You gotta wonder.......

[knightstalker]

Well after having read this I was scared to post because I am one of the guys who has stayed away from certain peps ..It is not that I am being an asshole about it but I hurt someone unintentional and do not post at certain threads because I do not want to be a constent reminder of a bad time in there lives...

I have made some big mistakes here and for it I have lost people I truley enjoyed talking with ...I do not come here for a jack off session I came here in hopes of making friends..I also want to state for the record that I cannot be on the computer everyday so if I do not get back to you right away please do not take it personally I do have things going on in my R/L that can keep me busy at times but I will get back to you as soon as i can...

I am not a player in fact it is funny to think of me that way being I am really shy but then again this place has helped me with that to a point..I do not come here looking to hurt people and yes I have been hurt to ...After some stupid shit went down involving me I sorta stayed away and hide out for awhile but this place is an addiction so I came back in hopes of certain people forgiving me for my mistakes ....

I can never be more than a friend or a good friend I will listen and give you my 2 cents if you ask for it ..If you need a shoulder to cry on I will offer you mine if you want to play we can play but it is hard to give much more because of the distance that some of these people live it can cause stress knowing you really like this person and get this feeling that she or he is what you have always looked for but in reality you know the chances are slim to none that you will ever meet...I took that chance once and travled but it failed ..I have no regrets but it screwed up my R/L by moving there then having to move back here...ok I see I am ramling on and on so I will shut up and now....Take care all and try to have a good day

 

[Bug Eyed Monster]

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[sortacurious]

Wow, Jewelz...this thread has given a lot of people a chance to talk about their feelings and given me much to think about today. Maybe after I process things and drink more coffee I can come back and say more. I'm so glad to see so many perspectives.

The talk of pics though really made me think...recently I've sent mine out a few times and two in particular stand out in my mind. One said he didn't get them, so I re-sent and haven't heard back since...luckily I didn't have any sort of connection with that person yet or I would have been really hurt. The other, well he made me feel so special and as if I was floating on a cloud for days kiss: for you sweetie). After reading what others have experienced I don't think I'll be sending them to anyone else though, not something I think I could handle very well.

ok, back to my coffee and daydreams....talk to y'all later

 

[alwaysawake]

I agree with what is being said here...I have a friend on Lit who got her pics POSTED without authorization on some perv's website under a bogus name, so some discretion is advisable. I also agree that if you don't like me or who I am...then "attempt an aerial intercourse at a parambulating pastry" (Flying fuck at a rolling doughnut!) because like has been stated "It's your loss" if you don't choose to talk to me (and that goes for anybody here...I love to meet new people!)

The beauty of this mode is you get to see the person inside (once the barriers are broken down) and I have alot of good online friends as a result. Being 6'5", people automatically assume that a guy is a musclehead with no sensitivity--this type of communication makes that a moot point. I will send out a pic or two of myself taken in various scenic places here in Oregon, but the physical part is soooooo overrated!

OK-- that is my two cents worth...AA

 

[DLA]

Jumping in.

I’m taking a big step here in posting to this thread…considering that I am probably guilty of this. I don’t know that persons who do this are always aware of what the other person is feeling. Most people are not mind readers although they think they are, and do not know what each other is thinking. That’s why all you can do is tell someone what you feel. If you haven’t done that, then…shame on you and me.

I have had encounters with members, and have been treated to the same, here one day gone the next so to speak…I know from my own experience that when that happens I have to ask myself did I set myself up. Did I let them know the depth of my involvement…feeling…interest…hopes…desires…what were they really looking for and how do they plan on getting it, what am I looking for and how do they come in to play.

But sometimes being a mind reader keeps people from asking these questions…rejection is a hard pill to swallow. As a man who has spent time on this board and met some wonderful, exciting, sexually liberated, open minded women, I have only the fondest of memories. But at the same time I have had encounters with women that can only be explained as, …thank you gotta go now.

If I had to put this in a perspective that would help me to be less offended and hurt it would be this.

Cyber chat, sex, friendships, romances, loves, is all susceptible to failure…although not all do fail. There IS a different mindset when you meet someone on a board that is exclusively about sex, and if you spend time here looking at each of the persons posting you can find out much before even contacting them. It would seem that the possibility of someone searching for their next playmate, by reading their posts would give you a advantage, it doesn’t.

