where are all the bi or bicurious women?
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32 yo female. Add me to the bicurious list. I picture myself in relationships with men, but I sometimes fantasize about women (and men!). I've kissed one girl, but it's been 10 years at least. I keep thinking my 33rd birthday present to myself might be finding a like-minded bicurious girl for some play, just once, just to know. 
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Hi Rissa, You have posted some lovely pictures of yourself. I don't think you will have any trouble finding a kindred spirit.
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khlarrissa said:32 yo female. Add me to the bicurious list. I picture myself in relationships with men, but I sometimes fantasize about women (and men!). I've kissed one girl, but it's been 10 years at least. I keep thinking my 33rd birthday present to myself might be finding a like-minded bicurious girl for some play, just once, just to know.
Hi Rissa, You have posted some lovely pictures of yourself. I don't think you will have any trouble finding a kindred spirit.
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Thanks! 
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Just sticking my head around the door and popping myself on the register
27 and Bi... although the bi side of me doesn't get to see enough action these days
27 and Bi... although the bi side of me doesn't get to see enough action these days
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Hi - 20 yr old bi curious female...haven't had the opportunity yet but the thought of being with another woman is on my mind more and more lately. Send a PM if you'd like the chat.
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No longer curious, solved that question back in college,so just bi...and missing the chance to explore.
No longer curious, solved that question back in college,so just bi...and missing the chance to explore.
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hey bi here , well think i bi never exp anything but interested if i could find the right person
pm me i use msn and yahoo to chat x
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Javagirl said:Hi I've been away for awhile and was just curious...am I missing the boat? hee hee There seem to be a LOT of bi/bicurious married men on here but what about the bi or bicurious women on here? Are you in hiding?
Stop by and say hello on my thread here...just wanted to say HI to the ladies out there who are bi or bicurious, married, straight whatever
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Hi! Bi-curious over here! I got a thing for deep clefts and meaty nips. <raises demitasse of espresso to tit level>
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48 yo woman here. Definitely, and actively, bisexual. I have gone through periods of my life when some may have described me as more les then bi. I'm currently happily married to a wonderful guy that is very understanding and supportive of my sexuality.
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40 year old woman married and very bi
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guilty as charged. Women turn me on more than men sometimes!
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I'm in the same boat Khlarrissa, May for my 30th and your 33rd we could throw quite a party for ourselves
khlarrissa said:32 yo female. Add me to the bicurious list. I picture myself in relationships with men, but I sometimes fantasize about women (and men!). I've kissed one girl, but it's been 10 years at least. I keep thinking my 33rd birthday present to myself might be finding a like-minded bicurious girl for some play, just once, just to know.
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Hey ladies. I guess I fall into the bi-curious category. I'd certainly love to try it. I'm happily married 3 kiddos, and a very supportive hubby. Only problem is his job requires a 'friend' with the utmost discretion. I couldn't imagine just picking up someone from a club but at the same time it's not as though I can approach my friends either! Ahh the rock and hard place. Before I met my hubby I was approached by a good friend and her BF to join them. My BF at the time couldn't have cared less, but for some reason I declined the offer. (yep regretting it now, but alas...) But I love looking at beautiful women, and heck that includes pretty much all of them. They seem to play a pivotal role in my dreams and fantasies, especially when the hubby is away. Great thread btw!
Hey ladies. I guess I fall into the bi-curious category. I'd certainly love to try it. I'm happily married 3 kiddos, and a very supportive hubby. Only problem is his job requires a 'friend' with the utmost discretion. I couldn't imagine just picking up someone from a club but at the same time it's not as though I can approach my friends either! Ahh the rock and hard place. Before I met my hubby I was approached by a good friend and her BF to join them. My BF at the time couldn't have cared less, but for some reason I declined the offer. (yep regretting it now, but alas...) But I love looking at beautiful women, and heck that includes pretty much all of them. They seem to play a pivotal role in my dreams and fantasies, especially when the hubby is away. Great thread btw!
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Hi there - I've just joined these boards and found this thread. Thought I'd put my hand up as another bisexual woman - although it looks like there are a quite a lot of us! That said, I'm not sure whether it's still the best label for me now - but labels are probably never very accurate for anyone.
