Why do older men become bi-curious?

[Andyme123456]

Hi new to posting here but sounds like my feelings

 

[CottonForMe]

I can only speak for myself . . . but for me, I think an awfully lot of any desire I have to have a sexual interaction with a man

Ditto

But even so - there is something else that I find stirring within me anymore. ..... I don't want to kiss a man. I don't want romance with a man. It feels incredibly awkward to even think about anything like that to me.

I found that over time those aspects grew stronger, wanting something other than a quick suck / fuck. Kissing some closeness.... and so on.

Just a couple of thoughts - 2 cents etc....

 

[peter49parker]

Ditto



I found that over time those aspects grew stronger, wanting something other than a quick suck / fuck. Kissing some closeness.... and so on.

Just a couple of thoughts - 2 cents etc....

I will add my 2 cents to Cotton's here. That will give us a total of 4.

I was never looking for romance when I started on my quest for a male buddy to explore with. I was looking for someone to have some non traditional fun with. In other words, someone to suck cock with. I was in fear of the ABS gloryhole type of meeting for many reasons, mostly health and safety. Having said that, I searched out someone that I was compatible with. Someone that I could feel comfortable with to share the most intimate act two men can share. Fucking is one thing, but sucking a load of cum from a hard dick, then swallowing it is, in my view much more intimate. One must have some feelings towards the other guy to complete this act. The first guy that sucked my cock, surprised me and kissed me before he went down on me. I found it added to the eroticism. When it was my turn, I kissed him after I sucked his cock and had already swallowed almost all of his cum. What it all boils down to is do what makes you happy. Kiss if you want to, don't kiss if you don't want to.

 

[blowit]

What it all boils down to is do what makes you happy. Kiss if you want to, don't kiss if you don't want to.

Amen brother, amen.

 

[Mqoi]

What it all boils down to is do what makes you happy. Kiss if you want to, don't kiss if you don't want to.

If a guy wants to kiss, I'm good with it, it not, I'm good with that too. But if I cum in your mouth, I expect you.

 

[sweettalk4u]

It sure does. Wife and I still play but my bi desires only get stronger

 

[peter49parker]

If a guy wants to kiss, I'm good with it, it not, I'm good with that too. But if I cum in your mouth, I expect you.

If you cum in my mouth, you can expect that I will swallow, but will save some for a cum kiss.

 

[Mqoi]

If you cum in my mouth, you can expect that I will swallow, but will save some for a cum kiss.

Somehow the "to share" part got left off my post. But if you cum in my mouth, I'd be pleased to share with you.

As for kissing, I figure that if I'm sucking your cock and eating your cum, a kiss is not a big deal. Truth be known, I like guys who like to kiss. It adds to the experience.

 

[peter49parker]

Somehow the "to share" part got left off my post. But if you cum in my mouth, I'd be pleased to share with you.

As for kissing, I figure that if I'm sucking your cock and eating your cum, a kiss is not a big deal. Truth be known, I like guys who like to kiss. It adds to the experience.

I kind of figured t hat you would like the sharing part of it. It is an erotic experience to share cum kisses with another guy who is so inclined.

 

[cuck72]

Somehow the "to share" part got left off my post. But if you cum in my mouth, I'd be pleased to share with you.

As for kissing, I figure that if I'm sucking your cock and eating your cum, a kiss is not a big deal. Truth be known, I like guys who like to kiss. It adds to the experience.

I want to be kissing my man, that's the only way I would feel like his GF. I want to act as his GF, without the whole sex change thing. Just in sexy panties and short nightie for him, share his load if he wants. Or I would swallow.

 

[Hotbwbf]

I’ll tell you why!

I am an older “stright” husband who never expected to suck dicks! As you get older the wife gets less interested in sex and whe you do fuck it is so difficult to make her have an orgasm it becomes hard work and sometimes you can’t stay hard. I was horney all the time and started going to xxx places. After long arguments with myself I finally suck my first dick. It was so hot my dick stayed hard as a rock. Thhe more I sucked the more I wanted to suck. Then I discovered the joy of getting butt fucked! Your buddy not has the responsibility for keeping a hard dick while you lay there relax and enjoy the sensation!
I still feel stright and have no attraction to men but I love the hot excitement of meeting buddys to suck dick and get butt fucked.
As you mature you still want sex you just adjust to an easier and less demanding way to have it! Finding buddys and enjoying new found pleasures!

