Would you introduce your partner to Lit?

Scottie62 said:
Hi All

I think DLL has it right.. in here can be an escape... not necessarily in a bad way but help you get through other things.

I haven't introduced my SO into / onto the board but I would like to.. I would like to have the envelope widened... and that in itself is part of the problem

Anyway it's good to hear there are people out there with similar issues to deal with.

In here caters for all tastes

Keep on posting I say !! :nana: :nana: :nana:



Well said, Scottie ..... :cool:
 
higherlevel4u said:
No, not at all, Baby .... by and large I'm very happy at home .... I'm just such an inveterate flirt that it's much safer for me to do it on Lit .... after all, my willpower in the flesh, so to speak, is nonexistent .... and has got me into trouble in the past in r/l .... :rolleyes: ;)

I do understand that....... ;)
 
higherlevel4u said:
I knew you would understand, Baby ..... and I'm sorry to hear about your marriage, hon, I really am .... :rose:
thank you sweet man... it was for the best, and my little boy is my life now ;)

Now... WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO is this anonymous person here, eh?
whisper it in my ear
 
babydoll2u said:
thank you sweet man... it was for the best, and my little boy is my life now ;)

Now... WHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO is this anonymous person here, eh?
whisper it in my ear



Sorry, hon .... I am SWORN to secrecy .... ;) :kiss:

Maybe pillow talk would get it out of me .... :rolleyes:
 
higherlevel4u said:
No, not at all, Baby .... by and large I'm very happy at home .... I'm just such an inveterate flirt that it's much safer for me to do it on Lit .... after all, my willpower in the flesh, so to speak, is nonexistent .... and has got me into trouble in the past in r/l .... :rolleyes: ;)

I know this is a serious topic but...did that make anybody else's legs go weak? :D

{{{{{Babydoll}}}}} I can't imagine :heart:

So those people who say they don't share - aren't you afraid your partner will be upset if they find out? I mean, I always thought if it was something you didn't want to tell, then in your heart you know it's something they won't like. Just MHO though.

And who is this mystery person Higher???
 
higherlevel4u said:
Sorry, hon .... I am SWORN to secrecy .... ;) :kiss:

Maybe pillow talk would get it out of me .... :rolleyes:

me? resort to sex to get a secret out of you?
why would you think I'd do that? (said with an innocent look of mock shock on my face)
 
Cama de Rosas said:
I know this is a serious topic but...did that make anybody else's legs go weak? :D

{{{{{Babydoll}}}}} I can't imagine :heart:

So those people who say they don't share - aren't you afraid your partner will be upset if they find out? I mean, I always thought if it was something you didn't want to tell, then in your heart you know it's something they won't like. Just MHO though.

And who is this mystery person Higher???


Yes Cama, my partner would definitely be shocked if she found out what I get up to on here ..... but I still believe in what the eyes don't see the heart doesn't grieve over .... :rolleyes:


Not telling ..... unless ..... ;)
 
babydoll2u said:
me? resort to sex to get a secret out of you?
why would you think I'd do that? (said with an innocent look of mock shock on my face)


I know, BabyD .... I apologise unreservedly for my misplaced offer .... :eek:



So what're you doing later, hon? ;)
 
higherlevel4u said:
Yes Cama, my partner would definitely be shocked if she found out what I get up to on here ..... but I still believe in what the eyes don't see the heart doesn't grieve over .... :rolleyes:


Not telling ..... unless ..... ;)

But doesn't your heart grieve over it?

I'll grab a pillow ;)
 
higherlevel4u said:
I know, BabyD .... I apologise unreservedly for my misplaced offer .... :eek:



So what're you doing later, hon? ;)

apology accepted my friend

you know where to find me babe ;)
 
higherlevel4u said:
Right on, BabyD ..... my wife knows NOTHING about Lit, and it's sure gonna stay that way if I have anything to do with it ..... :rolleyes:

So, if you got busted cheating in R/L, and managed to hold on to your relationship through whatever means were used.....it's ok to have cyber affairs?

Just wondering. Lord knows I've no right to throw stones.

I'll be 53 next week. There's no time left for games or pretend. I'm a romantic and a perv. And so much more.

*see my sig line for my take on things*
 
higherlevel4u said:
Not in the slightest .... why should it? If it did, I wouldn't be here .... :)

Sorry, that wasn't meant to be quite so personal hon :rose:

I just...eh, keeping things secret seems so alien to me. But I guess it's just as scary to risk telling someone something that might be a problem for them. Maybe telling them is selfish, a salve for a guilty conscience, that benefits only the teller, not the tellee.

Ooh. I think my brain may be working again folks... :rolleyes:

*shudders at the thought of a Higherless Playground...*
 
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Cama de Rosas said:
Sorry, that wasn't meant to be quite so personal hon :rose:

I just...eh, keeping things secret seems so alien to me. But I guess it's just as scary to risk telling someone something that might be a problem for them. Maybe telling them is selfish, a salve for a guilty conscience, that benefits only the teller, not the tellee.

Ooh. I think my brain may be working again folks... :rolleyes:

*shudders at the thought of a Higherless Playground...*

LOL...

(((GROUP HUG)))
 
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69forever said:
So, if you got busted cheating in R/L, and managed to hold on to your relationship through whatever means were used.....it's ok to have cyber affairs?

Just wondering. Lord knows I've no right to throw stones.

I'll be 53 next week. There's no time left for games or pretend. I'm a romantic and a perv. And so much more.

*see my sig line for my take on things*



Hey 69 .... whatever floats your boat, my friend .... :)
 
Cama de Rosas said:
Maybe we should have a group hug with so many people we make a cirsle all the way round them :D

now there's an idea............
however, I think we're hijacking this thread, lol.

maybe we should start a "group hug" thread! ;)
 
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