Would you introduce your partner to Lit?

sxybilady said:
Dll I actually agree with you. HoweverI do believe Lit can be form of escapism for many people. Perhaps not looking to actually have affairs yet we would be unrealistic and naive to say we are not *looking*....so the question is would we want our partners doing the same thing most people if they are truly honest would say no. My partner isnt interested in Lit he knows I have pics he knows I have friends yet he has made the choice not to be part of this. Although he does have a good ol moan about how much time i spend here :confused: :D

Yes DLL you are correct Lit can be a dangerous place..and often fantasy supersedes reality. It depends on the individual. I can be flippant however I am happy my partner is not interested in Lit...this is my time I would feel I was being spied upon if my partner was here. Im not doing anything behind his back but I still feel the same.

Hi Folks

Just catching up on this thread.. I did find all the comments intresting from yesterday.

I do believe it's escapism, I've often thought I'd like to introduce my SO to the boards but I really don't think that she would take to them at all. I come on here when I know that I wont be found out.

If I was found out then so what I'm not doing anything wrong really, I've not broken any laws. I'm not on here for the porn you can get that anywhere and in vast quantities

I find that in here you can get some things off your chest talking to other like minded individuals and so what if the conversation take in a little double entendre ?

I personally like coming in here and if the opportunity arises to introduce my partner then I wll but until then... DLL I take my tea without milk and sugar please if the offer is an open one ;) :kiss:
 
Scottie62 said:
Hi Folks

Just catching up on this thread.. I did find all the comments intresting from yesterday.

I do believe it's escapism, I've often thought I'd like to introduce my SO to the boards but I really don't think that she would take to them at all. I come on here when I know that I wont be found out.

If I was found out then so what I'm not doing anything wrong really, I've not broken any laws. I'm not on here for the porn you can get that anywhere and in vast quantities

I find that in here you can get some things off your chest talking to other like minded individuals and so what if the conversation take in a little double entendre ?

I personally like coming in here and if the opportunity arises to introduce my partner then I wll but until then... DLL I take my tea without milk and sugar please if the offer is an open one ;) :kiss:

of course scottie coming right up :D
:kiss:
 
DLL said:
of course scottie coming right up :D
:kiss:
Cheers m'dear

I just didn't want to come out and say I like mines black !!!

That would have been a bit insensitive ... I can take it white also ! ;)

Anything good planned for the weekend?
 
higherlevel4u said:
*Takes two steps forwards, to stand right in front of DLL ....*

Don't tempt me .... :p


you know i never follow directions well don't you?? :kiss:

places my arms around you to lightly kiss your lips... :rose:
 
DLL said:
you know i never follow directions well don't you?? :kiss:

places my arms around you to lightly kiss your lips... :rose:


*Pulls you towards me and kisses you harder ...* :kiss:
 
Scottie62 said:
Hi Folks

Just catching up on this thread.. I did find all the comments intresting from yesterday.

I do believe it's escapism, I've often thought I'd like to introduce my SO to the boards but I really don't think that she would take to them at all. I come on here when I know that I wont be found out.

If I was found out then so what I'm not doing anything wrong really, I've not broken any laws. I'm not on here for the porn you can get that anywhere and in vast quantities

I find that in here you can get some things off your chest talking to other like minded individuals and so what if the conversation take in a little double entendre ?

I personally like coming in here and if the opportunity arises to introduce my partner then I wll but until then... DLL I take my tea without milk and sugar please if the offer is an open one ;) :kiss:

I VERY much agree with you Scottie....
especially this line
I'm not on here for the porn you can get that anywhere and in vast quantities
my thoughts exactly.
 
babydoll2u said:
I VERY much agree with you Scottie....
especially this line

my thoughts exactly.

Thanks for that.

It's not what it's about.. it's there if you want it ... and some do.. but I've found there's more to here than the pics.. good some of them may be

I think though the title may put some partners off.. it's what probably attracted me initially but I've found this a good place to escape to.

In fact I think I've been posting for a year now well at least lurking initially then decided to join in and glad I am too for doing so.