 

[Hotbwbf]

Having some jack off buddies when I was growing up was a lot of fun not only because I had ejaculations from their hands, I liked making them cum also and marveled at the fact that no two dicks are the same, soft or hard. I had only one instance where I had an erection in my mouth and I did not follow through and really suck it good.
Girls came into my life and the following decades sex for me was all about pussy. As I got older those long ago memories seemed to come to life. I began reading and watching bisexual porn and got up the nerve to start tasting my own sperm.
I liked it - a lot!
The taste, the taboo aspect, and the desire to suck dick grew stronger by the month.
I drank my own semen all the time then (and now) and it is thrilling when I give a guy a blow job and the first blast of warm thick cum shoots from his cock makes me feel wonderful. I absolutely love everything about giving head, licking and kissing balls, swallowing cum, and more.
So my memories led to the curiosity, which led to obsessive desire, which led to craving cock to the absolute NEED TO FULFILL THIS DESIRE.
Age is just a number, and male on male sex is my preference. Giving oral pleasure is the most intimate sexual act a man can give to another man in my opinion. I am now an avid cock sucker and nothing is going to change that.

It happened to me too. I never thought I would be a cock sucker but that was before I found out how hot and convient sex with another guy is!

 

[peter49parker]

I am an older “stright” husband who never expected to suck dicks! As you get older the wife gets less interested in sex and whe you do fuck it is so difficult to make her have an orgasm it becomes hard work and sometimes you can’t stay hard. I was horney all the time and started going to xxx places. After long arguments with myself I finally suck my first dick. It was so hot my dick stayed hard as a rock. Thhe more I sucked the more I wanted to suck. Then I discovered the joy of getting butt fucked! Your buddy not has the responsibility for keeping a hard dick while you lay there relax and enjoy the sensation!
I still feel stright and have no attraction to men but I love the hot excitement of meeting buddys to suck dick and get butt fucked.
As you mature you still want sex you just adjust to an easier and less demanding way to have it! Finding buddys and enjoying new found pleasures!

Way to go. Everyone evolves at their own pace and has to make the decisions that they can live with. Becoming Bi-curious as we age seems to be more prevalent and acceptable. At least among us who have made that decision. My choices came later in life than most but I am enjoying the heck out of it. No doubt, I will be sucking cock as long as I can.

 

[dacoach44]

Exactly so...

I became widowed at 69. But the heat was out of it for years. Began to date sissies, love it, and now date one gay hunk. Never boring; always fun, no drama!

 

[docoral]

older men

Wow! Docorol, that was such a hot experience. Thank you for sharing it with us. I hope you will share what happened next with those two black cocks.

To continue on, the bathroom encounter with the older black gents was, by every stretch, a gamble with safety concerns. As they exposed their cocks to me I found their demeanor to be quite disarming and respectful. They owned their own small business in Springfield Ma and were married to sisters. I judged them to be in their early sixties. As I marveled at their beautiful cocks I flashed back to the incident that happened a while back, the white guy sucking off a black man and swallowing his cum. That scene propelled my obsession with submissive oral worship and made it real for me. There are times in your life that manifest themselves as a clear path to completely fulfilling the one sexual fantasy that has occupied your mind for a long long time. You lose control of your faculties and are totally consumed by the moment. I chatted with John and Charlie for a few minutes, discussing their sexual relationships with their wives and both pretty much starved for any kind of relief. They confessed to me that neither of them has had any for quite some time and after watching me give the other man a blowjob, combined with standing there in front of them with cum on my face, pleaded with me to join them back to their seats. I softly massaged John's cock and agreed to join them. I remember walking back to our seats shaking uncontrollably, my mind racing with anticipation. As we sat down I was conveniently seated between them. As we started to watch another movie I undid Charlie's pants and worked to free his cock from his constraints. I remember his cock being about 5 1/2 inches but really fat. It was a tight fit but managed to get between his legs and slowly massage his cock while slowly lowering my face into his lap. He warned me to be careful he hadn't been touched in quite some time to which I replied " just relax and let yourself go" as I licked up and down his cock I urged him to cum in my mouth. My final lick took me to the head of his cock and I proceeded to take him in my mouth. The position I was in was providing friction to my own cock. Charlie's cock was so fat it filled my mouth leaving very little room for my own saliva. I could feel the velvety texture of his precum flowing pretty heavy now. I was in a new reality, can't remember ever being in this state of lust. I bobbed slowly up and down his cock applying a gentle sucking rhythm while gently caressing his bloated balls. I felt his breathing get more rapid as I deliberately and methodically pleasured this beautiful cock. All I know is that I was white hot with lust and my cock was tingling in my pants. I remember every bob of my head kept bringing friction to my cock and if it kept up like this I was on a collision course my own ejaculation. In the meantime Charlie is groaning pretty regularly now. Without any warning my mouth started to fill with this unmistakable liquid, so much so that I thought he was peeing in my mouth. His cock slipped out of my mouth mid stream spraying a considerable amount of cum all over my face. I quickly took it back in my mouth to finish him off. Cum on my face, mouth full of black cock and cum I lost it. I reached that point of no return and had the most intense ejaculation of my life. I just sat back feeling streams of warm cum flowing down my face, the velvety texture and taste of Charlie's cum in my mouth and my pants full of my own cum I never felt so sexually satisfied in my entire life, not even with my ex wife. As I sat there John piped up smirking with a shit eating grin on his face telling me I was a fucking mess. Actually dared me to go to the mens room so, I went! I felt deep down that I wanted to show everyone my cum covered face and the huge wet spot in my pants. It felt soooo wonderful to just be honest with myself and do what pleased me for once. After I finished my bathroom jaunt I headed back to my seat to double my pleasure with John cock and much more.