I have always said that “Love is the product of truthful communication”…and if you are truthful with someone and can take some rejection…you may save yourself…the pain and heartbreak caused by not specking your truths.

I am probably rambling and not making sense, but felt that this thread may be the best thing to come along that will allow a place for people to tell how they did or did not communicate the truth.

It would figure that it would be Jewelz who started this thread, since she has some of the best threads…(in my opinion) that put my mind to work.

Oh well that’s my $.02 for this.

 

[Allison484]

Jewelz, thanks so much for starting this thread. It mirrors some of my own thoughts lately. And I really like the "Fuck 'em" attitude stated here by several. The older I get, the more I feel like saying "Fuck 'em" more and more. However, I tend to be on the shy side, not wanting to get my feelings hurt, not wanting to be offensive or offending someone, etc.

Another thing that bugs me is when someone asks for something..."looking for friends", etc and I send a PM and it is just ignored, never answered, not even kiss my foot, not interested or anything. It seems if someone is putting a post on a board looking for friends, when someone answers their request, they should at least let the other one know they received it and are "taking it under advisement" or "aren't interested in what you have to say" or something. Personally, I get so few PMs that when I do get one, I can't wait to answer it!! lol

Well, thanks again for starting this. I have seen your posts on just about every board and thread I read at Lit, and I think you have a lot of good words to say, Jewelz.

Allison

 

[lovemetender]

this is a most interesting thread...I'm really enjoying reading about everyones experiences & opinions
excellent cross section of thoughts for sure...
I'm definitely bookmarking this one

ladies it happens to us guys as much as to you gals...trust me...oh well shit happens..LOL

 

[lovemetender]

cutie pie

that's an extremely erotic av

 

[sortacurious]

Finding it all so amusing now...

Since this thread, my pm box has been more active than ever! And I just checked my email....same there.

So many have sent messages making sure I wasn't refering to them or just saying 'Hi' after I haven't heard for them for awhile.

The really funny part is I was not speaking about any of the ones that have asked and I haven't heard a word from the ones that I was...*giggles*. They obviously know who they are, is what I'm thinking.



Jewelz hun,
I miss you terrible! Hurry back as soon as you can, k?

 

[gr8dad2]

Ok Jewelz

Well lets start by saying this is why I do love you Hon.. your are not only one of the sexiest ladies on lit but I truly love your mind.. you provoke my thoughts from sex to introspective analyisis... ok with that said let me begin by saying that when i "found lit" it was for completely different reasons the stories.. then came the boards and getting to meet people while all the time hiding behind fake names .. locatoins... and some distant ramblings.. I'm here to make friends first.. and I think I have made a few so farand I'ld like to know those people better and get to know some along the way.. but as you get to know people you expose yourself, your inner self and sometimes , even here on Lit, these people make judgements about you and don't want to associate with you... or they make their feelings very clear that they don't want any type of relationship online or r/l.. or the ones that say they only want an online relationship but are married and don't want anything off line.. I guess what I am trying to say is we are all searching for something and that differs for each and everyone of us.. our needs our wants.. our prioriities.. and when somebody doesn't fit what we need we do tend to head off in other directions still looking.. it doesn't mean all guys see your pictures and go away because your not a mdel.. in fact I have seen pics of a lot of you ladies and like you even more because it lets me see into your minds a bit more and I see the type of ladies that I like to associate with.. and not those shitheads who won't give you the time of day because you are older .. or married or a bit heavy too.. It goes both ways .. us guys get it too. and I do agree with all of you.. Hey this is the way I am and If you don't like it FUCK EM.. but here on lit there are a bunch of good people trying to find/bring a little happiness into all our lives but like in r/l there are always a few assholes that enjoy and thrive on being what they are and hurting people.. If they can't be nice.. go away.. if you can't be a friend for whatever your reason just say so and if you want to be my friend I welcome you with open arms and a shoulder to cry on and an ear to listen and that can be here online and can be in real life too.. what happens on lit stays on lit and doesn't have to be the same in real life but can if you want more in your real life you will keep searching until you find it.. enough ramblings from me.. did it make any sense??

 

[ShiningEyes]

Do you ever wonder about people that come into your life, you share something nice with them whether it be friendship or some lustful playtime and suddenly they are gone. Well not gone, you see them all the time, posting and playing with others, just gone from what you shared with them? Do you ever wonder, why?

When you try to keep up the friendship but it seems to be "nothing" to them if they respond to you or not?

