The LIT Swingers Club

Have you ever been to a swinger's party/club and participated in swapping partners?


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Liz, I thought that said hot wings and you totally had me for a second.

Someone hasn't eaten dinner yet has she? :)

Now that you mention it though, I could go for some wings right about now too.

I wonder what we'd have to agree to around here to get some delivered? lol
 
Someone hasn't eaten dinner yet has she? :)

Now that you mention it though, I could go for some wings right about now too.

I wonder what we'd have to agree to around here to get some delivered? lol

That could end up in the "things that will get you laid" thread LOL
 
No, I haven't personally. Not yet anyways. But it doesn't sound like the worst situation to be in to me. I personally believe it's really really important to be honest with our "primary partner" but once you have permission to play, as long as you're honest about it and share all the juicy details about your encounters when you get home, then what's the harm?

Keeping the lines of communication is the most important and the hardest part. That's what I've learned so far anyways. And you know, sometimes you just have to feed their suspicious minds so that they don't START getting suspicious.

If you like him that much it seems the best thing you can do is be honest with him. Heck, he might even ENJOY hearing about your adventures!

And, like I and others have mentioned here in other posts, the RECLAIMING part is absolutely the BEST!

I had no idea it was going to be so good and neither did my husband. I swear, it feels like we're getting close to the point where it's going to be okay for me to go out and play just so that I can come home and be reclaimed by him.

Honesty + Communication = Wildest Desires and Multiple O's at least imho! :D

What this sound like is you have a man has great confidence in himself and your relationship.
 
That could end up in the "things that will get you laid" thread LOL

It already did LOL

Okay, Kim. Once I get my tubes tied, I'll give you a call. :D

That's a great plan JJ, especially because you're still young. I should go ahead and do that too. I'm relying on my IUD and my age to get me thru the next few years but that's probably rolling the dice a bit.

What this sound like is you have a man has great confidence in himself and your relationship.

He does and we do do. :heart: But it's still playing with fire. I've already learned, mostly from others, that this so-called "lifestyle" can start out being just about having fun and having sex, but it can quickly escalate to more than that.

Falling in love with someone else, or at the very least very serious sweep-me-off-my-feet and take me away like-like, is a very real possibility.

Especially for him. He could easily meet a hotter, younger woman and fall madly in love with her. Plus, he would love to have a son and my baby making days are quickly fading behind me. I've already told him I'm done making babies so if the right woman came along, I could very easily find myself single and alone.

I guess if it happened soon enough though I might have a chance at getting together with some rich, older guy if I could be the younger "new thang" in his life. It would be fun to be rich. :devil: Plus, I would be fantastic at spending someone else's money even if he did make me sleep with all of his friends to do it. That would actually sort of be a win-win for me unless they were all really old and gross :eek:
 
Plus, I would be fantastic at spending someone else's money even if he did make me sleep with all of his friends to do it. That would actually sort of be a win-win for me unless they were all really old and gross :eek:

This! :heart:

A girl can dream, can't she? :D
 
It already did LOL



That's a great plan JJ, especially because you're still young. I should go ahead and do that too. I'm relying on my IUD and my age to get me thru the next few years but that's probably rolling the dice a bit.



He does and we do do. :heart: But it's still playing with fire. I've already learned, mostly from others, that this so-called "lifestyle" can start out being just about having fun and having sex, but it can quickly escalate to more than that.

Falling in love with someone else, or at the very least very serious sweep-me-off-my-feet and take me away like-like, is a very real possibility.

Especially for him. He could easily meet a hotter, younger woman and fall madly in love with her. Plus, he would love to have a son and my baby making days are quickly fading behind me. I've already told him I'm done making babies so if the right woman came along, I could very easily find myself single and alone.

I guess if it happened soon enough though I might have a chance at getting together with some rich, older guy if I could be the younger "new thang" in his life. It would be fun to be rich. :devil: Plus, I would be fantastic at spending someone else's money even if he did make me sleep with all of his friends to do it. That would actually sort of be a win-win for me unless they were all really old and gross :eek:

I am certainly not rich, but I am curious, how do you define "old and gross?"
 
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"Wait. Are you saying you're the only one who brought your wife?
So exactly how many guys showed up without their wives?
Whoa, that's a lot, honey. Why are you just now telling me this?
Honey?!! Honey???!!!"


