Things you ponder, and wonder about

[m_anew1]

For me, trust is built incrementally, based on reciprocity, in small steps...

 

[Lorelei_11]

I've only encountered a few myself (some from here!), made for great chats and good friends

It takes me awhile to know if they are or not. Even then, how about completely trustworthy. I would trust some with a little bit, but not everything. They've given me no reason to believe I could.

I did have one close friend here, but he died.

 

[Lorelei_11]

For me, trust is built incrementally, based on reciprocity, in small steps...

Me too.

 

[Kain__Thornn]

It takes me awhile to know if they are or not. Even then, how about completely trustworthy. I would trust some with a little bit, but not everything. They've given me no reason to believe I could.

I did have one close friend here, but he died.

Oh man, I'm sorry darlin

 

[Lorelei_11]

Oh man, I'm sorry darlin

Thanks.

 

[Kain__Thornn]

Thanks.

You're welcome!

 

[RedVixen]

i learned a long time ago to take ppl at face value and if they prove to be good or bad as time goes by i'll deal with it... but i'm not going to try and 2nd guess them as soon as i meet them... i'm just lazy that way lol

 

[Kain__Thornn]

i learned a long time ago to take ppl at face value and if they prove to be good or bad as time goes by i'll deal with it... but i'm not going to try and 2nd guess them as soon as i meet them... i'm just lazy that way lol

Huh what who?

 

[Lorelei_11]

i learned a long time ago to take ppl at face value and if they prove to be good or bad as time goes by i'll deal with it... but i'm not going to try and 2nd guess them as soon as i meet them... i'm just lazy that way lol

I have the same way of going about it. Just figure out who they are as time passes.

 

[RedVixen]

Huh what who?

you have not a thing to ponder over honey... you're an A+ in my book..

 

[RedVixen]

I have the same way of going about it. Just figure out who they are as time passes.

it saves you time and energy and if you end up second guessing yourself you waste time and make yourself nervous...

and i think you are fabulous Lorelei... no doubt about that!

 

[Kain__Thornn]

you have not a thing to ponder over honey... you're an A+ in my book..

*blushin*

 

[RedVixen]

*blushin*

must kiss blushed spots......



hmmm? what? who said that?????

 

[Lorelei_11]

it saves you time and energy and if you end up second guessing yourself you waste time and make yourself nervous...

and i think you are fabulous Lorelei... no doubt about that!

Thanks.

I feel fabulously drunk, but not tired. Weird sleeping pills, this is how I feel on 1 1/2. One pill just felt like truth serum. I didn't sleep.

 

[RedVixen]

Thanks.

I feel fabulously drunk, but not tired. Weird sleeping pills, this is how I feel on 1 1/2. One pill just felt like truth serum. I didn't sleep.

that's odd it makes you feel that way.... but at least you're relaxed...

 

[Lorelei_11]

that's odd it makes you feel that way.... but at least you're relaxed...

Yeah, I'm relaxed and its better than the truth serum effect, although watch out... that truth serum thing could come up. I mean Im horny.. there's a storm here.

 

[jcoachwwe44]

Yeah, I'm relaxed and its better than the truth serum effect, although watch out... that truth serum thing could come up. I mean Im horny.. there's a storm here.

Hun when ain't u horny

 

[RedVixen]

Yeah, I'm relaxed and its better than the truth serum effect, although watch out... that truth serum thing could come up. I mean Im horny.. there's a storm here.

i prefer the honesty to anything else.... as for the horny and a storm.. i know the feeling well...

 

[Lorelei_11]

Hun when ain't u horny

Oh shud up!

Have you no compassion? no pity?

I'm not horny if I'm stressed, tired, or sick.

 

[Lorelei_11]

i prefer the honesty to anything else.... as for the horny and a storm.. i know the feeling well...

Mmmm hmm and life sucks because I'm here alone, and feeling rather drunk, having to erase words and re do them.

 

[ICR]

I don't think there are very many people out there left that are trustworthy.

I trust a little, see what happens, trust a little more... and wham! They do something really big, that makes it clear, no one in thier right mind would trust them.

Add your own ponderings.

See, I trust people too easily and then I get hurt. The weird thing is I know I do it, I know I shouldn't and yet I still do it, over and over again.

Does that mean I need therapy lol.

The thing I wonder about is why so many people think that everyone who is not working at a paid job spends their time doing nothing but watch tv all day.

 

[Lorelei_11]

See, I trust people too easily and then I get hurt. The weird thing is I know I do it, I know I shouldn't and yet I still do it, over and over again.

Does that mean I need therapy lol.

The thing I wonder about is why so many people think that everyone who is not working at a paid job spends their time doing nothing but watch tv all day.

Yeah, I'd suggest therapy, it will help a lot.

What job is unpaid?

 

[RedVixen]

See, I trust people too easily and then I get hurt. The weird thing is I know I do it, I know I shouldn't and yet I still do it, over and over again.

Does that mean I need therapy lol.

The thing I wonder about is why so many people think that everyone who is not working at a paid job spends their time doing nothing but watch tv all day.

you don't need therapy... you are one of those ppl that are a delight to meet and get to know for the simple fact you are warm and friendly to someone when they meet you...



and i don't think that... i think they spend all their time surfing porn lol.... just kidding lol

 

[ICR]

Yeah, I'd suggest therapy, it will help a lot.

What job is unpaid?

Might have to look into that!

Sorry, I was having myself a little rant along with my wondering. Unpaid jobs.. not a job but life really I guess when you think about it. Doing 5 loads of laundry, keeping a house clean, dishes, cooking, looking after children and still have people think that you have done nothing.

 

[Lorelei_11]

Might have to look into that!

Sorry, I was having myself a little rant along with my wondering. Unpaid jobs.. not a job but life really I guess when you think about it. Doing 5 loads of laundry, keeping a house clean, dishes, cooking, looking after children and still have people think that you have done nothing.

I've been to therapy, and it helped me a lot

I've been there, a homemaker, and most often you get no respect. Its so bloody stupid. Homemakers work hard, evry day, and you don't get weekends off.

Why do you think women are waiting so long to have children. More are deciding to be stay at home moms, so they have one big job, with over time, instead of two jobs and overtime.

Give your self credit... credit is due. Fuck everyone else that doesn't think so.