where are all the bi or bicurious women?

[njgirl0863]

Bi-curious and looking to chat with other bi- or bi-curious women to explore my feelings and see what happens from there on.

Please message me here and pm me.

Thanks.

 

[wearecurious]

I am returning also

Hello ladies,

I am bicurious....becoming bicomfortable woman who has recently has understood why just the thought or a woman can turn me on...mmm.

 

[sapphiresblue]

I have been bicurious for a long while but have never acted upon it...yet!! I'm 47 and loking to meet others.

Sapphiresblue

 

[Vail_Indigo]

*chuckle* seems like ages since I last met a girl who wasn't at least a little bi-curious. But that could just be the crowd I move in

 

[loveya10]

Hey everyone!

I am bran spanking new to this site. I have been bi curious for a while now. I have found it very hard to break out of my straight streak. I have been close but the people I get to know are very shy on the subject including me! If anyone wants to talk or can offer advice let me know! I need help! Thank you loves!

 

[Vail_Indigo]

Hey everyone!

I am bran spanking new to this site. I have been bi curious for a while now. I have found it very hard to break out of my straight streak. I have been close but the people I get to know are very shy on the subject including me! If anyone wants to talk or can offer advice let me know! I need help! Thank you loves!

Feel free to PM me
(I'm actually from New England, until a couple years ago)

 

[rawkchik]

Hey everyone!

I am bran spanking new to this site. I have been bi curious for a while now. I have found it very hard to break out of my straight streak. I have been close but the people I get to know are very shy on the subject including me! If anyone wants to talk or can offer advice let me know! I need help! Thank you loves!

As Vail_Indigo said, except minus the part about being from New England. I'm just from England.

 

[__Lily__]

*chuckle* seems like ages since I last met a girl who wasn't at least a little bi-curious. But that could just be the crowd I move in

haha... I know this feeling. All of my female friends in my home town were at least bi-curious. I moved to a new state for school and all of the girls I met were completely hetero. I was thinking "Man! What's wrong with all these girls?!"

 

[flicktop]

I only discovered this site today. I'm female and bi. I have had long term relationships with 2 women and with 3 men.

 

[caer]

i'm bi. been in a fling type relationship with 3 guys and 2 girls, and a serious relationship with 1 guy before the relationship i'm currently in with a girl, which has lasted 20 months so far.

 

[tigervixen]

Hey. I'm a bisexual with no bi experience. I do NOT consider myself bi-curious, because I know if the opportunity had presented itself I would have been with a woman and enjoyed it. If others are comfortable w/the label "bi-curious" good for them...but it's not for me.

 

[shyandsecret]

hi

definitely bi, definitely love it, definitely want it really bad!!!!

24 maryland here

 

[curiouskinkwife]

Hey. I'm a bisexual with no bi experience. I do NOT consider myself bi-curious, because I know if the opportunity had presented itself I would have been with a woman and enjoyed it. If others are comfortable w/the label "bi-curious" good for them...but it's not for me.

This could have been written by me. I have no consensual experience with another woman, and it was the non-consensual attacks by my stepsister that kept me from embracing my bisexuality for many years. But, there is no curiosity involved in the way I feel. It was important to me when I accepted myself to not treat my feelings like a kink or flavor of the week. My bisexual feelings are real and so much more than curiosity. Taking out the "curiosity" was my way of validating myself.

That's just my personal feeling though, and not meant to in any way deride women who do consider themselves bi-curious.

 

[Vail_Indigo]

does it make me a slut thinking about helping all those who never have?
*whimper*

 

[curiouskinkwife]

does it make me a slut thinking about helping all those who never have?
*whimper*

No. It makes you a living, breathing fantasy. Unless you want to be a slut......then by all means

 

[rkiga001]

Hi. im new to this. im 20, living in miami. im bi-curious...but pretty sure im bi sexual. i have been with a girl before but i didnt like it, more so because she wasnt attractive to me, it was just a half drunk, spur of the moment type of thing. but other than that i have done little things with girls. but im sooooo interested in all that stuff. i have a boyfriend im so in love with. but i would still love to see what could happen with a girl...probably just sexually though. im not emotionally interested in woman..i think..lol.anyway, if you have any help or tips to give me...id love it! =)

 

[curlysue]

Add me to the list. I'm married, late 30s and bi. I've only had one encounter with another lady, but desire one so much. The majority of my fantasies involve me with another lady. I hope to do it some day very soon.

 

[SamFrench]

my wife had a bi encounter and was so into it, i think the intensity actually scared her off. she ended up really falling for the other woman, which made it even more difficult to take the other woman being dishonest with her. while it lasted, i thought it was the sexiest thing in the world to see her so utterly in lust and enjoying bringing each other pleasure. of course we, the hubbies, got to enjoy the benefits of their passion too. i'd love for one of you hot ladies to reawaken that feeling in her.

 

[pussyglaor]

does it make me a slut thinking about helping all those who never have?
*whimper*

I would say no.

oh and sorry how rude of me not to introduce myself >_<

But yay I've found like minded women woo hoo who are either bi or bi curious I'm so tired of the bi curious guy postings.

 

[Dumpling]

I would say no.

oh and sorry how rude of me not to introduce myself >_<

But yay I've found like minded women woo hoo who are either bi or bi curious I'm so tired of the bi curious guy postings.