 

[bicurnow]

I am an older “stright” husband who never expected to suck dicks! As you get older the wife gets less interested in sex and whe you do fuck it is so difficult to make her have an orgasm it becomes hard work and sometimes you can’t stay hard. I was horney all the time and started going to xxx places. After long arguments with myself I finally suck my first dick. It was so hot my dick stayed hard as a rock. Thhe more I sucked the more I wanted to suck. Then I discovered the joy of getting butt fucked! Your buddy not has the responsibility for keeping a hard dick while you lay there relax and enjoy the sensation!
I still feel stright and have no attraction to men but I love the hot excitement of meeting buddys to suck dick and get butt fucked.
As you mature you still want sex you just adjust to an easier and less demanding way to have it! Finding buddys and enjoying new found pleasures!

Interesting perspective, puts my curiosity into context

 

[triciakintoronto]

hot thread!!!
makes me realize I need bi guy friends!!!!
u guys r hot as fuck!!!

 

[Dreamer110]

I don't think there's any easy answer to this. Couldn't tell you why I'm curious. I know it started when I got older but why I don't know.

 

[bicurnow]

hot thread!!!
makes me realize I need bi guy friends!!!!
u guys r hot as fuck!!!

Curious guy friends too?

 

[PleasePeesMe]

Curious friends

are better, I think. Both (or all) at the same level of experience.

 

[AmbroseBierce]

I don't think there's any easy answer to this. Couldn't tell you why I'm curious. I know it started when I got older but why I don't know.

My story exactly. I'm getting obsessed with it!

 

[preacher72]

Not sure

I’m not sure, I’m not exactly older but in my thirties. When I was young I experimented but didn’t think it was for me. Years later though I have a lot more bi desires, and for one I’d love to be with an older guy!

 

[CuriousTxGuy]

So older guys get curious about what they've been missing out on all these years?
Well - just a polite word of warning to those gentlemen contemplating this move into Gay sex.
When your friend suggests 'you suck me off first, then I'll return the favor and suck you off,' off course, that arrangement sounds perfectly reasonable and sensible.
But once you've got down and sucked him, and he's cum… he instantly loses interest in that reciprocation deal. You're left with a strange taste in your mouth and a burning erection in urgent need of relief.
If you want your own cock sucking too, it's far better to do a little alternating, first - you suck, then he sucks, then you suck. Or perhaps simply sixty-nine…?
Just trying to be helpful here...

Back and forth is very good and the mutual exploration tells al lot. Maybe he is awkward and has calloused hands and you would prefer just to do him. But wouldn't know unless giving him a go at it.

Or you find he's a straight guy and is only looking to feed. I have no problem with that.

It works both ways. Once a guy did me, it was fantastic. But I was unable to reciprocate, in a really dream like exhausted state. Wow...

 

[Suenjames00]

The older I get the more I crave it. 42 yr old. Can’t describe it

 

[Skpmulls]

The older I get the more I crave it. 42 yr old. Can’t describe it

I am exactly there,