The LIT Swingers Club

[Booboobear84]

https://i.imgur.com/9bw04ho.jpg

Sometimes a dinner party is not really a dinner party, but our husbands don't figure that out until we tell them

Probably in the minority, but I find this group more attractive. They look more like real people to me.

 

[chame1eon]

I was actually assuming the woman in the middle (the naughty ring leader who brought everyone together? ) was the one doing the talking since she's kind of casually pointing at the blonde with her right hand.

The blonde looks to me to be the youngest of the three. But that's maybe just because of my bias since I'm a 40yr old Latina LOL




Well said Mike. In what little experience I've had so far in the swingers world, that sentiment seems to me to be the most necessary of all. Are you by chance speaking from experience?

It seems to me EVERYONE has to feel desirable to at least one other person or otherwise jealousy can rear its ugly head afterwards.

Apparently it's true even for the guys too.

Even in our group of six, if we hadn't all talked it out afterwards some, or maybe even all, of our friendships might have been permanently damaged and we might not even be talking to each other right now. I know I was jealous of the other two women. It helped when I learned from them (and their spouses) that they were also a little bit jealous of me and each other too.

The guys are still pretty much high fiving each other about it as far as I can tell. But I know it came as a shock for my husband to discover that he wasn't the king bull of the show. (frankly I was surprised by that too - although for me it was a more pleasant surprise ). And I know from his wife that one of the guys is still worried the other two will find out he likes being submissive so in a weird male ego way he's in competition to keep being macho around them, but secretly begging his wife to let me and him "own" him again. I actually like him a lot more now that I know his secret though so there's that too.

So yeah, everyone being considered by all to be beautiful and sexy in their own way - it's super, super important

That doesn't make me less attracted to the one in the middle heh.

 

[LizVegas79]

Probably in the minority, but I find this group more attractive. They look more like real people to me.

There's no right or wrong answers silly! They look super fun to know to me too.

That doesn't make me less attracted to the one in the middle heh.

Oh me neither. She's totally my type! I can tell by her eyes!

 

[fifty5]

Sometimes figuring out who gets to swap with who first isn't always easy - damn blondes!!

https://i.redd.it/j6uzuufycf421.jpg

"Okay guys, let me guess, everyone wants to get with Michelle first, right?"

If Michelle is the one on the viewers left, by all means yes (and it ain't the blonde hair that does it, it is her lovely, perky little tits! Oh yes and her brief underwear. Cum to that, if Michelle'd lend her undies to the lass on the right I'd get with her too! (Cue for a threesome!)

 

[fifty5]

https://i.imgur.com/9bw04ho.jpg

Sometimes a dinner party is not really a dinner party, but our husbands don't figure that out until we tell them

How do I get an invite?

 

[LizVegas79]

How do I get an invite?

Lie (if necessary) and tell us you're a great cook and that you'll bring something LOL

(because appetites DO get worked up at these kind of parties I promise you!)

 

[fifty5]

Lie (if necessary) and tell us you're a great cook and that you'll bring something LOL

(because appetites DO get worked up at these kind of parties I promise you!)

I've had trouble with my teeth lately, lost about 40%, which puts me off cooking, but I can bring some rhubarb AND cheese savoury mini biscuitsc . Will that do, Liz?

 

[LizVegas79]

I've had trouble with my teeth lately, lost about 40%, which puts me off cooking, but I can bring some rhubarb AND cheese savoury mini biscuitsc . Will that do, Liz?

Oh my goodness are you okay?

Although ... if you lose all of them give us a call. I bet that might feel amazing!

 

[fifty5]

Oh my goodness are you okay?

Although ... if you lose all of them give us a call. I bet that might feel amazing!

Well, it wouldn't be too bad now, the gap is mainly at the front so the teeth in my bottom jaw don't meet the gum on the top, so a nible could easily be between my tongue and a gum!

 

[LizVegas79]

Well, things just got a little complicated.

We got invited to another party. Except only I was invited.

Ugh.

What to do? What to do?

 

[fifty5]

https://i.imgur.com/9bw04ho.jpg

Sometimes a dinner party is not really a dinner party, but our husbands don't figure that out until we tell them

Please tell me how to get invited

 

[Deacon_Voss]

Well, things just got a little complicated.

We got invited to another party. Except only I was invited.

Ugh.

What to do? What to do?

So is this still swinging? Because it doesn't sound like it

I cant imagine being your husband right now.

 

[LizVegas79]

So is this still swinging? Because it doesn't sound like it

I cant imagine being your husband right now.

I know right? It's not.

As much as I want to go play, I don't think I can. Not without getting the okay from hub's.

He might actually let me go. But I can't ask him because the couple who invited me don't want it known that he (my friend's husband) enjoys being submissive and told what to do.

Decisions ... decisions .... any and all advice welcomed

 

[Deacon_Voss]

I know right? It's not.

