so i finally saw secretary

[redelicious]

Finally!

I finally saw this last night on HBO. Hmmm...

I felt sorry for both of them in a way because of the struggle they both had to go through before they could be comfortable together. I agree with Arden, I had a hard time accepting him as a Dom at first, but that changed as the movie went along. I get that it was just part of the character development for the movie's sake. I also regret the whole cutting thing, but again just part of the movie.

I wish her character hadn't put that bug in the bed after they got married. I would hope that eventually they would get to the point where she could ask for what she needed.

Other then that, the first spanking scene was HOT!!! And let's not forget the scene where he calls her in his office after he finds the worm.

Anyone else think she had a new aura of, dare I say, power at the end of the movie?

 

[DevilishTexan]

Just saw it yesterday. FANTASTIC! My favorite scenes are:

1. She hooks her finger around his after the first spanking. Mmmm yes.

2. The tree scene. How can you NOT love that scene?

3. The pamper scene where he indulges his sub in the tub. Too sweet and true. Does she have great breasts or what?



I suggest this movie to any budding sub

 

[Onee3]

Well Luv:

If you enjoyed that movie, ............you really, realllllllllllllllllllllllllly need to check out 9 1/2 weeks and the Story of O. Much more intense......and makes one wake up and smell the (dom) coffee.


O

 

[Sirs Lady]

Originally posted by Onee3
Well Luv:

If you enjoyed that movie, ............you really, realllllllllllllllllllllllllly need to check out 9 1/2 weeks and the Story of O. Much more intense......and makes one wake up and smell the (dom) coffee.


O

unless there's a different movie called 9 1/2 weeks, that is uncensored or something, it let me down. I had read the book and the movie was just an overview of it.....it didnt excite me at all...

 

[bunny bondage]

unless there's a different movie called 9 1/2 weeks, that is uncensored or something, it let me down. I had read the book and the movie was just an overview of it.....it didnt excite me at all...

me too! i was SO dissapointed by that film! it had been built up for so long, and when i finally saw it, i was just kinda left wondering what the big damn deal was.

 

[LunarKitten]

my favorite part was her smile at the first smack on her ass. And the beginning was great.

I think my favorite scene was where she locked herself in the bathroom and tried spanking herself with the hairbrush, finally throwing it down in disgust lol I don't know of very many submissives who haven't tried the self spanking or flogging only to be disappointed in the results

 

[BlueSugar]

It was on again tonight, and it was the first time I was able to catch it since the first time I watched it.

I think it was better the second time.

I sat all curled on my couch in my night shirt and panties, with a bowl of popcorn ... I think I'm beginning to love this movie..

 

[vampdclxvi]

amazing

I have caught this film twice on HBO. It leaves me in awe everytime I see it. Her devotion to him and his inner termoil with who he is...its a breathtaking film. I have asked several people if they have seen it and not many ppl have. A friend in another thread suggested I stop by here..and poof..here I am.

I think I am going to pick this up on DVD. I cant seem to get enough of this movie.

 

[DevilishTexan]

Well Luv:

If you enjoyed that movie, ............you really, realllllllllllllllllllllllllly need to check out 9 1/2 weeks and the Story of O. Much more intense......and makes one wake up and smell the (dom) coffee.


O

I saw 9 1/2 weeks and think that was tame compared to Secretary. Have yet to see Story of O but would love to, heard about it. If you have the dvd and watch the Director's notes, it's very enlightening.

 

[lapinova]

i saw this movie with my dearest friend when i went to visit her... bought the DVD and watch it all the time.
Finally, a love story twisted little me can identify with!
I love seeing her gain confidence and come into her own. i know that when i discovered who i was, i became much stronger as a person. i like who i am much more since learning and accepting everything that i am, and i am very glad to know i am not alone in wanting this kind of relationship.
His struggle with his own nature was interesting for me... it never occurred to me that a Dom might have the same difficulties accepting his unique needs. A definite eye-opener, as well as a beautiful (if unconventional) love story.

 

[DVS]

unless there's a different movie called 9 1/2 weeks, that is uncensored or something, it let me down. I had read the book and the movie was just an overview of it.....it didnt excite me at all...

If I remember correctly, the movie was cut to ribbons by the censors. I remember when they were interviewing Kim Basinger about her role and some of the things she talked about never made it into the movie.

If there is an uncensored version or director's cut somewhere, I would love to see it. I have the censored version, just because she has such a sexy ass. And, even though the movie was censored, I still liked the food scene where he had her tasting foods while blindfolded. They did leave some pretty good scenes in that movie.

OK, now back to the Secretary...