I've only been actively bisexual for the last five years or so, since my mid-twenties. Until then, from my late teens onwards, I'd been straight, and very enthusiastically so. I loved sex with men, really loved it, and slept around a lot between boyfriends, a couple of whom I fell passionately in love with. I don't think that side of me ever changed, but when a lesbian friend - who may have sensed something in me I myself hadn't - tried to seduce me, I thought...why not? I don't think it was a case of unlocking an inner truth about my sexuality. Rather, I've always been very sexually confident, adventurous and uninhibited - I used to surprise men by demanding anal sex on a first date - and just enjoyed sex so much I was always interested in new experiences.
At the time I neither unconsciously lusted after women, nor was repulsed by the idea - it seemed fun and harmless. But looking back, and I know it sounds like an awful cliche, or my memory deceiving me, I probably had admired other women's bodies in a deeper way than I'd been really aware of. Later on, experiences came back to me of odd feelings some women had given me. In the case of that first seduction by my gay friend, we only snogged - but it was lovely. So we kept doing it every now and again, just kissing. It wasn't till four months later that we actually had sex. I loved it, and before I knew it I was mixing socially with lesbian women, and sleeping with them. Then I started dating women, having relationships with them, and then sometimes falling vaguely in love with them. And at the same time, between trysts, I still went with men.
I had a three year(ish) period in which my emotional and sexual life, if described, would sound incredibly wanton and louche - I almost alternated between individual men and women, both in relationships and one-night stands. Some (although I must stress only some) of my lesbian acquaintances were horrified; my straight friends probably thought I was a reckless, greedy bohemian, but I'm lucky enough to be blessed with a very thick skin, and I couldn't give a stuff what anyone thought. I just thought there were a lot of attractive people in the world, and I wanted to fuck them.
The obvious thing is to compare sex and romance with men and women, and again it's hard to avoid cliches. There are similarities and differences. I never stopped finding men sexually attractive - and in theory still haven't. A sleek, suave, funny, handsome man still arouses me - and yes, to put it crudely, I never stopped enjoying having a hard penis inside me, or a man's powerful but tender body on mine. Men's bums are great, too. In relationships, men are easier to fathom than women, their linear minds easier, suprisingly, to trust and rationalise - whereas women, as lovers, can be bitchy, unpredictable and irrational.
On the other hand, in terms of love, I think naturally I just connect more fully with a loving woman - with female sensibilities, humanity and warmth. In bed, and this might seem an odd thing to pick out, women certainly smell nicer than men! I love burying my nose in a female partner's hair, or her shoulders, and inhaling her skin or perfume, enjoying all her smells. Oral sex is one area where there's no contest - I much prefer exploring the delicate, subtle, female sex than having a bloke's poorly-washed cock in my mouth!
Sexually, I find women's bodies more tender, more soft, prettier and more elegant. I love breasts, too. And women are probably more sexual than men - our bodies have so many more erogenous zones, and we orgasm better too. The male climax is one quick hit and it's all over, whereas our orgasms are longer, deeper, more emotional...and can be repeated several times! Plus there's no vile sensation of sperm slowly leaking out of you afterwards. Also, there's more variety in a same-sex female relationship - so many more ways to have make love. I can fist a woman, or trib with her, which I can't do with a man.
For the last year and a half things have been different, because I've finally met someone I've really, properly, fallen in love with. I think I was always just looking for the right person, of whichever sex. She's my girlfriend Ruth. I really love her, with a passion. She's an amazing person - so funny, clever, and kind, but exciting and stimulating too. I can't believe how soppy and gushing she makes me feel! Ruth is very beautiful as well, and altogether I'm a very lucky woman. We moved in together six months ago. Although I still appreciate the appeal of men, right now, and since Ruth came along, I've harboured no desire to be with one - or with any other woman than Ruth. She completely fulfils me sexually. I suppose then that maybe I'm not bisexual - perhaps I'm a lesbian? Who knows - but who really cares? It's only a word. Ruth *is* a lesbian, and has never slept with or fancied a man ("they're too hairy and smelly", she says), but she in no way resents the fact that she and I are different in that regard.
I've just realise I seem to have gone on forever about this - hope I haven't bored you all to death! But I wanted to share my story with you. Hope you found it interesting, and do get in touch if you'd like to say hello.
Jx.
