Case proven. Nuff said :)

[Not Normal]

For me, I totally think that's up to the woman. I want all of my trans friends to feel the best they can. As for a sexual situation, still the same answer. I want her to feel good about herself, her body and her mind working in concert. It truly doesn't matter to me.

Different sides of the same fence? I dunno, I suppose because I am 100% happy with the route I took I can't understand why a trans woman would want to keep them, especially if they are taking anti-androgens long term. I know a girl who couldn't have full lower surgery and elected for an orchie as being the next best thing, because it meant she could revert back to estrogen only.

Then it's interesting to see what guys think too. I wonder if it's because with-nuts is what is shown in porn 99% of the time so that's the norm? But then that loops back to why the women decide to keep them? Does the industry encourage them to keep them, because financially it's a safe bet? So many questions ?!

ETA
I suppose my concern is that they're popping pills to present a body style to tick the industry boxes.

I think certain things are expected in porn. A lot of girls cycyle the

 

[Zrosey]

I am young in my transition, mtf, I’ve been on spiro an estradiol for 5 months now. Totally loving this and wished I could have started earlier in my life.
For myself, I really want to lose those boy parts down there, but sadly I doubt I’ll be able to afford full grs so I am trying to find a surgeon for an orchi.
I think even this level will be sweet, and nice not having to continue with the spiro as an added plus.
As far as other sisters? Totally up to them! I could find them attractive however they choose.

 

[stickygirl]

I am young in my transition, mtf, I’ve been on spiro an estradiol for 5 months now. Totally loving this and wished I could have started earlier in my life.
For myself, I really want to lose those boy parts down there, but sadly I doubt I’ll be able to afford full grs so I am trying to find a surgeon for an orchi.
I think even this level will be sweet, and nice not having to continue with the spiro as an added plus.
As far as other sisters? Totally up to them! I could find them attractive however they choose.

Thanks for posting

You need to keep an open mind to preferences and aspirations, because they can change over time. Don't promise yourself into a corner or later feel like you've let yourself down, as though 'changing your mind' was a bad thing. You're walking path and there will be choices. Since it is your path and your journey, you get to choose, not just which way to go, but that 'you know what? I'm going to sit at this fork in the road and take my time deciding.'

 

[coati]

In most of the porn vids the trans women still have their testicles, indeed it's rare to see them without. I read somewhere that men prefer their trans woman to be without, as though somehow, subconsciously, her nuts presented a threat and that if she'd had an orchieoctomy it was kinda proof she was no longer 'a man'. All nonsense when it comes to a definition of course, but I'm curious if there's a preference among trans lovers.

Since this is a question of preference not opinion, then your response shouldn't be open to judgement, any more than people showing a preference to apples over oranges.

( For clarification, if a trans woman has testes then she would normally have to take an androgen blocker, such as spirolactone, as well as estrogen in order to promote female physical characteristics. In my book, more pills = more side effects and I was glad to be shot of them.)

As a pan sexual, it makes absolutely no difference to me. If a lover is tuned into all aspects of intimacy, we tend to be happy before, during, and long after sex.

LOVE

 

[Zrosey]

Thanks for posting

You need to keep an open mind to preferences and aspirations, because they can change over time. Don't promise yourself into a corner or later feel like you've let yourself down, as though 'changing your mind' was a bad thing. You're walking path and there will be choices. Since it is your path and your journey, you get to choose, not just which way to go, but that 'you know what? I'm going to sit at this fork in the road and take my time deciding.'

I suspect you are right on saying being open to changes over time. So far on my journey much of the change has been within me, mentally. It is beyond anything I ever expected and it is so very awesome!
And i very much plan to take my time at places, cause I don’t want to hurry through
@stickygirl, I see you have done a “ask a trans woman” post. I’m anxious to check it, it is so good to read of others thoughts an experience.

 

[stickygirl]

I suspect you are right on saying being open to changes over time. So far on my journey much of the change has been within me, mentally. It is beyond anything I ever expected and it is so very awesome!
And i very much plan to take my time at places, cause I don’t want to hurry through
@stickygirl, I see you have done a “ask a trans woman” post. I’m anxious to check it, it is so good to read of others thoughts an experience.

From the few words you've posted I'm picking up that you have the right mindset.

The Ask a MtF TG thread is so old - the pages might be yellowing a little and it's almost become a historical document, so sometimes you've got the check the dates... 2013?! There are some posts I look at now and see Baby-Stickygirl speaking, because I was changing and still learning, especially from feminists who used to post and were so patient with me. My mother is a 'quiet' feminist - she's not an outspoken person and although she was focused on my well-being, she was my guide too.

We have to learn that stuff too, right? I'm sure you feel you've been robbed of that chance to simply adsorb the culture that surrounds a young girl and there's parts of transitioning that feel like being back at school. Transitioning is such a good word and one that has not dated - it will always be a journey... like this thread with its odd title. Sometimes you've just got to throw a question out there and Lit is great for getting replies from people who are not bashful about sex.

