Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Mqoi]

meeting someone who's has a vibe about him.

There's been a few guys in my life that there was just something about them that made me just want to totally give myself to them sexually. They still haunt my nightly dreams of MM sex. A couple of them, I'd have given myself to them more than sexually. Total submission to them and whatever they desired.

 

[SomeJohn]

I don't know why, but it's happening to me. I'm more and more interested in having a male lover.

 

[Vitriolhack]

I don't know why, but it's happening to me. I'm more and more interested in having a male lover.

How do you define interested in having a male lover?

 

[thongpanty]

I'd be more into finding a mature bi man for a long term friends with benefits situation.

I had a friend in my younger days that is why a FWB's would be preferred...
The wife knows about my past, she is VERY ok with it...

 

[SomeJohn]

How do you define interested in having a male lover?

It's a fantasy that I'm not actively trying to make a reality, but if I had a chance I'd take it

 

[sweettalk4u]

I think it is a natural progression with men. Most men have thought about it at some point but just never acted on it. I've been bi for decades but I've noticed many more older men talking about it now too. Maybe it's a reduced sex drive that makes them more susceptible or open to it somehow? But yes most men don't know why, they just are.

 

[PleasePeesMe]

I do think

that as we age, we think more about things we haven't done. And we don't want to get to the end and think, "I really wish I'd....." And "sucked cock" is one of those things.

 

[sweettalk4u]

Yes and guys really know what guys want too. I can last a long time with a woman but a guy with his mouth on me has me ready to cum in 2 minutes

 

[LoftyCraig]

DITTO

also, ditto

 

[CuriousGuy62]

also, ditto

also, also ditto

 

[sweettalk4u]

so there are several possible reasons and we have one or all of them for trying this. I was between marriages over 30 years ago and wanted to experiment. I had a 3 some with a gf and he said afterwards that he was bi and I asked him to meet me and have never regretted it.

 

[MatureSensualBottom]

In my case it certainly was a long slow burn to the point at which I decided that you only get one go at life.

 

[nakedworld]

In my case it certainly was a long slow burn to the point at which I decided that you only get one go at life.

That is certainly true !

 

[nassauguy_2001]

Yes and guys really know what guys want too. I can last a long time with a woman but a guy with his mouth on me has me ready to cum in 2 minutes

Ditto!

 

[bimori]

Ditto!

I agree we all have a cock that we have learned to please over the years. Why wouldn’t you want to see if another cock would feel just as good. Plus I think that as we age we lose all of the inabitions that we have when we were younger.

 

[Shavedallover]

I agree we all have a cock that we have learned to please over the years. Why wouldn’t you want to see if another cock would feel just as good. Plus I think that as we age we lose all of the inabitions that we have when we were younger.

There's no stereotype anymore. Used to be if you sucked and were mounted you'd be " sissy". Now if that happens you're considered a man that knows himself and what he wants sexually.

 

[sweettalk4u]

logic

I agree we all have a cock that we have learned to please over the years. Why wouldn’t you want to see if another cock would feel just as good. Plus I think that as we age we lose all of the inabitions that we have when we were younger.

Cannot argue with that logic!

 

[tristantrotsky]

Getting Your Own Back

So older guys get curious about what they've been missing out on all these years?
Well - just a polite word of warning to those gentlemen contemplating this move into Gay sex.
When your friend suggests 'you suck me off first, then I'll return the favor and suck you off,' off course, that arrangement sounds perfectly reasonable and sensible.
But once you've got down and sucked him, and he's cum… he instantly loses interest in that reciprocation deal. You're left with a strange taste in your mouth and a burning erection in urgent need of relief.
If you want your own cock sucking too, it's far better to do a little alternating, first - you suck, then he sucks, then you suck. Or perhaps simply sixty-nine…?
Just trying to be helpful here...

 

[Shavedallover]

So older guys get curious about what they've been missing out on all these years?
Well - just a polite word of warning to those gentlemen contemplating this move into Gay sex.
When your friend suggests 'you suck me off first, then I'll return the favor and suck you off,' off course, that arrangement sounds perfectly reasonable and sensible.
But once you've got down and sucked him, and he's cum… he instantly loses interest in that reciprocation deal. You're left with a strange taste in your mouth and a burning erection in urgent need of relief.
If you want your own cock sucking too, it's far better to do a little alternating, first - you suck, then he sucks, then you suck. Or perhaps simply sixty-nine…?
Just trying to be helpful here...

Happened to you?
My case I wanted it, didn't particularly care if I got the return favor. But I totally understand the disappointment when he leaves and you're sporting a hard on from heaven

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Agreed.

I want to suck, but I don't really care about being sucked. I can jerk off afterwards. It's the cock in my mouth I want to experience.

 

[hubbyinstockings]

suck

When you take that first cock in your mouth its like the first time you put your hand in a girls knickers, but this time you know what you are doing, and to feel that limp cock start getting bigger in your mouth, you know you are doing it right.

 

[Shavedallover]

When you take that first cock in your mouth its like the first time you put your hand in a girls knickers, but this time you know what you are doing, and to feel that limp cock start getting bigger in your mouth, you know you are doing it right.

When he holds your head, tells you not to stop and it's grows . Yes, you're doing the right thing. Then when he explodes without warning and you take it all and yes, you've succeeded again.

 

[Curiousguyny]

I've curious all my life finally acted on it a few years ago I'm now 46 .Sucking cock was the most exciting thing I've ever done

 

[want2dare]

Nothing like a cock growing in your mouth to make you know you're where you want to be!!

 

[sweettalk4u]

yes 69 was my first time. If you are to be play partners it is a great starting point. If one of you is dominant and not into oral but will jack you that's fine too as long as it pleases you both