The lonely hearts thread

[Henry]

six years here

hugs

am sorry its been that long.

 

[Valkyrie2006]

hugs

am sorry its been that long.

its not going to change soon....

i hear it all the time...just be patient...he will come along...

BULLSHIT!

I'm tired of waiting...I'm lonely...it hurts...and sometimes... I want to end the pain......when all I want is someone to care about me....to love me...to actually be concerned about me....

I know there is no one..its all words people speak to me and "tell" me they care...words...Im so tired of words......but no one has ever shown me they care....

no one loves me.... and sometimes i feel so very lonely I just want to end it all.....

 

[Henry]

its not going to change soon....

i hear it all the time...just be patient...he will come along...

BULLSHIT!

I'm tired of waiting...I'm lonely...it hurts...and sometimes... I want to end the pain......when all I want is someone to care about me....to love me...to actually be concerned about me....

I know there is no one..its all words people speak to me and "tell" me they care...words...Im so tired of words......but no one has ever shown me they care....

no one loves me.... and sometimes i feel so very lonely I just want to end it all.....

i too have been there to the last part a few times in the last few months..

wanting to end this life just seems the best option to me.

 

[Henry]

*wanders off hoping i havent killed this thread*

 

[Henry]

*sighs and sits in the darkness*

 

[Guest]

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[SimpleGifts]

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...and grind.

I wish I could give real assurances that True Love is out there for everyone. I know that we all deserve it. I think that for a short while, I was blessed to experience it. And the most depressing prospect is that I may never experience anything so wonderful again in my life...which means that I'm destined for a lifetime of disappointment, as the chances are so slim that I'll meet another person where the mutual connection is so clearly deep and natural. Loving her has been the easiest thing in the world, even when it was at its most difficult and painful.

I do hope that we can convince each other of our true value, so that we're not discouraged. The folks here are clearly caring, sincere people. That has intrinsic value, and deserves recognition. And I do believe that one needs to go through life without frowning, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile...

My best wishes to us all. Bon courage.

SG

 

[Valkyrie2006]

...and grind.

I wish I could give real assurances that True Love is out there for everyone. I know that we all deserve it. I think that for a short while, I was blessed to experience it. And the most depressing prospect is that I may never experience anything so wonderful again in my life...which means that I'm destined for a lifetime of disappointment, as the chances are so slim that I'll meet another person where the mutual connection is so clearly deep and natural. Loving her has been the easiest thing in the world, even when it was at its most difficult and painful.

I do hope that we can convince each other of our true value, so that we're not discouraged. The folks here are clearly caring, sincere people. That has intrinsic value, and deserves recognition. And I do believe that one needs to go through life without frowning, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile...

My best wishes to us all. Bon courage.

SG

very encouraging words...

i know that I have never experienced true love in my life... been married 2 times...but really wasn't a true love at all. I think thats why both failed.
Most of the time I smile...when I am around people, no one knows that I am hurting inside...its only when I am alone that I breakdown and let my true loneliness take over.

gotta run...work calls

 

[Guest]

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[Scribbleros]

...and grind.

I wish I could give real assurances that True Love is out there for everyone. I know that we all deserve it. I think that for a short while, I was blessed to experience it. And the most depressing prospect is that I may never experience anything so wonderful again in my life...which means that I'm destined for a lifetime of disappointment, as the chances are so slim that I'll meet another person where the mutual connection is so clearly deep and natural. Loving her has been the easiest thing in the world, even when it was at its most difficult and painful.

I do hope that we can convince each other of our true value, so that we're not discouraged. The folks here are clearly caring, sincere people. That has intrinsic value, and deserves recognition. And I do believe that one needs to go through life without frowning, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile...

My best wishes to us all. Bon courage.

SG

Nice thoughts.

 

[yayadub]

I feel the same way as a lot of you...if anybody needs to talk, I'm usually available, send me a PM or an IM.... Pour out your heart and I'll listen

 

[pink]

i too have been there to the last part a few times in the last few months..

wanting to end this life just seems the best option to me.