Wonder why they have no interest in you any more?

Do you question their intentions? And I mean, after you get to know them privately as well as on the boards?

Did they get what they wanted from you and move on?

Just curious this morning.....

Hey Jewelz! How are you doing this afternoon? Was reading the thread and thought I would send out a big hug and a sweet smile. Some people come into your lives and touch you in ways no other has. When what they were to do is done, they disappear without a trace. But your life is touched. Some people come around to teach us lessons and move on when they think they've done their job as well. But true friends are there to stay. They are at times rare. But they are ever lasting. It's hard to say what is and what will be. One never knows. We just hope for the best and go with what we are given most times. It's those friends that give us the support we need and help us when no other can. It's hard to understand why people do the things they do. And being used is a very very hard thing to go thru.

I wanna apologize for being gone for so long. Feel free to pm me if you need someone to listen! I'm still here and I do check my pm's. Just finding it hard to post on Lit right now. I'll try to be on more for all my friends.

For those that I've gotten really close to and talk to and those also who have been asking about me, I'm alright. Just going thru some things. And it's hard to get on here and chat when some people don't really approve! LOL Anyway. If you wanna chat or whatever I'm on yahoo pager as angel_of_simplicity
email me angel_of_simplicity@yahoo.com SENDING OUT ALL THE LOVE I HAVE IN MY HEART TO EVERYONE!!!! Have a blessed day!

Jewelz...you are a sweetheart! You deserve the best. When things get you down you have a lot of people that lend their shoulders and hearts. I'm one of them! I'm also lending my ears!

 

[ReBeLBeLLe]

Hiya everyone! I've been reading the posts that all have made and unfortunately I think I have recognized myself in some of them. Am I a player or user in any way? Hell no! But reading here has made me realize that while many of us may assume it was something we did or a pic we showed that may not always be the case. This is where I recognize myself. I just got yelled at by someone for doing much the same thing as we are ranting about here. Me and this other person seemed to hit off great...in fact I know we did and then I disappeared. The worst of all this is it had nothing to do with them. It was me. Having recently ended a 5 year relationship I am very vulnerable emotionally and keep myself at a distance from damn near everyone. Why did I avoid this other person? Quite simple, they broke through a wall I'm not sure I want broken. So I guess what I am trying to say here is don't assume it's you, or your actions. Sometimes people close off or move on to protect themselves.

 

[tastygroove]

Ok, here's my opinion:

This site is called Literotica. It has stories about incest, rape, crossdressing, gangbanags, etc. It has pictures, videos and audio, 99.9% of which pertain to sex.

This is not the 700 club website, the family channel website or the disney website. It is a PORN website, in fact, it's one of the most popular porn sites on the internet.

The average Joe (or Jane) does not come here looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right. They are looking for sex, plain and simple.

I'll go out on a limb and say that most visitors are male and are hoping to find a female that will fulfill his sexual needs. Whether it's through email, messaging, telephone or in person.

Not all, but most, are hoping to stumble on a good looking girl that they can have fun with and ultimately meet.

Here's the problem.

There are a LOT of women on Lit that are heavy. Why that's the case is another story, but it's true.

So what hapens is this, a guy meets a girl, he likes her, she seems wonderful, sexy, sensitive, caring, loving...she seems to be everything. Often he finds himself deeply attached and sometimes falling in love with this person.

At this stage, the guy is loving life and so is the girl. However, he is in love with not only the words that they have shared, but the image he has in his mind of what the girl looks like.

The girl, is simply in love with him, and really doesn't care what he looks like (to a point). And yes it's true because women are better human beings then men.

So, now comes the time for the exchange of pics.

That's where it goes to shit.

This is not meant as an insult to anyone, I'm just giving my honest opinion. This has happened to me before.

The girl told me she looked this way and looked totally different. In my case it was the lie that bothered me, but for some guys, it's just the looks.

So, my advice is to be honest and upfront about who and what you are if you're looking or hoping to find something real. These avatars are rediculous! They mislead people. Obviously, I'm not Gene Simmons, but some of these av's are misleading and I think lend themselves to trouble.

Well, I've gone off track with what I wanted to say...lol.

For the Big! Beautiful! Women! on lit, post your pic! Let the guy know up front who you are and what you are! If he doesn't get past the pic, then you will save yourself a LOT of wasted time!

In closing...I have only talked one on one with a handful of litgals...and I must say, they are the sweetest, warmest people I have ever had the pleasure of talking to.

