where are all the bi or bicurious women?

[TonopahKim]

I am new to the site and guess you could call me bi-curious, I have never been with a women before but am open to it. Would love to chat and hear about others first times.

 

[tenedaveslilslut]

Hi I've been away for awhile and was just curious...am I missing the boat? hee hee There seem to be a LOT of bi/bicurious married men on here but what about the bi or bicurious women on here? Are you in hiding? hee hee

Stop by and say hello on my thread here...just wanted to say HI to the ladies out there who are bi or bicurious, married, straight whatever

Javagirl

Good morning Javagirl. i am very bi-curious and have been for the last couple of years, and looking forward to my first experience.

 

[miss_gabriella]

can i join! can i join!

Hey 26 year old female. Bi-curious, love to try some fun with another woman. Haven't done so as yet but defo want to! I'm in the UK btw!

 

[nici]

I feel there are a lot of us here; only we just do not publish that fact so openly.

I for one don't feel it so necessary that everyone knows. I’m not trying to hide in any closet… that’s for sure! Only relationships are personal for me. It’s between him and me, or her and me.

If I flirt with anyone, (male or female) I do so amongst the other threads. Online I find my attraction to others stemming from their intellect and mind, not through their open publication of their desire “to find some body”.

Though I can conform and belong, I am neither lez nor het. I have an equal interest in involvement with heterosexual males as I do in the lesbian scene and culture.

Only with the swing or group scene do I have an aversion. Sex and relationships are personal and emotional.

As such, I feel I am one of many. I really don’t need the label bisexual. If I am in a Sapphic relationship, I am a lesbian. If I am in a relationship with a male, I am heterosexual. Only in issues of equality and understanding do I feel the need to expound my bisexuality.

 

[yeehawchick1]

I am a bi 22yo unfortunatly havnt had the opportunity to act on me "urges" hopefully someday very soon

 

[Filly Gal]

Hey 1 and all!!
Great thread and hope to have some fun with 1 and all!!

 

[sexy_chicq]

Hey sexy_chicq
good to see another aussie on the boards.

welcome

Cheers! I thought there would be more of us here!

 

[AussieAngel]

Cheers! I thought there would be more of us here!

I did too. But that really isnt so. there are a few aussie guys around.. but not so many bi aussie gals.

 

[bigirlne]

Hi all, I'm also bi, just joined the group. I'm married with kids and work at home. Just wanted to say hi!!

 

[Javagirl]

hi to all the new ladies

A big hello and thanks for stopping by my thread

Nici, this was meant to be a fun, lighthearted thread and didn't mean for it to be a diatribe on labels and bisexuality. That's cool though--thanks for sharing. Just curious...if you feel like you don't need to pinpoint yourself as bisexual per se and aren't digging labels, then why did you post here?

I started this thread because I was merely curious if there were any bi women on Lit because I hadn't really found any bi women to chat with here.

Thanks everyone for saying hi

J. girlie

 

[nici]

A big hello and thanks for stopping by my thread

Nici, this was meant to be a fun, lighthearted thread and didn't mean for it to be a diatribe on labels and bisexuality. That's cool though--thanks for sharing. Just curious...if you feel like you don't need to pinpoint yourself as bisexual per se and aren't digging labels, then why did you post here?

I started this thread because I was merely curious if there were any bi women on Lit because I hadn't really found any bi women to chat with here.

Thanks everyone for saying hi

J. girlie

I don’t know…

Maybe because too often I’ve read posts that say nothing more then, “I’m bi too and looking for other bisexuals.”

Bisexuality to me means that gender doesn’t matter. The person does. If I want to meet someone, I want to meet not just anyone, but rather someone who is sympathetic and who I am attracted to.

I feel we all are this way. Just some times, we become fixed on an idea and become a little single minded. (I know I do.)

The profiles here seem always to be so limited, wouldn’t it be nice if instead of just posting, “Hey, I’m bi too,” that we posted something that helped give us others all an idea of who we are? (The Net is a medium of the mind.)

What is bisexuality to you?
Why are you looking for bisexuals, or are you looking also for lesbians?
If not, then why not, what is the difference to you?

Oh, there’s so many questions, but the statement, “I’m bi too and looking for other bisexuals,” is just so a non-statement, that for me, I just can’t seem to find a reason to have an interest in that person… not here, not online.

Hi, I’m bisexual. I was once a lesbian and even a goldstar… totally into the lez scene. I finally did find a dick worth having, so now I’m a little less bent.

We (the dick worth having & I) didn’t work out. He wanted us to, but I didn’t feel there was enough there for a marriage, so I’m still single. (I still date him once in a while. He’s a fantastic dance partner, and I do love his two children.)

