Why do older men become bi-curious?

[sweettalk4u]

I am exactly there,

Yes and you exactly love it

 

[Skpmulls]

Yes and you exactly love it

Of course

 

[secret_passion_1949]

I think as we men mature we shed many of the inhibitions and ways of thinking that became ingrained in us when we were younger. For me I began to recognize that an erect cock is like a bold, elegant piece of human sculpture that has come alive. IMO, it is the boldest expression of human sexuality to be found, like an exclamation point on the body. With the availability of countless pictures on the internet it became easier to recognize this simple truth.

I also began to realize that my newly developed appreciation for the beauty of a cock did not equate to something 'being wrong' with me. It is very easy to separate this appreciation from any concern of a shift in sexual orientation. I am still very much a heterosexual person, but have the psychological freedom to look at an image of a cock and think 'Wow that is so beautiful. I would love to touch it. Love to fondle it. Love to feel its form and warmth in my mouth. To bring pleasure to its lucky owner'. It has nothing to do with becoming 'romantically involved' with another man or any other such major lifestyle changes. In the end, it is simply about an intense appreciation for this wonderful aspect of the human body.

Most people I know would not understand how I have come to feel this way. I could not sit down with any of them and go through pictures and have fun in the doing. I still feel a need to keep such to myself. But in a way that makes it more enjoyable. It becomes this private 'place' where I can go to get relief from the stresses of the every day life. It is enough to know that I can visit forums like this where I can find like minded men to open up to, and do so in complete anonymity.

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A bit of a humorously intended follow up:

I've also developed the view that even though every cock is attached to a man's body, don't think for one minute that the cock feels like it is a slave to that man. Oh no, the little peckers have a mind of their own, and a spirit of rebellion to boot.

A cock makes its independent nature known to its owner in a way that is unmistakable. In the end, it has the ultimate power over his presumed 'master'.

For you see, the cock has the power to make his man HORNY. The power to take control of his man's mind to the point where he is at least rendered distracted and at worst out of his mind with need. Need for relief and release of the delicious torment the cock has inflicted in him. The power to control the man's mood, his interaction with others. In sum, the power to make or break a guy's day. If left with no other source of relief, the 'master' has to find a place, somehow, somewhere to 'master'bate. :^)

 

[PinkPanties4me]

Well put secret passion 1949...

 

[44special]

Agreeing with Pink. Very well said.

 

[master4cuckold]

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[whosyerguy]

Agreeing with others . . . well said secret_passion_1949 !!!

 

[OnaTangent]

definitely fewer inhibitions than when I was younger!

 

[AmbroseBierce]

The older I get the more I crave it. 42 yr old. Can’t describe it

Me too!

 

[AmbroseBierce]

Yes and you exactly love it

I dream about learning to love it

 

[straitupcurious]

I think as we men mature we shed many of the inhibitions and ways of thinking that became ingrained in us when we were younger. For me I began to recognize that an erect cock is like a bold, elegant piece of human sculpture that has come alive. IMO, it is the boldest expression of human sexuality to be found, like an exclamation point on the body. With the availability of countless pictures on the internet it became easier to recognize this simple truth.

I also began to realize that my newly developed appreciation for the beauty of a cock did not equate to something 'being wrong' with me. It is very easy to separate this appreciation from any concern of a shift in sexual orientation. I am still very much a heterosexual person, but have the psychological freedom to look at an image of a cock and think 'Wow that is so beautiful. I would love to touch it. Love to fondle it. Love to feel its form and warmth in my mouth. To bring pleasure to its lucky owner'. It has nothing to do with becoming 'romantically involved' with another man or any other such major lifestyle changes. In the end, it is simply about an intense appreciation for this wonderful aspect of the human body.

Most people I know would not understand how I have come to feel this way. I could not sit down with any of them and go through pictures and have fun in the doing. I still feel a need to keep such to myself. But in a way that makes it more enjoyable. It becomes this private 'place' where I can go to get relief from the stresses of the every day life. It is enough to know that I can visit forums like this where I can find like minded men to open up to, and do so in complete anonymity.

============
A bit of a humorously intended follow up:

I've also developed the view that even though every cock is attached to a man's body, don't think for one minute that the cock feels like it is a slave to that man. Oh no, the little peckers have a mind of their own, and a spirit of rebellion to boot.

A cock makes its independent nature known to its owner in a way that is unmistakable. In the end, it has the ultimate power over his presumed 'master'.

For you see, the cock has the power to make his man HORNY. The power to take control of his man's mind to the point where he is at least rendered distracted and at worst out of his mind with need. Need for relief and release of the delicious torment the cock has inflicted in him. The power to control the man's mood, his interaction with others. In sum, the power to make or break a guy's day. If left with no other source of relief, the 'master' has to find a place, somehow, somewhere to 'master'bate. :^)

Well said !