I've only been actively bisexual for the last five years or so, since my mid-twenties. Until then, from my late teens onwards, I'd been straight, and very enthusiastically so. I loved sex with men, really loved it, and slept around a lot between boyfriends, a couple of whom I fell passionately in love with. I don't think that side of me ever changed, but when a lesbian friend - who may have sensed something in me I myself hadn't - tried to seduce me, I thought...why not? I don't think it was a case of unlocking an inner truth about my sexuality. Rather, I've always been very sexually confident, adventurous and uninhibited - I used to surprise men by demanding anal sex on a first date - and just enjoyed sex so much I was always interested in new experiences.
At the time I neither unconsciously lusted after women, nor was repulsed by the idea - it seemed fun and harmless. But looking back, and I know it sounds like an awful cliche, or my memory deceiving me, I probably had admired other women's bodies in a deeper way than I'd been really aware of. Later on, experiences came back to me of odd feelings some women had given me. In the case of that first seduction by my gay friend, we only snogged - but it was lovely. So we kept doing it every now and again, just kissing. It wasn't till four months later that we actually had sex. I loved it, and before I knew it I was mixing socially with lesbian women, and sleeping with them. Then I started dating women, having relationships with them, and then sometimes falling vaguely in love with them. And at the same time, between trysts, I still went with men.
I had a three year(ish) period in which my emotional and sexual life, if described, would sound incredibly wanton and louche - I almost alternated between individual men and women, both in relationships and one-night stands. Some (although I must stress only some) of my lesbian acquaintances were horrified; my straight friends probably thought I was a reckless, greedy bohemian, but I'm lucky enough to be blessed with a very thick skin, and I couldn't give a stuff what anyone thought. I just thought there were a lot of attractive people in the world, and I wanted to fuck them.
The obvious thing is to compare sex and romance with men and women, and again it's hard to avoid cliches. There are similarities and differences. I never stopped finding men sexually attractive - and in theory still haven't. A sleek, suave, funny, handsome man still arouses me - and yes, to put it crudely, I never stopped enjoying having a hard penis inside me, or a man's powerful but tender body on mine. Men's bums are great, too. In relationships, men are easier to fathom than women, their linear minds easier, suprisingly, to trust and rationalise - whereas women, as lovers, can be bitchy, unpredictable and irrational.
On the other hand, in terms of love, I think naturally I just connect more fully with a loving woman - with female sensibilities, humanity and warmth. In bed, and this might seem an odd thing to pick out, women certainly smell nicer than men! I love burying my nose in a female partner's hair, or her shoulders, and inhaling her skin or perfume, enjoying all her smells. Oral sex is one area where there's no contest - I much prefer exploring the delicate, subtle, female sex than having a bloke's poorly-washed cock in my mouth!
Sexually, I find women's bodies more tender, more soft, prettier and more elegant. I love breasts, too. And women are probably more sexual than men - our bodies have so many more erogenous zones, and we orgasm better too. The male climax is one quick hit and it's all over, whereas our orgasms are longer, deeper, more emotional...and can be repeated several times! Plus there's no vile sensation of sperm slowly leaking out of you afterwards. Also, there's more variety in a same-sex female relationship - so many more ways to have make love. I can fist a woman, or trib with her, which I can't do with a man.
For the last year and a half things have been different, because I've finally met someone I've really, properly, fallen in love with. I think I was always just looking for the right person, of whichever sex. She's my girlfriend Ruth. I really love her, with a passion. She's an amazing person - so funny, clever, and kind, but exciting and stimulating too. I can't believe how soppy and gushing she makes me feel! Ruth is very beautiful as well, and altogether I'm a very lucky woman. We moved in together six months ago. Although I still appreciate the appeal of men, right now, and since Ruth came along, I've harboured no desire to be with one - or with any other woman than Ruth. She completely fulfils me sexually. I suppose then that maybe I'm not bisexual - perhaps I'm a lesbian? Who knows - but who really cares? It's only a word. Ruth *is* a lesbian, and has never slept with or fancied a man ("they're too hairy and smelly", she says), but she in no way resents the fact that she and I are different in that regard.
I've just realise I seem to have gone on forever about this - hope I haven't bored you all to death! But I wanted to share my story with you. Hope you found it interesting, and do get in touch if you'd like to say hello.
Jx.
Hi, ladies. Actively bi; solved the curiosity question about 4 years ago (though at the time I thought it was just that one woman...silly, silly me). Currently in a "friends with benefits" relationship with a wonderful woman, plus married to a fabulous man (who unfortunately isn't open to the idea, so I'm very discreet) and caring for three young children. I also have this *cough* nasty little habit of playing online... as my tag might reflect... *blush*.
