Let's talk about sex baby...

[aussiegeekygal]

No Aussie you're not the only one

In my mind, during sex, it's like a dirty slide show. There's a constant stream of fantasies, memories, and images floating through my head. Some from past experiences, some from movies or porn, some involve the person I'm with, some don't... and that is interspersed with focusing on the present moment.

It depends what's happening in the present moment too! If I'm tied up and blindfolded and hot wax is drizzling onto my thighs I'm pretty exclusively focused on the here and now!

I don't see anything wrong with it. I think my brain just goes into "sex mode" once things get heated and it cues up and rolls out the dirty mental picture show.

Or sometimes it's a sweet memory... often when my BF kisses me, my mind wanders back to our first kiss. Such a hot moment. Permanently seared into my psyche.

Sometimes afterwards I'll tell my BF what I was thinking about. Sometimes that becomes inspiration for future encounters...

Exactly!
My mind in sex mode is insatiable. My mind wanders off to the most wonderful places. Some of them memories, some of them fantasies I'd like to indulge in, sometimes a substitution of faces and bodies.

Like Trekka, there are times when I'm completely in the moment, and then others where I am riding my best sex organ.

 

[suckonsimon]

#65
I'm joining the men who are saying 'no, this doesn't kick in for me at all'. The part of the question which is about oral surprised me, as I experience oral as so overwhelmingly intimate a thing that I can't even imagine thinking of someone else.

There's an exception to what I'm saying: Just a handful of times, when I've recently had a pm exchange with a bloke about his sex with his woman, I've thought of them while fucking. It's been a kinda 'solidarity of studs' thing: pleasure in my pal having and giving pleasure while I do the same. When that's happened it's upped my energy to do the screwin' and grindin' crazily well!

I like it a lot that several women are saying they do think of others! When women are in "It's raining men!" mode, then everyone is having a fab time!

 

[IhateClowns]

#66. What sex toys have you experimented with so far? What sex toys have you not experimented with but want to? Which ones would you never experiment with again?

 

[aussiegeekygal]

#66. What sex toys have you experimented with so far? What sex toys have you not experimented with but want to? Which ones would you never experiment with again?

Oh, the usual- a vibrator, wand, buttplugs.

I still have yet to venture into whips and chains, although that could be mighty fun.

 

[DarkSimian]

#66. What sex toys have you experimented with so far? What sex toys have you not experimented with but want to? Which ones would you never experiment with again?

Adam and Eve keeps sending me "free" sex toys, which I have never used. But I don't necessarily want to throw them away. So I now I have a drawer full of unused sex toys. Any suggestions?

 

[ViciousTease]

Adam and Eve keeps sending me "free" sex toys, which I have never used. But I don't necessarily want to throw them away. So I now I have a drawer full of unused sex toys. Any suggestions?

You send them to VT's Home for Unused Sex Toys. I'll be sure they are given the love and care they deserve.

 

[DarkSimian]

You send them to VT's Home for Unused Sex Toys. I'll be sure they are given the love and care they deserve.

What's your address?

 

[numeniusa]

Adam and Eve keeps sending me "free" sex toys, which I have never used. But I don't necessarily want to throw them away. So I now I have a drawer full of unused sex toys. Any suggestions?

Free? Free? How do you get them to do that? Are they any good? Or is it just a cucumber with a handle, or something?

 

[suckonsimon]

Free? Free? How do you get them to do that? Are they any good? Or is it just a cucumber with a handle, or something?

Hey you sun-bathing babe you!

Keep paying. So much junk out there, and I'm not talking about the hot pulsing sort of junk you like a lot!

 

[suckonsimon]

#66. What sex toys have you experimented with so far? What sex toys have you not experimented with but want to? Which ones would you never experiment with again?

Wanna see my selection of COCKRINGS?
We're talking the real macoy here, around a man's whole junk cock-n-balls all.
I'm almost never without one on.
Getting the idea that I ADORE them???

 

[Lunation]

##65. What do you think it means when we think about someone else while we’re having sex with our partner? Why do we usually imagine someone else when someone is going down on us?

I don't really have time to think of someone else. My head generally sounds something like this:

"Should I flip her over yet? Yeah, I think it's time. If I put a finger in her ass will she call it quits or is she far gone enough I can get away with it? Oh, she's coming, I'll do it down, what a lovely noise. We didn't put down a towl, is making her squirt worth the angry glares later? Yes. Yes I think it is."