 

[AmbroseBierce]

I think as we men mature we shed many of the inhibitions and ways of thinking that became ingrained in us when we were younger. For me I began to recognize that an erect cock is like a bold, elegant piece of human sculpture that has come alive. IMO, it is the boldest expression of human sexuality to be found, like an exclamation point on the body. With the availability of countless pictures on the internet it became easier to recognize this simple truth.

I also began to realize that my newly developed appreciation for the beauty of a cock did not equate to something 'being wrong' with me. It is very easy to separate this appreciation from any concern of a shift in sexual orientation. I am still very much a heterosexual person, but have the psychological freedom to look at an image of a cock and think 'Wow that is so beautiful. I would love to touch it. Love to fondle it. Love to feel its form and warmth in my mouth. To bring pleasure to its lucky owner'. It has nothing to do with becoming 'romantically involved' with another man or any other such major lifestyle changes. In the end, it is simply about an intense appreciation for this wonderful aspect of the human body.

Most people I know would not understand how I have come to feel this way. I could not sit down with any of them and go through pictures and have fun in the doing. I still feel a need to keep such to myself. But in a way that makes it more enjoyable. It becomes this private 'place' where I can go to get relief from the stresses of the every day life. It is enough to know that I can visit forums like this where I can find like minded men to open up to, and do so in complete anonymity.

============
A bit of a humorously intended follow up:

I've also developed the view that even though every cock is attached to a man's body, don't think for one minute that the cock feels like it is a slave to that man. Oh no, the little peckers have a mind of their own, and a spirit of rebellion to boot.

A cock makes its independent nature known to its owner in a way that is unmistakable. In the end, it has the ultimate power over his presumed 'master'.

For you see, the cock has the power to make his man HORNY. The power to take control of his man's mind to the point where he is at least rendered distracted and at worst out of his mind with need. Need for relief and release of the delicious torment the cock has inflicted in him. The power to control the man's mood, his interaction with others. In sum, the power to make or break a guy's day. If left with no other source of relief, the 'master' has to find a place, somehow, somewhere to 'master'bate. :^)

Great post! You speak for many of us

 

[CottonForMe]

Never goes away - Craving Cock - Constant Craving - KD Lang

Even through the darkest phase
Be it thick or thin
Always someone marches brave
Here beneath my skin

And constant (Constant)
Craving (Craving)
Has always (Always)
Been (Been)

Maybe a great magnet pulls
All souls to what's true
Or maybe it is life itself
That feeds wisdom to its youth

Constant (Constant)
Craving (Craving)
Has always (Always)
Been (Been)

Craving
Ah, constant craving
Has always been
Has always been

Constant (Constant)
Craving (Craving)
Has always (Always)
Been (Been)

Constant (Constant)
Craving (Craving)
Has always (Always)
Been (Been)

Craving
Ah, constant craving
Has always been
Has always been
Has always been
(Has always)
Always been
(Has always)
Always been
[fade out]

 

[txfuncouple]

I am a 64 y/o mwm and, over the last few years, I have become more and more bi-curious. In email exchanges with other men around my age, I have found that well over half of them are experiencing the same thinh. Is this a common phenomenon?

I'm not sure how common it is, even though it seems like it is when a concentrated group of like minded individuals congregate in the same place like here.

For me, its more of about being very comfortable with any curiosities I've had and the fact that my spouse encourages me because she enjoys it too. I don't think I'm more attracted to guys, but I do fall into the category of being attracted to cock. I think possibly accepting it has come with age, but have felt that way for a very long time, even in my 20's and embraced that part of my sexuality.

We look at it as the opportunity to play with a live sex toy and fulfill certain desires we both share if we find a cock we both want. Yes, I'm comfortable saying out loud to my wife or my best friend who is like a brother that I don't mind sucking cock and enjoy it. But to others in my day to day, they'd not guess I'd do that. I've always felt what's done by consenting adults in their private lives should stay exactly that.

So I will continue to drool over the ones that check all the boxes for myself and my wife here and elsewhere, and will do so without any hang ups or regrets. Its opened up lots of things for us both that we wouldn't have got to experience if we were hung up about labels or things we enjoy.

 

[Sissy_Trish]

I am 70 and early on, my wife and I think most women of our generation were not into giving a good BJ. So I discovered that a warm mouth is a warm mouth and love the feel of cumming in a warm mouth. That led to reciprocating which I found to be fun. I love to make someone cum - man or woman. Also I travelled on business a lot and was not into hookers or wanted to have an affair. Was not hard to find a fellow traveler who was into exchanging BJ's. Since I retired it has not been easy to find a time or place for a mutual BJ. Fortunately my wife has now decided it is OK to suck a guy off all the way.

Great ! better late, than never they say

 

[Sissy_Trish]

I've talked to a lot of married guys who want to suck cock or have some sexual experience with guys. Many state that they never had any bi desires growing up. Many of them went from free internet porn to trannys to gay porn.

Stuck in tranny porn at the moment, and it is a nice place to be.

