Lord Pmann
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I've already had to tell someone how fucking sweet I am today. Thank you for providing a reference.
Lord Pmann wants to discuss Brianna38
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I've already had to tell someone how fucking sweet I am today. Thank you for providing a reference.
Dionysian Beast
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Yes, I'm sure there's 10 other cases that I don't even know about. I do recall KK.
Do you remember the one I was talking about? I can't remember the username, it was a petit brunette with very "Republican" views, "she" was in relationships with some people over the years, and some towards the end found out it was a guy this whole time.
Trekka
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Trekka’s PSA:
Join dates can be misleading. People make several accounts at various time points so they can play several “Alts” at once.
It’s like training Pokémon. They take time with each alt to flesh it out a bit here and there. That way, when it’s time to bring the alt out to “use it,” it looks more legit.
So, folks hang onto ancient accounts with rando join dates for alty shenanigans, which vary from harmless to hurtful.
TLDR: The join dates doesn’t *necessarily* mean as much as we sometimes think they do.
Join dates can be misleading. People make several accounts at various time points so they can play several “Alts” at once.
It’s like training Pokémon. They take time with each alt to flesh it out a bit here and there. That way, when it’s time to bring the alt out to “use it,” it looks more legit.
So, folks hang onto ancient accounts with rando join dates for alty shenanigans, which vary from harmless to hurtful.
TLDR: The join dates doesn’t *necessarily* mean as much as we sometimes think they do.
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NC_Coastal
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True. My join date is when I discovered Literotica. I assumed the site was nothing more than a place to read and write erotica. Then I discovered the role-play chat rooms (ick). I didn't stumble into this side of it until last February.
Dionysian Beast
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Ahhh yes, the old "alts" nonsense. Is it as bad as it used to be?
Trekka
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Well, apparently, it’s worse, as this time around, a lot of feelings got hurt, tits and a death got faked, a husband alt named Jim showed up, AND a gofundme was proposed…
There is debate as to which gender masqueraded as which. —> most say it was a chick pretending to be a chick ie local private dicks @Mo_Bandy and @Lord Pmann
And subquestion: does the gender matter at all? —> today, @aussiegeekygal says no
And subsubquestion: does outing this type of thing even matter? —> most say yes, because it’s not okay with the general Lit community to be deceitful and manipulative and ultimately hurtful.
I’m happy to see people joining together here to say “No, this level of deception is not cool in our little litland ecosystem.”
aussiegeekygal
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Gender matters, I just choose not to care after falling deeply, madly in love with IloveClowns
pandaburr
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I’m far from upset but am I skeeved out by it all? Yeah. I think it’s weird. There are people here who have real connections, or long for them, meet, and whatever else..I mean I guess I don’t have to tell you any of that. You know. And I [apparently ignorantly] don’t immediately assume the people I talk to here are outright lying. Also just throwing it in that I didn’t vote for trump.
Lord Pmann
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Come on, Dribs. You've got to understand why we are talking about this. This isn't someone lying about dick size. It's someone lying about having a dick. Then that vagina went and died on us.
Let's try to keep politics out of here. I'm not sure how you worked that one in, but I'm impressed. It's a divisive subject and right now we are trying to look through every detail of this little scammer's lies. Let this be the subject that brings political parties together.
LaisDeMarieDeFrance
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So were the scammers the ones who voted for Trump? Or the ones who believed the scammers? I'm confused Dribs.
It's not just lying though, it's a long term project of manipulation and deception. I'm tending to think it was all a satire, and that there must be a reason why it unravelled quickly and presently.
Aside from that we should all use the episode as a reminder to be as honest as possible within our own situations. An awful lot of behaviour here is based on misrepresentation, and the use of alts is pernicious. Lit would be a better experience if this wasn't so.
TedandKit
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Of all the places in the world Lit is a great escape. Kit and I found each other here 8 years ago. We came here because we knew we couldn’t use basic vanilla dating websites. We have a strong and deep love of physical intimacy. We wanted to be open with each other. Didn’t want to have to dance around what or what not to say to each other. This was back when we had two different accounts.
