The One That Got Away

[JennyNo1]

Most of us have some regrets about our past, and some of that regret is about our love lives. Who was that person you regret letting get away, or letting go of? Who's the one you think wistfully about now and then, wondering what might have been?

Mine was my best friend in our first semester in college - we hung out together all the time, but he was engaged to his high school sweetheart back home. He'd never dated anyone else. When he came back from Christmas break, he had broken up with her, and we were soon dating. Then his buddies set him up with a cute blond cheerleader with big boobs. He took her to some event I was assuming we would go to together. I realized he needed to be free to see other people, but I am a very poor sharer, so I told him it would be better for us not to date. The next time we really spoke to each other, I was married. Graduation came, and I've never seen him again. But I think about him often and fondly and wonder......

 

[JennyNo1]

Really? No regrets? No wishful thoughts about that certain someone?

 

[fungatorgurl101]

Oh there was one that got away.... I just don't wanna think about it so I will keep in locked up where I stuck it

 

[BradBigBrain]

I am he!

 

[Sensualdreamer]

Interesting enough...I wouldn't say I let them get away, they let me get away. I know that sounds arrogant of me to say but it's always been that way where they try to find someone better, and later they realise I was the better.

There was a guy that I got along w/ in almost every way. He ended up getting married to someone, and then in less than 5 months time walked away from the marriage due to it being toxic. He then contacted me to apologise and recently admitted that he made the biggest mistake of his life. He openly admitted that I was the woman of his dreams that he let me go stupidly. He's been trying to square himself away and we've been talking about what the future may hold. Admittedly I'm letting him do most of the work b/c he's the one who let me go.

 

[paulstories]

There was someone, it was magical for a coupla months, just the wrong time, after it ended i cut myself off completely thinking it would be best for her and me, even stopped doing the thing I loved most in the world (no, not sex!), worried it would bring me back into contact with her or I'd hear she was seeing someone new, thought I saw her with a guy in a restaurant the other week..

 

[troubledone]

This is an interesting thread and such things would have happened to most of us

 

[MollyDolly]

There is only one that I regret never making a move- and he is getting married this summer. It would have been nice to actually see where we might have ended up, but now, five years later, we've ended up with him getting married and me single with a plus one invitation to his wedding How awkward would it be to show up at that wedding? "Oh, hey there. Lovely to meet you. Beautiful wedding. How do I know your new husband? Oh, I wanted to bone him so badly bad in 2006/2007." I think I'll have to RSVP in the negative...

 

[cowslinger64]

There is only one that I regret never making a move- and he is getting married this summer. It would have been nice to actually see where we might have ended up, but now, five years later, we've ended up with him getting married and me single with a plus one invitation to his wedding How awkward would it be to show up at that wedding? "Oh, hey there. Lovely to meet you. Beautiful wedding. How do I know your new husband? Oh, I wanted to bone him so badly bad in 2006/2007." I think I'll have to RSVP in the negative...

lol....you said bone...




There was someone that I was in the Air Force with when i was stationed in England.. Her and i got along so well...it was just such a comfortable friendship. I was newly married and never would have acted on it. The day we left to come back to the states she came to see us off... I have pics from that day and sometimes when I look at it, I wished I would have left the cheating whore I was married to there, and took her with me.

Of course I wouldnt now know the feeling of someone going elbow deep in my ass....and thats something I'd hate to have missed out on..


lol

 

[kendra1980]

I didn't have one that got away either. I had one that lost me. Not to sound too proud, but he'll never find anyone who loved him for HIM more. Those that love us, truly love us run to us though, not from us.

Hard but good lesson learned.

 

[TheSilverLining]

Really? No regrets? No wishful thoughts about that certain someone?

You know, I actually don't have a 'one that got away'.
No regrets from me - there isn't a man alive that I regret not being with now or holding on to.

Having said that, those wishful thoughts can be plentiful at times. I'll have to re-visit this thread at a later date and see if my answer has changed much...

 

[friendly_guy43]

I have one that got away. It's very painful still.

 

[Jinxi Minxi]

I have one that ALMOST got away...thank god I saw sense and made the right decision...now we just need to spend more time being with each other.

 

[JennyNo1]

This is an interesting thread and such things would have happened to most of us

I know - it's interesting how many different outcomes there are

lol....you said bone...

There was someone that I was in the Air Force with when i was stationed in England.. Her and i got along so well...it was just such a comfortable friendship. I was newly married and never would have acted on it. The day we left to come back to the states she came to see us off... I have pics from that day and sometimes when I look at it, I wished I would have left the cheating whore I was married to there, and took her with me.

Of course I wouldnt now know the feeling of someone going elbow deep in my ass....and thats something I'd hate to have missed out on..


lol

Da-yum, slinger. You're so romantic...how could any woman let you slip through her fingers? *drools*

I have one that ALMOST got away...thank god I saw sense and made the right decision...now we just need to spend more time being with each other.

Yay for you with the good sense, Bo! It's good to see you around too!

 

[Scentofawoman]

I let one get away. I am glad I did or I would not have met my husband. I know with him it was a crush. I think it is really only now as I start to get older that I begin to understand what love is.

 

[troubledone]

I let one get away. I am glad I did or I would not have met my husband. I know with him it was a crush. I think it is really only now as I start to get older that I begin to understand what love is.

And who said you are old

 

[cunnilingual2]

I was an idiot for not acting on that........

 

[JennyNo1]

Giving this a liitle *bump*. I'm still interested to hear people's stories....did opportunity pass you by, or did you grab it and hang on?

 

[cowslinger64]

Da-yum, slinger. You're so romantic...how could any woman let you slip through her fingers? *drools*

thanks for the compliment darlin..


other women have let me slip too... i have a bad habit of dating the insane.

 

[NymphMyosotis]

I have one that got away. Very painful since I thought he could be my soulmate. Came into my life in the worst possibe moment and I guess it was just too difficult. I think this will hurt for the rest of my life.

 

[newbiebabe]

thanks for the compliment darlin..


other women have let me slip too... i have a bad habit of dating the insane.

and what's the common denominator there...

JK... you know I you!!


There was one that I cared so very deeply for.... to the point I traveled to another state to meet his family and fell in love with them too. He went on tour for the summer with the group he was with and when he came back, he had met a new gal on the trip and I had met the man who was to be my first husband. If we had stayed together, I would have been a preacher's wife!!

 

[cowslinger64]

and what's the common denominator there...

JK... you know I you!!

see? another insane woman in love with me!!!!



trust me.. i know what is common there..

 

[newbiebabe]

see? another insane woman in love with me!!!!



trust me.. i know what is common there..

I am sticking my tongue out at you! I am not insane.... well not today anyway..

 

[VATSEB]

I am the one that got away

 

[Miles Long]

lol....you said bone...




There was someone that I was in the Air Force with when i was stationed in England.. Her and i got along so well...it was just such a comfortable friendship. I was newly married and never would have acted on it. The day we left to come back to the states she came to see us off... I have pics from that day and sometimes when I look at it, I wished I would have left the cheating whore I was married to there, and took her with me.

Of course I wouldnt now know the feeling of someone going elbow deep in my ass....and thats something I'd hate to have missed out on..


lol

I'm so conflicted. On the one hand I really want to fap to this, but on the other hand it just seems wrong, like somehow disrespectful. Ya know?

Awww fuck it! *fapfapfapfapfapfapfapfapfapfapfap*