Why do you choose to be a sub?

[Dirtygirlndeer]

He loves being my sub, and he’s perfect! Cleaning toilets in the nude while wearing my apron.

 

[Boat1]

My day has started out soooooo beautifully.... 26F and all I've worn before lunch is my Lovely Domme Wife's apron, a jeweled plug, a 40 ft long leash around my cock and balls that She could yank on from 2 rooms away, and a cap...
I got to cook Her bacon and waffles, clean toilets, and receive a lovingly vicious whipping...
I've gotten to be inside of Her, slurp Her delicious juices from the tile floor, and She now just placed my favorite drink in front of me!
I'm truly blessed!

 

[Goldenfinger]

Is it a choice?

 

[Phatfeet]

I like it for a surprising reason, growing up I was physically abused. That sounds like a misnomer, but it's true.

Growing up my dad was often mad at the world and tired after work, so most of the time no matter how hard I tried, or how much I did, he was never happy with me. Why he took his life frustrations out on me and not my older brother and sister I do not know, but he chose me.

It has stuck with me. Back then I would try and do way more than whatever he asked so I might not get hurt. Most times it did not matter, but today, at work and even at home, I try and get way more done that what people ask from me, and sooner as well. I appease. Always appease.

It carries over into sex. As a sub I can finally please someone. Yes, there is some playful denial of that, but in aftercare that is oh so important to me, I finally get what I never got in my childhood. And even in some strike-sessions, deep down I know I can control it by saying a safe-word. But for others who strike me, they are surprised at my tolerance for pain. But considering my dad liked to work me over with a broken axe handle, what is a heavy use of a flogger on my bottom or back? Its nothing.

 

[MiaBabe23]

I agree with what others have said, it’s not a choice, at least the desire to isn’t. It allows you to be vulnerable in a way that I can’t think of an equivalent to, and to express a great deal of affection, passion, love for the person you submit to
But emotionally it is a very vulnerable position you place yourself in, so perhaps it also builds strength in a paradoxical kind of way

 

[MiaBabe23]

I like it for a surprising reason, growing up I was physically abused. That sounds like a misnomer, but it's true.

Growing up my dad was often mad at the world and tired after work, so most of the time no matter how hard I tried, or how much I did, he was never happy with me. Why he took his life frustrations out on me and not my older brother and sister I do not know, but he chose me.

It has stuck with me. Back then I would try and do way more than whatever he asked so I might not get hurt. Most times it did not matter, but today, at work and even at home, I try and get way more done that what people ask from me, and sooner as well. I appease. Always appease.

It carries over into sex. As a sub I can finally please someone. Yes, there is some playful denial of that, but in aftercare that is oh so important to me, I finally get what I never got in my childhood. And even in some strike-sessions, deep down I know I can control it by saying a safe-word. But for others who strike me, they are surprised at my tolerance for pain. But considering my dad liked to work me over with a broken axe handle, what is a heavy use of a flogger on my bottom or back? Its nothing.

That’s very powerful