 

[lilrosie lips]

My 2 cents

Ummm I hear what you are saying about people "misrepresenting themselves"... but at the same time I think that is more a periperhal issue. I am not overweight, I am not homely, I look pretty good for a 46 year old (not quite as good as my av... but I don't have professionals lighting and making me up either) and I have experienced the same things. I think it has more to do with playing... and I am all for playing... especially if the person is honest about it up front, I would much rather know that this person is not interested in anything beyond the moment on line (or on the phone whatever), then I can make up my mind if I want to play or not, But even if someone isn't interested in a "continuing" special friendship. I don't understand the inabilty to be friendly afterward. I think it may stem more from embarrasement and the feeling that they are being "lured" or "trapped"... and as I stated the other day I think it's just so easy an out to just move on without explanations than it is in r/l.

 

[ReBeLBeLLe]

I wholeheartedly agree that one should make their intentions more than clear if they are searching for something for the moment only. Some may not care about anyone but themselves but the simple fact is there IS another person on the other side of this computer. I haven't been around here long enough to know who is what and in time I will learn my own lessons here, but I hope like hell that those of you that choose to come here and "use" another person are long gone before I have the dishonor of meeting you. As for me, I am a person and I respect that anyone I talk to here is a person also and I will treat you as I want to be treated. If I'm wrong somewhere believe me Iwill apologize. I have no room for users or players and personally I'd rather see them with a damn sign around their necks that says, "I am a member of the Fuck Em club!" No one deserves to be hurt at the expense of someone that is selfish and uncaring.

 

[ShiningEyes]

Ok, here's my opinion:

This site is called Literotica. It has stories about incest, rape, crossdressing, gangbanags, etc. It has pictures, videos and audio, 99.9% of which pertain to sex.

This is not the 700 club website, the family channel website or the disney website. It is a PORN website, in fact, it's one of the most popular porn sites on the internet.

The average Joe (or Jane) does not come here looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right. They are looking for sex, plain and simple.

I'll go out on a limb and say that most visitors are male and are hoping to find a female that will fulfill his sexual needs. Whether it's through email, messaging, telephone or in person.

Not all, but most, are hoping to stumble on a good looking girl that they can have fun with and ultimately meet.

Here's the problem.

There are a LOT of women on Lit that are heavy. Why that's the case is another story, but it's true.

So what hapens is this, a guy meets a girl, he likes her, she seems wonderful, sexy, sensitive, caring, loving...she seems to be everything. Often he finds himself deeply attached and sometimes falling in love with this person.

At this stage, the guy is loving life and so is the girl. However, he is in love with not only the words that they have shared, but the image he has in his mind of what the girl looks like.

The girl, is simply in love with him, and really doesn't care what he looks like (to a point). And yes it's true because women are better human beings then men.

So, now comes the time for the exchange of pics.

That's where it goes to shit.

This is not meant as an insult to anyone, I'm just giving my honest opinion. This has happened to me before.

The girl told me she looked this way and looked totally different. In my case it was the lie that bothered me, but for some guys, it's just the looks.

So, my advice is to be honest and upfront about who and what you are if you're looking or hoping to find something real. These avatars are rediculous! They mislead people. Obviously, I'm not Gene Simmons, but some of these av's are misleading and I think lend themselves to trouble.

Well, I've gone off track with what I wanted to say...lol.

For the Big! Beautiful! Women! on lit, post your pic! Let the guy know up front who you are and what you are! If he doesn't get past the pic, then you will save yourself a LOT of wasted time!

In closing...I have only talked one on one with a handful of litgals...and I must say, they are the sweetest, warmest people I have ever had the pleasure of talking to.

Where I might agree with you on that....I don't. Most of us...like me for example...cum here for fun yes, but also to get away from the mainstream of RL with all the hastles it has. I cum here to chat. Not just for sex. Yes....I really do enjoy the stories, but I don't masturbate to every single one I read. I don't masturbate to the majority of them that I read. They really really have to get my blood boiling for me to masturbate and get off. Most of us cum here to make friends with people that are of like minds. That are understanding to what we like and enjoy. It doesn't always have to do with the sex. Tho...that's a big bonus. And when we are horny, aroused, or in a frisky mood, we play. But we do also have friends here that are great listeners and enjoy just chattin' about things other than sex. Life isn't centered around sex. Lit shouldn't be either. I would give it 90% sex and 10% everything else! It's fun and enjoyable. Besides...you can't help who you meet and talk to for a very long time and fall for! I've seen some great couples on here as either cyber couples or RL couples. I'm here to play and also offer advise. But most of all I'm a listener! So throw your probs at me or play with me! Either way...we'll all have fun and enjoy life a lot more! *hugs and kisses* When life has ya down, you need friends to help pick you back up! A warm smile and big hug goes a long way!
again *hugz and kisses*

