Fury, you are not alone. My hubby was always a Dom until he met me. Because of bad experiences as a child I just wouldn't ever let a man Dom me. But as I got older and through the extreme amount of patience my husband has, he not only became a sub for me but also loved it. He always told me that "the ultimate expression of dominance is to allow yourself to be submissive!" He really gets off on being a sub for me. But not just me. He has been around some of my female friends and has told me he would crawl on his knees for a mile just to lick their ass. I have watched him being Dommed by other woman friends and it is soooo hot.FurryFury said:Thanks Lust4us,but I don't actually seek to control unless I know he wants that. I feel I am actually a sub by nature. I sometimes take charge because I feel I should give as good as I get.
I also feel that though I know he trusts me about so many things, this is a real problem hang up - lack of trust issue and that kind of hurts.
Fury
Through his patience with me, he has also allowed me to get to the point, where I can get hot enough to allow my self to be a sub. Even though it is to another woman. I know one day I will let him Dom me. I want that and the day is coming soon. But just by him supporting me and not being jealous when I am a sub for another woman, has allowed me total sexual freedom. It is also really hot and kinky watching him being a slave right next to me! Its Really Hot!!!
Trust comes in time Fury and I know you will eventually get it. To know how to feel as good as you get, is so important. Being a sub, even though it was not to my hubby, has made me a much better Dom for his pleasure, as well as the other woman that I play with. I think if your hubby knew that you needed to Dom him, so you could be a better sub for him, his eyes and ears might start to open. If you have too, just ask him outright. "Honey I trust you implicitly, do you trust me the same? If he say's he does than tell him to prove it. Tell him you want to be more for him. That you need the experience to be better for him and to allow your self to give more, because of the trust he has in you! I hope this helps! You deserve it all sweetie!
In fact my cock is twitching right now from just typing these words! 
