where are all the bi or bicurious women?

[MTskibunny]

I have no idea. Im not a jealous person, so I cant relate.

I was just trying to give her advice, because threesomes have ruined a couples of my friends relationships and I think it was due to insecurities.

That seems like a double standard to me. What, do only women get jealous? Should only men be expected to be faithful? What if the man was bi and the woman straight? Should she have to only watch and touch him? This doesn't make sense, but I have seen this logic again and again. It is rather disturbing.

 

[yevkassem72]

I have no idea. Im not a jealous person, so I cant relate.

I was just trying to give her advice, because threesomes have ruined a couples of my friends relationships and I think it was due to insecurities.

Any kind of sexual experimentation can go wrong. That doesn't mean that it will. I simply objected to what seemed unfair to me.

 

[inmyanonymity]

jealousy

thanks for your input. i think we are in a really strong place together. and i want to share more- with a woman or a man.

i'm not feeling jealous and i don't know if i will. i kind of want the woman more to myself though, but not out of jealousy, more out of a desire to just experience that woman to woman relationship in a way that allows me to 'fall into' the experience without having to worry about my so.

 

[MTskibunny]

I hope it goes well for you. I want details!

thanks for your input. i think we are in a really strong place together. and i want to share more- with a woman or a man.

i'm not feeling jealous and i don't know if i will. i kind of want the woman more to myself though, but not out of jealousy, more out of a desire to just experience that woman to woman relationship in a way that allows me to 'fall into' the experience without having to worry about my so.

 

[inmyanonymity]

thanks

mtskibunny... i'll confess everything to you. (smile).

 

[Bandit58]

My husband isn't involved in my play with other women, although we have had a couple of threesomes (MFF). I agree that your primary relationship has to be rock solid, and trust and honesty should be paramount.

I know that my husband loves me to death but I do admit to feeling a twinge of jealousy when he was kissing the other woman - it didn't matter that he was touching her and gave her oral too....the kissing seemed the most intimate. However I have worked through that and no longer feel that way.

He does not have sex with the other woman when we play in a threesome. He will kiss her and pleasure her orally and with his fingers but that's all. His dick stays in his pants - and that is HIS idea, I have not had any input in that decision at all.

He wants me to experience the whole of my sexuality, and that includes my bisexual side. He does not feel the need to be present. My play partner's husband is also fine with her playing with me alone. They also swing with other couples, but I am her first "alone" fem partner.

And just to clarify things further, I do not have sex with other men. I have no desire to. I have been in a couple of situations where there was another man present (as was my husband) but I was not comfortable and prefer one on one FF play.

 

[inmyanonymity]

bandit...

thanks for being so honest about what you've experienced. As this is all new to us, we are trying to learn as much as we can so we don't screw things up. And my bi-curious self is trying not to rush ahead without looking both ways.

 

[__Lily__]

Hi all! Just wanted to drop in and introduce myself. I am a bi female... not that experienced with women but I have had enough to know that I love it!

 

[Paige.]

Hi all! Just wanted to drop in and introduce myself. I am a bi female... not that experienced with women but I have had enough to know that I love it!

Hi Lily,
Welcome to Lit, whichever Forum or thread you visit.
I love it too.

 

[neonflux]

Just peaking in to give you a big {{{{{{{{{{Bandit}}}}}}}}}}

Neon

My husband isn't involved in my play with other women, although we have had a couple of threesomes (MFF). I agree that your primary relationship has to be rock solid, and trust and honesty should be paramount.

I know that my husband loves me to death but I do admit to feeling a twinge of jealousy when he was kissing the other woman - it didn't matter that he was touching her and gave her oral too....the kissing seemed the most intimate. However I have worked through that and no longer feel that way.

He does not have sex with the other woman when we play in a threesome. He will kiss her and pleasure her orally and with his fingers but that's all. His dick stays in his pants - and that is HIS idea, I have not had any input in that decision at all.

He wants me to experience the whole of my sexuality, and that includes my bisexual side. He does not feel the need to be present. My play partner's husband is also fine with her playing with me alone. They also swing with other couples, but I am her first "alone" fem partner.

And just to clarify things further, I do not have sex with other men. I have no desire to. I have been in a couple of situations where there was another man present (as was my husband) but I was not comfortable and prefer one on one FF play.

 

[neonflux]

Oh, forgot. I am bi. Identify as bi-queer.

 

[misspihla]

Broke up with my girlfriend and now suffering second week of celibacy already. :/

 

[Filly Gal]

Broke up with my girlfriend and now suffering second week of celibacy already. :/

Sorry to hear that, wish you well!