(trust is so important and can so easily be broken in the swinger/swapping lifestyle.
always remember to be careful ladies and make sure you absolutely trust
whoever invites and whoever brings you to a "party" :eek: )
 
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I wish we could see her wedding ring.

But I guess the important thing is that her husband knows it's still there. :D :devil:
 
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"Because he's going to do things to me that you simply can't, sweetie.
That's why. Now no more talking, okay? Yes, of course I'm scared.
Do you see how big this thing is? Yes, it's going to hurt. But it's also
going to feel fucking amazing. I haven't had a really big cock like this
since college. I love you, but shut the fuck up and just watch now. Okay?"
 
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Ladies: If you're in the lifestyle and your husband asks if you want to go to Vegas
this weekend with him and a few of his buddies, be aware that it's unlikely any
of these friends of his are bringing their wives. :D
 
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A fun way to mix things up and have a little extra fun at your next
swingers/swap party is to see who's best at guessing games.
:rolleyes:
 
I’ve been having a devil angel moment when it comes to going to the swingers club since I started seeing my FWB. He’s not in the lifestyle and has no interest in going. He knows I go. He doesn’t seem bothered by it but I always feel like I need to tell him I just hung out with my friends and I wasn’t involved in any play. Which, I haven’t been since I started seeing him. Rock… hard place… suggestions?
 
I’ve been having a devil angel moment when it comes to going to the swingers club since I started seeing my FWB. He’s not in the lifestyle and has no interest in going. He knows I go. He doesn’t seem bothered by it but I always feel like I need to tell him I just hung out with my friends and I wasn’t involved in any play. Which, I haven’t been since I started seeing him. Rock… hard place… suggestions?

Honesty is always the best policy and that seems to be yours so I would suggest continuing with that. Especially as long as he doesn't seem bothered by it. Who knows? It might be lighter fluid for him even though he doesn't want to participate with you.

Have you and this new FWB become exclusive? Or do you choose not to play at your club for some other reason?
 
Honesty is always the best policy and that seems to be yours so I would suggest continuing with that. Especially as long as he doesn't seem bothered by it. Who knows? It might be lighter fluid for him even though he doesn't want to participate with you.

Have you and this new FWB become exclusive? Or do you choose not to play at your club for some other reason?

We’ve never really discussed the “relationship” much. I’ve just chose not to participate. Hell, the FWB and I haven’t even had sex yet. We’ve been taking it super slow. He did get very turned on though when I took photos and video of me giving him a bj. Maybe he’s got a little exhibitionist streak?
 
I've been part of a few threesomes with a few swinger couples. They were nicest people I have ever met and we had one hell of a time.

I recently did a hotwife and her and I had an amazing time. Her husband watched the whole thing. It was one of the most intense sexually experiences I have ever had. It was the first time they ever did something like that and I don't think the husband thought the whole thing through. Sometimes fantasy is better then reality. Even though she wanted to meet again her husband put a stop to that.
 
We’ve never really discussed the “relationship” much. I’ve just chose not to participate. Hell, the FWB and I haven’t even had sex yet. We’ve been taking it super slow. He did get very turned on though when I took photos and video of me giving him a bj. Maybe he’s got a little exhibitionist streak?

Or a little bit of a voyeuristic streak it sounds like to me. That's definitely probably something you can work with down the road.

You need to have sex with him to see if he's worth all this abstinence you're putting yourself thru! Sounds to me like you're making all the concessions in this relationship so far. Mind if I ask why?
 
I've been part of a few threesomes with a few swinger couples. They were nicest people I have ever met and we had one hell of a time.

I recently did a hotwife and her and I had an amazing time. Her husband watched the whole thing. It was one of the most intense sexually experiences I have ever had. It was the first time they ever did something like that and I don't think the husband thought the whole thing through. Sometimes fantasy is better then reality. Even though she wanted to meet again her husband put a stop to that.

I agree. In my limited experience meeting people in the "lifestyle" so far they really do all seem like really great people. People I want to be friends with even if I'm not doing their husbands and they're not doing mine LOL.

Sometimes fantasy is better than reality. But then again, more often than not, reality turns out to be better than the fantasy. I know for us, it's been almost two years since our first (and only) party but it still works like lighter for the both of us whenever we think about it or mention it to each other.

That's the party that keeps on lasting if you ask me! I don't know about you, but I've never had a fantasy that has lasted for two years like that.

So where do you go to meet these swingers couples that you've been meeting? Or are you in a relationship now and not looking anymore?
 
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