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Even though I am married and apparently hetro, the male form has always been extremely attractive to me. I think it came from watching shirtless Tarzan and Hercules movies.
Why do older men become bi-curious?
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Blueser916
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There's a story, but I don't want to discuss her here. Happy to send you a PM, but yours is turned off.
Another take on why regarding the morals/religion part of it, is most older men tend to think more for themselves than follow the crowd.
In my personal view, is that gay sex isn't as big a deal as it's made out to be. It didn't make the "top ten" (Commandments) and Christ did say to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. No worse than eating bacon if you ask me.
In my personal view, is that gay sex isn't as big a deal as it's made out to be. It didn't make the "top ten" (Commandments) and Christ did say to do unto others as you would have them do unto you. No worse than eating bacon if you ask me.
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I'm shy. Still a bit wrapped up in the whole "it's wrong" thing that society throws.
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Maybe time to get out of TX!
Yes, it can be hard to get out from under that message.
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55 y/0 male here. I started to become curious in my late 40s. I had a wife who lost interest in sex. Long story short I ended up meeting a beautiful lady and started an affair. Wife found out we are now separated. I am living with my new lady . I lost all interest in my bi fantasies. A few months ago she fingered my ass while blowing me and saw how turned on I was. Next she was rimming me. I was blown away by this but she was fully at ease. She loves anal play. Last weekend we were having a few drinks and she asked if I had any fantasies and i said no. She said "lier we all do" Drunk I told her when I was in my sexless marriage I did watch gay porn a time or two. This got her really hot and she searched google turned the laptop towards me and sure enough Gay Porn. I got really really hard. Few nights later I asked her what she would like. She said to see you with a guy
I think this is what has happened to me. Other things that have contributed - I know that I have always had a little bit of a submissive nature , and ( I confess) I have a small cock and I am a quick cummer, so I know that I have never satisfied a woman in bed with my dick .
Watching a lot of porn and seeing many hot sexy women getting fucked, or sucking those big beautiful cocks, again, due to my submissive nature, I wasn't probably going to identify with the guy with the big cock, I started identifying with the girl - submissive and eager to please. I started wanting to be on my knees sucking that big cock and craving to hear the words " you're such a good girl". But I really want a woman to be there watching me and getting off seeing me sucking a big cock or on my hands and knees getting fucked. I need a woman to seduce me and "make" ( or at least encourage) me do the things that I only fantasize about.
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O hell yes
A frisky one, for sure. Lucky you. She will likely allways be fun. We all understand sexless marriages; one reason we suck cock.
A frisky one, for sure. Lucky you. She will likely allways be fun. We all understand sexless marriages; one reason we suck cock.
I don't know why but I cant wait for my next cock. MWM 68 been that way for a couple of years now.
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I'm retired, curious not about men but about cocks, if that makes sense. I just watched a short video of a woman dressed in a maid costume (doesn't do much for me) sucking a big smooth glistening cock and I don't think I've seen anything sexier or anything I want to do more than take a hard cock in my mouth. (I'm wearing a pair of sheer black panties and I almost came in them.)
Like a lot of men here, I'm not sure where any of this comes from. I have no experience with men and I'm in no way attracted to them, but I fantasize constantly about sucking a smooth hard (disembodied) cock. (Panties wouldn't hurt,either.) Ah, if only my sweet wife had one . . . .
I'm retired, curious not about men but about cocks, if that makes sense. I just watched a short video of a woman dressed in a maid costume (doesn't do much for me) sucking a big smooth glistening cock and I don't think I've seen anything sexier or anything I want to do more than take a hard cock in my mouth. (I'm wearing a pair of sheer black panties and I almost came in them.)
Like a lot of men here, I'm not sure where any of this comes from. I have no experience with men and I'm in no way attracted to them, but I fantasize constantly about sucking a smooth hard (disembodied) cock. (Panties wouldn't hurt,either.) Ah, if only my sweet wife had one . . . .
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Exactly the same. We are not alone is this desire, want, whatever.
No experience (yet) but it is all about the cock. Love to see them move, get sucked, stroked, and that awesome moment where the come flies! But nothing in it for me about the guy. It's not personal - just want a cock to stroke and him to stroke me.
And yes - sucking my first cock one day will be epic, scary, wonderful, terrifying and ...probably heaven.
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That sounds sooo hot. If it happens please come back and tell us all.
I can certainly relate to you both. I am exactly the same. Particularly the same as Lithos in that I too am retired. I wish us all luck and hope we find our man.
makes a lot of sense to me. your reasoning applies ro me as well.Am over 70
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My strongest fantasies and most intense orgasms are when I imagine having a cock in my mouth and a cock in my ass. Same for me.... it's never about the man who has the cock....it's just about the cock. Perhaps one day.....
My strongest fantasies and most intense orgasms are when I imagine having a cock in my mouth and a cock in my ass. Same for me.... it's never about the man who has the cock....it's just about the cock. Perhaps one day.....
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The one cock I sucked was delicious
I want to thank everyone who has posted here, it is very reassuring to find that I'm not alone in wanting cock.
In my teens even though I had a GF I cross dressed and thought about sucking a friend's cock and jerked off often. I never asked him.