AND IT'S THE WEEKEND YABADABADOO !!!!! :nana: :nana: :nana: :nana:
 
Scottie62 said:
<snip>I'm not on here for the porn <snip>

Oh dear. My mind totally blanked out the 'not' in that sentence...it was only when BabyD quoted it I read it properly...

I'm sure my brain works against me most of the time :D
 
babydoll2u said:
I VERY much agree with you Scottie....
especially this line

Hi again babydoll

my thoughts exactly.

How do you do that quote within a quote bit in your reply?
 
Cama de Rosas said:
Oh dear. My mind totally blanked out the 'not' in that sentence...it was only when BabyD quoted it I read it properly...

I'm sure my brain works against me most of the time :D

Hello Cama

That 'not' is definately put there deliberately. I'm glad I haven't given you the wrong impression

ps I love the name it conjures up all sorts things italian :rose:
 
Scottie62 said:
Hello Cama

That 'not' is definately put there deliberately. I'm glad I haven't given you the wrong impression

ps I love the name it conjures up all sorts things italian :rose:

Aah Scottie, wrong impression? I know what brought me here initially, and it wasn't the fancy carpets or pretty lighting :D

And I'm glad you like the name... :rose:

*whispers* It's Spanish by the way...
 
Scottie62 said:
Thanks for that.

It's not what it's about.. it's there if you want it ... and some do.. but I've found there's more to here than the pics.. good some of them may be

I think though the title may put some partners off.. it's what probably attracted me initially but I've found this a good place to escape to.

In fact I think I've been posting for a year now well at least lurking initially then decided to join in and glad I am too for doing so.


AND IT'S THE WEEKEND YABADABADOO !!!!! :nana: :nana: :nana: :nana:

same here... I was introduced to Lit for the stories, but then I discovered the boards, and rarely do I read now, unless a friend writes a story or points me to one that he/she enjoyed. I've made many very good friends on the boards, some who have become very close friends to me. I cherish every one of them.
And I thoroughly enjoy playing the game threads on the playground.
Of course there's the occasional "player" (or user) you have to look out for, but other than that, it's a fun place to spend time. *shrugs*
 
Cama de Rosas said:
Aah Scottie, wrong impression? I know what brought me here initially, and it wasn't the fancy carpets or pretty lighting :D

And I'm glad you like the name... :rose:

*whispers* It's Spanish by the way...

My apologies for the international mix up... Spanish is good for me also !

I would have to also agree it wasnt the carpets or lighting either but I now do more on the board than I do with the stories

I'm glad to have made your acquaintance

Have a good weekend
 
Scottie62 said:
How do you do that quote within a quote bit in your reply?
just type {quote} and {/quote} but using [ and ] brackets instead, and type what you want quoted between them :D
 
babydoll2u said:
same here... I was introduced to Lit for the stories, but then I discovered the boards, and rarely do I read now, unless a friend writes a story or points me to one that he/she enjoyed. I've made many very good friends on the boards, some who have become very close friends to me. I cherish every one of them.
And I thoroughly enjoy playing the game threads on the playground.
Of course there's the occasional "player" (or user) you have to look out for, but other than that, it's a fun place to spend time. *shrugs*


Yes I was just saying to Cama that I also came in for the stories and surprising there was pictures as well and sometimes both ! (A Reluctant Nudist comes to mind !)

Anyway back on the subject but I also spend more time on the board and hopefully contributing to the subjects which catch my fancy
 
babydoll2u said:
just type {quote} and {/quote} but using [ and ] brackets instead, and type what you want quoted between them :D

Hello again

Is this habit forming or is it considered stalking?

I should have known that I used to mess around with HTML anyway but haven't done so for ages. Thanks anyway :rose: :kiss: for you trouble
 
Scottie62 said:
Hello again

Is this habit forming or is it considered stalking?

I should have known that I used to mess around with HTML anyway but haven't done so for ages. Thanks anyway :rose: :kiss: for you trouble

consider it habit forming. It's only considered stalking if the attention is unwanted ;)
Yeah I write html as well, since I create and design websites.
Not a problem, no trouble at all :kiss:
 
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