The lonely hearts thread

Funny how at times you can just be so lonely....in crowds...with friends....just a feeling that doesn't leave you. I sure could use a big hug right now. Really...would just like to be held by someone who cares. :eek:
 
The feeling of the walls closing in on me in this tiny room I have called home since june have made me feel even more lonely and depressed then I have ever felt in my whole life. I thought moving here would give me a chance to find a happier life. I couldn't have been more wrong. All I have found here is the sense that I just don't matter anymore. . And I wake up every morning to face another day knowing that what I want is slowly slipping from my grasp and farther from my reach. It seems that I just can't have what my heart desires so terribly much . . To just be cared about enough to take a chance for. It's so simple of a dream but never a reality . . So I guess I will have to accept that what I so want. . . Will just have to have be lived out in my dreams as thats the only place they will ever be real for me.
 
Short day today, so I thought I'd pop in and send warn thoughts to all who dwell here. It's been ages since I've stuck my head into this thread, but each of you sweet lonely hearts have been in my thoughts, hoping that the lonelies are on the run and your days are looking brighter.

*leaving plenty of hugs for anybody who needs and wants them, with extra-fuzzy hugs for the lovely Ima and one of the best friends a person could ask for, that lovely lady from Georgia*

:rose:
 
WaywardWanderer said:
Short day today, so I thought I'd pop in and send warn thoughts to all who dwell here. It's been ages since I've stuck my head into this thread, but each of you sweet lonely hearts have been in my thoughts, hoping that the lonelies are on the run and your days are looking brighter.

*leaving plenty of hugs for anybody who needs and wants them, with extra-fuzzy hugs for the lovely Ima and one of the best friends a person could ask for, that lovely lady from Georgia*

:rose:
Thanks, hon :kiss: You're a sweetheart. Hugs and kisses for you, as well :rose:

pink_ said:
Have a great friday night everyone. :)
Hey Pink :kiss: I hope you have a good one, as well.
 
*passing through to say hey to all..hope you are doing well*

leaves hugs, kisses, handshakes, beers for anyone who wants one.
 
Just peeking in to leave warm hugs and warmer thoughts for all the lonely hearts from an alumni of this thread who still has his lonely days. :rose:

I also wanted to leave a birthday wish for a special soul who dwells in this thread.

Happy 21st to one of the South's sweetest ladies.... SouthenGaGal, darlin' -- you've been like a present to me every day that I've known you, even if I've not always been good about letting you know that. Here's hoping that your birthday today is the start of a wonderful year for you, and that it's a trend that will be followed for many years to come.

:rose:
 
WaywardWanderer said:
Just peeking in to leave warm hugs and warmer thoughts for all the lonely hearts from an alumni of this thread who still has his lonely days. :rose:

I also wanted to leave a birthday wish for a special soul who dwells in this thread.

Happy 21st to one of the South's sweetest ladies.... SouthenGaGal, darlin' -- you've been like a present to me every day that I've known you, even if I've not always been good about letting you know that. Here's hoping that your birthday today is the start of a wonderful year for you, and that it's a trend that will be followed for many years to come.

:rose:


Thank you so much.. That means alot for you to say that :heart:
 
hey all, i think i'll add myself to this lonely hearts thread. can't seem to find anyone to be "unlonely" with.
 
Ender3 said:
hey all, i think i'll add myself to this lonely hearts thread. can't seem to find anyone to be "unlonely" with.

it's sad but there are so many of us here.... :(

I know I live in such a big city with so many people around...yet I feel like I am locked in this room of mine all alone...

For some reason, I just can't find anyone who wants to spend time with me....

I am beginning to think that its just not in my future to have that....
 