 

[comegently]

I have noticed some transgender social media personalities like Rose Montoya coming out in favor of keeping their genitalia intact. It may be they are outliers like my girlfriend who has always been happy with her body. Of course even she opted for implants which she says gave her confidence as a woman.

So maybe that’s all that matters: whatever gives someone confidence as a woman.

We are frequently misunderstood.
There is no single rule for Trans people any more than there is a single rule for anyone else.
Some of us will never feel comfortable in ourselves without full-on surgery and hormones. For others, social transition or even the option of gender nonconformity, is enough.
When a minority group of people are spoken over by others, those in control want to see and treat them all the same way, but we are as individual as anyone else.
Sites like this mention sex a lot for everyone here, because this site is about erotica. We are not here because we are Trans.
Old-fashioned terminology gets used here to make searches easier, just as it does for porn sites, but those terms are as inappropriate in day-to-day life and work as they would be for someone here who describes themselves as a "MILF" or a "Slut".

 

[Zrosey]

My transition doc commented to me, “are you ready for your second puberty?” She was so very reassuring for me as I started medically trans. That said, everyone has a different experience, some choose different ways to express themselves. And as much as I read and talked with my therapist I don’t think I could have known just how right this is for me!
Omg! Yes! It would have been wonderful to learn as a young girl growing up, and of course I imagine what I missed out on, but since starting estrogen I feel less sad about that.
I feel like I am kinda de-railing your thread, so I’ll shut up and let it get back to its discussion!

 

[stickygirl]

We are frequently misunderstood.
There is no single rule for Trans people any more than there is a single rule for anyone else.
Some of us will never feel comfortable in ourselves without full-on surgery and hormones. For others, social transition or even the option of gender nonconformity, is enough.
When a minority group of people are spoken over by others, those in control want to see and treat them all the same way, but we are as individual as anyone else.
Sites like this mention sex a lot for everyone here, because this site is about erotica. We are not here because we are Trans.
Old-fashioned terminology gets used here to make searches easier, just as it does for porn sites, but those terms are as inappropriate in day-to-day life and work as they would be for someone here who describes themselves as a "MILF" or a "Slut".

Truth words! There's one thing you wrote that jumped out at me - 'We are not here because we are Trans'. I've often reflected on what drew me here first and it was the erotic content, for sure. Over time I've changed in that respect and I'm less of a horn-dog. Maybe it's transitioning, maybe it's how I would have changed anyway? Although I find plenty on Lit to make me roll my eyes, people here are noy abashed by sex and I've learned a good deal about other people's attitudes... learned a lot about America too!

My transition doc commented to me, “are you ready for your second puberty?” She was so very reassuring for me as I started medically trans. That said, everyone has a different experience, some choose different ways to express themselves. And as much as I read and talked with my therapist I don’t think I could have known just how right this is for me!
Omg! Yes! It would have been wonderful to learn as a young girl growing up, and of course I imagine what I missed out on, but since starting estrogen I feel less sad about that.
I feel like I am kinda de-railing your thread, so I’ll shut up and let it get back to its discussion!

The threads are conversations and wander along. I like where this one has gone and besides, the first few replies answered my question. It was never a question that gave me sleepless nights - I was just curious Someone will pick it up in ten years time and start ranting about it Just the nature of forums...

 

[Conquen69]

Unfortunately I have not had the pleasure of being with a Trans but I don't think I would care if there were nuts or not. No nut allergies here. That being said, I'm very curious what it's like, I've never seen a cock without balls.

 

[dodgeboy2]

Although I have never had the opportunity to be with a trans woman, something that I have had a fantasy about for a long time, I think my preference might just be intact. I don't care if they have a large member swinging below or a small tiny protrusion barley showing I think having something there would be a turn on for myself. However with the right person if she felt the need to remove them to make herself feel better about herself I would support her choice and still be with her even after removal!

 

[ashleyw_xoxo]

I'm probably still a couple years from being able to truly start transitioning, but I'd love to get rid of mine! I've waited long enough, so I'd like to feel as fem as possible as soon as possible.

 

[Tayloroc]

How exciting!!

 

[saintcero]

With balls for me. I want to feel them nuzzle up to my butt cheeks while being impaled by her cock. How can it be balls deep if there are no balls?

 

[JiminNC]

Orchie! Get rid of that nasty testosterone…

 

[Escierto]

Orchie! Get rid of that nasty testosterone…

Cisgender women have a range of 9 to 55 nanograms of testosterone per deciliter while cisgender men have a range of 300 to 1000 nanograms of testosterone per deciliter.

In cisgender women, testosterone produces new blood cells, maintains bone health and libido, and boosts other reproductive hormones.

 

[dkak001]

In most of the porn vids the trans women still have their testicles, indeed it's rare to see them without. I read somewhere that men prefer their trans woman to be without...

Hmmm. My preference would either way. However, the no-go for me would be a hairy sack. Patch of pubes above would be fine, the sack would have to be a shaved (or trimmed very closely), full or empty.

This probably comes from trying to pick pubes from the back of my throat while doing oral. Total mood killer for me.