 

[misspihla]

Sorry to hear that, wish you well!

Thanks.

Gotta find the single girl brain mode again...

 

[neonflux]

Broke up with my girlfriend and now suffering second week of celibacy already. :/

I am really sad to read that, Misspihla.

I know it's small comfort, but in the meantime, might I profer any or all of the following?

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q91/cleasf/images.jpg

AND/OR

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q91/cleasf/ice.jpg

AND/OR

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q91/cleasf/climbing-rose.jpg

AND/OR

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q91/cleasf/cocktails.jpg

(all shared with conversation if so desired, of course).

Neon

 

[inmyanonymity]

I am really sad to read that, Misspihla.

I know it's small comfort, but in the meantime, might I profer any or all of the following?

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q91/cleasf/images.jpg

AND/OR

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q91/cleasf/ice.jpg

AND/OR

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q91/cleasf/climbing-rose.jpg

AND/OR

http://i134.photobucket.com/albums/q91/cleasf/cocktails.jpg

(all shared with conversation if so desired, of course).

Neon

Neon... what lovely images to help brighten Misspihla's week!

 

[curiousisjane]

Hello

OK, I will have to throw my hat into the ring someday. I am new to Lit. and this is my first contribution so be kind. I appear not to be the only woman who has these feelings it seems, anyone interested in chatting online with this 40 year old married woman...?

 

[Filly Gal]

OK, I will have to throw my hat into the ring someday. I am new to Lit. and this is my first contribution so be kind. I appear not to be the only woman who has these feelings it seems, anyone interested in chatting online with this 40 year old married woman...?

Pm me anytime babe!! But you gota goto your cp and open up the pm feature!!
FG

 

[peppermint_barbi]

Very bicurious

Just saw this thread and thought I would say hi. I am a very bircurious married female and would love to chat with any other females.....I hope everyone is having a good night...

 

[curiousisjane]

Hello

A married bicurious woman here looking to chat on IM with you ladies.

 

[AZLovelyLady]

Mos Def

I am most definitely bi....I've know since kindergarten that I liked girls!

Anyone else struggling with flirting with girls and/or interpreting their signals? With men it's SO easy to know whether or not they're interested and to let them know that you are as well. With women it is MUCH more complex and subtle and I haven't quite learned the art of it all yet....any tips would be appreciated for sure!

If a woman tells you that you're hot a couple of times, with one time having it whispered in your ear privately, tells you that you have a great ass and then proceeds to not call you back when you invite her to hang out--is that mixed messages or is that my misinterpretation from the beginning?

 

[neonflux]

I am most definitely bi....I've know since kindergarten that I liked girls!

Anyone else struggling with flirting with girls and/or interpreting their signals? With men it's SO easy to know whether or not they're interested and to let them know that you are as well. With women it is MUCH more complex and subtle and I haven't quite learned the art of it all yet....any tips would be appreciated for sure!

If a woman tells you that you're hot a couple of times, with one time having it whispered in your ear privately, tells you that you have a great ass and then proceeds to not call you back when you invite her to hang out--is that mixed messages or is that my misinterpretation from the beginning?

That's someone who isn't sure she wants to follow her feelings of attraction to you, is my guess...

 

[WynEternal]

I'm bi. I've been infatuated with breasts since I hit puberty. Too bad it's taken me so long to admit it to myself.

 

[Filly Gal]

I'm bi. I've been infatuated with breasts since I hit puberty. Too bad it's taken me so long to admit it to myself.

Loved breasts since i grabbed a girls in high school!!

 

[Filly Gal]

I am most definitely bi....I've know since kindergarten that I liked girls!

Anyone else struggling with flirting with girls and/or interpreting their signals? With men it's SO easy to know whether or not they're interested and to let them know that you are as well. With women it is MUCH more complex and subtle and I haven't quite learned the art of it all yet....any tips would be appreciated for sure!

If a woman tells you that you're hot a couple of times, with one time having it whispered in your ear privately, tells you that you have a great ass and then proceeds to not call you back when you invite her to hang out--is that mixed messages or is that my misinterpretation from the beginning?

No, its just her playing silly little girl games with you and not being sure of herself of what she is wanting!! The best way to cut that nonsense off and avoid getting played is to, after a couple of flirtations is go up to her and ask her what she REALLY wants with you!! That way you avoid getting "led on" and she can either move on or get serious. Nobody likes to get "played" and I really dont like silly little girls in a grown woman's body that are to afraid or immature to know what they want and go for it!!