As much as I want to go play, I don't think I can. Not without getting the okay from hub's.

He might actually let me go. But I can't ask him because the couple who invited me don't want it known that he (my friend's husband) enjoys being submissive and told what to do.

Decisions ... decisions .... any and all advice welcomed

I don't know your husband, and while I'm a secure guy, I would still feel a little unwanted, because its a couples thing, and somewhere in his head, he might feel rejected? Might not be the end of the world, but I'd go with your first instinct Sweetie

 

[chame1eon]

I don't know your husband, and while I'm a secure guy, I would still feel a little unwanted, because its a couples thing, and somewhere in his head, he might feel rejected? Might not be the end of the world, but I'd go with your first instinct Sweetie

idk. I think everyone is different. If my bf got invited to a party like that I would be fine with him going. He can have all the sex he wants as long as he doesn't fall in love with someone else and leave.

He said he wouldn't mind as long as the other party(s) is/are woman.

 

[blade_rocknut]

Well, things just got a little complicated.

We got invited to another party. Except only I was invited.

Ugh.

What to do? What to do?

I can't see that ending well unless you were already each carrying hall passes and practicing more of an open arrangement.

 

[LizVegas79]

I don't know your husband, and while I'm a secure guy, I would still feel a little unwanted, because its a couples thing, and somewhere in his head, he might feel rejected? Might not be the end of the world, but I'd go with your first instinct Sweetie

You're probably right. Plus, he would be jealous AF that I get to be with my Asian gf again and he doesn't.

idk. I think everyone is different. If my bf got invited to a party like that I would be fine with him going. He can have all the sex he wants as long as he doesn't fall in love with someone else and leave.

He said he wouldn't mind as long as the other party(s) is/are woman.

Well there's no risk of anyone falling in love as far as I know. But you bring up an excellent point. If the shoe, or the invitation in this case, was on the other foot, I would NOT be cool with it so I guess there's my answer right there.

I can't see that ending well unless you were already each carrying hall passes and practicing more of an open arrangement.

Yeah, we're not doing that. This was all about sharing together. Not going our separate ways and having separate fun.

I need to find a way to get him involved, or distracted, so that I can have fun with this other couple. I really did enjoy being with them the last time.

Got to get my inner femdom bitch goddess on! lol

 

[peterthelicker]

Well, things just got a little complicated.

We got invited to another party. Except only I was invited.

Ugh.

What to do? What to do?

Are the hosts the ones that hosted the other party or were they guests at that one? The single invitation is uncool. They don’t get it! Tell them to read your thread to pick up some basic etiquette of swinging or the lifestyle.

 

[sofie_lusts]

Curious Wife

Curious but the thought has not yet been experienced.

 

[fifty5]

I know right? It's not.

As much as I want to go play, I don't think I can. Not without getting the okay from hub's.

He might actually let me go. But I can't ask him because the couple who invited me don't want it known that he (my friend's husband) enjoys being submissive and told what to do.

Decisions ... decisions .... any and all advice welcomed

You don't have to give away their secret just ask your hub's permission to go and play!

 

[chame1eon]

You don't have to give away their secret just ask your hub's permission to go and play!

That's what I thought.

 

[Just4AFriend]

I know right? It's not.

As much as I want to go play, I don't think I can. Not without getting the okay from hub's.

He might actually let me go. But I can't ask him because the couple who invited me don't want it known that he (my friend's husband) enjoys being submissive and told what to do.

Decisions ... decisions .... any and all advice welcomed

I take it permission required full disclosure of exactly what you would be doing, not just who would be there ? So like ... “I will be dominating our friend Tom?” Vs “Tom will be there and we might mess around?“

 

[Cobra6813]

Well, things just got a little complicated.

We got invited to another party. Except only I was invited.

Ugh.

What to do? What to do?

Wow Liz, you’ve progressed in the lifestyle rather quickly. Congrats. I think you are making the right decision by not going by yourself. You do not want create any issues between you and the hubby now that the fun is just beginning. I am sure an opportunity will present itself soon enough to play with them and hubby will be occupied. Hang tight darling!

 

[aussiegeekygal]

I know right? It's not.

As much as I want to go play, I don't think I can. Not without getting the okay from hub's.

He might actually let me go. But I can't ask him because the couple who invited me don't want it known that he (my friend's husband) enjoys being submissive and told what to do.

Decisions ... decisions .... any and all advice welcomed

Personally, I'd be out. If the agreement was you play together then that's the hard limit. I personally hate it when friends try to pit me against my husband, even if it's inadvertently. It's kind of shitty to make you choose, especially if they're familiar with your ground rules.

Still, it sucks missing out on an opportunity to play.

I'd counter with "I'd love to come but only on the condition that hubs comes, too. Otherwise I'm out".

 

[Richard_C]

I agree with AGG. I often do.