 

[ChrissyCD64]

As a sissy who still has my cock and balls, I wouldn't have it any other way. I did have a dream a while back where I was in a place where everyone, male and female, had a cock and tits, but males had balls under their cock and females had a pussy under theirs. What a wonderful world that would be.

 

[TrailerHitch]

I want her to have full equipment and the ability to get hard enough to fuck and cum.

 

[BiDrew42]

I have had sex with hundreds of trans escorts since my first experience when I was 21 years old. She had a lovely set of balls, and I imagine my experiences with her formed the basis of my preference for balls going forward. I have been with escorts with and without and thoroughly enjoyed both, but prefer the full package. My experience has also been that most of the escorts I have been with in the western world retain their balls, while a larger percentage of Asian escorts have had theirs removed. It's still not a large percentage, maybe 10%, but that may be simply because the escort business is like the porn business, and a full package is more of a money maker.

Having said that, my trans girlfriend has just had an orchieoctomy (last week). It was a compromise - she wanted to have the complete vaginoplasty and I wanted her to keep all of her dangly bits. I know that's selfish of me, but I am who I am. We have been together for almost eight years now and I love her, but we were both concerned that my feelings for her would change if she no longer had a functioning cock. I'm looking forward to when we can have sex again and I'm hoping this step keeps our relationship going for years to come.

 

[Escierto]

I have had sex with hundreds of trans escorts since my first experience when I was 21 years old. She had a lovely set of balls, and I imagine my experiences with her formed the basis of my preference for balls going forward. I have been with escorts with and without and thoroughly enjoyed both, but prefer the full package. My experience has also been that most of the escorts I have been with in the western world retain their balls, while a larger percentage of Asian escorts have had theirs removed. It's still not a large percentage, maybe 10%, but that may be simply because the escort business is like the porn business, and a full package is more of a money maker.

Having said that, my trans girlfriend has just had an orchieoctomy (last week). It was a compromise - she wanted to have the complete vaginoplasty and I wanted her to keep all of her dangly bits. I know that's selfish of me, but I am who I am. We have been together for almost eight years now and I love her, but we were both concerned that my feelings for her would change if she no longer had a functioning cock. I'm looking forward to when we can have sex again and I'm hoping this step keeps our relationship going for years to come.

I am curious about your girlfriend. Did she always want bottom surgery? Or did she come to this decision after you knew her?

 

[BiDrew42]

I am curious about your girlfriend. Did she always want bottom surgery? Or did she come to this decision after you knew her?

She has always wanted to completely transition. When I first met her, she was a very feminine, very passable crossdresser, living fulltime as a female. She identified as female from a very young age, but never believed she would have the funds to complete her transition. When I met her she had been living in Australia for a couple of years, working a full time job during the day and as an escort at night and on the weekends. We started out as roommates, quickly became lovers, and fell in love. I have paid for all of her hormone therapy and surgeries in support of her dream.

 

[Escierto]

She has always wanted to completely transition. When I first met her, she was a very feminine, very passable crossdresser, living fulltime as a female. She identified as female from a very young age, but never believed she would have the funds to complete her transition. When I met her she had been living in Australia for a couple of years, working a full time job during the day and as an escort at night and on the weekends. We started out as roommates, quickly became lovers, and fell in love. I have paid for all of her hormone therapy and surgeries in support of her dream.

Good for you! In some ways she sounds like my girlfriend who has always identified as a female and was accepted as one by everyone. My girlfriend was happy to finally have breast implants with my help but unlike your girlfriend, she has no interest or desire for future surgery or hormones.

 

[eomerson]

Thank you for this thread. It has been nice seeing polite discussion. I really only know one Trans person....she transitioned after a career in a very macho field and I can't imagine what she went through dealing with her conflicts for years. Due to her age and medical conditions she could only go so far but she said with better health and more money she would have done grs surgery. We pay for so many BS things with our taxes and insurance, it is appalling that people that want gender affirming surgery cant get it covered.

Sorry but I realized I went off on a tangent there. My answer to your question is that I really wouldnt be able to say balls or no until I met someone but I love feminine women so I may be on no side. Then again, I am a romantic at heart and not into seeing a partner as just a sum of her parts. Yes, I am an old guy but and all I could do is keep an open mind.

Thanks again for all your comments....I think that the more open we are, hopefully the more understanding we can be.

 

[stickygirl]

Never been with a trans woman, but if I had the opportunity I would definitely want her to have her balls, as I would want her cum

The testicles only account for a small amount of the fluid, which comes from the prostate. If a trans woman is also using hormone therapy, then the amount will reduce significantly because the prostate reverts to a 'under-developed' state and the ejaculate becomes almost clear, instead of milky.

So while getting an erection can be more difficult and require ie viagra, the sensation of orgasm is similar = big grunt and I'm done. The 'feel' of an orgasm is pretty subjective and may depend on the level of hormones as much a trans woman's mindset.

As I'm very much post GRS, my orgasms are not big grunt+done but more akin to how cis women describe theirs. That's yet another affirming factor to me as a person. I had a love/hate relationship with my pre-surgery orgasms and that itself was incredibly stressful: imagine regretting your orgasm. As always, I'd add a disclaimer that one person's body won't react the same as another.