where are all the bi or bicurious women?

[sexyosugirl]

I am so bi-curious it drives me crazy. I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I fantasize about having sex with another woman a lot. I just think it would be an amazing experience. Hopefully one day I will get to experience such a thing, it's just hard when you don't want anybody to know.

 

[love_269_girl]

There are many here.

I was bi-curious for a while and gave women a try (not just one, actually a few) and found it wasn't my cup o'tea.

Good luck to you.

I have been thinking about your post for the last couple of days. It made me reflect on the fact that I never had any expectation for what sex with a woman would be like. I never fantasized about it or even thought about it. It just happened. I feel so fortunate that it happened when it did: before I became curious. I suspect that had I been curious about my bisexuality at that time, Becky and I would have never been intimate. The anxiety over being aroused by my roommate and the fear of rejection would have kept this evening from happening.

I respect/admire your courage to explore your bisexual side. That is a decsion I never had to wrestle with. Your courage to explore your sexuality will serve you well throughout your life.

 

[kendra084]

I am so bi-curious it drives me crazy. I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I fantasize about having sex with another woman a lot. I just think it would be an amazing experience. Hopefully one day I will get to experience such a thing, it's just hard when you don't want anybody to know.

you should come over !!

 

[LindaSue28]

"I kissed a girl...and I might do it again"

I am definitely curious and have been through my bi times...

 

[Javagirl]

Thanks for sharing

I appreciate everyone's feedback on here.

JG

 

[Stormie64]

I am right here!

 

[Ms_Anais]

I am so bi-curious it drives me crazy. I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I fantasize about having sex with another woman a lot. I just think it would be an amazing experience. Hopefully one day I will get to experience such a thing, it's just hard when you don't want anybody to know.

It is VERY hard, I agree. My first bi experience came with a woman who just happened to be open-minded enough to realize we could have urges for each other. After that, I've met the other women I've been with through Lit. They've lived quite far from me, but that's ok... if they were in my area, I think my sex drive would go bonkers and I wouldn't get anything done (except for those lovely women, of course )!

 

[Ms_Anais]

I am so bi-curious it drives me crazy. I have a wonderful boyfriend, but I fantasize about having sex with another woman a lot. I just think it would be an amazing experience. Hopefully one day I will get to experience such a thing, it's just hard when you don't want anybody to know.

And btw... it is... such... an amazing..... experience....... *sigh*

On a side note... is anyone else thoroughly distracted by that damn dancing banana while typing posts? It's there just for the males, right? Can we shoot it?

sorry.

 

[blueyd1]

Hi everyone! I'm brand new here. I'm engaged, but have always been curious about exploring a woman...my fiance and I have been talking about it more and more. I would love advice from any experienced women here.

 

[CorsetLvr]

Hi everyone! I'm brand new here. I'm engaged, but have always been curious about exploring a woman...my fiance and I have been talking about it more and more. I would love advice from any experienced women here.

What advice did you have in mind? Can you narrow it down a bit?

 

[blueyd1]

Good point, Corset! Sorry, still trying to get my sea legs here. I guess I just don't know how to take the next step in finding a woman who would be interested in exploring this area with me. The thought of being with a woman turns me on so much, but I don't know where to go next. I've never been with a woman before, and I guess I'm scared because I don't know what to expect.

God, for as "experienced" as I am...I'm such a rookie.

 

[CorsetLvr]

Good point, Corset! Sorry, still trying to get my sea legs here. I guess I just don't know how to take the next step in finding a woman who would be interested in exploring this area with me. The thought of being with a woman turns me on so much, but I don't know where to go next. I've never been with a woman before, and I guess I'm scared because I don't know what to expect.

God, for as "experienced" as I am...I'm such a rookie.

Step 1: Relax and don't put pressure on yourself.

Step 2: Look among your friends and identfy those that are most likely bi. Let's do the math, supposedly 30-40 percent of women are bi or bi-curious. If you have 10 close female friends then chances are that 3-4 of them are probably bi and in exactly the same situation you are in.

Step 3: Find a discrete way to bring up the topic with your candidates without "outing" yourself. Perhaps a discussion about a porn movie you saw with your BF or an article you read in Cosmo.

