What Are You Nosey About Today?? 🦝

[ydahecnot]

Right, I can get on board with that feeling. I had a similar conversation with someone who reached out to me after my AMA. I think there was a general surprise that I mostly feel unseen/unheard on Lit (and am generally good with that - until I’m not). I feel like there are big presences that fill a room when they enter and that can be difficult to manoeuvre through in those times when you might feel like you have something of value to add. Which for me is not all that often but it does happen.

And my point is proved; yours was the only response

 

[Deacon_Voss]

Personally, depending on the situation, it's almost like a rolling cascade of orgasms. Like the first, pops the cork. And if the stimulation is just right, meaning brain and body, the intensity doesn't fade, but catapults me into another one. This happens more with vaginal orgasms. Now clitoral? That would have to be forced. And we like that.

Hello Amy, my name is Deacon. Let's play doctor

 

[Orchidea73]

wrong thread. lol

 

[Fingerfuxs]

I’m nosey about comparisons. This has come up a couple of times lately in various ways… (i.e rate your sexy had everyone comparing themselves to others, a conversation about nudes etc.)

I want to know how you go with comparisons. Do you do well with comparing yourself only to yourself? Do you know your value proposition? If you DO find yourself comparing yourself to others how do you manage that voice? Or don’t you? If you do go down the comparisons path what is it that you actually compare? Do you compare others to others or do you reserve these measures for yourself?

Come on freaky babies, go deep with me.

I want to know how you go with comparisons. I don’t

Do you do well with comparing yourself only to yourself? Sure , but I’m Lit persona driven when I do. It all starts with what avatar I’m wearing

Do you know your value proposition? Only as a after thought.

If you DO find yourself comparing yourself to others how do you manage that voice? Or don’t you? Don't

If you do go down the comparisons path what is it that you actually compare? Length of banter talk , PM conversations

Do you compare others to others or do you reserve these measures for yourself? As a whole I don’t compare per say , others or myself in any depth that is. I would say I take mental notes , do’s and don’t , that sorta stuff rather then comparing.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

Bouncing off Meister (yes please) -

I think women are expected to be multi-orgasmic or if they are then there is pressure for them to always have multiples and that can be a lot of pressure or sometimes distracting. Can one great orgasm just be perfectly fine thank you?

And men are often, never expected to even try for more. How much experimenting do men do with their orgasmic range?

 

[SassySheDevil]

Too nosey tonight! You ever wonder if they know you know they're ignoring you?

Too deep before Coffee. If they are ignoring you. I doubt they care if you know.

 

[SassySheDevil]

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[SassySheDevil]

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[PrettyLilPussy19]

I'm guessing those things you give PLP

Not picking on you Sassy but the fact that this was the assumption was why I asked my question. My multiple orgasms aren't that newsworthy but what I'd we didn't just accept that women cum several times and men can only cum once and keep trying to learn new things about our partners and the dynamics we have as a unit during sexy times. There is also the whole idea of faking orgasms and the any, many reasons that happens because of what we are taught is "normal".

TL;DR PLP can give em too

 

[SassySheDevil]

Not picking on you Sassy but the fact that this was the assumption was why I asked my question. My multiple orgasms aren't that newsworthy but what I'd we didn't just accept that women cum several times and men can only cum once and keep trying to learn new things about our partners and the dynamics we have as a unit during sexy times. There is also the whole idea of faking orgasms and the any, many reasons that happens because of what we are taught is "normal".

TL;DR PLP can give em too

you're right. I knew better than to answer these.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

you're right. I knew better than to answer these.

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You're fine. I'm just pushing back on the standard. Like I said, not picking, just continuing the conversation.

 

[mellowyellows]

Why is Lit fascinating to you still?

 

[ydahecnot]

At my age….one and done for about half the day. No need to debate that one

 

[AlexBailey]

Bouncing off Meister (yes please) -

I think women are expected to be multi-orgasmic or if they are then there is pressure for them to always have multiples and that can be a lot of pressure or sometimes distracting. Can one great orgasm just be perfectly fine thank you?

And men are often, never expected to even try for more. How much experimenting do men do with their orgasmic range?

I'm multi-orgasmic.

I didn't really understand how a someone could be uninterested in multiple orgasms until I got older.

While I never felt I needed to have an orgasm in a session, they were always welcome. When I'm not in a rush I like to edge and take it to ever higher levels. My poor wife loves it but we've definitely pushed her too far a few times - uncontrollable convulsions, bordering on seizures - unable to stop having aftershocks for nearly an hour, wondering if it could be dangerous and if it was ever going to stop... We had to stop pushing her so far and high. We've been keeping it to a lower level but lately she's started squirting and wetting the bed.

I wish I could experience that - have someone make me cum too hard and too long and have aftershocks... Regular guy orgasms seem so small, quick and messy. I can also have orgasms in my ass and inside where my pussy would be if I had one - those are 'bigger ' and seem to 'take over' more, and unlike with regular guy orgasms I get loud. The first time I had an orgasm that wasn't just 'normal' I was with two girlfriends - one was sucking me while the other was tooling me. I'd already come twice, so this time I didn't ejaculate, but I came harder than ever before.