 

[lilrosie lips]

Shining Eyes... that was so concise... people come here for many reasons.... I come to play, talk, flirt, chat, have fun, say a few serious things... and if i find some good quick and dirty sex when the mood strikes thats all good... and if i meet a like minded male who thinks like I do then it will be great... but I like it here... and so far I haven't met many users... so I count that all to the good...

 

[sortacurious]

Wow! So many more excellent points....it's great!


gr8dad2: You're right, she does come up with the good ones. I also agree that we are all searching for different things (some of us don't even quite know what, yet) and I can see how it would be easy to continue in the search. We humans are often self-absorbed and don't even realize how our actions effect others.

FinestSilk: After reading your post I realized that (especially lately) I too haven't always been so good about keeping in contact...and for similiar reasons of self-preservation. But I'm working on that.

tastygroove: I hear ya on the av's. I recently changed mine for this very reason. One point you made though...this a sub-forum of the personal's forum, where people may be looking for the porn approach to sex...or something else entirely like meeting like minded highly sexual people to commiserate, relate and get to know. I stay away from the general board entirely because people seem to be pretty ruthless over there at times, but it's a great gathering place for what you're talking about. However, (could be wrong here) I think this forum started to evolve into what it is because that wasn't for everyone. I know when I found the boards that appealed to me and the other didn't.

ShiningEyes: I've missed reading your posts. I hope to see more of you around, you have a wonderful personality and express yourself well. What struck me about your post is...hell yeah, I wanna play and got tired of (in r/l) apologizing for or being judged for being a sexually charged person (for lack of a better way to put it). What a perfect place to come and not receive all the crap that stereotypes people like us. But, a part of that same stereotype that I've come here to escape from is that just because this is a part of who I am, it is not all I am. Not sure if this is along the lines of your thoughts but that's were yours led mine.

lilrosie lips: Luckily, it's usually pretty easy to tell from the get go when someone pm's what they're looking for, by the way they approach you. And if that's what I'm feeling up to then I may participate in that...maybe they are embarrassed afterward from the stigma that can be attached to being as sexual as we are fortunate enough to be able to be here. I think I'm a little guilty of this...I have hesitated in the past to approach people after conversations because I don't want them to think that because we shared something privately that I'm going to chase them or make them feel tied to me somehow....Sexuality, it's such a complicated matter, isn't it? But with threads like these at least we get to sort it all out for ourselves.

Anyway, I'm going on and on as usual but if nothing else I'm glad I got a chance to hear so many people's view points and maybe get to know a piece of them.

My new motto (at least for now, hehe): Que S'ara S'ara!

 

[gr8dad2]

This has really turned into a very interesting thread and jewelz has run off.. I'm just bustin her a bit... but everyone has a lot of good points and this has let a lot of us take a good deep look at why we are here and what we doing.. but the greatest thing is that here on Lit we can be ourselves .. say what we want and for the most part not criticzed about what we say or who we are or what we look like or even if we are married or not... This is good and I would love to hear some more input

 

[lovemetender]

Hiya everyone! I've been reading the posts that all have made and unfortunately I think I have recognized myself in some of them. Am I a player or user in any way? Hell no! But reading here has made me realize that while many of us may assume it was something we did or a pic we showed that may not always be the case. This is where I recognize myself. I just got yelled at by someone for doing much the same thing as we are ranting about here. Me and this other person seemed to hit off great...in fact I know we did and then I disappeared. The worst of all this is it had nothing to do with them. It was me. Having recently ended a 5 year relationship I am very vulnerable emotionally and keep myself at a distance from damn near everyone. Why did I avoid this other person? Quite simple, they broke through a wall I'm not sure I want broken. So I guess what I am trying to say here is don't assume it's you, or your actions. Sometimes people close off or move on to protect themselves.

excellent perspective & point there FinestSilk...