 

[His_good_girl]

i finally saw secretary last night (and will be watching it again and again i am sure).

Some things that hit me (i am sure they have already been mentioned) ...
* her wrapping her finger around his after the spanking
* the proud look on his face when Peter tries to pull her away from the desk and she fights him to return to her position
* his care for her when he finally claims her, especially his bathing of her
* and yes, i agree with the person who said she did seem to have an aura of power at the end of the movie - but i think she has finally recognized the strength within herself
* oh, and that sex scene where she was tied to the tree

 

[sirhugs]

i finally saw secretary last night (and will be watching it again and again i am sure).

Some things that hit me (i am sure they have already been mentioned) ...
* her wrapping her finger around his after the spanking
* the proud look on his face when Peter tries to pull her away from the desk and she fights him to return to her position
* his care for her when he finally claims her, especially his bathing of her
* and yes, i agree with the person who said she did seem to have an aura of power at the end of the movie - but i think she has finally recognized the strength within herself
* oh, and that sex scene where she was tied to the tree

I think the filmmaker's message was , among other things, that submitting gave her power. In many ways, her surreal sitdown strike reveresed the power roles- she demanded he take control. From that point on, although he played the Dom role, she was the one in charge. It was that which fulfilled them.

 

[phyremaire]

great movie!
I love James Spader and, for me, they couldn't have chosen a more perfect actor for that part.
Lee seemed at times to be almost retarded! Like when he was trying to get her to answer the (not)ringing phone, he wouldn't have had to make the 'bbrrriiinngg' sound even once if I had been her!
But it was a very sweet love story. I lmao at the earthworm scene.
fuck
that was a great movie..did i say that already?

 

[bdsmToy]

Great movie that really showed the true essance of a BDSM relationship, It also won a sundance movie award, great movie, its a movie that everyone into bdsm should see at the very least, perhaps purchase it.

 

[cellis]

I must be the only one, but I truly hated this movie.

I hated it because it made it seem like only crazy people indulge in such behavior... ie... she was released from an institution, continue to cut herself... I know, I know some of us do, some of us don't....

Why couldn't she have just been some shy girl looking for a job...


I hated that he let her sit at that desk for days before he claimed her...

I did like watching his stuggle, but would have liked it better if he had been in more control of himself... what can I say... I like my Dom to be in charge...

There were just little things throughout the movie that really bothered me...

I did like the spanking scene at the desk...

I did like it when he claimed her at the end and cared for her the tub...

I just keep thinking to myself this movie had such potential and could have been made so much better.

This is just my opinion.

 

[cellis]

oops

 

[cellis]

oops

 

[Krinaia]

you hated it so much you had to post three times


i thought it was nice to see a dom being human and coming to terms with his dominance just likes subs have to. the guy that bothered me was peter - he to me, was a depressing character. and when he screwed her? bleh.

 

[cellis]

No just impatient with lit being too slow!

 

[DVS]

No just impatient with lit being too slow!

You know, cellis, a good Dom could help you get past that impatience thing you have with the system being slow. It would take a series of training sessions and it would be sure to succeed.

Well, it might not succeed, depending on how stubborn you are. You see, your body can only take so much before it is desensitized to pain stimulus.

And, you would have to want to get past it. You must want to get past it, or that would require yet another series of training sessions.

The more problems you have, the more training sessions would be needed. And, there would be the additional problem of your enjoying it too much, so lengthy sessions of denial would be needed, too.

This is getting interesting.

 

[Krinaia]

i feel like i just watched a dog chase its tail, i don't understand what you said dvs.... and cellis, i was just teasin'

 

[DVS]

i feel like i just watched a dog chase its tail, i don't understand what you said dvs.... and cellis, i was just teasin'

Best watch it...this dog will catch your tail

 

[cellis]

You know, cellis, a good Dom could help you get past that impatience thing you have with the system being slow. It would take a series of training sessions and it would be sure to succeed.

Well, it might not succeed, depending on how stubborn you are. You see, your body can only take so much before it is desensitized to pain stimulus.

And, you would have to want to get past it. You must want to get past it, or that would require yet another series of training sessions.

The more problems you have, the more training sessions would be needed. And, there would be the additional problem of your enjoying it too much, so lengthy sessions of denial would be needed, too.

This is getting interesting.

I have been told that I am very stubborn... so I must need lots of lessons...

Of course there is my deep seated need to please... I hope they don't conflict with one another...

 

[cellis]

i feel like i just watched a dog chase its tail, i don't understand what you said dvs.... and cellis, i was just teasin'

Darlin... I took no offense...