Age has been making it tough for me to stay hard for more than one shot anymore, but being hard isn't necessarily required. I love my cock but I have raging pussy envy!!!!

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I read this as “One and done and a need to defibrillate. “

oh lord

 

[Fingerfuxs]

Why is Lit fascinating to you still?

The levels of conversations about a variety of sexual topics for one. The social media aspect reminds me of a certain swingers forum. The difference here being there are more sexual frustrations from participating posters.

On that swingers forum , the only thing standing in the way of lust was travel distance and timing.

 

[PrettyLilPussy19]

I'm multi-orgasmic.

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I didn't ejaculate, but I came harder than I ever have before.

Lord, it's warm in here.

 

[ydahecnot]

I read this as “One and done and a need to defibrillate. “

Because that’s just what you wanted to read

 

[AlexBailey]

I'm nosey..

Corsets:

* Do you find them sexy?

* Are they a symbol and of tool of Victorian misogyny?

* Are they for show or the bedroom?

* Have you ever had sex in one / with someone who was wearing one?


https://st2.depositphotos.com/1000142/5664/i/450/depositphotos_56644893-stock-photo-beautiful-young-woman-in-victorian.jpg

 

[SassySheDevil]

I'm nosey..

Corsets:

* Do you find them sexy?

* Are they a symbol and of tool of Victorian misogyny?

* Are they for show or the bedroom?

* Have you ever had sex in one / with someone who was wearing one?

I love them. But they are hard for me to find in my cup size. I can find plenty online, but I wont order Coresets online. I need to be able to try it on. Amazon already hates me for the amount of Lingerie I order and return. I just can't wear fitted cups. They aren't made for anyone over a D cup.
I only have 1 I can put on myself. Other wise, I need help getting in them. I cannot wear strapless. It does not work.
I love wearing them under a dress or something (but most are too visibly obvious)

I've never had sex in them though.

I think they are like most clothing. If it makes you feel beautiful/sexy. Do it.

I did wear one to the gay pride parade a few years back, and I loved it.

 

[hairball18]

I love them. But they are hard for me to find in my cup size. I can find plenty online, but I wont order Coresets online. I need to be able to try it on. Amazon already hates me for the amount of Lingerie I order and return. I just can't wear fitted cups. They aren't made for anyone over a D cup.
I only have 1 I can put on myself. Other wise, I need help getting in them. I cannot wear strapless. It does not work.
I love wearing them under a dress or something (but most are too visibly obvious)

I've never had sex in them though.

I think they are like most clothing. If it makes you feel beautiful/sexy. Do it.

I did wear one to the gay pride parade a few years back, and I loved it.

If you ever need help putting one on again,

 

[AlexBailey]

If you ever need help putting one on again,

I know you're talking to Sassy, but just the tough of getting laced in by someone else....

Then the idea of getting fucked in one...
Whew!

Damn, got me started...

 

[AmberLGreen]

I'm nosey..

Corsets:

* Do you find them sexy?

* Are they a symbol and of tool of Victorian misogyny?

* Are they for show or the bedroom?

* Have you ever had sex in one / with someone who was wearing one?


https://st2.depositphotos.com/1000142/5664/i/450/depositphotos_56644893-stock-photo-beautiful-young-woman-in-victorian.jpg

I love them. I love vintage clothing so these are right up my street.

I find them really sexy and as an admirer of the female body, I think they shape and enhance beautifully.

I wouldn’t say they are a tool or symbol of Victorian misogyny now. I think the ideal of the woman with the very petite waist isn’t as prominent as it was and the acceptance of a more curvy shape is now in the forefront of fashion.

They can be for show. As part of an outfit for a night out with tight fitting trousers or jeans or with a very long flared skirt I think they look amazing. But I do think they are more for the bedroom. For dressing to feel sexy for a partner as part of a seductive tease.

I have never had sex in one and I have never worn one. I don’t have the right body shape for one.

 

[AbsintheFather]

Interested in corset photos? Here's a link to an older popular thread

 

[SassySheDevil]

I have never had sex in one and I have never worn one. I don’t have the right body shape for one.

This is true and not true. (keep in mind, I've never seen your body)

As a bigger woman. They don't make me look like ^^^^ The body Alex used. They don't even always give me that hourglass shape. They do pull things in, they do offer some shape (different then without)
They also shove my tits up where they belong (unfortunately, also make them cascade out in many cases)
This is why I need to try them on. I had to special order my best one.

I don't always feel sexier in them. Because sometimes, depending on the fit, I feel more like a sausage stuffed in the wrong size casing.
I think anyone who already has that similar shape (hourglass) has a better chance of it looking sexy on them. (regardless of size)


Same thing with shapewear. I HATE, hate, hate, with a passion, when advertisements show you the size 4 woman trying to hide her.. skin.
Show me the size 20 woman. The one who truly needs to suck that shit in. Show me shapewear that hides the bulge and she doesn't have to jump on the bed panting, moaning, yanking and pulling, just to get it on.
I have a lot of shapewear that is meant for my size, but fuck if I can get it on. LOL