I know what you mean Valkyrie :( It was in my cards for a brief time but I lost the whole deck. Hello to all you lonely souls :rose:
 
ima6uldv8 said:
I know what you mean Valkyrie :( It was in my cards for a brief time but I lost the whole deck. Hello to all you lonely souls :rose:

I just wish I had it in my grasp ...I never have...... and after so many years ( going on almost 7 here) of being alone.... I have lost hope......and have basically put myself into a place where I don't think I will ever come out of. I have dated a couple men since I have moved here....and found out tonight one is still married....after he said he was single.....

its sad to say but whoever I meet next....is going to have to be patient....as my heart is locked away so tightly I'm not sure I even know how to find it ...
:(
 
Been a lurker here for quite some time and strangely enough, this is the first time I've seen this thread. Guess its because I need it now I guess. My longest relationship ended about 2 months ago ( just over 30 months). She was supposed to be my last (we were planning to get engaged at the end of the year). Ended up breaking my heart. I'm pretty okay with everything now, except for the recurring feeling that no one will ever love me again. Lonely nights have been pretty much all I've had for the last 2 weeks. Can I join you guys?
 
Caribbean_Man said:
Been a lurker here for quite some time and strangely enough, this is the first time I've seen this thread. Guess its because I need it now I guess. My longest relationship ended about 2 months ago ( just over 30 months). She was supposed to be my last (we were planning to get engaged at the end of the year). Ended up breaking my heart. I'm pretty okay with everything now, except for the recurring feeling that no one will ever love me again. Lonely nights have been pretty much all I've had for the last 2 weeks. Can I join you guys?


*hugs* You are among friends here..... we all know the feelings you feel now to well
 
Valkyrie2006 said:
*hugs* You are among friends here..... we all know the feelings you feel now to well

Thanks. It means a lot.

Things wont be looking up for me this week, I have my final year of college to deal with ( I'm 21) and to make matters worse, an ex-girlfriend of mine is coming back home from school with the intention of pursuing a return our past. I know she loves me, but I don't know what I feel and the last thing I want to do ... is use her..
 
Caribbean_Man said:
Thanks. It means a lot.

Things wont be looking up for me this week, I have my final year of college to deal with ( I'm 21) and to make matters worse, an ex-girlfriend of mine is coming back home from school with the intention of pursuing a return our past. I know she loves me, but I don't know what I feel and the last thing I want to do ... is use her..

I would be honest with her and tell her that at this time you don't want to end up using her due to what you are going through now.....

honesty is the best thing when it comes to rebounds in relationships.....


What degree are you working towards? I know that college can be so time consuming.... I finished my degree in 2004 and am a single mom...and worked full time while getting my degree. It's lots of work and I wish you the best of luck in your last year!
 
Valkyrie2006 said:
I would be honest with her and tell her that at this time you don't want to end up using her due to what you are going through now.....

honesty is the best thing when it comes to rebounds in relationships.....


What degree are you working towards? I know that college can be so time consuming.... I finished my degree in 2004 and am a single mom...and worked full time while getting my degree. It's lots of work and I wish you the best of luck in your last year!


To be honest... I don't think she expects too much of it other than sex most likely ( she's only here for 6 days) but I've already told her that I would like to use the time to figure out what I feel for her... and that she shouldn't expect much of me. I haven't talked to her in a couple of days. Would really like to have a long talk with her before she comes back.

As for my degree, I'm a double major in Chemistry and Biochemistry ( always liked science...in fact I tell people I only have three passions in life: science, music and relationships). Its been a hard three years, but I'm looking forward to the challenge of my final year. Thanks for the best wishes ... and Congrats on getting your Degree :) .
 
Caribbean_Man said:
To be honest... I don't think she expects too much of it other than sex most likely ( she's only here for 6 days) but I've already told her that I would like to use the time to figure out what I feel for her... and that she shouldn't expect much of me. I haven't talked to her in a couple of days. Would really like to have a long talk with her before she comes back.

As for my degree, I'm a double major in Chemistry and Biochemistry ( always liked science...in fact I tell people I only have three passions in life: science, music and relationships). Its been a hard three years, but I'm looking forward to the challenge of my final year. Thanks for the best wishes ... and Congrats on getting your Degree :) .

Sounds like you know what you what and I applaud that...there are some that would take advantage of the situation....and use it to their advantage...

its admirable that you choose to be honest with her and up front.... a very rare trait now days ( as have sadly been forced to deal with more then I care to say as of late :( )
 
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