The lonely hearts thread

[cheekygirl75]

been there and done that "friends with bennie's" thing... I have been single going on 7 years now... and I am at the point that I just can't do that anymore..

I emphasize so much with you

*hugs*

Thanks... I think I have to agree with you, the friends with benefits is just not working for me. Yet I know the next time he and I are in the same city, I'll end up back with him because at least I'll have someone to kiss and cuddle with and sleep next to for a night or two.

*hugs* to you too, and to everyone else here who's feeling the same....

 

[LittleLadyLove]

hugs ever need an ear or shoulder mine is available.

thanks Henry... just too many things have happened in my life this month.

 

[Henry]

thanks Henry... just too many things have happened in my life this month.

tighter hugs, sorry to hear that sweetie..hit me anytime you wish to.

 

[PassionatePatty]

Big HUGS to all my fellow/fella Lonely Hearts!

 

[Henry]

Big HUGS to all my fellow/fella Lonely Hearts!

hugs back

 

[Valkyrie2006]

I'm back here again...amongst friends

*sighs*

 

[Henry]

*enters, sits down with coffee and relaxes..*

 

[Valkyrie2006]

well I'm joining your ranks again guys....

I will be away though for a few days.... no net and all.... it maybe longer depending on how I'm feeling.... going through a very rough time now..with moving and all...and its hard now that I have had reality smack me in the face....

I feel like a dumbass for even thinking my feelings would ever be returned....

 

[Scribbleros]

well I'm joining your ranks again guys....

I will be away though for a few days.... no net and all.... it maybe longer depending on how I'm feeling.... going through a very rough time now..with moving and all...and its hard now that I have had reality smack me in the face....

I feel like a dumbass for even thinking my feelings would ever be returned....

Welcome back Valkyrie. Here is *hug* for you.

 

[Noor]

well I'm joining your ranks again guys....

I will be away though for a few days.... no net and all.... it maybe longer depending on how I'm feeling.... going through a very rough time now..with moving and all...and its hard now that I have had reality smack me in the face....

I feel like a dumbass for even thinking my feelings would ever be returned....

The way I see it is that you have to believe, you have to take a chance, the mistake most people make is believing there is only one person for them or that the person they are wanting is the only one. There are so many people in the world...

 

[ima6uldv8]

Bumping up to say I'm tired of being alone. It hit me last night at work when two young girls were talking about going out with their men It usually doesn't bother me but since I had something wonderful ripped away from me, it was kind of like having salt rubbed in an already bad wound

 

[Scribbleros]

I wish I could get a back rub.

 

[SimpleGifts]

The way I see it is that you have to believe, you have to take a chance, the mistake most people make is believing there is only one person for them or that the person they are wanting is the only one. There are so many people in the world...

Hello, all...been away for a while. Still been a lonely heart, but just dealing with other things in life.

This statement is one that I've pondered quite a bit recently. Yes, there are so many people in this world, one would THINK that there would be some number who would make a good partner, at least for a good bit of time. After all, if the one you were with was one in a million, then last I checked, there should be about 5,000 people just like him or her somewhere in the world.

But by the same token...each of us is unique, and in my case, I just KNOW I will never find someone like her. I do know, from recent experience, that I can find someone who is just as good in her own special way, and could have made me happy...except that she's 1,500 miles away and not likely to get any closer. So, yeah, I know that there are other fish in the sea, but I despair at the strong possibility that while I'm swimming in the North Atlantic, the fish meant for me are all in the Indian Ocean.

I know that I will never have a love like hers again. Will I have another which is just as fulfilling? Gawd, I hope so...because it hurts to consider the possibility that I will never be that happy again.

SG

 

[Dreamingoflove]

This looks like a room for me.

 

[Henry]

*leaves hug for any who may want or need them*

hopes everyone's day go well

 

[ima6uldv8]

*leaves hug for any who may want or need them*

hopes everyone's day go well

*Hugs you back* Hey sweetie

 

[Henry]

*Hugs you back* Hey sweetie

hey sweetie hope you are feeling a little better.

 

[PassionatePatty]

Bumping up to say I'm tired of being alone. It hit me last night at work when two young girls were talking about going out with their men It usually doesn't bother me but since I had something wonderful ripped away from me, it was kind of like having salt rubbed in an already bad wound

I hear you on this one...

for some reason last night, it must have been boyfriend goes to ER and girlfriend comes along to climb into the stretcher to keep him company. Nothing erotic and at first I wasn't sure which one was the patient! We had TWO couples doing this...

Makes ya kinda lonely... or adds to it...

 

[pink]

Feeling a bit lonely today. Hope everyone is having a good day where you are.

 

[SimpleGifts]

Feeling a bit lonely today. Hope everyone is having a good day where you are.

Sigh. And there's nothing quite like feeling lonely when there are people around you, y'know?

At least any day when the sun is shining isn't all that bad...hope it is where you are, Pink.



SG

 

[pink]

Sigh. And there's nothing quite like feeling lonely when there are people around you, y'know?

At least any day when the sun is shining isn't all that bad...hope it is where you are, Pink.



SG

It's actually raining this morning but thats alright. We really need the rain here.

Still feeling a bit under the weather today but not feeling quite so lonely today. The kidlet is getting ready to head to camp for a week so i might be posting here a lot the next 6 days.

Have a wonderful day, everyone.

 

[keiffers]

Bumping up to say I'm tired of being alone. It hit me last night at work when two young girls were talking about going out with their men It usually doesn't bother me but since I had something wonderful ripped away from me, it was kind of like having salt rubbed in an already bad wound

sorry to hear that - same goes here....in time I know it'll disappear, but you have something wonderful in front of you and then for no reason it is taken away hurts all the same

 

[ima6uldv8]

sorry to hear that - same goes here....in time I know it'll disappear, but you have something wonderful in front of you and then for no reason it is taken away hurts all the same

Thanks hon Not feeling so bad now. Just gets old with the people around you happy with someone. Me always being the fifth wheel, you know?

 

[keiffers]

Thanks hon Not feeling so bad now. Just gets old with the people around you happy with someone. Me always being the fifth wheel, you know?

oh so I know....so I know....I just go through my phases - I still talk to her but I told her it goes from hating her to wanting her back to hating her....what's even tougher is she still wants to be friends (and she owes me some money) so there will still be the connection there in some form or fashion

 

[WaywardWanderer]

Just feeling a shade of blue, a tad lonely and a bit adrift today... so I thought I'd pop in to say hi to an old thread; glad to see it's still alive, but sad to see there are still so many lonely hearts out there.

Be well, all.