Oral Servitude

[rosco rathbone]

Anyhow, my basic point was just that, like the romans, I view oral as instantiating a power imbalance. Not everyone feels this way, but it amused me to see that one of the founding cultures of Western Civ saw things the same as I do. I guess that's where I get it from, in the big picture.

 

[shy slave]

Hi, Shy.

When I referenced my "personal experience", I was referring to the fact that I have never been intimate with a Top. I have only been with guys who just relax and enjoy it, if you know what I mean.... .... and I assume that the experience varies significantly if he is overtly trying to control, direct, or otherwise dominate the situation.

As for the idea of oral as the ultimate "topping from the bottom", I think I know what you mean. The equipment is extraordinarily responsive and easy to manipulate!

I don't actually see myself as "dominating" in this situation, though. I just feel intensely loving & affectionate at some times, or playfully controlling at others. (Playful, as in: I wonder what will happen if I do this..... oh! I love the noise he makes when I do that..... etc. )

As for the "risk" men take.... LOL. How true!

Alice

I love experimenting and hearing the pleasure noises made as a result of that.

For me its a complete experience.

I want him to experience a build up and careful manipulation of every sensory nerve he has.

Its not a controlling issue but a way to show him how important his pleasure is to me.

A bit like the ultimate ride at the theme park

The noises that he makes turn me on, which is a side benefit for me .

 

[alice_underneath]

I love experimenting and hearing the pleasure noises made as a result of that.

For me its a complete experience.

I want him to experience a build up and careful manipulation of every sensory nerve he has.

Its not a controlling issue but a way to show him how important his pleasure is to me.

A bit like the ultimate ride at the theme park

The noises that he makes turn me on, which is a side benefit for me .

The quid pro quo. Of course! I understand exactly what you mean, and agree with you on all points.

This discussion reminds me of the post by serijules that you put up as Thought for the Day:

My focus is so completely on pleasing another person and making another person happy that in the process, I make myself very happy as well. The reward for me is knowing that I am doing everything I can to be a positive, rewarding part of someone's life whom I respect and love very much.

https://forum.literotica.com/showpost.php?p=15910833&postcount=35

 

[Netzach]

It isn't easy, but with great effort i can force out a few drops of piss.

One of the side benefits of doing prostate exercises.

I have got to learn this. I am pee shy I can't start and stop my streams, I just suck at this GS thing outside of lifting my leg like a feral fox and spraying.

But that's another thread, I shall shut it.

 

[Marquis]

I have got to learn this. I am pee shy I can't start and stop my streams, I just suck at this GS thing outside of lifting my leg like a feral fox and spraying.

But that's another thread, I shall shut it.

The challene is half the fun, and I'm not sure the sensation will cross gender barriers but forcing a shot of piss through a hard dick feels kinda like the physical sensation of cumming without the euphoria usually attached to it.

 

[John Doe]

I also like the upcast eyes though.

 

[Andante]

It isn't easy, but with great effort i can force out a few drops of piss.

One of the side benefits of doing prostate exercises.

From what I've been told it's actually rather an indication of a 'leaking' problem that can cause you incontinence problems as you grow older. I am curious as to what kind of proof you have to back your theory?

 

[Marquis]

From what I've been told it's actually rather an indication of a 'leaking' problem that can cause you incontinence problems as you grow older. I am curious as to what kind of proof you have to back your theory?

You don't say?

What proof would be sufficient?

 

[Andante]

You don't say?

What proof would be sufficient?

Marquis, it's not a question of proving anything to me; I'm perfectly happy with you having that ability! I am NOT an expert, and you may be perfectly right, but having gone through quite substantial health- and first aid training myself (though many years ago) and having spent 23 years of my life with a vet nurse / bio-analyst, what you said raised a tiny, suspicious voice in the back of my head. So yesterday I talked to a nurse about it, and she voiced exactly the concern that I was having.
If you don't see a problem, then there is no problem!

