Why do older men become bi-curious?

[bear175]

Fantasy

A fantasy is just what it is and the ones we have when we are hard and going may be quite appealing, but when they become physical, they may not be what we were looking for.
There is for instance a difference between playing with a hard cock and mutual masturbation and receiving a load of cum in the mouth.
How many of you dreaming to receive a mouthful of cum have succeeded in finding a man to do so, but were forever nauseated afterward ?

 

[Duncan113]

A fantasy is just what it is and the ones we have when we are hard and going may be quite appealing, but when they become physical, they may not be what we were looking for.
There is for instance a difference between playing with a hard cock and mutual masturbation and receiving a load of cum in the mouth.
How many of you dreaming to receive a mouthful of cum have succeeded in finding a man to do so, but were forever nauseated afterward ?

Your point is well-taken. I'm sure any thoughtful person who's had such fantasies and considered acting them out has considered this possibility, on the other hand you can't find out unless you try it. I myself would never take a guy's load in the mouth, and have absolutely no desire to do so. I do, however, have the desire to suck on the right cock--at least I think I do. Unfortunately, it seems to me that the possibility that I might find out I actually don't like it, once I was doing it, only makes it more important to be able to find just the kind of guy I want and have some control, thus bringing me back to the original problem. Wouldn't it be great if we had a Dr. McCoy type device we could wave in front of someone and have it tell us instantly if that person was healthy? I'm sure there will be such a device eventually, but goshdarnit, I want it now.

 

[CuriousGuyVa]

Your point is well-taken. I'm sure any thoughtful person who's had such fantasies and considered acting them out has considered this possibility, on the other hand you can't find out unless you try it. I myself would never take a guy's load in the mouth, and have absolutely no desire to do so. I do, however, have the desire to suck on the right cock--at least I think I do. Unfortunately, it seems to me that the possibility that I might find out I actually don't like it, once I was doing it, only makes it more important to be able to find just the kind of guy I want and have some control, thus bringing me back to the original problem. Wouldn't it be great if we had a Dr. McCoy type device we could wave in front of someone and have it tell us instantly if that person was healthy? I'm sure there will be such a device eventually, but goshdarnit, I want it now.

You and bear175 have summed things up quite well...

 

[PinkPanties4me]

I agree.. the fantasy will have to do in this age ...

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Haven't they just? Only problem is, the more I read about sucking cock, the more I want to. Maybe I should just look at white goods ads.

 

[indianman69]

I am craving for some thick bear cock

 

[cuckoldbill]

I'm a 68 year old who loves cross dressing. I wear panties most days and have a wardrobe full of beautiful feminine clothes. My wife fully supports me. like most guys l have a real desire to suck cocks. It started in my late 50's. Up until then I considered myself a macho male and only wanted women. Even when dressed fully enfemme I had no interest in cocks.
My fantasy is very specific . I wand to play and have fun with another fully dressed mature man. I love the thought of easing my hand up under his skirt/dress until I reach his panty clad cock. And then giving him as much pleasure as I can. My wife knows nothing about this

 

[hubbyinstockings]

I'm a 68 year old who loves cross dressing. I wear panties most days and have a wardrobe full of beautiful feminine clothes. My wife fully supports me. like most guys l have a real desire to suck cocks. It started in my late 50's. Up until then I considered myself a macho male and only wanted women. Even when dressed fully enfemme I had no interest in cocks.
My fantasy is very specific . I wand to play and have fun with another fully dressed mature man. I love the thought of easing my hand up under his skirt/dress until I reach his panty clad cock. And then giving him as much pleasure as I can. My wife knows nothing about this

So you wife supports your dressing but doesn't know you want to take it further and actually meet a guy for sexual pleasure.

 

[cuckoldbill]

So you wife supports your dressing but doesn't know you want to take it further and actually meet a guy for sexual pleasure.

Yes strange but true. I think it would upset things between us. Have sent you a pm

 

[bicurnow]

Thongs

When I was in college I started wearing thongs as underwear and quickly wore them at the beach. With tan lines I wanted more and experimented with men and liked and liked women too. I saw it as a means to expand my sexuality and find new ways to get off. Not for all guys but as I stand in my thong now with my tan lines, I love it!

Ever wear lace ones to show your package? Turn on your private messages olease

 

[iwatchthem]

I just turned 62. For many years now I have fantasized about being with 2 handsome, well endowed young men. This fantasy is based on someone who used to live next door. I would often think about what it would be like taking his hard cock in my mouth and in my boi pussy. Lately this fantasy has morphed to include a second guy with the ultimate result being a cock in my mouth and a cock in my pussy. I have had many serious orgasms over the years to this fantasy which never gets old. Bi-curious?... I do confess to having a feminine side that needs to be expressed. Would I ever indulge? Probably not.... I am married and don't want to screw up my marriage therefore the fantasy stays in my head.

