love about that is us both admiring my erection glistening with her honey, as we lie together and she watches as I handle myself some. Perhaps some day I will handle myself more-than-some in that context and see if she - and I - like it.

Hey. Here's me exposing myself as a bit of a vanilla babe and, you know, I'm ok with that among you good litster friends!

 

[Trekka]

What janeyl said is spot on. Also, the anticipation, the waiting... that turns me on! Not knowing exactly when it's coming, or where it's going... *shiver*

 

[barefootgirl69]

I love this thread!
Thanks, Janeyl! I just had not imagined it as like that for the woman. But I totally get how the intimacy and exposure of it for the man - whoever's working his tool - would be about shared arousal and connection and the heat of sexual delight. Which is why I said my bit about the cum kiss.

I also love how here's me turned 60 and I'm still putting all this stuff together in my little mind. A 'new' thing for me is not cumming at all even after satisfying my woman to the point of her being totally sated and wanting to stop. One of the several things I love about that is us both admiring my erection glistening with her honey, as we lie together and she watches as I handle myself some. Perhaps some day I will handle myself more-than-some in that context and see if she - and I - like it.

Hey. Here's me exposing myself as a bit of a vanilla babe and, you know, I'm ok with that among you good litster friends!

I love that you share with us, and not in the kinky sense!
We are all different and like different things, especially in a place as big as Literotica. I think one good thing you've pointed out is that nothing should stagnate. Try different things, learn and grown with your partner.
Thank you, Simon!

 

[IhateClowns]

We all have priorities in our every day lives. Someone else's priorities may be different than yours. When it comes to your priorities,

How important is sex to you?

 

[DarkSimian]

We all have priorities in our every day lives. Someone else's priorities may be different than yours. When it comes to your priorities,

How important is sex to you?

I'm going to answer first, so everyone can disagree with me afterwards,

Yes, intercourse is important to me. But what I really need more than anything is the intimacy, the connection with someone. And thankfully I have that now. So while I would love to orgasm every day, the mental and emotional orgasm I share with my lady is the best part of my day.

 

[Corbal]

I'm going to answer first, so everyone can disagree with me afterwards,

Yes, intercourse is important to me. But what I really need more than anything is the intimacy, the connection with someone. And thankfully I have that now. So while I would love to orgasm every day, the mental and emotional orgasm I share with my lady is the best part of my day.

Yup. I vomited in my mouth.

 

[DarkSimian]

Yup. I vomited in my mouth.

then my work is done

 

[Corbal]

then my work is done

Keep it going. I'm trying to drop weight.

 

[DarkSimian]

Keep it going. I'm trying to drop weight.

obviously, I have done something right (or wrong) to attract the great and powerful Corbal's attention

 

[Corbal]

obviously, I have done something right (or wrong) to attract the great and powerful Corbal's attention

I lost about a pound on this post alone. If I can get thin, we can be besties.

 

[DarkSimian]

I lost about a pound on this post alone. If I can get thin, we can be besties.

can we get matching shirts? finish each other's sentences? cuddle instead of have sex? I think that would be so super sweet

 

[cowslinger64]

The dom/sub thing. Why can't I just fuck somebody without bringing power politics into it? I've got better things to do with my time. I don't want to be a master or a slave, both are equally repulsive. Why do some women want to make the man do all the work and take all the initiative? Predictable is BORING after all. What fun is someone so pliant and spineless?

I'm going to add pretentiousness and arrogance of adherents to that list of dislikes. And I love the unnecessary ad hominem because God forbid I expressed a personal and subjective opinion in response to a question that called for exactly that.

You come on here and trash an entire segment of society, and I'M arrogant?

You didn't post an opinion, you made a judgement based on fuckin nothing. You're an idiot. Your "opinion" is baseless and ridiculous.

Put some pants on and stay in the kiddie department. Same goes for the chick from Texas that said you were just fine... Fuck that.


If it weren't for the handful of people from Texas here that I know are intelligent and good people, I'd think you were all fucked in the head.

 

[suckonsimon]

I'm going to answer first, so everyone can disagree with me afterwards,

Yes, intercourse is important to me. But what I really need more than anything is the intimacy, the connection with someone. And thankfully I have that now. So while I would love to orgasm every day, the mental and emotional orgasm I share with my lady is the best part of my day.

That is one fine statement, DS!

I think I'm a bit more basic than you are, and a bit more of a loner. My woman copes well with my emotional independence.

That said, I cannot imagine thriving without fucking. Fucking grandly. Without banging in the orgasms for a good woman. Without the huge pleasure of arousal shared. Without spunking her up over and over and over. For me sex - having sex - is a huge part of who I am. I hope I can be a nice guy alongside that.

 

[RubenesqueAphrodite]

You come on here and trash an entire segment of society, and I'M arrogant?