 

[Marquis]

Marquis, it's not a question of proving anything to me; I'm perfectly happy with you having that ability! I am NOT an expert, and you may be perfectly right, but having gone through quite substantial health- and first aid training myself (though many years ago) and having spent 23 years of my life with a vet nurse / bio-analyst, what you said raised a tiny, suspicious voice in the back of my head. So yesterday I talked to a nurse about it, and she voiced exactly the concern that I was having.
If you don't see a problem, then there is no problem!

Suspicious voice, eh?

Funny how it made it all the way from the back of your head onto the pages of the forum. I've proven myself many times in the past, but not sure how I'd pull this one off.

The incontinence thing would be no fun though. Should I stop doing it, or does the mere ability automatically preclude bladder control in later years?

 

[Andante]

(....) The incontinence thing would be no fun though. Should I stop doing it, or does the mere ability automatically preclude bladder control in later years?

Frankly, I don't know whether your practicing your (very sexy, I admit) kink would worsen your potential problem or not. But if you are in any doubt I suggest you see your GP.

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Urea, the component in urine found in the largest amount is used in many ways, i.e. as an emollient, bleach, plastics production, resins and glues. It even has agriclutural uses but swallowing it is not recommended and is considered toxic and therefore not "kinky" to me.
Oh and Marquis you are sticking within the SS&C limits when you practice this yes?

Frankly, I don't know whether your practicing your (very sexy, I admit) kink would worsen your potential problem or not. But if you are in any doubt I suggest you see your GP.

 

[shy slave]

Just thinking about the weekend

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Oh shy now I'm thinking about it too!

*pouting*







Don't forget to ask for lots of cookies just remember the code word.

Just thinking about the weekend

 

[raven2]

Oh shy now I'm thinking about it too!

*pouting*








Don't forget to ask for lots of cookies just remember the code word.

And are you thinking that it will be a good time?

 

[shy slave]

Oh shy now I'm thinking about it too!

*pouting*







Don't forget to ask for lots of cookies just remember the code word.

BB I am hoping he has forgotten my 'Things NOT to say..' comment,

But its like calling him Elvis (as he is the King), its sooooo tempting

 

[Blushing Bottom]

oooooo...so what when he cums you can yell out "Elvis has left the building?"

BB I am hoping he has forgotten my 'Things NOT to say..' comment,

But its like calling him Elvis (as he is the King), its sooooo tempting

 

[shy slave]

oooooo...so what when he cums you can yell out "Elvis has left the building?"

ROFL

I wish I had the nerve to do that!

 

[Blushing Bottom]

Ah well yes...one of the advantages og being novice and not properly trained as yet.

ROFL

I wish I had the nerve to do that!

 

[sandyb]

bumping

 

[FurryFury]

I love sucking a cock but I hate being told I've bitten when I damned well didn't and wouldn't, unless he wanted me too.

Fury

 

[lust4us]

I love sucking a cock but I hate being told I've bitten when I damned well didn't and wouldn't, unless he wanted me too.

Fury

Fury, I am starting to fall in love with you! I totally agree that we are in controll and who the fuck are they to tell us that they don't like what they are receiving? Are we not the one's who controll it all? Has pussy now taken place to something else? Guess what, It hasn't! We still have what the cocks and the sub pussies want, so let us never forget that! OK Furry?

 

[FurryFury]

Fury, I am starting to fall in love with you! I totally agree that we are in controll and who the fuck are they to tell us that they don't like what they are receiving? Are we not the one's who controll it all? Has pussy now taken place to something else? Guess what, It hasn't! We still have what the cocks and the sub pussies want, so let us never forget that! OK Furry?

Thanks Lust4us, but I don't actually seek to control unless I know he wants that. I feel I am actually a sub by nature. I sometimes take charge because I feel I should give as good as I get.

I also feel that though I know he trusts me about so many things, this is a real problem hang up - lack of trust issue and that kind of hurts.

Fury

 

[MechaBlade]

The interesting thing about cocksucking is that it can be seen as a submissive act, or a controlling one. In my opinion.

 

[FurryFury]

The interesting thing about cocksucking is that it can be seen as a submissive act, or a controlling one. In my opinion.

I think that's true. I think that's true for a lot of things. It's all POV.

Fury