I find that women fill an emotional need for me that no man has been able to, as much as I love my husband and consider him an ideal partner in parenthood. And women's bodies are just... so beautiful to touch... *sigh*
*ahem*
Yeah, I'm bi.
I find that women fill an emotional need for me that no man has been able to, as much as I love my husband and consider him an ideal partner in parenthood. And women's bodies are just... so beautiful to touch... *sigh*
*ahem*
Yeah, I'm bi.
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I am a heterosexual women who likes to play with girls; therefore, I will except the label of bisexual, but the sex with men and women are totally different for me. Sex with a man is passionate and carries all the baggage (good and bad) that comes with a committed relationship. Sex with women is exciting, fun, playful and casual...it is recreational!!
I had my first bi experience when I was a freshman in college. It was wonderful. It just happened one night after clubbing with my roommate and her boyfriend. They got in fight, so she and I grabbed a cab back to the dorm. While we were taking our make-up off she told me the reason for their fight was that he wanted to have threesome with me as the third. I was more than a little taken back and did not quite know what to say. In effort to inject some humor into room I turned to her standing in only my bra and panties and gave her my best pouty face and said "what, you don't think I am sexy" and before I could laugh she reached for me and said "no I think you are the sexiest..." about that time she realized I was joking. We both blushed a giggled a little. That exchange opened the door to a whole new side of sexual pleasure. Within hours we were exploring each other bodies.
Someday I am going to write a story about that first time, but today I have got soccer carpool!!
I had my first bi experience when I was a freshman in college. It was wonderful. It just happened one night after clubbing with my roommate and her boyfriend. They got in fight, so she and I grabbed a cab back to the dorm. While we were taking our make-up off she told me the reason for their fight was that he wanted to have threesome with me as the third. I was more than a little taken back and did not quite know what to say. In effort to inject some humor into room I turned to her standing in only my bra and panties and gave her my best pouty face and said "what, you don't think I am sexy" and before I could laugh she reached for me and said "no I think you are the sexiest..." about that time she realized I was joking. We both blushed a giggled a little. That exchange opened the door to a whole new side of sexual pleasure. Within hours we were exploring each other bodies.
Someday I am going to write a story about that first time, but today I have got soccer carpool!!
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Please do! I am considering taking a stab at a semi-autobiographical story of my first bi experience when I was in college as well. I don't normally write biographical stories but that is one event in my life that I think would make a decent tale.love_269_girl said:Someday I am going to write a story about that first time, but today I have got soccer carpool!!
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There are many here.
I was bi-curious for a while and gave women a try (not just one, actually a few) and found it wasn't my cup o'tea.
Good luck to you.
I was bi-curious for a while and gave women a try (not just one, actually a few) and found it wasn't my cup o'tea.
Good luck to you.
love_269_girl said:Someday I am going to write a story about that first time, but today I have got soccer carpool!!
That would be a wonderful read, I'm sure! My last experience was by far the most erotic...I considered writing that one into a story, but the woman involved is far too private and too priceless to risk a kiss-and-tell.
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I agree
I agree with your description of sex of sex between the sexes! I couldn't have put it better.
WNY Susie
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I agree with your description of sex of sex between the sexes! I couldn't have put it better.
WNY Susie
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love_269_girl said:I am a heterosexual women who likes to play with girls; therefore, I will except the label of bisexual, but the sex with men and women are totally different for me. Sex with a man is passionate and carries all the baggage (good and bad) that comes with a committed relationship. Sex with women is exciting, fun, playful and casual...it is recreational!!
I had my first bi experience when I was a freshman in college. It was wonderful. It just happened one night after clubbing with my roommate and her boyfriend. They got in fight, so she and I grabbed a cab back to the dorm. While we were taking our make-up off she told me the reason for their fight was that he wanted to have threesome with me as the third. I was more than a little taken back and did not quite know what to say. In effort to inject some humor into room I turned to her standing in only my bra and panties and gave her my best pouty face and said "what, you don't think I am sexy" and before I could laugh she reached for me and said "no I think you are the sexiest..." about that time she realized I was joking. We both blushed a giggled a little. That exchange opened the door to a whole new side of sexual pleasure. Within hours we were exploring each other bodies.
Someday I am going to write a story about that first time, but today I have got soccer carpool!!