 

[Guest]

Excellent Thread

I think most relevant things have been stated so I won't rehash the obvious excellent posts made by you all, I just wanted to vent a little, I will never understand people that do this. You share a wonderful time with someone through emails and eventually leading to a phone call maybe. After a couple of calls zero, zilch, nada. I know it is nothing I said or did they just seem to lose interest. Frustrating. I'm going outside to plunge my head into a bucket of ice water now. Have a wonderful day. Enjoy your stay here on planet #3.

 

[Jewelz]

WOW! such awesome responses to this thread! Thank you all for your insight and views etc. Thank you to those of you who have given me compliments. I appreciate your kindness!

I have gotten a few PMs and such asking if this thread was about them. No, to those who have PMd or asked. No it isnt. It was just a general observation I made on monday. I had read some posts and it made me think. thats all.

And to those of you who PMd other people and said to tell them you think this thread was about them.....naahhh..dont read into things!

I am sorry for being away so long but my computer absolutely crashed big time monday night. i lost everything. my hard drive was fried. devastated me! lost all my poetry and writings and pics.

SC sweetangel girl..I love you friend! I missed you very much too! There were so many times I wanted to just call you!

Cutie Pie, Sis, I miss you. love ya! Please call me soon....or PM me. I have been very worried about you!

SE....you are one of the sweetest people I have ever met! thanks for always being there and having the heart that you have!

Daddy....big big hugs and love to you!!

Ice Cold....Im so blessed with the very special relationship you and i share. thank you for always being there for me and caring for me the way you do. thanks for being a very important part of my heart and soul. i love you sweetbaby!

To everyone else, (would name you individually but im sorry, im so tired and just....blah).....thank you again for everything! Ive learned alot from your posts here!!

Psstt.....*waving to DLA and Buggy*

 

[sortacurious]

Jewelz,
OMG, I'm so glad you're back! I was wishing I could call you too. I was crying with you when I learned you had lost all your writing. I know you must be feeling so devasted still. And now I'm growlin' under my breath at selfish men for your husband not backing up your stuff! Just his?! How fucked is that!?
Sounds like you have a busy weekend ahead of you...I hope it's good, and I'm praying for your house search, that you not only are able to find something that suits your needs but feels like home for you as well.

Lots has happened with me, and I'll try to pm you about it later, k?

Love and kisses to you!

 

[Jewelz]

Jewelz,
OMG, I'm so glad you're back! I was wishing I could call you too. I was crying with you when I learned you had lost all your writing. I know you must be feeling so devasted still. And now I'm growlin' under my breath at selfish men for your husband not backing up your stuff! Just his?! How fucked is that!?
Sounds like you have a busy weekend ahead of you...I hope it's good, and I'm praying for your house search, that you not only are able to find something that suits your needs but feels like home for you as well.

Lots has happened with me, and I'll try to pm you about it later, k?

Love and kisses to you!

Hi sugar!! Yes, still devastated! I need to try to find as many as I can. I dont know how that will be possible but Im gonna try. I need to recover all my pics of myself too! I dont feel like going from thread to thread to find them LOL And yeah, hubby can be pretty fucked alright. I laid out the plan for this weekend and he has already fucked it up! He just got home at 8 pm last night too......go figure!!!!!! And thank you so very much for your encouragement about the house/home. I am getting more anxious in a bad way about the move and having support like this truly means alot!!

Yes, please do PM me later. I wanna hear what is going on!! You know I am there with ya, joined at the hip!!

 

[sortacurious]

Hi sugar!! Yes, still devastated! I need to try to find as many as I can. I dont know how that will be possible but Im gonna try. I need to recover all my pics of myself too! I dont feel like going from thread to thread to find them LOL And yeah, hubby can be pretty fucked alright. I laid out the plan for this weekend and he has already fucked it up! He just got home at 8 pm last night too......go figure!!!!!! And thank you so very much for your encouragement about the house/home. I am getting more anxious in a bad way about the move and having support like this truly means alot!!

Yes, please do PM me later. I wanna hear what is going on!! You know I am there with ya, joined at the hip!!

grrrrrrrrrrrwl!!!!! MEN! Can live with 'em, can't live without 'em! What's a girl to do?
Moving can be so stressful, and I'm thinking without something lined up there must be lots of insecurities going on! I'm here for all the support you want, hun!

I posted a little of what's happened on the Divorced & Separated thread but will pm the juicy details and the other stuff.