I do date both males and females, but not really that many. Even though sexually I’m sort of middle of the road and like males just about as much as females, I tend more to have my serious relationships with females. I’m very much a relationship type of gal.

 

[bequ23]

Good morning Javagirl. i am very bi-curious and have been for the last couple of years, and looking forward to my first experience.

I am also bi-curious but haven't had an experience with another woman. *sigh* I was just this morning imagining another woman's breasts in my hands, her nipple in my mouth.....

 

[fregces]

Hi, I'm another bi-curious. Never had an experience with a woman but can't stop thinking what it would feel like to eat pussy or use a strap-on. it turns me on so much.

 

[SephStarr]

Oh, there's plenty of bisexual women around here. I am quite rampantly bi, and have a wonderful time of it. [smile]

 

[BluEyes13]

Hello all.

Married and bi here. I look forward to chatting with you all.

 

[CuriousGrrl82]

Yay! finally a thread for bi girls! well....actually i guess i'm just bicurious (sadly). but why do women have to be so tricky! i know how to talk to men and how to get them interested, but i have no idea how to flirt with other girls. i'm probably just getting myself worried and shy for no reason, but it's still very frustrating. ok, that was my little rant. i feel better now, thanks for listening....

 

[Kiandra]

Hey sexy_chicq
good to see another aussie on the boards.

welcome

And another

24 BI F Perth

 

[Kiandra]

I feel there are a lot of us here; only we just do not publish that fact so openly.

.

I find the minute you say anything you then get 100 messages from guys thinking because you are BI you are also easy

LOL

 

[Terra_Cide]

I find the minute you say anything you then get 100 messages from guys thinking because you are BI you are also easy

LOL

It seems like some sort of initiation rite for bi/bi-curious ladies here at Lit for guys to message you to no end once it becomes known of your sexual preference.

It's very easy to ignore them though.

 

[Tymeless]

hmmm yeah being pm'ed by males can be quite annoying but occassionally there is a good gem in there.

 

[nici]

I find the minute you say anything you then get 100 messages from guys thinking because you are BI you are also easy

LOL

So true! The hot bi-chick syndrome. Somehow they seem to think they have more, that we do more, if we're bi. I don't get it. Being bisexual with another woman means they're outside in that relationship. Well, at least for my concerns.

 

[SeenaP]

Hmmmmm, I consider myself very hetero although I've had several "lesbian" encounters, but only as part of a group get together where the majority present are male.

So am I a bi-sexual ? Not really sure as I don't actively look for other women but definately do for men

 

[godizpunishingme]

Hmmmmm, I consider myself very hetero although I've had several "lesbian" encounters, but only as part of a group get together where the majority present are male.

So am I a bi-sexual ? Not really sure as I don't actively look for other women but definately do for men

i was wandering the same thing.......
i like guys and i think i would pick a guy over a girl(depends on the girl, i think) and i like kissing girls but i don't think i can date one

i feel stright but some girls i just wanna kiss lick nibble...

hmmmm confused myself again

 

[nici]

Hmmmmm, I consider myself very hetero although I've had several "lesbian" encounters, but only as part of a group get together where the majority present are male.

So am I a bi-sexual ? Not really sure as I don't actively look for other women but definately do for men

If you consider yourself Het, and only interested in women in a swing scene as a kink, then I think you've answered your own question. Your Het. Which is okay. You're doing what you want to do.

 

[nici]

i was wandering the same thing.......
i like guys and i think i would pick a guy over a girl(depends on the girl, i think) and i like kissing girls but i don't think i can date one

i feel stright but some girls i just wanna kiss lick nibble...

hmmmm comfused myself again

Psychologically speaking:

Kinsey once wrote a thesis and created a scale on bisexuality.

He stated that at birth we all are somewhat bisexual, and only that our learned behavior and social norms dictates much of our variations towards being purely heterosexual or homosexual.

Kinsey's scale had seven levels of het to queer sexual behavior.

A three would be someone who could as easily have a heterosexual partner (physically and emotionally) as a homosexual partner.

A one would be very heterosexual and would only be able to have an opposite sex partner.

A seven would be very queer and would only be able to find a same sex partner.

Absolutes (a 0 or 8 on the scale) would be extremely seldom and could be considered deviant in nature. (Absolutes in nature are extremely seldom.)

His hypothesis is that bisexuality is the norm, allowing us to be social animals to the extreme that we are. Anthropologically, social animals do have a higher frequency of bi and homosexual behavior than do non-social animals.