 

[Duncan113]

Alright, lads, I think we've pretty well established that men almost universally want to suck cock, at least later in life. What about getting fucked anally? How many of you who want to suck cock also think about getting fucked? Me, as far as potential real life scenarios, it's only sucking that I'm interested in. I'm not totally ruling out the other, it's just that I can't see how it's possible. First, I'm quite sure the fantasy of getting fucked anally is VERY different than the real thing (mind you, that statement applies equally to women who have this fantasy, of course.) Secondly, I wonder if a middle-aged person who's an anal virgin should flirt with disaster and go down that road--I would think serious injury is a real possibility. Third, obviously, anal sex is the least safe kind of sex you can have. Beyond that, I would think the pain is horrendous, especially since most of us fantasize about large or even huge cocks. In the abstract, though, if these issues somehow didn't exist, I might try it just because you live once. You don't have to do it again if you don't like it.

 

[ScottMtl]

Alright, lads, I think we've pretty well established that men almost universally want to suck cock, at least later in life. What about getting fucked anally? How many of you who want to suck cock also think about getting fucked? Me, as far as potential real life scenarios, it's only sucking that I'm interested in. I'm not totally ruling out the other, it's just that I can't see how it's possible. First, I'm quite sure the fantasy of getting fucked anally is VERY different than the real thing (mind you, that statement applies equally to women who have this fantasy, of course.) Secondly, I wonder if a middle-aged person who's an anal virgin should flirt with disaster and go down that road--I would think serious injury is a real possibility. Third, obviously, anal sex is the least safe kind of sex you can have. Beyond that, I would think the pain is horrendous, especially since most of us fantasize about large or even huge cocks. In the abstract, though, if these issues somehow didn't exist, I might try it just because you live once. You don't have to do it again if you don't like it.

Totally agree ~ the thought of it does not motivate me personally one bit

Only got curious about 2 years ago at about 33 (not old but not too young either) and just for the idea of jo with others (preferably married) friend and yes some oral too

 

[J1biboi]

Alright, lads, I think we've pretty well established that men almost universally want to suck cock, at least later in life. What about getting fucked anally? How many of you who want to suck cock also think about getting fucked? Me, as far as potential real life scenarios, it's only sucking that I'm interested in. I'm not totally ruling out the other, it's just that I can't see how it's possible. First, I'm quite sure the fantasy of getting fucked anally is VERY different than the real thing (mind you, that statement applies equally to women who have this fantasy, of course.) Secondly, I wonder if a middle-aged person who's an anal virgin should flirt with disaster and go down that road--I would think serious injury is a real possibility. Third, obviously, anal sex is the least safe kind of sex you can have. Beyond that, I would think the pain is horrendous, especially since most of us fantasize about large or even huge cocks. In the abstract, though, if these issues somehow didn't exist, I might try it just because you live once. You don't have to do it again if you don't like it.

I've had all of those same thoughts and feel the same way.

 

[coati]

I'm an older man in my 60s who is not technically bi-curious, because I've had occasional experiences with men since I was 20 years old. I think a lot of older guys start thinking, "Hey, can anyone explain to me in a logical way why it is not OK to be sexual with both men and women?" I mean, I have wondered that myself for a long time, as well as wondering why sex has to be tied to one lifelong partner or even to romance in every case.

Now I totally understand the need for safe sex and I practice that consistently, but really, what is the big hangup about getting another guy off? And why does 99% of the population act as if having sex with one person and one person only and with one gender and one gender only is a healthy state of being? That always seemed pretty weird to me.

I have always wanted to be adventurous and get to know people in more than a superficial way. I find with women, that generally means sticking with one relationship, but being able to talk about your emotional world with other women. With men, it may mean less talk about feelings and emotions, but an understanding that sex does not have to be tied to romance. These are general differences I have observed, not hard and fast rules.

I think most people are pretty hung up about sex in general, let alone bi sex. Maybe that is why these sites get so much traffic, the dissonance between what people really want and their actual daily life.

For all you older guys out there who are bi-curious, consider this. If you practice safe sex, the world will not fall off its hinges if you touch another man in an intimate way. You can go on being a man. This is the basis for male liberation. The more men liberate each other, the happier they tend to be. I'm grateful for every lover I have had, male and female.

 

[ScottMtl]

I'm an older man in my 60s who is not technically bi-curious, because I've had occasional experiences with men since I was 20 years old. I think a lot of older guys start thinking, "Hey, can anyone explain to me in a logical way why it is not OK to be sexual with both men and women?" I mean, I have wondered that myself for a long time, as well as wondering why sex has to be tied to one lifelong partner or even to romance in every case.

Now I totally understand the need for safe sex and I practice that consistently, but really, what is the big hangup about getting another guy off? And why does 99% of the population act as if having sex with one person and one person only and with one gender and one gender only is a healthy state of being? That always seemed pretty weird to me.

I have always wanted to be adventurous and get to know people in more than a superficial way. I find with women, that generally means sticking with one relationship, but being able to talk about your emotional world with other women. With men, it may mean less talk about feelings and emotions, but an understanding that sex does not have to be tied to romance. These are general differences I have observed, not hard and fast rules.

I think most people are pretty hung up about sex in general, let alone bi sex. Maybe that is why these sites get so much traffic, the dissonance between what people really want and their actual daily life.

