What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[saustin5432]

I am nosey if, in addition to being harder on ourselves than others, people might have reservations about saying that they think they are sexy because they feel it could reflect poorly on them, that they might be perceived as not being humble enough or realistic in their self assessment.

Agree to an extent. I do think part of the challenge with rating yourself on the sexy scale is it really has no bearing on how sexy you are to others, so some responses might be tempered so as to not come across as an asshole.

For every person who responded here there is a high probability that there is someone on Lit that sees a 90+ and someone else that gives a goose egg to same person.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Agree to an extent. I do think part of the challenge with rating yourself on the sexy scale is it really has no bearing on how sexy you are to others, so some responses might be tempered so as to not come across as an asshole.

For every person who responded here there is a high probability that there is someone on Lit that sees a 90+ and someone else that gives a goose egg to same person.

Very true. Dribble will always give me a big fat zero.

 

[Chillygirl]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

For the most part no.
Here they do but I assume most of them are just blowing smoke up my ass hoping I’ll drop my panties for them. BUT there are a couple very sincere people who are always in the background telling me I’m wrong and I truly appreciate them.
I’d give myself a 40 just because I can take flattering photos of myself.
Personality. If I don’t like you as a person I’ll never find you sexy.

I have found lit to be both a confidence booster and a confidence crusher. I’m trying very hard to like myself and not point out all of my flaws. I’m not skinny but I’m strong, I’m smart and I can be pretty damn funny…if that’s not good enough for someone they can fuck off.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

We'd have to take it slow.
I probably did a bad job of saying "sexy" to me is so much more than looks or first impressions.

I probably did a bad job of making a joke poking fun at the fact that I felt a little disappointed in myself for having to look up the word "ensorcelled". I think that your message came across just fine.

 

[AlexBailey]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

Hey LW, I hope you don't mind if I copy this to another thread

 

[WerdNerd]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…

Do you think you’re sexy?
Some times I think that I am sexy but those moments can be fleeting. Usually it's more that someone in my life makes me feel that I am sexy.

Do others tell you you are sexy?
It does happen and it is a huge self-esteem boost. Would not mind at all if it happened more often when it's genuine.

On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
That data point is dependent on the observer. Their assessment has a strong effect on the outcome.

What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?
Independence, wit, intelligence, enthusiasm.

 

[Lonelywife1205]

Hey LW, I hope you don't mind if I copy this to another thread

Of course not.

 

[AngelicaS1780]

You mean saying what is sexy about ourselves?

Not exactly saying *what* is sexy about yourself, but whether you think you are sexy. I think that a person might find it easier to name something about themself that they think is sexy, than it is to say "I think I'm sexy." I was wondering if the choice to say "Yes, I think I'm sexy." might be influenced by how you think that statement will be received by others. Most people don't want to appear vain, arrogant, or delusional, so one might hesitate to say "I'm sexy." because one doesn't want to be perceived in a negative way.

I'll use myself as an example. As someone who has posted photos in AmPics, I definitely considered the fact that some people who saw my responses to those questions might think that i am completely delusional about my level of sexiness. When I saw some women's responses, I worried a little bit that I was coming across as having a high opinion of myself, of not being humble. Ultimately, that didn't affect how I chose to respond, but it was still a consideration.

 

[Jake069258]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

Sexy?? Charming, funny, goofy... Can that add up to sexy?

More often than not i get told im cute... I think its the whole charming funny etc combo

Totally depends on the situation... When i am in the right kind of mood with the right kind of person, 100. When the blue jays are losing and i am yelling at the tv... Probably zero haha.

To me, sexy is all about attitude. I dont mean "throw up the hand in my face" attitude. I mean what is her outlook on life in general? Yes we all have good day AND bad, but can we have fun together? In between the sheets, and out. I have said it before, ill say it again, easily my fav date night is taking a girl to the game, and having her enjoy herself because she is into the game. Sexy as fuck!!!

 

[Orchidea73]

Here’s the thing.

I’m me. This is what I’ve got to bring to the party. I know the flaws and the highlights. I’m good with them. I don’t much care if I’m sexy or what other people think of that level of sexy. Until I do. Usually when I DO care it’s because I most definitely want you between my thighs and when that happens I’m fairly sure of my abilities.

Lit can be a minefield of incestuous insincerity much of the time. It’d be easy to buy into your own press, but I feel like that’s exactly what it is. I try very hard to pay it very little heed in measuring my value in any way.

I love this comment.

 

[Wand3rlust]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

• No
• Sometimes, but I think that they have ulterior motives
• 50
• I don't think that there is one thing. It can vary from person to person I think.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

Do you think you’re sexy? Yes ,

Do others tell you you are sexy? Yes all the time.

On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you. 85 if I exclude my haters votes 🗳

What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

Having self worth and expressing it , a clever avatar or signature here on Lit. Steeping outside of the playground into threads that aren’t wash , rinse , repeat everyday.