The joy of Lit is freedom not to be judge because we maybe are kinky. We need more then just hand holding to get by in a relationship. We need to know we can share wants, needs, and desires.
I’ve personally been part of Lit since the early days. Because so many chats just shut down. Here we could meet people to enjoy and play with. We could meet friends that you didn’t have to be shy around.
It’s awful that people can take advantage of others here. It’s the price of being a anonymous website. You really don’t know till you speak or hear the other person behind the name.
Have faith friends, some have been hurt and it was wrong to be lied to this way. In the end always know there are a lot of good people here. A lot that just want to be free and open about who they are, and we can’t let the bad ones divide us.
Ted
The joy of Lit is freedom not to be judge because we maybe are kinky. We need more then just hand holding to get by in a relationship. We need to know we can share wants, needs, and desires.
I’ve personally been part of Lit since the early days. Because so many chats just shut down. Here we could meet people to enjoy and play with. We could meet friends that you didn’t have to be shy around.
It’s awful that people can take advantage of others here. It’s the price of being a anonymous website. You really don’t know till you speak or hear the other person behind the name.
Have faith friends, some have been hurt and it was wrong to be lied to this way. In the end always know there are a lot of good people here. A lot that just want to be free and open about who they are, and we can’t let the bad ones divide us.
Ted
Mika1215
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The reason why it unraveled quickly was because these things always do.
This is like the billionth time I've seen this in a social media community, going all the way back to the usenet days. And there's always the same general outline...something precipitates the faking of the death--here, it's not exactly clear to me what, but it's usually either that the scam has unraveled, or the death is part of the scam--and then, because people are kind and generous, there is the outpouring of grief and sometimes money in that quick intense time after the death, and then people start questioning. Then it all unravels very fast, because the reason why these things don't fall apart earlier is that that few are focusing, looking carefully. But the scams usually don't stand up to scrutiny at all. And the next stage of grief is being pissed off.
And then it becomes part of the lore of the site.
It's also sad, and it's unfortunate that a lot of people get hurt by it.
aussiegeekygal
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barefootgirl69
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Probably because he wasn't doing it to be a perv but was questioning the validity and authenticity.
Surely anybody posting realises they can be saved and shared. And the events of the last few days show trust can't be relied upon.
Lonelywife1205
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As creepy as it is, when you post on a public message board, how can you have an expectation of privacy? I think it’s completely different if someone sends pics to you privately.
Lord Pmann
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People have discussed it and some are angry about it. One could argue the person knew they were fake (he obviously did) and saved them for that reason. I wouldn’t do that, but I get it.
What’s weird is if people are just saving other photos for their own amusement (
). And sadly, some people are.
Mika1215
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It's a public forum. There is no guarantee of privacy. And it's a public forum about sex, basically. It's totally unsurprising to me.
Not that I don't think that it's kind of creepy in a general way, but I'm willing to bet that there are plenty of people saving pics. In this case, it's been pretty useful.
J_Bone
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Was wondering how long it would take you to entwine Trump and those who voted for him into this debacle like you do every other fucking thing. I had the under, meaning I bet it would be much earlier. I lost. So congrats, dude. Your TDS seems to be improving.
jason28053
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Her pics were still on Imgur until yesterday
Dribble
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And what comes of it? You can never understand it. Just like the time before....and the time before that...and the time before that. This is nothing in terms of Lit scams. Fine....no politics even though I am right. Let's dive into the psychology of why this bothers people. Is it because the fantasy associated with the site is destroyed for a couple weeks? Or is really because one anonymous person lied? None of this makes senseCome on, Dribs. You've got to understand why we are talking about this. This isn't someone lying about dick size. It's someone lying about having a dick. Then that vagina went and died on us.
Let's try to keep politics out of here. I'm not sure how you worked that one in, but I'm impressed. It's a divisive subject and right now we are trying to look through every detail of this little scammer's lies. Let this be the subject that brings political parties together.
Icy1
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I think it’s often accepted that if you post a pic someone is likely to copy it.
The less time a person leaves their pic posted the higher the chances are that people will copy it.
So if someone says “posting this for a short time” some lit users will be like, Bam! Screenshot.
