Long Distance Relationships

[Lady_Sam]

Grrr, not in the best of moods now. Maybe I'll just stop posting at Lit for a while. Some people. Good night all.

 

[hatara]

Lady_Sam I am so sorry did I say something wrong? This is probably the last time I will see Marty for at least a year so sometimes I talk to much. I didn't mean any harm.

 

[Lady_Sam]

Lady_Sam I am so sorry did I say something wrong? This is probably the last time I will see Marty for at least a year so sometimes I talk to much. I didn't mean any harm.

No not you hun. Apparently some of the posters are very easily pissed off and think nothing of making comments. I'm sorry didn't mean to imply it was you. Gah I'm just making things worse.

 

[hatara]

Not at all Lady_Sam some people just go off sometimes ignore them and know that we think the world of you. You are a wonderful and beautiful person and I always enjoy your posts.

 

[Lady_Sam]

Thank you Hatara. *hugs* I enjoy reading yours too, even those I'm too timid to post to. (me timid hehe)

 

[Lady_Sam]

Re: Hello all

I have to come in and introduce myself.

SXychick and I met on this board and have hit it off famously. We call each other sometimes three times a day and we have already fallen for one another very quickly. I am so very glad to have met her and we really do believe a long distance relationship will work for us. For everyone else that has any questions about how to keep it alive......email sxychick or myself for finer points

It is very good to meet you all, and sxychick.........I'll talk to you later my love.

Welcome to the thread GuidoMustache.

Wish I could hear Daeth's voice that much

 

[hatara]

LOL Well we started the story on the tub flirting but I am truly hoping to get others involved with the writing. I would love to see it turn into a collaborative effort.

 

[JennyOmanHill]

Re: Re: Hello all

Welcome to the thread GuidoMustache.

Wish I could hear Daeth's voice that much

It's pretty tough being here sometimes when your partner isn't able to. I have taken tiny times away myself, but always find some sort of comfort somewhere on the threads.

Try not to dwell on his absence, and especially try to ignore anyone who's posting something annoying. Hang in there, and try to keep as positive as possible (look who's talking!).

Oman and I have discovered this week that there will be major decisions for both of us to make in the months ahead. Trying hard not to be too anxious and to trust that these decisions will lead to wonderful changes for both of us.

Hang in there!

 

[draznyte]

Re: Re: Re: Hello all

It's pretty tough being here sometimes when your partner isn't able to. I have taken tiny times away myself, but always find some sort of comfort somewhere on the threads.

Try not to dwell on his absence, and especially try to ignore anyone who's posting something annoying. Hang in there, and try to keep as positive as possible (look who's talking!).

Oman and I have discovered this week that there will be major decisions for both of us to make in the months ahead. Trying hard not to be too anxious and to trust that these decisions will lead to wonderful changes for both of us.

Hang in there!

One word, Do not stress yourself too much. Enjoy what times you get because if you worry *too* much.. it will just get in the way... the future is something that no one knows as much as we'd like to be good guessers. (Trust me, I'm one of those.) Truth be told, you never know what's gonna happen till it does.. and till it does, then worry about it a HECK of a lot... heh. Now having a teeny bit of concern is good.. and why am I even talking about this? I mean you've had more relationships that I have probably... and I just suck at this whole dating ritual... (Just came in from hanging with a friend and... well, let's just say we ended up doing some things that, if her girlfriend hears... might break her and I'm worried about that... Yes, I know she was taken and yes, I know I'm a pig... She's Bi and well, she and I were just talking and I just blurted out things... It's just nothing, she sees me as just a friend and nothing more.. Only time will tell, if she was just lying to herself or just meaning truth.. I'm just worried, that I might have just ruined her happiness... Oh bleh.. going to bed, just felt like saying hi to the new folks that make me feel welcomed. Hatara, Jenny, That TJ girl from that other place, devil chica and a few others that I'm too tired to name...

 

[sxychick21]

Gods I hate this distance. I would love nothing better than to curl up on the couch and wait for him to get home, have him wake me up with a kiss and go snuggle in bed together. Grrr Is it August yet?

I TOTALLY agree with you. That is what I am longing for....the simple pleasure of having my man when I want to. No waiting....no expensive phone calls.....no misunderstanding cause you cant see or touch. Am I asking for too much? I just want to cook dinner together and curl up on the couch with a video! Argh...this is killing me.

I am sooooo glad I have you guys to commiserate with

 

[hatara]

When he's here I cook dinner, we sit down and eat together and then we snuggle up on the loveseat together and watch a movie. In other words pure heaven.

Being able to have that all the time............*sigh*

 

[Lady_Sam]

When he's here I cook dinner, we sit down and eat together and then we snuggle up on the loveseat together and watch a movie. In other words pure heaven.