Now as wonderful as love is, there is so much more to life then just being in love. Think about how love ends most of the time. People who are married for years wind up bored as hell and not able to get out. One person feels unloved, unwanted, unappreciated, undesired. Be realistic people, love is not all a bed of roses. There is much to be said for being single. Life does not end because you don't have a partner right now. i'd rather be alone like this then to be in a relationship with the wrong person.

 

[ima6uldv8]

The wrong relationships are horrible. I've had two bad marriages. My time limit for each was a year No more marriage for me.

 

[ima6uldv8]

Woo hoo! We're on page 69!

 

[pink]

Woo hoo! We're on page 69!

alright, i lol'd.

 

[ima6uldv8]

alright, i lol'd.

Good I hope I made some more laugh. Sucks to be sad.

 

[pink]

Good I hope I made some more laugh. Sucks to be sad.

i'm really not that sad, it would be nice to have a SO but i also know there are downsides to it too. At this point in my life, i'm quite content just get a little lonely sometimes. i am very lucky to have wonderful men in my life, even though it's not an all the time thing.

 

[Valkyrie2006]

i'm really not that sad, it would be nice to have a SO but i also know there are downsides to it too. At this point in my life, i'm quite content just get a little lonely sometimes. i am very lucky to have wonderful men in my life, even though it's not an all the time thing.

For me..it would be nice to have men in my life...I have male friends...all long distant friends...but no one here locally at all...so I dont have any guys to go out to dinner with, to go on dates with...nothing...so for me the loneliness is something that I deal with constantly. I'm not just a "little" lonely...I alone about 18 hours a day...the other time I am working, and I work by myself so I have very little contact with my boss or others.

I cant wait to move from this hell hole...a few more months and I will be somewhere that I can at least socialize and make more friends...

 

[SexSweetheart]

http://i100.photobucket.com/albums/m5/lil_redheat/th_butterflies.gif

 

[BigDonGStone]

Work has always been my downfall. Too many hours and not enough time to develop meaningful relationships. Don't get me wrong. I enjoy my time here but there's a lot to be said for opening the door and saying "Hi Hon".

 

[Henry]

*sighs* just once to be able to have some close female friends to have fun with...

yep i know marriage aint great but im not looking for that either.

just some female company, sheesh mine must stink worse than you know what.

 

[Valkyrie2006]

Work has always been my downfall. Too many hours and not enough time to develop meaningful relationships. Don't get me wrong. I enjoy my time here but there's a lot to be said for opening the door and saying "Hi Hon".

I so agree with that last statement... *sighs*

 

[Sirens_Daughter]

I'm so fucking tired of being alone. I love my friends, all of them, but that is not the same as having a man to come home to, to cuddle up with at the end of the night, to wake up to the next morning. To feel cherished and worth while and...more than just a sex object. Don't get me wrong, I've got a hungry sex drive and all that...but I want more. But I just feel like that will never happen...Im a big girl...thats all they see. They want nothing to do with me...If they could just look past that, there is so much that I have to offer...

 

[BigDonGStone]

There are those of us who like a big girl. I hope that you run into one near you because I can't agree more. Cuddling and waking up with someone sure beats the hell out of waking up to the cats and cold cereal!!

I'm so fucking tired of being alone. I love my friends, all of them, but that is not the same as having a man to come home to, to cuddle up with at the end of the night, to wake up to the next morning. To feel cherished and worth while and...more than just a sex object. Don't get me wrong, I've got a hungry sex drive and all that...but I want more. But I just feel like that will never happen...Im a big girl...thats all they see. They want nothing to do with me...If they could just look past that, there is so much that I have to offer...

 

[Valkyrie2006]

I'm so fucking tired of being alone. I love my friends, all of them, but that is not the same as having a man to come home to, to cuddle up with at the end of the night, to wake up to the next morning. To feel cherished and worth while and...more than just a sex object. Don't get me wrong, I've got a hungry sex drive and all that...but I want more. But I just feel like that will never happen...Im a big girl...thats all they see. They want nothing to do with me...If they could just look past that, there is so much that I have to offer...

same here...thats all they see in me too...thusly I have been single and alone...with about 4 dates...in six years....