Step 4: Find out if there is mutual interest. That gets a little tricky and I don't have a lot of advice here except go with your intuition. A shared look or a casual touch can be as meaningful as her coming out and saying, "I want you." However, there are a lot of women that fantasize about being with another woman that are unable to take it beyond fantasies. They generally have a problem with facing up with their desire and dealing with the self image issues that go along with admitting to themselves that they are bi.

Step 5: I probably can't give you any advice about how to turn desire into reality. That's going to depend on you and her and your circumstances. Go work on 1-4 and then come back and we will help you with 5.

Good luck.

 

[kendra084]

On a side note... is anyone else thoroughly distracted by that damn dancing banana while typing posts? It's there just for the males, right? Can we shoot it?

sorry.

YES PLEASE someone shoot that damn dancing 'nana

 

[Luna_Wolf72]

Noooooo! I love the dancing nana....(hey prettily shod woman)

 

[kendra084]

Noooooo! I love the dancing nana....(hey prettily shod woman)

lol, ok the nana stays for Luna

how are ya sexxi ? like my shoes do ya *twirls*

 

[barebacknubianf]

They're deliciously purply.

 

[kendra084]

They're deliciously purply.

actually they are clear plastic .. just funny light reflections

 

[Ms_Anais]

Good point, Corset! Sorry, still trying to get my sea legs here. I guess I just don't know how to take the next step in finding a woman who would be interested in exploring this area with me. The thought of being with a woman turns me on so much, but I don't know where to go next. I've never been with a woman before, and I guess I'm scared because I don't know what to expect.

God, for as "experienced" as I am...I'm such a rookie.

Your location makes a huge difference. For instance, where I am and in the profession I'm in, there's no way I could bring up anything close to porn in conversation with another woman without having pretty clear evidence that the woman was already bi... and I'd have to have a lot of trust for her to keep my inclinations private.

I've met two of the women I've been with in long term relationships right here on Lit, and another online as well. I've had success with a couple other websites, too. My advice is to look where other bi ladies are (like here) and have a clear idea of what you're looking for... do you want someone who will be a friend to both of you as well? Or just a one-time experiment? Be prepared to deal with the consequences of whoever you choose -- a friend will take more time to establish and possibly be more emotionally demanding (and rewarding); a one-timer will get straight to the action and likely not have any emotional connection at all. And there are all sorts in between.

As for the dancing 'nana... I defer to Luna, as I would never kill a 'nana if it is the desire of another woman to keep it alive.

 

[Ms_Anais]

actually they are clear plastic .. just funny light reflections

Those are lovely, kendra... though I notice those lovely legs long before the funnily reflective shoes.

 

[fallenupright]

I don't have a label for myself, really. I hate labels. I am me, and I do what I like, I don't care to attach some sort of name to it?

I'm a woman, and I'm attracted to women (and men). I've slept with one woman, in a threesome with my boyfriend... and we'll probably do it again. I wouldn't be opposed to sleeping with more women... but I don't think I'd date a woman... as pretty and sexy and beautiful as they are... I have a hard enough time dealing with my emotional turmoil and generally girly times, without having to multiply that!

 

[Ms_Anais]

... as pretty and sexy and beautiful as they are... I have a hard enough time dealing with my emotional turmoil and generally girly times, without having to multiply that!

I have to admit to rolling my eyes a bit when conflicting emotions collide in my relationships with women... but considering the emotional shallowness of most men and the pure, inexplicable heart-felt connection I have felt with a woman because of that depth we females have... should my loving husband go before me (which I would not in a million years wish for), I must admit I'd be looking for a lady to spend my remaining days with.

I can definitely see both sides, though.

 

[kendra084]

Those are lovely, kendra... though I notice those lovely legs long before the funnily reflective shoes.

*smile* mmmm thank you Ms_Anais

 

[Ms_Anais]

*smile* mmmm thank you Ms_Anais

*verrrrry tempted to run a licked finger up that calf*

 

[Nicole_21]

bi curious

25 f bi curious never been with another women but very interested in it

 

[Ms_Anais]

25 f bi curious never been with another women but very interested in it

Hi, Nicole. Interestingly enough, my husband just expressed interest in a transfer within his company to Ontario. (slim chance, but ironic!)