Being able to have that all the time............*sigh*

Yes that is my idea of heaven *Sighs* And it's only April. We have August as the closest time...but no date yet.

 

[Top Cat]

mmm.... I'm awake at 3:50 am... can't sleep. I'm having a downer day.

Hi Hat... how are you feeling now your parents are off your back? Marty will be the best carer you could have... you will get support, physio (if that is correct spelling), exercise, and someone to cook you breakfast in bed... try getting that from a hospital... LOL

 

[Lady_Sam]

Re: Re: Re: Hello all

It's pretty tough being here sometimes when your partner isn't able to. I have taken tiny times away myself, but always find some sort of comfort somewhere on the threads.

Try not to dwell on his absence, and especially try to ignore anyone who's posting something annoying. Hang in there, and try to keep as positive as possible (look who's talking!).

Oman and I have discovered this week that there will be major decisions for both of us to make in the months ahead. Trying hard not to be too anxious and to trust that these decisions will lead to wonderful changes for both of us.

Hang in there!

I guess I was just overly sensitive last night Jenny, the responses to one little quote "fan club" weren't anything I was expecting. Ah well. To live and Learn that's life.

 

[Top Cat]

Hello Lady Sam....

August will be here before you know it.... look at the positives and you will be together before you know it....

sorry... 33 days to go....

 

[Lady_Sam]

Hello Lady Sam....

August will be here before you know it.... look at the positives and you will be together before you know it....

sorry... 33 days to go....

Oh difinitely, especially as quickly as this year is flying by

 

[omahaman2]

hi everyone,just wanted to say hi to all you wonderful people. I too miss holding someone,that wonderful lady called jenny,Our week together was wonderful when we had it,but now its memories are torture because they remind you of what you are missing. Iwas just reading froma website about ldrs that had a pretty neat idea,take a picture of each of your rooms and then send them to him or her. The other person can post them up in the appropiate room and then each time they enter that room they can imagine being in yours doing what they are doing.

 

[Ebonyfire]

What a creative idea!

hi everyone,just wanted to say hi to all you wonderful people. I too miss holding someone,that wonderful lady called jenny,Our week together was wonderful when we had it,but now its memories are torture because they remind you of what you are missing. Iwas just reading froma website about ldrs that had a pretty neat idea,take a picture of each of your rooms and then send them to him or her. The other person can post them up in the appropiate room and then each time they enter that room they can imagine being in yours doing what they are doing.

I just don't want him to know what a terrible housekeeper I am ...YET!

Ebony

 

[Ebonyfire]

I have my tickets....

and as the song goes I 'm leaving on a jet plane...

Yippee!

June 24, 2002 I fly to London, England for two weeks!!!


I am so excited, this just might keep me going for a long while!!!



Ebony

 

[Lady_Sam]

Re: I have my tickets....

and as the song goes I 'm leaving on a jet plane...

Yippee!

June 24, 2002 I fly to London, England for two weeks!!!


I am so excited, this just might keep me going for a long while!!!



Ebony

Woohoo Ebony!!!

 

[omahaman2]

congratulations, ebony have fun over in england. I know we will all be cheering for your happiness

 

[Ebonyfire]

Thanks LDR Buddies, one and all!!!

I do not know what I would do without you all! We laugh together, we cry together, we cheer each other on!

What a positive network to get through the various trials and tribulations of long distance love!

I am already packing, and passport will be applied for next week!

Eb

 

[Top Cat]

Re: I have my tickets....

and as the song goes I 'm leaving on a jet plane...

Yippee!

June 24, 2002 I fly to London, England for two weeks!!!


I am so excited, this just might keep me going for a long while!!!



Ebony

and as they say.... the best is yet to come....

It's nice to have that date confirmed and in ink... I remember when we were just talking about "sometime in March...", it was so much more meaningful, and exciting to have a date set. Just a pity that date came and went with no meeting...

Ahhh... but still... I have another date to count down towards.... May 10. That is landing date... she flies out on May 8.

Hope everyone is well, Hat... I hope your medication works wonders for you... both the prescribed and Marty...

 

[JennyOmanHill]

hi everyone,just wanted to say hi to all you wonderful people. I too miss holding someone,that wonderful lady called jenny,Our week together was wonderful when we had it,but now its memories are torture because they remind you of what you are missing. Iwas just reading froma website about ldrs that had a pretty neat idea,take a picture of each of your rooms and then send them to him or her. The other person can post them up in the appropiate room and then each time they enter that room they can imagine being in yours doing what they are doing.

WOW... after seeing "our" bedroom in NYC, I can't imagine that vision ever leaving your mind!

Good luck with ALL your countdowns!! Hope Oman and I can manage one of our own soon!

 

[hatara]

Wooooohoooooooooooo Ebony you go girl!!!

Thanks Top Cat I am sure both will just do wonders!!