Newbies are sexy for ***Not having ****to use the “ I’ve been here for _________ years. Fill in the blank as street credit for how Lit PG cool you are. That’s not so attractive IMO .

 

[Orchidea73]

I am nosey if, in addition to being harder on ourselves than others, people might have reservations about saying that they think they are sexy because they feel it could reflect poorly on them, that they might be perceived as not being humble enough or realistic in their self assessment.

Absolutely. But it's not so much about how others might perceive you. After all, I don't care much for fake modesty either. And some people might see your self assessment as self confidence or low self esteem, depending, and other people will see you as arrogant or humble/modest. It is bound to happen, you can't please them all. I think it's about knowing yourself as much as you can, as Rainshine very well put it. Be confident about who you are and show it through actions and your attitude, rather than make a statement about it.

I want to clarify that this is in general and it's not in ref. to LW question, which I take it as harmless and made in good fun.

 

[Daisy_Love]

Absolutely. But it's not so much about how others might perceive you. After all, I don't care much for fake modesty either. And some people might see your self assessment as self confidence or low self esteem, depending, and other people will see you as arrogant or humble/modest. It is bound to happen, you can't please them all. I think it's about knowing yourself as much as you can, as Rainshine very well put it. Be confident about who you are and show it through actions and your attitude, rather than make a statement about it.

I want to clarify that this is in general and it's not in ref. to LW question, which I take it as harmless made in good fun.

Exactly this!!

I don’t see my worth in sexiness, I see it in knowing myself, believing in myself, my attitude toward others, my life, the person I am. To me, that’s far more important than being sexy.
And as long as the person I’m with thinks I am sexy then that’s all that really matters.

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Exactly this!!

I don’t see my worth in sexiness, I see it in knowing myself, believing in myself, my attitude toward others, my life, the person I am. To me, that’s far more important than being sexy.
And as long as the person I’m with thinks I am sexy then that’s all that really matters.

I’d say your voice and laugh would seal that deal.

 

[SassySheDevil]

Not exactly saying *what* is sexy about yourself, but whether you think you are sexy. I think that a person might find it easier to name something about themself that they think is sexy, than it is to say "I think I'm sexy." I was wondering if the choice to say "Yes, I think I'm sexy." might be influenced by how you think that statement will be received by others. Most people don't want to appear vain, arrogant, or delusional, so one might hesitate to say "I'm sexy." because one doesn't want to be perceived in a negative way.

I'll use myself as an example. As someone who has posted photos in AmPics, I definitely considered the fact that some people who saw my responses to those questions might think that i am completely delusional about my level of sexiness. When I saw some women's responses, I worried a little bit that I was coming across as having a high opinion of myself, of not being humble. Ultimately, that didn't affect how I chose to respond, but it was still a consideration.

I think a lot of this borders on .. Is it confidence, or ego.
I think we can all agree that confidence is sexy.

Let me use Orchi as an example, cause I've NEVER seen her say anything negative towards herself.
She is Confident enough to look/feel sexy, and that is how she carries herself. So, pretty fucking attractive.

But, if she was to say "I'm so fucking hot, everyone likes me" that's ego and that is not sexy.
She also has enough confidence to say "I'm not everyones cup of tea, and if they don't like me, they can fuck off, I don't need them"

I am so fucking insecure, that I am sad if someone does not like me, for whatever reason. Unattractive.

It 100% matters how that person comes across.

Look at NRJ. He runs all over Lit talking about his amazing cock and how amazing he is. But he's playful about it. Fun about it. So it's sexy.

But you are right. I can find parts of me that I think are sexy. But sexy as a whole. Very rarely.
That's my own insecurity.

 

[StacyLeigh]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

• Yes, but the degree varies.
  
• Yes.
  
• I think I run a solid B+ average.
  
• Confidence. I don't think they need to own the room, but rather confidient and comfortable in who they are.

I’d say your voice and laugh would seal that deal.

Daisy's laugh is THE best

 

[Orchidea73]

I think a lot of this borders on .. Is it confidence, or ego.
I think we can all agree that confidence is sexy.

Let me use Orchi as an example, cause I've NEVER seen her say anything negative towards herself.
She is Confident enough to look/feel sexy, and that is how she carries herself. So, pretty fucking attractive.

But, if she was to say "I'm so fucking hot, everyone likes me" that's ego and that is not sexy.
She also has enough confidence to say "I'm not everyones cup of tea, and if they don't like me, they can fuck off, I don't need them"

I am so fucking insecure, that I am sad if someone does not like me, for whatever reason. Unattractive.

It 100% matters how that person comes across.

Look at NRJ. He runs all over Lit talking about his amazing cock and how amazing he is. But he's playful about it. Fun about it. So it's sexy.

But you are right. I can find parts of me that I think are sexy. But sexy as a whole. Very rarely.
That's my own insecurity.