 

[secret_passion_1949]

Trapped :^P

Stuck in tranny porn at the moment, and it is a nice place to be.

I often thought that a real fun experience would be to meet a femboi or trans that was so feminine and convincing that he/she fooled everyone. And this particular person did not dress in such a way as to draw attention to 'herself'. She just sort of blends in with the world while at the same time still being a real head turner.

So you meet her, you hit it off and go out on a date. You bring her home, and since she lives alone, she invites you in. One thing leads to another and pretty soon clothes start hitting the carpet and she gives you the surprise of a lifetime!

Now, had such a thing happened to me in my 20s or 30s, I might have been outraged at being deceived. No telling what I would have done. Were were that to happen today.... woo.... :^P

I would probably use a variation of that old Mae West line: "Honey, is that pistol in your panties or are you just glad to see me?

 

[oneblueye]

hey...

Even through the darkest phase
Be it thick or thin
Always someone marches brave
Here beneath my skin

And constant (Constant)
Craving (Craving)
Has always (Always)
Been (Been)

Maybe a great magnet pulls
All souls to what's true
Or maybe it is life itself
That feeds wisdom to its youth

Constant (Constant)
Craving (Craving)
Has always (Always)
Been (Been)

Craving
Ah, constant craving
Has always been
Has always been

Constant (Constant)
Craving (Craving)
Has always (Always)
Been (Been)

Constant (Constant)
Craving (Craving)
Has always (Always)
Been (Been)

Craving
Ah, constant craving
Has always been
Has always been
Has always been
(Has always)
Always been
(Has always)
Always been
[fade out]

Nice construction and metre, ever do any lyrical work?

 

[Andyme123456]

How do I post pics

 

[PleasePeesMe]

That

is a technical question. This thread is about cock.

 

[meflash]

How do I post pics

after you hit post reply stroll down to manage attachment and click and a window will pop up for you to select pic to upload
then hit submit reply after the pic down loads

 

[CottonForMe]

Nice construction and metre, ever do any lyrical work?

Its from KD Lang's song. COnstant Cravig.
Its like it just keeps on nagging for cock................ Constant craving for cock.

 

[bc_smash]

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[AmbroseBierce]

I am stuck with a wife who would never understand. The internet gives me the outlet i want.

That's more or less my situation, too.

 

[Deleted member 1215945]

So perfectly explained...

I think as we men mature we shed many of the inhibitions and ways of thinking that became ingrained in us when we were younger. For me I began to recognize that an erect cock is like a bold, elegant piece of human sculpture that has come alive. IMO, it is the boldest expression of human sexuality to be found, like an exclamation point on the body. With the availability of countless pictures on the internet it became easier to recognize this simple truth.

I also began to realize that my newly developed appreciation for the beauty of a cock did not equate to something 'being wrong' with me. It is very easy to separate this appreciation from any concern of a shift in sexual orientation. I am still very much a heterosexual person, but have the psychological freedom to look at an image of a cock and think 'Wow that is so beautiful. I would love to touch it. Love to fondle it. Love to feel its form and warmth in my mouth. To bring pleasure to its lucky owner'. It has nothing to do with becoming 'romantically involved' with another man or any other such major lifestyle changes. In the end, it is simply about an intense appreciation for this wonderful aspect of the human body.

Most people I know would not understand how I have come to feel this way. I could not sit down with any of them and go through pictures and have fun in the doing. I still feel a need to keep such to myself. But in a way that makes it more enjoyable. It becomes this private 'place' where I can go to get relief from the stresses of the every day life. It is enough to know that I can visit forums like this where I can find like minded men to open up to, and do so in complete anonymity.

============
A bit of a humorously intended follow up:

I've also developed the view that even though every cock is attached to a man's body, don't think for one minute that the cock feels like it is a slave to that man. Oh no, the little peckers have a mind of their own, and a spirit of rebellion to boot.

A cock makes its independent nature known to its owner in a way that is unmistakable. In the end, it has the ultimate power over his presumed 'master'.

For you see, the cock has the power to make his man HORNY. The power to take control of his man's mind to the point where he is at least rendered distracted and at worst out of his mind with need. Need for relief and release of the delicious torment the cock has inflicted in him. The power to control the man's mood, his interaction with others. In sum, the power to make or break a guy's day. If left with no other source of relief, the 'master' has to find a place, somehow, somewhere to 'master'bate. :^)

I would love to meet you in person. Spend time in deep conversation with you and try to understand, better, why this nagging in my soul is soooo fucking strong. Sometimes I am so preoccupied with the thought of cock. Just to admire it. Feel it. Stroke it. Feel it throb I’m my hands. Taste it’s skin hood, tongue under and around the glans dipping my tongue into the salty slit. Trace the veins and arteries as they web around the shaft, and lick the thick piss tube from the base to tip. Suck it until it erupts it’s sweet nectar into my mouth and warms my belly.

I too am truly obsessed with COCK.

X15