For all you older guys out there who are bi-curious, consider this. If you practice safe sex, the world will not fall off its hinges if you touch another man in an intimate way. You can go on being a man. This is the basis for male liberation. The more men liberate each other, the happier they tend to be. I'm grateful for every lover I have had, male and female.

Bravo

 

[PleasePeesMe]

And bravo again

I haven't seen it put better. Well done, sir.

 

[bear175]

I'm an older man in my 60s who is not technically bi-curious, because I've had occasional experiences with men since I was 20 years old. I think a lot of older guys start thinking, "Hey, can anyone explain to me in a logical way why it is not OK to be sexual with both men and women?" I mean, I have wondered that myself for a long time, as well as wondering why sex has to be tied to one lifelong partner or even to romance in every case.

Now I totally understand the need for safe sex and I practice that consistently, but really, what is the big hangup about getting another guy off? And why does 99% of the population act as if having sex with one person and one person only and with one gender and one gender only is a healthy state of being? That always seemed pretty weird to me.

I have always wanted to be adventurous and get to know people in more than a superficial way. I find with women, that generally means sticking with one relationship, but being able to talk about your emotional world with other women. With men, it may mean less talk about feelings and emotions, but an understanding that sex does not have to be tied to romance. These are general differences I have observed, not hard and fast rules.

I think most people are pretty hung up about sex in general, let alone bi sex. Maybe that is why these sites get so much traffic, the dissonance between what people really want and their actual daily life.

For all you older guys out there who are bi-curious, consider this. If you practice safe sex, the world will not fall off its hinges if you touch another man in an intimate way. You can go on being a man. This is the basis for male liberation. The more men liberate each other, the happier they tend to be. I'm grateful for every lover I have had, male and female.

Very well put. I totally agree.

 

[bkarp8]

not sure why as I get older I want to try this more and more. Not really attracted to men but I am to the thought of sucking a guy. Would love to try it.

 

[bjhouston]

I have been bi-curious since I was 14. When I was younger I was afraid of being "gay." I would fool around with guy friends (kissing, jerking, and humping) and always felt so bad afterwards like I had committed a crime.

Now that I'm older I see things much differently, and I find the urge to play with guys even harder to suppress. I wish I could go back in time and explore without any regrets. I had so many opportunities back then, so many cocks I could have sucked.

I've just recently started meeting other curious guys. It's mostly married guys who are also curious and it's a quick make out session followed by blowing each other. I've also met with a guy who won't kiss me or suck me. He just calls me when he needs his dick sucked. I come over and find him on his couch with porn on and I get down on my knees and service him then leave. I don't know why, but he's my favorite. We never say much, I just see him once or twice a month when he needs his beautiful 8" cock sucked.

 

[dacoach44]

Hmmmmmmmmm

I have been bi-curious since I was 14. When I was younger I was afraid of being "gay." I would fool around with guy friends (kissing, jerking, and humping) and always felt so bad afterwards like I had committed a crime.

Now that I'm older I see things much differently, and I find the urge to play with guys even harder to suppress. I wish I could go back in time and explore without any regrets. I had so many opportunities back then, so many cocks I could have sucked.

I've just recently started meeting other curious guys. It's mostly married guys who are also curious and it's a quick make out session followed by blowing each other. I've also met with a guy who won't kiss me or suck me. He just calls me when he needs his dick sucked. I come over and find him on his couch with porn on and I get down on my knees and service him then leave. I don't know why, but he's my favorite. We never say much, I just see him once or twice a month when he needs his beautiful 8" cock sucked.

Lemme think; extreme sexual pleasure for two; and no commitment. What a deal!

 

[mikie_6]

I have been bi-curious since I was 14. When I was younger I was afraid of being "gay." I would fool around with guy friends (kissing, jerking, and humping) and always felt so bad afterwards like I had committed a crime.

Now that I'm older I see things much differently, and I find the urge to play with guys even harder to suppress. I wish I could go back in time and explore without any regrets. I had so many opportunities back then, so many cocks I could have sucked.

I've just recently started meeting other curious guys. It's mostly married guys who are also curious and it's a quick make out session followed by blowing each other. I've also met with a guy who won't kiss me or suck me. He just calls me when he needs his dick sucked. I come over and find him on his couch with porn on and I get down on my knees and service him then leave. I don't know why, but he's my favorite. We never say much, I just see him once or twice a month when he needs his beautiful 8" cock sucked.

Same boat here.... Could have sucked many more cocks when I was younger were it not for th guilt. I'm trying to make up for lost time. I also love it when a guy just wants me to suck him and nothing else

 

[cuckoldbill]

Some really interesting messages recently. It would appear that there are lots of us mature guys out there who just want to suck a nice cock. That's fab. Just one comment. Lots of guys seem into size. For me a nice 6 inch or thereabouts is what I want. I know I would struggle with a BIG cock and not be able to give a good satisfying bj. Like to hear other views.

 

[tasteyourthighs]

I totally agree . I have a girlfriend but at times when we enjoy a 3sum , I will stroke and suck also. We all get pleasure . Hung guys are good but a nice 6 inch cock is good also.

 

[PrincepsCyberius]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I'm almost 53 and completely straight, just as I have always been.