You didn't post an opinion, you made a judgement based on fuckin nothing. You're an idiot. Your "opinion" is baseless and ridiculous.

Put some pants on and stay in the kiddie department. Same goes for the chick from Texas that said you were just fine... Fuck that.


If it weren't for the handful of people from Texas here that I know are intelligent and good people, I'd think you were all fucked in the head.

Slinger,
I disagree strongly with what TinyTim had to say, I chose-on this ocassion- to try and read it as if the poster wasn't trying to intentionally be a complete ass..which is known to happen, btw.

So, *Splish*splash*, motherfucker, I took the high rode this time and landed in the kiddie pool.

Bite me

 

[Trekka]

I lost about a pound on this post alone. If I can get thin, we can be besties.

I was just saying to someone else that I am regaining all the weight I lost over the pat two super stressful years. If only I could find an abusive ass to induce a fresh round of stress-based anorexic-like eating habits....

That is one fine statement, DS!
I cannot imagine thriving without fucking. Fucking grandly.

I *love* how you just said "fucking grandly" ... bravo.

Slinger,
I disagree strongly with what TinyTim had to say, I chose-on this ocassion- to try and read it as if the poster wasn't trying to intentionally be a complete ass..which is known to happen, btw.

So, *Splish*splash*, motherfucker, I took the high rode this time and landed in the kiddie pool.

Bite me

*high fives* on taking the high road ... i took a brief excursion down the low road today and now I'm wishing that, like my laptop, my mouth had an autocorrect feature that would turn all my "fucks" to "ducks" ... or at minimum, i wish i had a filter i could fasten to my mouth and set to "do not engage."

We all have priorities in our every day lives. Someone else's priorities may be different than yours. When it comes to your priorities,

How important is sex to you?

Very. I paid my attorney ten grand for the freedom to have it.

 

[*Twisted*]

I was just saying to someone else that I am regaining all the weight I lost over the pat two super stressful years. If only I could find an abusive ass to induce a fresh round of stress-based anorexic-like eating habits....



I *love* how you just said "fucking grandly" ... bravo.



*high fives* on taking the high road ... i took a brief excursion down the low road today and now I'm wishing that, like my laptop, my mouth had an autocorrect feature that would turn all my "fucks" to "ducks" ... or at minimum, i wish i had a filter i could fasten to my mouth and set to "do not engage."



Very. I paid my attorney ten grand for the freedom to have it.

LOL at the "do not engage" filter. I could occasionally use one of those myself.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

We all have priorities in our every day lives. Someone else's priorities may be different than yours. When it comes to your priorities,

How important is sex to you?

It's pretty important. Sometimes though, i worry that i make it too important.
A relationship is more than just the sex, and i worry that I neglect the rest, but expect the sex. Not sure that's healthy either (as opposed to a sexless marriage).

 

[Timihendrix]

You come on here and trash an entire segment of society, and I'M arrogant?

You didn't post an opinion, you made a judgement based on fuckin nothing. You're an idiot. Your "opinion" is baseless and ridiculous.

Put some pants on and stay in the kiddie department. Same goes for the chick from Texas that said you were just fine... Fuck that.


If it weren't for the handful of people from Texas here that I know are intelligent and good people, I'd think you were all fucked in the head.

http://4.bp.blogspot.com/-XPCxL3ggDzA/T1dpC1Jl3QI/AAAAAAAABkU/ZCcm5SfTlUU/s1600/Neil-deGrasse-Tyson-we-got-a-bad-ass-over-here-meme.png

 

[Suz_anne]

We all have priorities in our every day lives. Someone else's priorities may be different than yours. When it comes to your priorities,

How important is sex to you?

On a scale of 1-10…. about an 87.

 

[zach20092]

On a scale of 1-10…. about an 87.

Lol!!! That's interesting but reality is far from that for me!! how close to that number do you get to in reality?

 

[jezzilee]

Sex is monumentally important to me...in the not so distant past I was taught the fine art if cuddling. I used to hate it, now? Not so much. I do love to show my partner just how into them I am physically, if they need cuddles afterwards, who am I to deny them?

 

[jezzilee]

Also, Mr. Hater of the clowns, put your sexy mug back up as your av! No one is going to masturbate to the avatar you have now!

 

[Timihendrix]

Sex is important to me, but so are many other aspects of life.

 

[janeyl]

We all have priorities in our every day lives. Someone else's priorities may be different than yours. When it comes to your priorities,

How important is sex to you?

Pretty important...the way I describe my current relationship is that our mutual respect, deep trust and actual liking of each other are the foundations and bricks of our relationship, the sex is the mortar that holds it all together...would it survive without sex? with those foundations, absolutely but it possibly wouldn't be quite as solid or stable...

When I'm outside of a relationship, sometimes I can go without actual physical intercourse for some time but I always remain a highly sexualised person...there are always outlets though...particularly in the world I inhabit...