Daddy's Little Girl - Fourth Edition

Had a bit of a breakthrough last night.
Which is better than the breakdowns I usually have...

I have not been the best little I can be for a while now.
I worried too much about too many different things and instead of letting myself be vulnerable with Daddy so he can help me, I started keeping a distance, thinking it was for the best.

I was very silly, I know this.

But I'm fortunate to have a bit of time to myself for a few weeks and knew I needed to show him I still need and want him just as much as I always have.

So we talked last night and reconnected and he encouraged me to cry and loved me while I did and I feel so much better today.

Things have been hard. Especially this week. I try to deal with everything by myself but I don't need to. His arms are always open ready for me to fall into them.
 
Had a bit of a breakthrough last night.
Which is better than the breakdowns I usually have...

I have not been the best little I can be for a while now.
I worried too much about too many different things and instead of letting myself be vulnerable with Daddy so he can help me, I started keeping a distance, thinking it was for the best.

I was very silly, I know this.

But I'm fortunate to have a bit of time to myself for a few weeks and knew I needed to show him I still need and want him just as much as I always have.

So we talked last night and reconnected and he encouraged me to cry and loved me while I did and I feel so much better today.

Things have been hard. Especially this week. I try to deal with everything by myself but I don't need to. His arms are always open ready for me to fall into them.
Relatable.

Life has taught me to not rely too hard on anyone, so I try to manage on my own, mostly. To truly believe I don't have to takes time and lots of evidence.
 
Relatable.

Life has taught me to not rely too hard on anyone, so I try to manage on my own, mostly. To truly believe I don't have to takes time and lots of evidence.
Yes! I'm always waiting for the rug to be pulled out from under me which is completely unfair but it's just what life has taught me to expect
I quickly learned that communication is critical . . . and letting go can be hard, even if it's what you want.
It really can. How can I let myself be cared for if I don't feel like I deserve it and don't feel like I should ask.
He is such a safe place for me and still I worry
 
It really can. How can I let myself be cared for if I don't feel like I deserve it and don't feel like I should ask.
He is such a safe place for me and still I worry
I've only been his little for a short while and some days I worry that I'm too much, but I trust in him and he never lets me down. Talk to him about your worries, it's not fair to him for you to hold back.
 
I just wrote a long rant elsewhere without realising what thread it was... Well, maybe something more curated to the theme of this thread here.

I find myself struggling really hard with my Dom preferring to live separately, to make the time together "more special". I just realised that to me it sounds kind of opposite to me always having a place on his lap, which he has promised. At least in periods like this when I am not too well. What about when I need that more than a few times a week?

For me life is about the ordinary, mundane Mondays more than the special times.
 
I just wrote a long rant elsewhere without realising what thread it was... Well, maybe something more curated to the theme of this thread here.

I find myself struggling really hard with my Dom preferring to live separately, to make the time together "more special". I just realised that to me it sounds kind of opposite to me always having a place on his lap, which he has promised. At least in periods like this when I am not too well. What about when I need that more than a few times a week?

For me life is about the ordinary, mundane Mondays more than the special times.
Yes... the daily things. The ordinary things... dishes and vacuuming, laundry and groceries - these are where we show love, thoughtfulness, kindness, patience to each other. We are blessed to have special, apart from the everyday days and times, but they ARE special because they exist in the context of the ordinary.

I am sending you hugs and love as you figure out how to communicate your needs and navigate this divide with your D.
 
For me life is about the ordinary, mundane Mondays more than the special times.
Yes! It’s every day in service to each other, meeting each other’s needs.

I hope that you can work through this with your D in a timely, positive manner. In the meantime . . .
Bunny slips into Owl’s blanket fort and snuggles closely
 
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