I'll skip the years between 1965 and 2011, will write a story at some point.
In 2011 I had moved to San Francisco and, while looking for a GF, decided to search CL for a CD or TGurl.
I connected with C and eventually he arrived at my apartment, I have to admit I had no idea how our time together would work out.
After a glass of wine, she excused herself, put on her LBD, jewelry, stockings, heels, & makeup and came back to the the living room. She was lovely!
I got down on my knees in front of her, lifted her dress and saw her beautiful cock behind pink translucent panties. IIRC her cock pointed to her right.
I took it out of her panties, and started sucking, thinking "I'm a cocksucker!"
She was delicious, perfect size, perfect shape. Sucking her cock was one of the most enjoyable experience in my life.
After she came in my mouth - I swallowed - and we recovered a bit she gave me the best blow job I had ever received.
We met one more time for an equally enjoyable experience.
Six years later I continue to want cock, so if you are DDF and live near San Francisco, send me a PM.
I want to thank everyone who has posted here, it is very reassuring to find that I'm not alone in wanting cock.
In my teens even though I had a GF I cross dressed and thought about sucking a friend's cock and jerked off often. I never asked him.
I'll skip the years between 1965 and 2011, will write a story at some point.
In 2011 I had moved to San Francisco and, while looking for a GF, decided to search CL for a CD or TGurl.
I connected with C and eventually he arrived at my apartment, I have to admit I had no idea how our time together would work out.
After a glass of wine, she excused herself, put on her LBD, jewelry, stockings, heels, & makeup and came back to the the living room. She was lovely!
I got down on my knees in front of her, lifted her dress and saw her beautiful cock behind pink translucent panties. IIRC her cock pointed to her right.
I took it out of her panties, and started sucking, thinking "I'm a cocksucker!"
She was delicious, perfect size, perfect shape. Sucking her cock was one of the most enjoyable experience in my life.
After she came in my mouth - I swallowed - and we recovered a bit she gave me the best blow job I had ever received.
We met one more time for an equally enjoyable experience.
Six years later I continue to want cock, so if you are DDF and live near San Francisco, send me a PM.
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Perhaps it's to relive youthful endeavors
I believe that is why I think about it so much. I was vigorously pursued by a gay co-worker in my early 20's. I had zero interest in him until I had a very intense sex dream about him. His pursuit continued and I "gave in". We were involved on the sly for a little over a year until I moved. I did much more than I thought I would. Great memories, especially the first time he sucked me while I was laying on my back. He slowly kept moving from kneeling by my legs to where he was kneeling alongside my head. I was looking at him and finally grabbed his hips and pulled him on top of me in the most memorable 69 of my life. At first I just stared at his hard cock and swaying balls and was on the fence about sucking him. I reached up and fondled his shaft and balls, he took that as a sign and pushed his cock lower until the decision was essentially made for me. I loved it! I sucked my first cock and swallowed my first load of cum about 2 minutes later.
Great memories and wishing I could meet the right guy now to relive those memories and continue where I left off.
I believe that is why I think about it so much. I was vigorously pursued by a gay co-worker in my early 20's. I had zero interest in him until I had a very intense sex dream about him. His pursuit continued and I "gave in". We were involved on the sly for a little over a year until I moved. I did much more than I thought I would. Great memories, especially the first time he sucked me while I was laying on my back. He slowly kept moving from kneeling by my legs to where he was kneeling alongside my head. I was looking at him and finally grabbed his hips and pulled him on top of me in the most memorable 69 of my life. At first I just stared at his hard cock and swaying balls and was on the fence about sucking him. I reached up and fondled his shaft and balls, he took that as a sign and pushed his cock lower until the decision was essentially made for me. I loved it! I sucked my first cock and swallowed my first load of cum about 2 minutes later.
Great memories and wishing I could meet the right guy now to relive those memories and continue where I left off.
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Great story, thanks for sharing your memories.
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It's quite an experience if everyone is in sync. If you are submissive it's easy to get into.
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Why do older men become bi-curous ?
Very interesting...
I think because when we get older we are more settled into our lives and dont care what other people think. As for me when I was younger I was always focused on finding the right girl, getting laid, making money, and more independent (not necessarily in that order). Gay sex never popped into my mind. I only started thinking of it many years later / in my late 30's. Thats when I didn't care what others thought and realized its ok to think that way but I still did not pursue anything until years later. Then again I am still pursuing it...
Hope what I said makes some sense
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Very interesting...
I think because when we get older we are more settled into our lives and dont care what other people think. As for me when I was younger I was always focused on finding the right girl, getting laid, making money, and more independent (not necessarily in that order). Gay sex never popped into my mind. I only started thinking of it many years later / in my late 30's. Thats when I didn't care what others thought and realized its ok to think that way but I still did not pursue anything until years later. Then again I am still pursuing it...
Hope what I said makes some sense
52 male here
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I'm in my late 40's now, but no, for me it's not a recent thing. I've been almost equally attracted to cocks and pussies right from the get-go.
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Interesting. When I was younger it was all about the pussy. Later on it became about both..
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Almost the same here. Although I've leaned much more toward pussy, I've always had that urge to suck cock.
Similar here in my teens and early 20s until my first marriage, but with more than one guy.
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