Why do older men become bi-curious?

[xperthands]

Also, it seems that women do seem to lose a lot of the drive as they get older. How often does the wife have a headache, or she's tired, etc? Have you ever let any of those excuses stop you from having sex? I know I haven't!

You're probably right for a lot of guys. For me, it's something different. My wife & I have been married 30+ years, and we still go for it about 3 times a week, but she doesn't have the same attitude that a man does. When we have sex, little things can break the mood for her, and then she just wants me to go ahead & cum, and she's perfectly happy just cuddling afterward. I am glad she's happy, but what I like about sex with a guy is that he is always focused on cumming. He's going to cum no matter what. I love that. Plus, her juices taste nice & all, but they're not the same. I love the taste of a man.

 

[scott6251]

You're probably right for a lot of guys. For me, it's something different. My wife & I have been married 30+ years, and we still go for it about 3 times a week, but she doesn't have the same attitude that a man does. When we have sex, little things can break the mood for her, and then she just wants me to go ahead & cum, and she's perfectly happy just cuddling afterward. I am glad she's happy, but what I like about sex with a guy is that he is always focused on cumming. He's going to cum no matter what. I love that. Plus, her juices taste nice & all, but they're not the same. I love the taste of a man.

Well said

 

[tonycurinmass]

Well said

I like the fact that a man's juices taste better to him!

 

[Jerseyshore]

Always an interesting subject. I have known I was gay since I was quite young and over the years I have met men that want to explore. Sometimes it's just a one-time casual thing, sometimes a certain man and I have hooked up more than once. Sometimes that other man can't handle the experience and backs off. One time it led to a very intimate relationship with a man that suppressed his desires for many years, wanted to experiment and found just how genuine those feelings were and eventually we became very close and our sex and personal relationship became quite intimate.

The process of coming out to yourself is different for each man. There are complications with family, their professional lives, personal life, and so on. Curiosity can, I suppose, be prompted by a wife losing interest in sex, but often it comes about due to self-repressed desires that eventually cries out to be expressed. Sexual liberation in recent decades makes it more acceptable to explore your desires and realize they are genuine.

 

[scott6251]

The process of coming out to yourself is different for each man. There are complications with family, their professional lives, personal life, and so on. Curiosity can, I suppose, be prompted by a wife losing interest in sex, but often it comes about due to self-repressed desires that eventually cries out to be expressed. Sexual liberation in recent decades makes it more acceptable to explore your desires and realize they are genuine.

You are so right. Once I got the courage to explore my desires I found it to be even more exciting and natural than I expected. It took some time to accept the fact that I liked it so much, but now I'm comfortable with it and look forward to meeting other men with the same experience.

 

[bicurnow]

You are so right. Once I got the courage to explore my desires I found it to be even more exciting and natural than I expected. It took some time to accept the fact that I liked it so much, but now I'm comfortable with it and look forward to meeting other men with the same experience.

I remember being very young and being aroused by pictures of Native American men in loincloths.
Later I enjoyed seeing a few cocks in the locker room but could not/would not admit it to myself. Was caught looking once

 

[Mqoi]

I remember being very young and being aroused by pictures of Native American men in loincloths.
Later I enjoyed seeing a few cocks in the locker room but could not/would not admit it to myself. Was caught looking once

Never had much choice about admitting it to myself about wanting sex with men. My first few years of having an active sex ;ife was with a male cousin. We started at 15. I didn't have sex with a woman until I was 25.

One of the good things about a military career is you get a good view of a lot of cocks. Just don't stare.
When I was on active duty, sex with other men could put a screeching halt on the career.

My first barracks room mate was gay and getting close to retirement. He taught me well not to do anything anywhere near the base. Although I kind of had to tease it out of him by being naked in front of him every chance I got. We ended up having some pretty good times together (off base).

Kind of funny how lesbians were tolerated back then, but not gays or bisexuals.

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

Great, hot selection of bj videos. Thanks for posting them

Thanks.

They are simply some that I like.

 

[scott6251]

Thanks.

They are simply some that I like.

mmmm I agree - great vids

 

[MatureSensualBottom]

they have made me hungry...and thirsty!

 

[jackstud]

they have made me hungry...and thirsty!

I will feed you Baby

 

[ScottMtl]

lots of good feedback and ideas here

great thread

 

[ADIDAS00]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

So I'll give my two cents......