I think we all want to be liked by others. Well, the majority of people do anyway. That's perfectly normal. It's part of the human being because we are social creatures. I've had people which I was very much attracted to who were not interested in me. I would have loved for them to feel the same way I did but it just wasn't the case. What are you going to do about it? Accept it, with a "sigh" maybe, and move on.

Nobody likes to be rejected, me included. But I think it's important to recognize the why. I think there is a bit of an ego involved in that "sting". Ego is not all bad because I think it's a good tool to protect yourself and/or help you with achieving things. But it's fundamental to recognize it for what it is, and bring it down a notch when it's due. After all, I've been in the position of those people, where I have rejected or have not been interested in other people. But it doesn't mean at all those people were not worthy, intelligent, sexy etc. People vary and we all have different needs and wants. And so, ultimately, I have learned that rejection is never a good measure for your self-worth and/or attractiveness. This I know for a fact.

 

[Lastingimpressions]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

Like many here, I'd say this greatly differs from day to day. Sometimes I feel a walking erection of sexiness. Others, I feel more like a folding chair. I typically feel confident in myself but that doesn't necessarily translate in to feeling sexy.
I don't know that sexy is a word I hear often but I get nice compliments from time to time.
On an averaged out sexy scale, I'm going to go with a 68.
A few of the characteristics that make someone sexy: Humor, a level of confidence, a positive attitude towards life as a whole, a dirty mind, a willingness to open up and show a little bit of who they are to you.

 

[Orchidea73]

Sometimes I feel a walking erection of sexiness.

How are we feeling today?

 

[Daisy_Love]

How are we feeling today?

Bahahaha I love you Orchi
Question is…. Is he headless

 

[Lastingimpressions]

How are we feeling today?

Today I'm feeling like there's a lot of inanimate objects around the house that could be used for purposes other than what they were made for.

 

[Orchidea73]

Today I'm feeling like there's a lot of inanimate objects around the house that could be used for purposes other than what they were made for.

LOL

Immortalize the moment and send it to me.
Thank you.

 

[Xerxes82]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

No.

No. They use buzzwords that a lesser man might say are for "Acceptable but unsexy." I hear a lot of 'sweet.' 'Great.' 'Friendly.'

Meh. Rating myself is an exercise in masochism. I'd rathet not indulge that particular dark sidequest, thanks.

Can't say. Saying, would know. Like anything else, context is everything. What is sexy in one instance may not be in another. Too many variables.

 

[FranklyFrank]

I’m nosy about your level of sexiness…
Do you think you’re sexy?
Do others tell you you are sexy?
On a scale of 1-100 how sexy are you (or how sexy is the poster above you)?
What characteristics do you think make someone sexy?

If you need something to read to put you to sleep tonight...read on...

I am a person that never self-evaluates or sees the value in naming myself sexy or not. After all, I’m biased!! My good friend calls me Dorky so, she keeps my head from swelling and buying into too many labels. Being seen as sexy can evolve in many ways. It can be physical appearance, the way someone interacts with people, a look, a gesture, the way someone dresses, a way someone touches you or makes you laugh and aroused in the same moment. No matter how sexy is defined, I leave that to others to see me in that way or not rather than me trying to determine how I fit within that word. I just don’t worry about fitting into a mold in any way.

I believe I am confident, assertive and fully enjoy interactions with like-minded people. Each person has their own idea of what makes a sexy partner, so I worry less on this and focus on the mutual pleasures that light the heated candle. Sometimes a person can be right in front of you and there is no spark much less a flame…and then, all of a sudden, you see them in a new way, something is different, something not only sparks it combusts into this all-consuming mind-numbing wave of mutual attraction and when that happens….it’s sexy as fuck. Can you find people or the way they act sexy without interacting intimately with them? Sure! Can I pinpoint on exactly makes a person sexy? No! It depends on each person. It can be how they project themselves confidently, how they look even without knowing them at all, their humor, their smile and a zillion other things that can make the impression that a person is indeed sexy. And even that is an individual taste.

Have others told me I am sexy? Sure. I don’t dwell on it, but I don’t shy away from it either. I embrace it as the connecting compliment it is because, I will always tell a partner how sexy she is and genuinely mean it if we are at that level of intimacy. Finding someone sexy is part of the reason the flame is burning when that switch is flipped, and we find our own version of sexy within our partner and it becomes a one-on-one interpretation of the definition regardless of how the outside world finds their own definition of sexy.

On a scale? The only scale I depend on tells me I weighed 178 lbs. this morning. That’s all the feedback I need.

What does sexy mean to me? A thousand little things…A flash of a smile, a look from across the room, online it may be the way someone replies….interacts…engages…handles themselves and is sexy without even trying to be sexy….a feeling…a wicked sense of humor… a touch …. a whisper … a need and a want. But at the end of the day, it’s just the moment that attraction becomes a connection as everything else fades into the background and both feel that surging spark. It’s that moment to me that being sexy as fuck becomes a mutual understanding rather than a descriptive word that can have so many meanings to each individual.