It would be nice to just relax and think of something else. But I think those partners are few and far between.

 

[Trekka]

^you boys. *giggles* I'm flattered you're so solicitous as to whether or not we are having a good time. Y'all think a lot. Am I selfish to just let it roll? See where it goes?

Sex is like art! Gimme some raw materials and some good tunes and let's see what we wind up with when we're done.

Let's be each other's muses.

And sex toys are like Pokémon. I wanna collect them all! Short of the fem-domme-abilia I think I own one of just about everything.

Hitachi magic wand: a girls best friend.

Never try again? Prolly the we vibe remote control thingy - comes with an app so in theory while I'm wearing it the BF can buzz my clit while he's at work and im at home. But don't get too excited Litsters! One size does not fit all. Lol. I'm tall. Guess my vag is too

Want to try? Hmm ... oh lord the BF keeps teasing me about anal hooks. Which means my no will most likely one day get cajoled into a yes. He's such a charmer!

 

[Lunation]

^you boys. *giggles* I'm flattered you're so solicitous as to whether or not we are having a good time. Y'all think a lot. Am I selfish to just let it roll? See where it goes?

Sex is like art! Gimme some raw materials and some good tunes and let's see what we wind up with when we're done.

Let's be each other's muses.

Selfish?

Naw.

I wouldn't be so caught up in my own head if there weren't always consequences.

So long as you've never yelled at your partner for making you squirt because you just cleaned the sheets I think you're good.

 

[Endless_Night]

Selfish?

Naw.

I wouldn't be so caught up in my own head if there weren't always consequences.

So long as you've never yelled at your partner for making you squirt because you just cleaned the sheets I think you're good.

This does not compute. For a couple of reasons. Sheets can be rewashed, and about this squirt thing of which you speak???

 

[Lunation]

This does not compute. For a couple of reasons. Sheets can be rewashed, and about this squirt thing of which you speak???

It is the choir to which you preach.

What about squirting?

 

[Endless_Night]

It is the choir to which you preach.

What about squirting?

Errr...nothing.

 

[Trekka]

Selfish?

Naw.

I wouldn't be so caught up in my own head if there weren't always consequences.

So long as you've never yelled at your partner for making you squirt because you just cleaned the sheets I think you're good.

I yell at him every time! It's part of the fun! How else can I keep up my good girl image if I don't at least pretend to protest?

Errr...nothing.

EN ... we needa talk. Or cam.

 

[Endless_Night]

EN ... we needa talk. Or cam.

*gasps*

You mean you can?!?!?!?!

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

##65. What do you think it means when we think about someone else while we’re having sex with our partner? Why do we usually imagine someone else when someone is going down on us?

I do this but mostly when I am worried that I am making my partner work to hard to make me cum. It works too. lol

 

[EroticRomanticMan]

#66. What sex toys have you experimented with so far? What sex toys have you not experimented with but want to? Which ones would you never experiment with again?

I have tried a slim dildo to see what it feels like to a woman to have anal sex performed on her. I kind of liked it.

I would like to use whips, floggers, crops and switches but have never found a willing participant.

 

[ViciousTease]

This does not compute. For a couple of reasons. Sheets can be rewashed, and about this squirt thing of which you speak???

*whispers* Hitachi.

 

[lakesailer_mi]

#66. What sex toys have you experimented with so far? What sex toys have you not experimented with but want to? Which ones would you never experiment with again?

Vibrators and handcuffs. I have some hope that perhaps some day I can expand this list. I'd do them all again...and again...

^you boys. *giggles* I'm flattered you're so solicitous as to whether or not we are having a good time. Y'all think a lot. Am I selfish to just let it roll? See where it goes?

The reason we care is simple: if you don't have a good time, you might not come back for more. Why we don't care that you don't care? Cuz we'll always come back for more....

And sex toys are like Pokémon. I wanna collect them all! Short of the fem-domme-abilia I think I own one of just about everything.

Why short of the fem-domme thing? I think you'd look hot in black leather.

 

[Trekka]

Why short of the fem-domme thing? I think you'd look hot in black leather.

Oh I'd wear the outfits

Now be a good boy and buy me some boots.

 

[LIVINRFANTASIES]

Dollie

As a much older woman I just love it when young boys buy me sexy clothes and have me model them. The sluttier they are the more I love to prance around and tease.
Just be sure you are 21 in case we go out for a drink.

 

[Lunation]

*whispers* Hitachi.

Don't worry, I'm filling her in.



...

Filling.