I'm 38, fit, active, and have a beautiful wife. We have sex all the time and things are wonderful. We get into all sorts of kinky things together so I have nothing to complain about. But for me, I think it's something about the taboo nature of doing something with a guy that makes it exciting. I mean, a wonderfully hard penis is a thing of beauty right?!?! Who doesn't think a hard cock isn't nice looking? We all watch porn so we're definitely getting to see lots of them.....so I think it's curiosity and the want to do something we're told we're not supposed to want. Plus it adds so many possibilities once another guy is entered into the mix. I say why not? If I ever get the chance with my wife to bring another guy in with us, you better believe I'm going to at least touch his throbbing member.....and probably way more!!!

 

[jackstud]

Feel like I want to be touched

 

[photobuff56]

My wife thinks penises are ugly, I disagree with her. Something about making a guy hard and sucking and licking every inch of it balls included.

 

[none2_none2]

My wife thinks penises are ugly, I disagree with her. Something about making a guy hard and sucking and licking every inch of it balls included.

I never understood where people considered cock pretty -- especially when hard and veiny. It seems like something angry. Besides at least for myself, I'd rather have my penis hidden away inside another man than out on display in sterile light and air. Now on the other hand I could stare at a clean beautiful man's ass for hours - especially a hairy one. Tan lines also help as it gives a certain virginal/modesty look to him. Masculine faces especially ones with nice smiles are also a turn on even if I cannot get off on oral... The world simply needs more beautiful, manly asses to view, touch, and be inside. That would lead to much more world peace and contentment than a bunch of hard, angry cocks just out on display.

 

[J1biboi]

I never understood where people considered cock pretty -- especially when hard and veiny. It seems like something angry. Besides at least for myself, I'd rather have my penis hidden away inside another man than out on display in sterile light and air. Now on the other hand I could stare at a clean beautiful man's ass for hours - especially a hairy one. Tan lines also help as it gives a certain virginal/modesty look to him. Masculine faces especially ones with nice smiles are also a turn on even if I cannot get off on oral... The world simply needs more beautiful, manly asses to view, touch, and be inside. That would lead to much more world peace and contentment than a bunch of hard, angry cocks just out on display.

As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. I happen to think hard veiny cocks are beautiful, but then I also can appreciate a sweet ass, be it male or female.

 

[tonycurinmass]

My wife thinks penises are ugly, I disagree with her. Something about making a guy hard and sucking and licking every inch of it balls included.

Same here!

 

[DNow51]

Curious in Mass Too

Same here!

Let's compare penises - I'm sure I'd see (and taste) the beauty of yours

 

[Blueser916]

WOW!! Except for the last couple of paragraphs, this is my story. I just wish I had the confidence to jump in and have some of this good sex.

What's holding you back?

 

[blowit]

Does your wife know? If so, how did you bring up the discussion and how did it go?

Mine is very aware of my curiosity and desire to suck cock. But she stalls short of giving me her absolute consent. She often hints at it but leaves me confused.

 

[Hitchiker69]

Just goes to show everybody is different, and there's something for everyone. Men's asses don't do anything for me, but I find hard cocks beautiful and irresistible. I can't take my eyes off it, and my mouth has a mind of it's own in the presence of a hard cock.
On the other hand I think vaginas are unattractive. I'll only eat one in the dark. Then I love it.

 

[Mr. Briggs]

I read a psychological reason for this happening.

One is consuming too much porn. Why? Because watching porn is usually done from a beta view point. Very submissive. You are watching someone elses cock fuck a girl you desire. If you get off on this it rewires your brain so even if you aren't initially into watching someone else fuck you girl if you watch this play out in porn over and over and over evenutally your brain thinks it's something you like (because you feel pleasure when watching it) and you start to crave it. Which if you continue down the path leads to desiring that cock as well as the girl.

 

[saintcero]

I read a psychological reason for this happening.

One is consuming too much porn. Why? Because watching porn is usually done from a beta view point. Very submissive. You are watching someone elses cock fuck a girl you desire. If you get off on this it rewires your brain so even if you aren't initially into watching someone else fuck you girl if you watch this play out in porn over and over and over evenutally your brain thinks it's something you like (because you feel pleasure when watching it) and you start to crave it. Which if you continue down the path leads to desiring that cock as well as the girl.

and if the intrigue predated meaningful porn exposure would you then call it latent homosexuality or maybe just pansexual?

 

[Mr. Briggs]

and if the intrigue predated porn would you then call it latent homosexuality or maybe just pansexual?

I hate labels mainly because i disagree with any label someone would try to hand out on me.

But I would have to think pansexual