Yeah I know what you mean ~HI Pussy-G

 

[pussyglaor]

hi dumpling

 

[LLorelei]

Hi all. I'm a bi woman, have identified as straight and as lesbian before, depending on who my partner was. (I know, I know - spineless, letting a partner define me...) Been married to a man (BAD mistake, because of the particular individual), was with another man after that for 3+ years, shorter relationships with both men and women here and there between. Currently in a 7+ yr relationship with a wonderful woman, but recently started having the most fabulous sex of my life with my best friend, a man (we're trying to get me pregnant and the syringe just wasn't working). Oh no, my life's not complicated... <wink>

My lovely partner is so wonderful about the sex with my friend (turned on by the stories but *not* interested in taking part), and he's content for now, too. So...eat your hearts out, ladies! Best of both worlds!

Ahem. Sorry for bragging. It's just that I can't tell my gay friends because then I'd be a "traitor" and can't tell my straight friends because they've got me so nicely pigeonholed as the "token queer." Anybody else bummed about the attitudes so many non-bi people have about us?

 

[Julie_in_the_north]

That's a really interesting story, and I know exactly what you mean. In my personal experience bisexuality is the most difficult thing for other people to acknowledge, empathise with, and even accept. I've been in a monogamous same-sex relationship for the best part of two years, but some lesbians I know don't quite accept me still, because in the past I slept with men - although others are neutral or even positive about it. My girlfriend, bless her, admits that sometimes it troubles her that I'm not truly gay in quite the same pure, lifelong way as her, and that I've been with men and enjoyed it - that my vagina has had penises inside it. It took her time to come to terms with it.

There was a significant period when I was actively bisexual, and almost alternated between relationships and sex with both men and women. I'm lucky to have the self-confidence to have been open about it - but often lesbians regarded me, like you say, as a traitor, while my straights thought I was - well, a bit weird, really, or perhaps a reckless glutton. I must stress though, that not everyone was minded so.

I don't think there's anything wrong with letting the sex of your partner define your sexuality. Everyone is defined by their relationship and their partner in major ways, whoever they are. I too have identified as straight and as bisexual. Nowadays, though, as I'm in a very serious relationship with a woman who fulfils me in every way - Ruth and I are more or less married, effectively - I increasingly think of myself as a lesbian. I'm in love with a woman, I have sex only with that woman, and we live as a gay couple. When I describe myself as a lesbian in public, which after all is more convenient than telling my whole life story, it makes my girlfriend really happy. Perhaps this is letting down bisexual people, and betraying both my past and an important part of my identity. Am I, moreover, still really bisexual? I don't know, in truth - but I know that being happy with who you are is more important that arbitrary labels.

 

[ShycuriousKatie]

Also Bi Curious

Just found this discussion area, tho I am a long time fan of Literotica! I am a bi curious submissive with a Dom. I have always wondered about what it would be like with another woman like me. Anyone is welcome to post a thread or email me and I'd be happy to explore that possibility

 

[LLorelei]

Julie, thank you for your thoughtful response.

"...but often lesbians regarded me, like you say, as a traitor, while my straights thought I was - well, a bit weird, really, or perhaps a reckless glutton. I must stress though, that not everyone was minded so..."

No, I don't think everyone in my life would be negative about my orientation. Definitely the non-serial monogamy thing would get to more of them, I think. It's not "cheating" if everyone is okay with the situation. On that subject, though, I do feel like I have extra responsibility to be fair, loving, attentive, etc. - all the *good* partner things - to each of them, in unequal proportions. Thank goodness we're all emotionally mature adults and all of us feel secure in our friendship, otherwise the whole thing would be a train wreck. I don't think many of my friends and relatives have any experience on which to base their thoughts about my relationships right now, so it'd be "weird" and confusing. Again, though, that's more of a two-partners thing than strictly a bisexual thing.

"...I don't think there's anything wrong with letting the sex of your partner define your sexuality. Everyone is defined by their relationship and their partner in major ways, whoever they are..."

Good point. But I was taught to beware of forming an identity that was too tied up in my partner's. After all, that's all the more redefining you have to do if the relationship ends. Also, there's the sociopolitical stuff, like - how can we get bisexual rights and recognition if we're all self-identifying as another orientation. I don't know the answer. I just know that I fall in love with the mind and soul, and the "fun with genitals" thing comes after...and I'm not picky about the mechanics of the situation. But, like you said, it's waaaay too inconvenient (not to mention socially inept) to go explaining your life story to everyone you meet. Much easier to let them toss you into their favorite pigeonhole and get on with the more important stuff, like sharing opinions, ideas, joys and pains - the 90% of a person that has nothing to do with the bedroom.

"...Am I, moreover, still really bisexual? I don't know, in truth - but I know that being happy with who you are is more important that arbitrary labels..."

Very, very true. I guess I've got some work to do along the lines of accepting (even loving) my own situation and letting everybody else come to their own conclusions. They're going to anyway.

And as for still being bisexual...I think it's possible for a person's preference to move along the Kinsey scale in both directions over time. But for me, I think of "bisexual" as meaning that I have the open-mindedness and open-heartedness to refuse to discriminate on the basis of gender. It's all about potential for me. So, even though I hadn't slept with a man in 10 years before last November, I still thought of myself as bisexual.

Thanks again for responding
LLorelei